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Re: Why Does This Thing Seem Disrespectful To Ladies? by Magnoliaa(f): 11:28am On Dec 26, 2020

Tajbol4splend:
The reason why most guys use it for you is because you react negatively to it which makes us see it as a way to spite you, in fact Kemi Olunloyo once blocked me on Twitter because I deliberately used it to spite her because of one of her foolish posts against marriage and people who are married before she later unblocked me, it's your reaction to the tag that makes it a big deal and unfortunately this thing has come to stay

Whatever. You and others can keep using it - you'll eventually believe whatever justifications you want to (AFTER the women here have said their reasons for disliking it...).

If nobody wants to stop broke-shaming/slut-shaming and age-shaming, deal with whatever counter titles you get and don't cry.

*The fact that you admitted to trying to spite her and then feign innocence on why it gets women mad is just... have a nice day.

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Re: Why Does This Thing Seem Disrespectful To Ladies? by Tajbol4splend(op): 11:45am On Dec 26, 2020

Magnoliaa:
Whatever. You and others can keep using it - you'll eventually believe whatever justifications you want to (AFTER the women here have said their reasons for disliking it...).

If nobody wants stop broke-shaming/slut-shaming and age-shaming, deal with whatever counter titles you get and don't cry.

*The fact that you admitted to trying to spite her and then feign innoncence on why it gets women mad is just... have a nice day.

I've never tried to say I'm not one of the guys who use it to spite women, in fact I use it very well but for those ladies on the internet who need a taste of their medicine, they approach you with some uncouth utterances and then I find a way to give it to them back, a way I know will ring a bell, I wish you read the gibberish Kemi Olunloyo was saying that day, above 50 years woman uttering nonsense, I just couldn't help it, I gave to her and she hit back, the following day, Twitter was telling me (Her tweets) this tweet is not available but later unblocked me

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Re: Why Does This Thing Seem Disrespectful To Ladies? by Kobicove(m): 12:09pm On Dec 26, 2020

Tajbol4splend:
Demarketing her? What the fvck is she marketing?

What she's marketing is her singleness and readiness to get married grin

Re: Why Does This Thing Seem Disrespectful To Ladies? by Tajbol4splend(op): 12:17pm On Dec 26, 2020

Kobicove:
What she's marketing is her singleness and readiness to get married

Marketing, lol

Re: Why Does This Thing Seem Disrespectful To Ladies? by Omoluabi16(m): 4:01pm On Dec 26, 2020

Tajbol4splend:
The reason why most guys use it for you is because you react negatively to it which makes us see it as a way to spite you, in fact Kemi Olunloyo once blocked me on Twitter because I deliberately used it to spite her because of one of her foolish posts against marriage and people who are married before she later unblocked me, it's your reaction to the tag that makes it a big deal and unfortunately this thing has come to stay

lmao. True talk. Back then I used to troll her. I called Kemi 'mummy' . She gave me the insult of my life and blocked me.

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Re: Why Does This Thing Seem Disrespectful To Ladies? by Cutehector(m): 4:11pm On Dec 26, 2020

Shortyy:
Even 50-year-old men don't wanna be addressed as sir.

pls you will address me as Sir. Have respect for my wisdom grin

Re: Why Does This Thing Seem Disrespectful To Ladies? by Leoniine(f): 4:26pm On Dec 26, 2020

Omoluabi16:
lmao. True talk. Back then I used to troll her. I called Kemi 'mummy' . She gave me the insult of my life and blocked me.

[color=limegreen]...so you are an ex-troller? you're repentant now, huh?[/color]

Re: Why Does This Thing Seem Disrespectful To Ladies? by Omoluabi16(m): 4:30pm On Dec 26, 2020

Leoniine:
[color=limegreen]...so you are an ex-troller? you're repentant now, huh?[/color]

Was never a troll. Just love some good laughs. That was some 6 years ago. If you knew Kemi then, she was just the worst. Her drama was unending.

Re: Why Does This Thing Seem Disrespectful To Ladies? by Tajbol4splend(op): 5:09pm On Dec 26, 2020

Omoluabi16:
lmao. True talk. Back then I used to troll her. I called Kemi 'mummy' . She gave me the insult of my life and blocked me.

She blocked many people for that thing

Re: Why Does This Thing Seem Disrespectful To Ladies? by crackhaus: 2:46pm On Dec 27, 2020

Tajbol4splend:
How do most of you ladies interpret someone addressing you using any of Mummy or Madam or Ma that you frown at it? To me it's no biggie but most of you don't like it

LOL... I once had an ED who fired a junior staff just because the girl kept greeting her using the words 'ma' and 'madam'...

This is no joke, and I kid you not.

Although she claimed she had warned her before to stop, but I still didn't understand the outrage. cheesy

Personally, I think it depends on the personality of the woman involved. This particular one was well known for wearing her emotions on her sleeves... anything could trigger her.
I can't even remember how I coped working directly under Ivy for that long... grin

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Re: Why Does This Thing Seem Disrespectful To Ladies? by HandsomeBlack: 3:34pm On Dec 27, 2020

Women don't want to be seen as being old.

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