Jemiwizzy:
that is very kind of you how can I reach you

Check my sig for my number

Sorry My Sisters, we are not all bad people who wants sex in exchange for help, but you folks redefine being generous.
I tried helping out a lady financially with no string attached, only for me to discovered that she wants more than financial assistance. While another one told her friend who indirectly told me that she said I be Mumu, hence I am careful of the type of assistant I tried to render.

Take heart my sister, na the world we dey be that.

No man will give a woman money without desiring something (usually sexual favours) in return; whether covertly or overtly. In the same way that women always expect material things in return for sex, so do men also expect sex in return for material things. When I advised you to stop these dramatical appeals for help and go home to your village for your own safety, you were focusing instead on your academic aspirations; even though schools are nowhere near reopening. Go home and restrategise. There are many ways to fulfill your academic dreams. Safety comes first. If you continue along this path, you will only see more of what you don't like.

Depressed101:
you have someone who you've been having casual sex with right ? Try contacting that person.. This life is about mutual benefit.. Stop making post about stuffs like this

no mind am

As for me I can help any lady with nothing in return.

How do we know that u ain't fake?
Upload a pics, or do a zoom call with @least 6 verified members of this forum...

U seem to me to b d ambitious and insultive type.

Theres a saying: It's not every dying dog u feed out of pity, do not feed d dog that'll grow fat and later eat u.

You've got this compelling pride.
May God help u find a helper.
You must find 1 in Jesus name. Amen

mrdharkchild:
How do we know that u ain't fake?
Upload a pics, or do a zoom call with @least 6 verified members of this forum...

U seem to me to b d ambitious and insultive type.

Theres a saying: It's not every dying dog u feed out of pity, do not feed d dog that'll grow fat and later eat u.

You've got this compelling pride.
May God help u find a helper.
You must find 1 in Jesus name. Amen

just tell any of your friend in Abuja let's me

madampresident:
If you like to stay in Lagos babe. I can accommodate you FOC for 3 months to find your feet.

I hate to see anyone exploited. Let me know

Hope it's not baby factory sha? Just saying. Jemiwizzy sha becareful.

Trust me Jemiwizzy, help ain't coming soon. You are desperate and they can see it, they'll surely use it against you. Keep begging for funds instead of hoping someone will accomodate you, they will turn you to a s3x slave. Just relax your mind, think of better things, your sister cannot kill you. Life will sort itself. Where are you from though?

Kapilta:
Trust me Jemiwizzy, help ain't coming soon. You are desperate and they can see it, they'll surely use it against you. Keep begging for funds instead of hoping someone will accomodate you, they will turn you to a s3x slave. Just relax your mind, think of better things, your sister cannot kill you. Life will sort itself. Where are you from though?

thank you if I ask for money they will say it's a scam that is why I want to make sure I meet them in person if not am very scared of staying with guys like you stated up they know am desperately in need of a room so they will use that a a weapon against me.
I just regret exposing my condition since that day I felt worthless and I completely feel no one care about me.

RisenPhoenix1:
No man will give a woman money without desiring something (usually sexual favours) in return; whether covertly or overtly. In the same way that women always expect material things in return for sex, so do men also expect sex in return for material things. When I advised you to stop these dramatical appeals for help and go home to your village for your own safety, you were focusing instead on your academic aspirations; even though schools are nowhere near reopening. Go home and restrategise. There are many ways to fulfill your academic dreams. Safety comes first. If you continue along this path, you will only see more of what you don't like.

An assertion like this "No man will give a woman money without desiring something (usually sexual favours) in return; whether covertly or overtly. " and the way some of you use yourselves as standard are appalling, to say the least. At the risk of sounding sententious, not all men give money or any other form of help to women with an intention to obtain sex from them; I don't because I'm a practitioner of altruism - I don't act on impulse, however. Going by your appalling assertion, it means some men will be having sex with all shades of women almost every passing moment.

LordKO:


An assertion like this "No man will give a woman money without desiring something (usually sexual favours) in return; whether covertly or overtly. " and the way some of you use yourselves as standard are appalling, to say the least. At the risk of sounding sententious, not all men give money or any other form of help to women with an intention to obtain sex from them; I don't because I'm a practitioner of altruism - I don't act of impulse, however. Going by your appalling assertion, it means some men will be having sex with all shades of women almost every passing moment.

There is no altruism. Whether a man actually goes on to have sex with them or not, the thought is always there. Some men think that the best strategy to get to have sex with women is by being a do-gooder, and they're often the worst because it's all pretence.

And I'm not using myself as a standard. I'm the exact opposite of altruistic. I never give money to individuals directly, if I feel charitable, I always donate through charities. That way, there's no underlying motive.

RisenPhoenix1:


There is no altruism. Whether a man actually goes on to have sex with them or not, the thought is always there. Some men think that the best strategy to get to have sex with women is by being a do-gooder, and they're often the worst because it's all pretence.

And I'm not using myself as a standard. I'm the exact opposite of altruistic. I never give money to individuals directly, if I feel charitable, I always donate through charities. That way, there's no underlying motive.

Once more, stop using yourself as standard; All of us aren't of the same ethical leanings. There's altruism - everyone is born just, however. Wherever I give altruistically to a woman (or man), I do so because I certify her worthy but not because I wish to obtain sex from her. By the way, sex remains one of the cheapest commodities anywhere in the world. Perhaps, you want to tell me that a sane man who gives money, to let's say a 100 years old woman, does so because he intends to obtain sex from her too. Quite an appalling mentality you've; let's all strive to avoid normalizing abnormal things all in the name of forming woke.

Bye-bye.

LordKO:



Once more, stop using yourself as standard; All of us aren't of the same ethical leanings. There's altruism - everyone is born just, however. Wherever I give altruistically to a woman (or man), I do so because I certify her worthy but not because I wish to obtain sex from her. By the way, sex remains one of the cheapest commodities anywhere in the world. Perhaps, you want to tell me that a sane man who gives money, to let's say a 100 years old woman, does so because he intends to obtain sex from her too. Quiet an appalling mentality you've, let's all strive to avoid normalizing abnormal things all in the name of forming woke.

Bye-bye.

Rubbish. People who insist that they are altruistic are often the worst. I wonder why you're so pained by my comment. Are you the one who the op said offered help in public then went behind to do otherwise? Or were you planning to?

@op. Don't trust anyone, no matter how vehemently they claim innocence.

RisenPhoenix1:


Rubbish. People who insist that they are altruistic are often the worst. I wonder why you're so pained by my comment. Are you the one who the op said offered help in public then went behind to do otherwise? Or were you planning to?

@op. Don't trust anyone, no matter how vehemently they claim innocence.

You don't only have a low IQ; you're equally deranged. I mean, only a deranged person will assert that all men who give money or help to women do so because they intend to obtain sex from them. Of course, I couldn't have been one of the people whom the OP referred to in her post.

Now scram and look for your small-minded ilk elsewhere. Bumpkin.

LordKO:



You don't only have a low IQ; you're equally deranged. I mean; only a deranged person will assert that men who give money or help to women do so because they intend to obtain sex from them. Of course, I couldn't have been one of the people whom the OP referred to in her post.

Now scram and look for your small-minded ilk elsewhere. Bumpkin.

Lol. Actually, I have a tested IQ that's quite far above average, not that it matters. Nor do I believe that you are qualified enough to diagnose 'derangement'. And there's nothing 'of course' about it. I don't expect the guilty to confess.

Your excessive reaction to my comment speaks volumes though. I can understand your opposition to the concept, but not the vitriol and abuse you've been spouting from your first response. That only comes from a feeling of being caught out.

Jemiwizzy:
Before I believe they are still some good and kind people in this world but condition showed me some realities.

I looked for help I didn't get the help but what baffles me is that before they help you they ask for sex or for you to sleep with them why ?

A guy called me last night that he would help me but I have to come over to his place and sleep with him. I was shocked you know why he already told the public he will help that he don't want anyone to take advantage of me.
So as a female no male gives us anything from his clear mind?

Put in position of your sister will you be happy if someone take advantage of your sister like that ?

You also have a part in the blame. Your profile picture was calling for it. If you didn't have a simple picture that presents you as responsible and not a sex symbol,leave the profile blank.
Anyway I'm not surprised about what the guy did,that's men for you.Not all but most men are like that,some will come here and bash the guy but they will do the same if they had the opportunity.

Depressed101:
you have someone who you've been having casual sex with right ? Try contacting that person.. This life is about mutual benefit.. Stop making post about stuffs like this

" favour for a favour,that's how we do business"....Nas ft Scarface ( Favour for a favour)

Selfishness is the nature of the beast.

When we are in need, let us agree not to be taken advantage of and if we must succumb due to the circumstances, let us look into God.

I've been taken advantage of many times (not sexually) but I realised that it only happened when I depended on others. We must understand that we are responsible for our own happiness and everyone is entitled to request an exchange for a favour but it is oneself who can accept or reject it.

soulstalker:
Op, only God knows what u want, cus i believed i told u stop seeking for help, not everyone who call u are ready to help u. And moreover, i told u what to do already. I dnt knw why u keep opening threads asking for assistance, only if there's more 2 ur story.
However, just do the needful, and i promise u will be fine.

What needful?

Depressed101:
you have someone who you've been having casual sex with right ? Try contacting that person.. This life is about mutual benefit.. Stop making post about stuffs like this

^^
Jemiwizzy, kindly ignore any so-called advice from someone with a username that indicates he wants people to be as miserable as he is.

Ishilove:

^^
Jemiwizzy, kindly ignore any so-called advice from someone with a username that indicates he wants people to be as miserable as he is.

try replying my comments without a mention of my username in it, ishilove

Ishilove:

What needful?

i asked her to let me knw how much wil cost her tfare to lag, Because i already talked to my mom on her behalf and she agreed to help her with accomodation and whatever she needs in life that's within her power. I also told her i will help her 2 get something doing. But i think that's not enough, mayb there's something else she wants. And besides i notice she's hot tempered with d way she lashes out at people who might help her here. And am sure no one wil help someone like that.

soulstalker:
i asked her to let me knw how much wil cost her tfare to lag, Because i already talked to my mom on her behalf and she agreed to help her with accomodation and whatever she needs in life that's within her power. I also told her i will help her 2 get something doing. But i think that's not enough, mayb there's something else she wants. And besides i notice she's hot tempered with d way she lashes out at people who might help her here. And am sure no one wil help someone like that.

Please be very careful who you take home to your mum. As someone said earlier, its not every dog that is hungry and dieing you take home to feed. My advice is to offer monetary assistance. I read all her post and reply to some comments and I was shocked. So please be very Careful so you don't end up stressing your mum out.

Coloredsg:


Please be very careful who you take home to your mum. As someone said earlier, its not every dog that is hungry and dieing you take home to feed. My advice is to offer monetary assistance. I read all her post and reply to some comments and I was shocked. So please be very Careful so you don't end up stressing your mum out.

yeah u are right. My mom called me yesterday to ask about her, i just stylishly ignored it.

I've been following your story,. And yours is really a pathetic one,. I need you to stop feeling dependent,. No woman should have to tolerate violence or abuse.. much less because they're financially dependent on others. Therefore, it is extremely important that every woman becomes financially independent so that they never have to feel helpless in life.. so it is paramount that you get off your ass.. go get yourself a job, or better still learn a trade or a skill set.. it will make you feel responsible again and also boost your morale in the process. Remember financially independent women are capable of taking their own decisions and don't have to depend on anybody.. this increases self respect and makes you more confident to face any kind of situations in life you find yourself in the future..

Nairalanders will fall for any kind of story

LordKO:


An assertion like this "No man will give a woman money without desiring something (usually sexual favours) in return; whether covertly or overtly. " and the way some of you use yourselves as standard are appalling, to say the least. At the risk of sounding sententious, not all men give money or any other form of help to women with an intention to obtain sex from them; I don't because I'm a practitioner of altruism - I don't act on impulse, however. Going by your appalling assertion, it means some men will be having sex with all shades of women almost every passing moment.

Okay, I like you.

Can I send you a PM ?

Depressed101:
i can speak for the boys don't know about girls...

If he helps you now without demanding for anything,yoy and your friends will call him mumu, ode.. They've prolly done that to them countless of times...

And also the probability that the girl in question will give pussy to another guy who is not helping her is high, they will even rob it in the helping guy's face that they are fucking another guy....

If you can give a non helping guy pussy, how about giving the one that is helping you too??

So why help a girl when you are not fucking her and end up being called a fool.

Speak for yourself not for everyone, stop saying nonesense oga.

VTJN:
[s]Speak for yourself not for everyone, stop saying nonesense oga[/s].

walk off me pxssy

RisenPhoenix1:


Lol. Actually, I have a tested IQ that's quite far above average, not that it matters. Nor do I believe that you are qualified enough to diagnose 'derangement'. And there's nothing 'of course' about it. I don't expect the guilty to confess.

Your excessive reaction to my comment speaks volumes though. I can understand your opposition to the concept, but not the vitriol and abuse you've been spouting from your first response. That only comes from a feeling of being caught out.

Please correct yourself not all men have such kind of mindset, just speak for yourself not others

Depressed101:
walk off me pxssy

Riff raff ur moniker says it all.