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As a nairaland therapist... I'll advice you to tell your wife the problem you are facing.... And if that your friend is ready to help you in any way... you can come to naija...but if the guy don't have any help to rendered...bro stay there o......we in naija still they struggle

No advice...my prayer for u as u enter nigeria..let favour meet favour in ur life and GOD should shine his light on u.

I would advise you tell your lady the state of things over there and tell her to persevere. I would advise you hold on, there is hope and breakthrough

donbachi:
No advice...my prayer for u as u enter nigeria..let favour meet favour in ur life and GOD should shine his light on u.

amen... thank so much bro

Nigeria isn't so bad bro, Just call your wife and tell her the truth. You owe her that.

Then see if you can raise some money over there before coming back home. Even if it's 500k, it's fairly manageable, you can use it to register at indomine factory or Nigerian breweries as distributor. Use a part of your room as a makeshift warehouse and supply customers based on request. You can source out customers from your church, environment... etc.

With time you'll find your feet. Just avoid womanizing with the little profits you make, and work hard to be a responsible husband and father.

What did you do a master's in? There's also not much jobs in Nigeria too. A lot of foreign masters working around doing nothing. Suffering dey everywhere but the suffering in Nigeria is times one million.

akinwaley:
hello guys. I need matured advise/recommendation on this emotional issue. so, i travelled to one of the popular Eurasia country 4years ago for my master program.
i left an adorable partner and a 7months old son. I finished my program 2years ago and i decided to stay behind for the betterment of my young family. i tried all i could but am not so lucky in securing a good job. it's been so so difficult ever since.
I'm not making money where I'm and am almost loosing this faithful lady due to family pressure. also, not having the opportunity of a father and son relationship makes me sad and also feel sorry for the young boy.
with the help of a close friend, i summoned courage on going back home. infact, i will be in Nigeria in few days.
Now, am scared of the aftermath of going back to Nigeria without money. How do i face this challenge? No job, no money to cateer for my folks. And we all know how Nigeria is. Hope going back to Nigeria isn't a mistake. advise a brother pls.
mod, kindly push this to front page. have a good evening

Stay back and hustle that’s the only advice I have for you, the same woman will insult you in future that you don’t make anything abroad

akinwaley:
hello guys. I need matured advise/recommendation on this emotional issue. so, i travelled to one of the popular Eurasia country 4years ago for my master program.
i left an adorable partner and a 7months old son. I finished my program 2years ago and i decided to stay behind for the betterment of my young family. i tried all i could but am not so lucky in securing a good job. it's been so so difficult ever since.
I'm not making money where I'm and am almost loosing this faithful lady due to family pressure. also, not having the opportunity of a father and son relationship makes me sad and also feel sorry for the young boy.

mod, kindly push this to front page. have a good evening

Maybe you should mention this Euroasian country (and course you studied) where you finished your program two years but unfortunately cannot get a good job afterwards, so that people will learn.

Regarding coming back, well, just find something doing no matter how small. In the meantime, suspend procreation till further notice. It's for your good o.