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Re: "We Need Marriage But Men Are Scared To Come"... Pretty Lawyer by cooltola(m): 9:53pm On Dec 29, 2020
. Nothing wrong with shakara but too much shakara drives men away from you. You can be cute, have a house with 2021 mercedez Benz, have 3 or 5 phd,, make a lot of money, be a good girl on the inside and men of your level will avoid you if you have a horrible altitude. You rarely smile especially in a wedding or owanbe or university or work where you can easily get some potential suitors and pick who you like and avoid the one you do not like.
2021 please smile more, frown less. Be friendly and even you are not interested in the man that is trying to get your digit, still be polite except if he is getting weird or he is making you uncomfortable.

For men, dress well, cut your hair often or keep your locks clean , wear deodorant so you do not smell, perfume does not cover armpit smell, stay fit- avoid having pot belly if you are under 35 years and not married. Women like men who are clean and if you are not good looking on the face, you can compensate on working hard at your hustle, communication, body or so on. Talk with confidence, study on some subject and do not be shy- the worst that she will tell you is no.

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Re: "We Need Marriage But Men Are Scared To Come"... Pretty Lawyer by Impregnablefolk: 9:55pm On Dec 29, 2020
It's this "know it all" mentality DAT has gotten so many ladies 4m frying pan 2 fire. Even if u r a PhD holder u must b subject 2ur husband, whether or not u agree. Wahala 4 hu say him sabi book pass him teacher...I come in peace!
CalliDora1:


Is menopause a death sentence? Or haven't you seen someone menstrating but couldn't conceive for years?

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Re: "We Need Marriage But Men Are Scared To Come"... Pretty Lawyer by capitalzero: 9:56pm On Dec 29, 2020
Kingosytex:
U wan use your big big grammar scatter dem abi? Your plans will not work?

On a serious note, I think Fantasticcc made some important points. Most men are not really interested in this marriage stuff nowadays, they do really to keep a baby mama somewhere than tying one self down in the name of marriage.

Loss of independence, loss of romance and probable financial strain are some of the reasons why most men detest marriage.

Why should people buy cow when they can get milk free? That is thinking of some men! Many men though will buy cow get the milk with peace of mind
Re: "We Need Marriage But Men Are Scared To Come"... Pretty Lawyer by sonofElElyon: 9:58pm On Dec 29, 2020
that her Twitter name "BARRISTER Khadija Umar ESQ. is strange.. can't use both Barrister and Esquire. has to be one at a time..

Samakus:
So said a pretty lawyer on her twitter account..



https://mobile.twitter.com/Barrkhadijah_/status/1343831850154926080

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Re: "We Need Marriage But Men Are Scared To Come"... Pretty Lawyer by Empiree: 9:58pm On Dec 29, 2020
EmptyGarden:
A certain Maryam Sanda comes to mind...

Re: "We Need Marriage But Men Are Scared To Come"... Pretty Lawyer by MrNipplesLover(m): 9:59pm On Dec 29, 2020
if, to you, we are afraid to come, just know that we are not afraid to cum....


thank you.

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Re: "We Need Marriage But Men Are Scared To Come"... Pretty Lawyer by Tersue: 9:59pm On Dec 29, 2020
If i may understand something here the men this lawyer is talking about is the readymade men[s],who knows if she have one poor guy that cools her temper and is desperately looking for the rich one.These are the kind of girls you marry and end planning SEX timetable for which is one of the reason that scared guys.Please be humble or else if you are too desperate then Bleep your self and give birth to a readymade husband who we marry you sometime,someday or in the nearest future..

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Re: "We Need Marriage But Men Are Scared To Come"... Pretty Lawyer by Codes151(m): 9:59pm On Dec 29, 2020
Man way never rich, marry and they start, then court wan divide everything half......

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Re: "We Need Marriage But Men Are Scared To Come"... Pretty Lawyer by pansophist(m): 10:01pm On Dec 29, 2020
Advancedman:



The other day Na military ladies now Na lawyer next will be so-called career ladies.

My friends in Canada was trying to introduce me with her lawyer friend for marriage one time, na so I run. I no de do abeg. But before running, I test play, I was really curious, to confirm if my suspicions were true. To see if she hasn't lost her femininity in the pursuit of degree, and wont be rubbing her "success" in my face.

Firstly, she respond in a way that I should feel lucky she is talking to me. She said I'll have to move to her in Canada, I told her no, and she was shocked that I could deny the offer to live in her heaven called Canada. From question regarding my financial status, to determine if I'm an odogwu or a pauper, and simple joke that she can't take. I felt like I had to walk on an egg shell to avoid being misinterpreted.

I told her that it was Eve that joined Adam in the garden of Eden, not otherwise, and if she wants anything, she needs to come to my base, which of course she refused. Her work was her first husband and I'll merely be an attachment grin a whole me pansophist, an attachment, okay. Her career was far important than her need for a family. I wondered why she couldn't find a man over there, and wanted arranged marriage like the Indians, but of course wants it 100% her way.

After my suspicion was confirmed, I cut off contact and moved on. I can't come and go and kill myself.

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Re: "We Need Marriage But Men Are Scared To Come"... Pretty Lawyer by Jennycoolz(f): 10:01pm On Dec 29, 2020
She's pretty
Re: "We Need Marriage But Men Are Scared To Come"... Pretty Lawyer by Toks2008(m): 10:01pm On Dec 29, 2020
HandsomeBlack:
Hmmm.
A rich guy can come from abroad and head straight to marry a semi-educated girl in the village. Same is not true for the ladies. An educated and/or financially independent lady will seldom marry a man who has not attained her level of academic/financial status.
Naturally, she desires to marry a man that is higher than her in status or at least in same status with her. Unfortunately, most African husbands can't stand the guts of a wife that is better than them academically or financially because the later will revolt the traditional headship and control exercised by the former, thereby bruising his ego often.

Gbam!

Look at how she put it as if guys are not available. She ought to rephrase her tweet to ''The type of men i want are scarce''

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Re: "We Need Marriage But Men Are Scared To Come"... Pretty Lawyer by Chirowman(m): 10:01pm On Dec 29, 2020
Marriage this days self is somehow , both some men and women don't respect the marriage vows . That's why baby mama is gaining ground on to open marriage way.

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Re: "We Need Marriage But Men Are Scared To Come"... Pretty Lawyer by cRAFTsVEN: 10:02pm On Dec 29, 2020
Godpikin4real:
According 2 my late dad, "There's a man for every woman". With prayers and constituency, he'll definitely come.

...A man for every three women or so...

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Re: "We Need Marriage But Men Are Scared To Come"... Pretty Lawyer by Proton99: 10:04pm On Dec 29, 2020
EmptyGarden:
A certain Maryam Sanda comes to mind...
Hit me up if you're ever around kaduna, I'll buy you a bottle of beer.
Re: "We Need Marriage But Men Are Scared To Come"... Pretty Lawyer by Canvass: 10:04pm On Dec 29, 2020
Fantasticcc:
Marriage adds nothing to men nowadays...... I see no reason a comfortable man will use his money to tie himself down with an overused cunt in the name of marriage...

Men controls commitment the same way women control sex... But a rich man controls both......

.....a rich man controls both.....hmmm, wise words on the marble. A phrase fit to be taken into the new year as a watchpoint.

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Re: "We Need Marriage But Men Are Scared To Come"... Pretty Lawyer by Godpikin4real(f): 10:04pm On Dec 29, 2020
cRAFTsVEN:


...A man for every three women or so...
Don't know why people reason through their anus. When God created Adam, he created three women for him right?
Re: "We Need Marriage But Men Are Scared To Come"... Pretty Lawyer by oguns222: 10:05pm On Dec 29, 2020
CalliDora1:


Gbam! And it's not a crime.

She will wait till eternity, except she's ready to share grin
Re: "We Need Marriage But Men Are Scared To Come"... Pretty Lawyer by RedPanthar: 10:06pm On Dec 29, 2020
RisenPhoenix1:


No be vex, but I don't like it when women complain that there are no husbands, yet do nothing to work towards one. It's like studying for an engineering degree then complaining that you can't get a job as a medical doctor. On which planet does that work out?

I'm even sure that when they were approaching her for marriage in school, she was forming "I must finish my PhD first".




Ngba Ai mo
Re: "We Need Marriage But Men Are Scared To Come"... Pretty Lawyer by millionboi2: 10:06pm On Dec 29, 2020
SmartPolician:


Beautiful ladies like this always have stinking, disgusting character. The biggest mistake a man will make in life is to marry a lady due to physical attributes, forgetting her character.

Marry a lady who understands and respects you and have a good heart. There are many Jezebels in woman forms out there. Again, love fades with time.

There's a cliche that a man's longevity depends on the kinda wife he married
you said love fades with time, what should we then hold on.
Re: "We Need Marriage But Men Are Scared To Come"... Pretty Lawyer by Impregnablefolk: 10:07pm On Dec 29, 2020
Since there's notin wrong wit clocking menopause b4 marriage y not wait until den. Hopefully, u would av gotten ur PhD n six figures in ur a/c by den. Wahala 4 hu carry pride block road 4 emself.
CalliDora1:


Is menopause a death sentence? Or haven't you seen someone menstrating but couldn't conceive for years?

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Re: "We Need Marriage But Men Are Scared To Come"... Pretty Lawyer by Toks2008(m): 10:07pm On Dec 29, 2020
pansophist:


My friends in Canada was trying to introduce me with her lawyer friend for marriage one time, na so I run. I no de do abeg. But before running, I test play, I was really curious, to confirm if my suspicions were true. To see if she hasn't lost her femininity in the pursuit of degree, and wont be rubbing her "success" in my face.

Firstly, she respond in a way that I should feel lucky she is talking to me. She said I'll have to move to her in Canada, I told her no, and she was shocked that I could deny the offer to live in her heaven called Canada. From question regarding my financial status, to determine if I'm an odogwu or a pauper, and simple joke that she can't take. I felt like I had to walk on an egg shell to avoid being misinterpreted.

I told her that it was Eve that joined Adam in the garden of Eden, not otherwise, and if she wants anything, she needs to come to my base, which of course she refused. Her work was her first husband and I'll merely be an attachment grin a whole me pansophist, an attachment, okay. Her career was far important than her need for a family. I wondered why she couldn't find a man over there, and wanted arranged marriage like the Indians, but of course wants it 100% her way.

After my suspicion was confirmed, I cut off contact and moved on. I can kill myself.

Some ladies have this vague inflated sense of self importance and i just wonder.

Most of them think the world revolves around them. I think the more educated a lady is the more difficult it may be for her to find a purposeful relationship.

This is why Guys are now settling for semi educated or totally uneducated ladies just to have marital peace and YES i know some uneducated ladies can be a piece of work too but statistics have shown that it is safer and better to go for unassuming ladies if a man truly wants peace.

Sophistication is the bane of many ladies.

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Re: "We Need Marriage But Men Are Scared To Come"... Pretty Lawyer by Nobody: 10:07pm On Dec 29, 2020
its not a matter of being scared.
Re: "We Need Marriage But Men Are Scared To Come"... Pretty Lawyer by sircatherine45(m): 10:08pm On Dec 29, 2020
Fantasticcc:
Marriage adds nothing to men nowadays...... I see no reason a comfortable man will use his money to tie himself down with an overused cunt in the name of marriage...

Men controls commitment the same way women control sex... But a rich man controls both......

savage
Re: "We Need Marriage But Men Are Scared To Come"... Pretty Lawyer by Akuruoulo(m): 10:10pm On Dec 29, 2020
jasmine1600:
Marriage is gradually becoming scary to most men.
And whos fault is it ?

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Re: "We Need Marriage But Men Are Scared To Come"... Pretty Lawyer by LucemFerre: 10:10pm On Dec 29, 2020
Fantasticcc:
Marriage adds nothing to men nowadays...... I see no reason a comfortable man will use his money to tie himself down with an overused cunt in the name of marriage...

Men controls commitment the same way women control sex... But a rich man controls both......

Bros you na the wisest man of our days

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Re: "We Need Marriage But Men Are Scared To Come"... Pretty Lawyer by jericco1(m): 10:11pm On Dec 29, 2020
HandsomeBlack:
Hmmm.
A rich guy can come from abroad and head straight to marry a semi-educated girl in the village. Same is not true for the ladies. An educated and/or financially independent lady will seldom marry a man who has not attained her level of academic/financial status.
Naturally, she desires to marry a man that is higher than her in status or at least in same status with her. Unfortunately, most African husbands can't stand the guts of a wife that is better than them academically or financially because the later will revolt the traditional headship and control exercised by the former, thereby bruising his ego often.

Thank you

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Re: "We Need Marriage But Men Are Scared To Come"... Pretty Lawyer by lastempero: 10:11pm On Dec 29, 2020
The earlier they understand that African men are different, the better for them.

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Re: "We Need Marriage But Men Are Scared To Come"... Pretty Lawyer by Opengates(m): 10:12pm On Dec 29, 2020
Most of the reasons why men stay away from them are generally with the ladies...
Re: "We Need Marriage But Men Are Scared To Come"... Pretty Lawyer by Opengates(m): 10:14pm On Dec 29, 2020
sammirano:


Thank you. The breed of ladies today are almost worthless with vain pride.

Real guys that are serious are looking for a woman that will totally submit to them. But these ladies arent even ready to partially submit. Before you say jack they are divorced, which stupid man will want to jeopardise his life with such a woman.
Most of the reasons why men stay away from them are generally with the ladies...

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Re: "We Need Marriage But Men Are Scared To Come"... Pretty Lawyer by mentored: 10:14pm On Dec 29, 2020
Samakus:
So said a pretty lawyer on her twitter account..



https://mobile.twitter.com/Barrkhadijah_/status/1343831850154926080


Self deceit is the height of foolishness

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Re: "We Need Marriage But Men Are Scared To Come"... Pretty Lawyer by Rexnegro(m): 10:18pm On Dec 29, 2020
Marriage don't seem interesting to most men of this era. Many guys never fit stand financially na marriage him go come dey think of? Coupled with the fact say girls/ ladies of nowadays are nothing to write home about , most are just plain liability and the word loyalty isnt in their dicko. Above all most nowadays girls don't know the essence of a relationship talkless marriage. Well not surprise tho isaiah 4 vs 1 has said it all.

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Re: "We Need Marriage But Men Are Scared To Come"... Pretty Lawyer by Rexnegro(m): 10:19pm On Dec 29, 2020
Husband no scarce it's just that most ladies are looking for hushpuppi with a touch of pastor sam adeyemi hahahahahahahaha .

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