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Re: My Mum Justified To Slap My Wife? by cooooooks(m): 2:49am On Dec 30, 2020 |
It is absolutely not normal for mothers to slap their grown, working, independent children. Not in this Nigeria. leksite120: 2 Likes |
Re: My Mum Justified To Slap My Wife? by cooooooks(m): 2:51am On Dec 30, 2020 |
*Can't? Teaveapoet: |
Re: My Mum Justified To Slap My Wife? by khia: 3:06am On Dec 30, 2020 |
Romanoff: Although this story is very old I'll put my two cents in. A grown mature woman doesn't need anyone to lead her, advise her yes, we all can use advice at times. The wife of the op is not a woman she's a grown child. The child is only 2 years old and wouldn't remember a thing, a simple get together with family and a couple of friends would have sufficed. This overdone party was for show not for the baby. It seems a lot of Nigerians place value on impressing others. The mother was out of line and very disrespectful to his wife and himself. If it were me she would only have one time to slap me. 1 Like |
Re: My Mum Justified To Slap My Wife? by khia: 3:25am On Dec 30, 2020 |
NiRfreak: So it's ok for your mother to slap the mess out of your wife without provocation? You would beat your wife for deffending herself (a natural reaction) and not put your mother in check? You and your mother are violent beasts 2 Likes |
Re: My Mum Justified To Slap My Wife? by khia: 3:28am On Dec 30, 2020 |
Bennysam: They probably die from their abusive mothers. 1 Like |
Re: My Mum Justified To Slap My Wife? by khia: 3:30am On Dec 30, 2020 |
Bennysam: What he posted was 100% on point. 1 Like |
Re: My Mum Justified To Slap My Wife? by khia: 3:34am On Dec 30, 2020 |
Bennysam: He's correct. 1 Like |
Re: My Mum Justified To Slap My Wife? by khia: 3:40am On Dec 30, 2020 |
tnerro1: You're not a man. |
Re: My Mum Justified To Slap My Wife? by Originalsly: 4:40am On Dec 30, 2020 |
Hmmm..... all of you have a common problem..... anger management. Mother bursts into anger... slaps daughter in law..... daughter in law bursts into anger... slaps mother in law.... husband bursts into anger ... throws out wife and her belongings .... still boiling in anger files for divorce ... now simmering runs to Nairaland for coolant. All of you wrong. Divorce should never be a hasty decision.... worse... when kids are involved. You need to reach out... have a talk... make the kids welfare the priority and move forward from that point. 3 Likes |
Re: My Mum Justified To Slap My Wife? by leksite120(m): 7:07am On Dec 30, 2020 |
cooooooks:Yes, it may not be okay, but we're in Nigeria. so u mean if your mother slaps u, you'll retaliate |
Re: My Mum Justified To Slap My Wife? by cooooooks(m): 7:16am On Dec 30, 2020 |
My mom does not slap me. Her mom did not slap her as an adult either. I'm not 10 years old oga. leksite120: 1 Like |
Re: My Mum Justified To Slap My Wife? by Kamdil: 7:18am On Dec 30, 2020 |
Anfield247:yes she did. Same way her own mum can over react and do same to her,would she have slapped back her own mum if she does same to her? |
Re: My Mum Justified To Slap My Wife? by BlueAir: 7:18am On Dec 30, 2020 |
Op mother was not wrong for what she did.chances are high the stupid woman's mother would have done the same .. and op mother didn't slap her because of her son! She slapped the stupid wife because the idiott disgraced the family and marriage.big difference! That wife deserves all blames from all corners. She's a insatiable woman with no sense of contention!she wanted to blackmail the husband into paying for what she had taken on credit without telling him regardless of wether he'll break his legs to pay.shes a dirty player and op is shooting himself more to say he misses her or if he takes it any easy with her! Godoverevery: |
Re: My Mum Justified To Slap My Wife? by spice123(m): 7:20am On Dec 30, 2020 |
Freestainworld:I like saying the truth without missing words. Oga you need to double your hustle. I was once in your shoes as a Teacher when I got married to my wife. She was earning more than double of my salary until I had to change jobs to a higher pay coupled with home lesson. Believe it or not, man's responsibility is a man's responsibility. If a woman earns higher than you no matter how handsome or the status of a man, he will always be insulted. |
Re: My Mum Justified To Slap My Wife? by cooooooks(m): 7:23am On Dec 30, 2020 |
Did you forget that OP is currently being owed salary? It is only OP's wife who is bringing in money currently. BlueAir: 1 Like |
Re: My Mum Justified To Slap My Wife? by BlueAir: 7:26am On Dec 30, 2020 |
And so damn what! Because she's feeding and buying him clothes and feeding his family at worse means she should disregard him to a good extent?And he should take any crap from her!? If it's the other way round and the op is the one spending on her ,would u commentors advice her to endure any crrap from him? Hypocrisy of the world mehn cooooooks: |
Re: My Mum Justified To Slap My Wife? by BlueAir: 7:28am On Dec 30, 2020 |
Just imagine. And some half wits, are talking of taking the crap spice123: |
Re: My Mum Justified To Slap My Wife? by leksite120(m): 7:36am On Dec 30, 2020 |
cooooooks:No one mum slaps him. . What I'm asking is that, if she lose temper one day and she does, would u? |
Re: My Mum Justified To Slap My Wife? by spice123(m): 7:39am On Dec 30, 2020 |
BlueAir:I never insulted you Mr. I said the bitter truth. Men need to double their hustle if they want to earn a woman's respect. I am saying this out of experience. These days a lot of men even abandon their basic responsibility like house rent, food and school fees to their wives. How do you gain respect? |
Re: My Mum Justified To Slap My Wife? by cooooooks(m): 7:39am On Dec 30, 2020 |
Where is the crap that OP endured from his wife? OP's wife was somehow expected to endure an unprovoked slap. Na magic? OP's mum should not be going around slapping people anyhow. That is the main lesson here. OP should stop being a Mama's boy and make independent decisions. He has his own family now. BlueAir: 1 Like |
Re: My Mum Justified To Slap My Wife? by cooooooks(m): 7:41am On Dec 30, 2020 |
She has not and will not. It is not even within the realm of possibility. Who is raising you that you think this scenario is remotely plausible? leksite120: |
Re: My Mum Justified To Slap My Wife? by BlueAir: 7:43am On Dec 30, 2020 |
Who are you deceiving or defending here? The problem is with the average Nigerian money entitlement mentality and it's Ridgid men like uthat makes it worse! Are their mates in the US not supporting their men financially and maritally without making a social mess? And I wasn't against your realistic opinion oga. I was buttering it. spice123: |
Re: My Mum Justified To Slap My Wife? by BlueAir: 7:48am On Dec 30, 2020 |
cooooooks: |
Re: My Mum Justified To Slap My Wife? by BlueAir: 7:49am On Dec 30, 2020 |
. Imagine.The fact she went behind his back to incur debt! And expected him to pay it off isn't crap!! If she wanted a king's party within and outside her means,then she should incur it on her account or why drag the husband into her own misery! The fact that she has the mind to slap his mother and may have been disrespecting him before this incident isn't crap?! The fact that u pussy unwashed niggas believes shes entitled to drive the family anyhow she wants,because she reimburse him sometimes isn't crrap? And she also thinks the same hence the mind to slap her husband's mother! Wahala for man wey no get manhood.. don't blame you guys tho,too much of chasing and submitting to pussyy nowadays don dey cloud y'all reasoning cooooooks: |
Re: My Mum Justified To Slap My Wife? by spice123(m): 8:15am On Dec 30, 2020 |
[s][/s] BlueAir:Go and make money. We are not in the U.S |
Re: My Mum Justified To Slap My Wife? by BlueAir: 8:21am On Dec 30, 2020 |
Im not the one to talk about what I have even with money,are Nigerian women any better? And rigid people like u with little or no sense of positive change are the reason Nigerian political mess remains the way it is! Your wacky socio-marital mentality preceeds you! > spice123: |
Re: My Mum Justified To Slap My Wife? by tnerro1(m): 9:46am On Dec 30, 2020 |
khia: Sorry sweetheart, but you better learn to control your anger, you try it with my mom, I go use you take play ball |
Re: My Mum Justified To Slap My Wife? by spice123(m): 9:50am On Dec 30, 2020 |
BlueAir:Thank you. Anything else? |
Re: My Mum Justified To Slap My Wife? by spice123(m): 9:53am On Dec 30, 2020 |
BlueAir:I wonder how Nigeria politics came into this. This guy is really weird. How can air be BLUE |
Re: My Mum Justified To Slap My Wife? by Preshmane(m): 10:12am On Dec 30, 2020 |
Exc2000: Who are you ? The kid still has a lot of birthday to celebrate with them.. the issue here is that the lady is not considerate!! on no account should you take a loan to celebrate birthday, something that's not going to yield money To me that's the first sign of a stupid person |
Re: My Mum Justified To Slap My Wife? by Exc2000: 10:18am On Dec 30, 2020 |
Preshmane: She is an Adult and makes her own money, she earns salary 4 times higher than her husbands Salary.. she is free to take a loan to celebrate her daughter's birthday.. failure to pay back is the only issue here If she was living off her husband's income or her mother in law, then it's another thing, but here is a woman working and you don't want her to spend as she wants . 1 Like |
Re: My Mum Justified To Slap My Wife? by Preshmane(m): 10:26am On Dec 30, 2020 |
I honestly don't know this romance section is full of werey until today like seriously, someone said he will beat the hell out of his mother if she ever slap his wife!! now I'm not trying to justify the act by the mother but my wife don't have the right to slap back my mother ethics forbids it.. |
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