There is always peace of mind when you have your own money as a lady. Men will respect you more.

My immediate family (parent and siblings) bills wan choke me already not to talk of adding another random broke vagina person and her family as a liability

Men should stop dating broke women because they wouldn't date you if reverse was the case.

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Leeches won't agree to this . Most leeches want equality but don't want Equity .

I agree r

Young lady, think na. Are you comparing the system 20 years ago to today? I think say una want equality na. Abi u don change your mind ni?

Beckysexy:
I disagree!
If that's the case I'm pretty sure her mother will probably remain single till date!
Just because you have the opportunity to be rich doesn't give you the right to criticize or condemn others for not having. There are a lot of hardworking ladies that don't even have up to 500k, but they still pay their bills.
Nonsense and Ingredients.

EBMedia:
Popular Nollywood actress and social commentator, Yetunde Bakare, recently agreed with a viral tweet on social media that ladies who did not have a certain amount of money deserved to be without a man, IgbereTV reports.

A Twitter user identified as @HaYoMiDe_ had shared a post where she said that if a lady did not have up to N500k in her account, she did not deserve a man.

She wrote:


https://twitter.com/HaYoMiDe_/status/1345284945170886657?s=19

Yetunde Bakare explained on her own Instagram page that she totally agreed with the post and she gave her reasons.

According to her, when a lady has her own money, it would save her from a lot of regrettable decisions. She also said that she had had enough of ladies who used marriage to secure their finances because they ended up marrying people they didn’t love and have extramarital affairs.

She also shaded ladies who were against men taking DNA tests of their kids and turning it into a fight because they were scared.

She wrote:


https://www.instagram.com/p/CJja1MkHBW8/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Wahala for who DNA the scare oo

It still doesn't guarantee happy and faithful marriage.

Nonsensicality

She's talking in the nonsense.

So , if she has 500k in her account, would she want to marry a guy that doesn't even have 100k/ 200k in his own account.

Simply put it, women with no source of income/ career shouldn't go about looking for a man to marry.

Abi how I wan take save up to 500k in this present Nigeria? She should shift jare.

Tell them o!
Louder!

What's the point of having 500k made through the wrong means just to have a man..
Funny enough, Rich independent ladies suffer most in relationships..they meet the wrong guys..
Today's men prefer broke girls that will beg them for money just to massage their egos..
This life is definitely not balanced.. wahala for who comes to social media for advice..

If it was "a man without 500k does not deserve a woman", you will see a lot of women on this forum applauding. Now it's the other way round and they dont seem to agree. Wetin de coronate self?

That's an advice for materialistic generation.

Well, a man should have up to N5 million in his account if he want a woman who has 500k.

EBMedia:
Popular Nollywood actress and social commentator, Yetunde Bakare, recently agreed with a viral tweet on social media that ladies who did not have a certain amount of money deserved to be without a man, IgbereTV reports.

A Twitter user identified as @HaYoMiDe_ had shared a post where she said that if a lady did not have up to N500k in her account, she did not deserve a man.

She wrote:


https://twitter.com/HaYoMiDe_/status/1345284945170886657?s=19

Yetunde Bakare explained on her own Instagram page that she totally agreed with the post and she gave her reasons.

According to her, when a lady has her own money, it would save her from a lot of regrettable decisions. She also said that she had had enough of ladies who used marriage to secure their finances because they ended up marrying people they didn’t love and have extramarital affairs.

She also shaded ladies who were against men taking DNA tests of their kids and turning it into a fight because they were scared.

She wrote:


https://www.instagram.com/p/CJja1MkHBW8/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Unfortunately for them that is not the criteria that considerate men are looking for. The lady with 5k or nothing deserves a man too. Nonsense.

You know Nigerian women are seriously fighting for gender equality in everything to be like their counterparts in the western world.So,having fixed assets like land,house which are what everyman is struggling to have should should also be added.So,no more relaxation for unmarried women who are looking for a man they will be a liability to,hoping to inherit the man's properties when the dies.After all,what a man can do,a woman does it better.

You know Nigerian women are seriously fighting for gender equality in everything to be like their counterparts in the western world.So,having fixed assets like land,house which are what everyman is struggling to have should should also be added as prerequisites for marriage.So,no more relaxation for unmarried women who are looking for a man they will be a liability to,hoping to inherit the man's properties when the dies.After all,what a man can do,a woman does it better.

louder

Mitsurugi:


But these same women you're talking about can criticise men who are hardworking but don't have, abi?

No mind the olosho.


all these broke girls with entitlement mentality.

lydianessa:
What's the point of having 500k made through the wrong means just to have a man..
Funny enough, Rich independent ladies suffer most in relationships..they meet the wrong guys..
Today's men prefer broke girls that will beg them for money just to massage their egos..
This life is definitely not balanced.. wahala for who comes to social media for advice..

Facts, @bold.

Men in general don't want an independent woman, they claim they do but when they get one they start resenting her and look for ways to humble her or use her for her money, the relationship is hardly ever healthy,
Just imagine a relationship where the lady never ever asks her man for anything because she is independent and doesn't need him. He will start complaining that the lady is too proud or arrogant/not submissive.

Confused people

kalu61:
Women are their greatest enemies. Because she is fortunate to have such in her account, other women with less doesn't deserves a man.

Since satistics shows that only 2% of Nigerian have above 500k in their account, l don't take all these social media display serious.

CHECK IT OUT

"40% of Americans don’t have $400 in the bank for emergency expenses: Federal Reserve"

THEN HOW THE THING GO BE IN NIGERIA

IN AS MUCH THE BABE HAS GOOD BEHAVIOUR AND BIG YANCH WITH FAT PUNA...

this relationship adviser sef

my boss good evening. please help me move my post(unable to access my bet9ja account) in the crime section to front page. I really need help on how to recover my five hundred thousand naira back from bet9ja.

Mynd44:
Wahala for we broke people ooo

LutanFyah:
She is right.

If as a lady your salary or net profit from your business every month is not upto #50k, you don't have any business with a relationship or marriage.

So should go to a man too. Make una dey deceive una self there. If u dating me for my money, u won't see shishi

Why should how I feel about someone have to do with how much I have in my account? Dumb mofos

MedicH:
If it was "a man without 500k does not deserve a woman", you will see a lot of women on this forum applauding. Now it's the other way round and they dont seem to agree. Wetin de coronate self?

Bless you man

Hypocrites everywhere.

If it was a man, they would come here to start celebrating. Many of dem dodge this post.

Abilistic:
It still doesn't guarantee happy and faithful marriage.

Abi no woman wey get millions for account sleep with her boss come kill her husband join unto say no be him get d 2 pikin

Wht is wrong with all this ajebo ladies ..

Some girls don't marry for your money they marry so there age parents will see there grand children.

Is not by force to hv money in your account of thT amount many girls hv work for 5yrs without having thT unless they are doing extra jobs beside there main job .

.Na only mumu de marry lazy girl wey no get work.

Stay woke marry for love not for money

Most of our ladies don’t even have 2k or Airtel yet they have multiple boyfriends,because she has small money now,she will just be saying rubbish to intimidate our local girls.

kalu61:
Women are their greatest enemies. Because she is fortunate to have such in her account, other women with less doesn't deserves a man.

Since satistics shows that only 2% of Nigerian have above 500k in their account, l don't take all these social media display serious.

Jesus! Where do u guys get these stats from? U mean just 2%of 200 million people have above 500k? Men that's pathetic. Things may be hard but it's not that bad biko... . . Sorry u ain't well informed, shikena

SweetCunt97:
So should go to a man too. Make una dey deceive una self there. If u dating me for my money, u won't see shishi

It has been more that for the men since time immemorial.


Same women that always say "His money is our money, my money is my money" is implying that men will be dating them for their money.


If a woman is not earning the basic #50k, she should go hustle and forget relationship.

CHoccolaTE:

Facts, @bold.

Men in general don't want an independent woman, they claim they do but when they get one they start resenting her and look for ways to humble her or use her for her money, the relationship is hardly ever healthy,
Just imagine a relationship where the lady never ever asks her man for anything because she is independent and doesn't need him. He will start complaining that the lady is too proud or arrogant/not submissive.

Confused people

My dear, the bitter truth..a lot of them do not know what they want..
I spoke from the heart.. imagine getting married in two months after you asked for a break to a lady who isn't working because you were encouraged to work on your potentials to become more..
If it were a lady, hell will let loose. We move!!

A sensible woman! Marriage or relationship shouldn't be a full time job or poverty alleviation.
It would allow women be in a position to marry whom they want to when independent.
Any woman against d.n.a is a major suspect.

MummyD2020:


Jesus! Where do u guys get these stats from? U mean just 2%of 200 million people have above 500k? Men that's pathetic. Things may be hard but it's not that bad biko... . . Sorry u ain't well informed, shikena

He is very correct, check the Vanguard newspaper of 2nd June 2016.


Just Google it.