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Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Nobody: 2:11pm On Jan 09, 2021 |
Oharina:it's the law of life. The old woman never insulted anyone. She only shared her thoughts and feelings. How dare they insult an elderly person like that? For each and everyone that insulted that innocent elderly woman, they've brought a life time curse upon their lives 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Oharina(m): 2:13pm On Jan 09, 2021 |
Anyiiii:Shut up you are not God nor law of kama 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Hassanmaye(m): 2:13pm On Jan 09, 2021 |
Freemasonry: Enough advice for the wise, finding good men now is hard 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by stupidmod2: 2:16pm On Jan 09, 2021 |
Anyiiii:abeg shut up. which useless human curse with there mouth filled with sins n gossip n hate. rubbish 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Hassanmaye(m): 2:17pm On Jan 09, 2021 |
izzou:And the worst thing she hang up with him on the phone. I thought it was my ex that only do that madness, so it's Nigerian girls mentality to hang up on the phone. I will never marry a woman who hang up on my phone 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Manty(m): 2:17pm On Jan 09, 2021 |
Mariangeles:God bless you with dis post, some people here are just too fast to comment on a post without thinking properly. Hauling insult on d lady like dey are from d moon. God bless u once more 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Tobechuckwu(m): 2:18pm On Jan 09, 2021 |
Trayceey: Personally,I think it's wrong for d guy to come without getting something. Even if it's not d first time,it was d guy's freewill to come, so getting something small nomatter what is necessary, even if it's just fruits. We are Nigerians nd we have our culture here ,we were trained to do d right thing. Train up a child in d way he should go so as not to depart from it. Don't ever compare our culture with that of British nd American bcuz they were trained not to respect pple nd they can easily tell their parents Bleep u nd arrest them ,but we weren't trained that way. Since they are in-laws to be,it is very important to buy something when visiting bcuz whenever u visit ur own parents u will definitely buy something. Come to think of it,if d lady visits ur own parents without buying a gift along ,how will d guy feels? 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Hassanmaye(m): 2:19pm On Jan 09, 2021 |
TransAtlanticEx: |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Hassanmaye(m): 2:22pm On Jan 09, 2021 |
Hathor5:exactly what the mum should have done |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Manty(m): 2:24pm On Jan 09, 2021 |
Anyiiii:It's just common here on nairaland to see people insulting others for no good reason. Visiting an elderly woman for d first time empty handed is a no no. Their is a popular saying dat first impression matters a lot 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Hassanmaye(m): 2:26pm On Jan 09, 2021 |
Ghostrye: |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Hassanmaye(m): 2:30pm On Jan 09, 2021 |
CalliDora1:Lol na the type your family Nigerian men dey look for, the entitlement is too much, this is the only time the boy friend went to the house empty hand o not that he has been going there empty before Nawaoo |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by litaninja(m): 2:30pm On Jan 09, 2021 |
So, you inherited your mother's hunger. Good for you. Trayceey: 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Hassanmaye(m): 2:31pm On Jan 09, 2021 |
patoski39:Hahha sharp guy |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Hassanmaye(m): 2:31pm On Jan 09, 2021 |
patoski39:You mean before another highest bidder show up Abi then they will dump his ass Sharp guy |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Manty(m): 2:32pm On Jan 09, 2021 |
Sixfeetbelle:Honestly, U are on point |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Hassanmaye(m): 2:34pm On Jan 09, 2021 |
basbone:Lol Nigerian mum and their entitlement will not allow them to reason like that o, na to see Benz body they Shake |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Hassanmaye(m): 2:36pm On Jan 09, 2021 |
emmaodet:Hahha wickedness So you know how nairaland is sweet Abi, go back to your facebook abeg |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Graxie(f): 2:37pm On Jan 09, 2021 |
tesseract: Happy New Year, I know I have made your day, Junkie. |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Hassanmaye(m): 2:38pm On Jan 09, 2021 |
nitoriolohun:Your statement is it every time that one will be carrying nylon up and down makes me throw away my cup |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Hassanmaye(m): 2:40pm On Jan 09, 2021 |
izzou:Hahay She is waiting for Akara Abi |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Hassanmaye(m): 2:43pm On Jan 09, 2021 |
Juliearth:Lol our Nigerian mums don't understand that o, just come with a big bread that's all Hahha |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by returncole: 3:04pm On Jan 09, 2021 |
This guy in question had already been a molestation to himself even before leaving home ... What transpired upon his visit was just a manifestation of his thoughtless idle visit. The mother in question also needs wisdom, she could have done better addressing and correcting this foolish man in question in love ( that's if there exist any) The man and the daughter I thought should be seen as hers. |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Juliearth(f): 3:16pm On Jan 09, 2021 |
Hassanmaye: Smiles 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by showboy25(m): 3:19pm On Jan 09, 2021 |
Nairaland sweet me today o |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by davillian(m): 3:20pm On Jan 09, 2021 |
What's my own If there are no kids in the house I won't buy anything for anybody.... If there are no sick person in the house I won't buy anything. if I'm not coming to seek for your hand in marriage I won't buy anything. And finally if it's not a birthday ( mum or pops ) I won't buy anything...... The only people I always buy things for are people in the village simple.... When I begining to buy things for you for no reason just know I'm trying to buy you over to my side.... So your mind won't focus on my nagative side ...... 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by walkingshadow911: 3:24pm On Jan 09, 2021 |
phyl123: This is why some guys would advices others not to date some broke and poor ladies. cos poverty is a big threats to their common sense makin them to be incapable of loving their man without billing and reckless demandings to feed their low self-esteem . all bent on taking advantage of the man at slightest opportunity. Africans especially Nigerian society are raised to be parasitic on man whether rich or poor. and poverty can only make it worst. from the way the op handled the whole issue, i see no love from the op to her man only an end to her means. dats a red flag I wouldn't blame the mother who might not understand courtesy visit. most mum are only in for the gram. If the man is wise and not a simpson he should run as far as his leg can carry him. |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by guess1109(f): 3:40pm On Jan 09, 2021 |
Mothers don't have any hold if you don't give them, this is exactly what an average smart guy is afraid of and you've given your guy the signal that you're that kind of lady, "ladies that are controlled by their mothers"! How can you be supporting your Mum over your fiance because of gifts when that's not even his first time of coming to your house! We've seen marriages that have crashed because the couple allowed their mothers to intrude into their relationship, you're not yet married and you're fighting your man because of gifts for your Mum . Trayceey: 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by walkingshadow911: 3:51pm On Jan 09, 2021 |
Anyiiii: nairaland people are from Jupiter abi you are not bright |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by UndissolvedMeta(m): 3:55pm On Jan 09, 2021 |
Neither you or your mum is to be blamed, it's the guy that is not discipline, going to an in laws place empty handed |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by ericmor: 4:02pm On Jan 09, 2021 |
GIANTPLUSHUB: She want to choose culture over the love and respect the guy have for her and the family |
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