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Re: "You Can't Be A Feminist And A Christian" - Reno Omokri by Mjpem23(m): 6:00pm On Jan 15, 2021
Hope I can be hoodlum and still be a Christian?
Re: "You Can't Be A Feminist And A Christian" - Reno Omokri by bukatyne(f): 6:01pm On Jan 15, 2021
JESHAL:


You can't use emotive reasoning to bait me,oh ye Feminist, we don't hate women,but we don't respect Feminist,and they have given us reason not to respect them

Emotive reasoning?

Go through our discussion and tell me who is using 'emotive reasoning'.

It is easy to sieve out real Christian husbands from charlatans.

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Re: "You Can't Be A Feminist And A Christian" - Reno Omokri by DEMZEE(m): 6:01pm On Jan 15, 2021
bukatyne:


Let me agree with your week parlor talk:

Submitting to my maker does not make me inferior; submitting to a man (made by a maker) makes me inferior?

Besides, when did 'submit one to another' mean submission to my maker?

Abi am I a co-maker?

Submission isn't inferior or superior

Submission is a quality that a woman must possess to have a successful marriage if u like dont submit. Wen u divorce and end up miserable with dogs as children wetin b my own
Re: "You Can't Be A Feminist And A Christian" - Reno Omokri by Magnoliaa(f): 6:03pm On Jan 15, 2021
pocohantas:


My problem no pass fanta and malt. I am too cheap, you no need wash plate.

Good! Order then.

Yes, men desire a family as much as women do. Asides mastering the act of indifference, they are never ready till they are ready. If you think I am lying, try dating a man who is ready- then open your mouth to say you want to marry in next 3yrs. You will see his fellow men telling him you are unserious and want to hoe around. They will forget all the years they also hoed around before they became READY.

They also want to control TIME.

You just perfectly captured how they reason and act.

Watin remain for women na to learn this self-control over themselves and their life decisions too.
Re: "You Can't Be A Feminist And A Christian" - Reno Omokri by ugbanante: 6:03pm On Jan 15, 2021
Hongkog:
Reno talks too much jare, you can be whatever you what and still be a Christian. Its a free world.

What brand is your Christianity? The one handed down to us by the bible or your improvised version?
Your statement is a ploy to deploy ur weakness and deceive people.
Either you leave Christianity and do whatsoever you like or practice its prescribed way of life.

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Re: "You Can't Be A Feminist And A Christian" - Reno Omokri by Ogbotobo77(m): 6:04pm On Jan 15, 2021
[quote author=Gerrard59 post=98090398]

That was the major concept that made me re-consider my feminism stance. The numbers did not just make sense. Today, I am really indifferent although I understand Nigeria's cultures and laws which are against women's growth [/quote
Of cos,the patriarchal system in Nigeria marginalises women..I'm all for equal opportunity for both sexes..anything beyond that is where I have a problem with feminazis..lol]
Re: "You Can't Be A Feminist And A Christian" - Reno Omokri by Ogbotobo77(m): 6:05pm On Jan 15, 2021
tribalistdcriti:
they want to be the husband and the wife at the same time
lol abi..they can't have it both ways

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Re: "You Can't Be A Feminist And A Christian" - Reno Omokri by pocohantas(f): 6:05pm On Jan 15, 2021
Magnoliaa:


Good! Order then.
You just perfectly captured how they reason and act. Watin remain for women na to learn this self-control over themselves and their life decisions too.

They don’t even want you to learn. That is why some will twist themselves in all shapes and come up with fancy names for every thing you do or believe in. Very subtly manipulative creatures. They’ll gaslight you, then tell you to “calm down”. grin grin

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Re: "You Can't Be A Feminist And A Christian" - Reno Omokri by bukatyne(f): 6:06pm On Jan 15, 2021
DEMZEE:


How can u submit to ur husband and still see him as ur equal

Can u submit to ur boss at work and see him as ur equal??

Do you remember the quote above?


You said submission makes me 'unequal' to my husband. That is where the discussion deviated.

DEMZEE:


Submission isn't inferior or superior

Submission is a quality that a woman must possess to have a successful marriage if u like dont submit. Wen u divorce and end up miserable with dogs as children wetin b my own

If submission is no longer inferior or superior, then we can end the discussion.l and I have done the Lord's work tonight.

I would not dignify your second paragraph with a response.

P.S.: go and learn how to be a Christian husband who is a servant-leader and filled with love.

You need it.

Start from 1 For 13: 1 - 8

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Re: "You Can't Be A Feminist And A Christian" - Reno Omokri by Nobody: 6:06pm On Jan 15, 2021
bukatyne:


Emotive reasoning?

Go through our discussion and tell me who is using 'emotive reasoning'.

It is easy to sieve out real Christian husbands from charlatans.

That's why statistics and facts shows
Progressive women are more likely to divorce than conservative women

Leave our conservative women in Nigeria alone,we don't want you to destroy families and seperate wives from their husband and children via westernized femcentric biased family court legal system found in USA and Europe

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Re: "You Can't Be A Feminist And A Christian" - Reno Omokri by 0neal(m): 6:07pm On Jan 15, 2021
JESHAL:


Love both must love
The woman should see her husband as the head giving him his due respect

Yes,

Man is the head (Leader) of the Family, a Lady, brought up in a Christian home and still upholds the teachings of the Bible and christain values, whose Husband is preoccupied loving her, will effortlessly submit/respect her Husband.

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Re: "You Can't Be A Feminist And A Christian" - Reno Omokri by Nobody: 6:07pm On Jan 15, 2021
Magnoliaa:


Good! Order then.



You just perfectly captured how they reason and act.

Watin remain for women na to learn this self-control over themselves and their life decisions too.


Sense
Re: "You Can't Be A Feminist And A Christian" - Reno Omokri by Ogbotobo77(m): 6:07pm On Jan 15, 2021
Ladycewhy:
I replied to someone that I do agree that the original ideology has been hijacked, but that doesn't mean we have to throw away the entire movement for the sake on the unreached who still need liberation and emacipation.

Demonizing feminism as a whole will only equate to throwing the baby away with the bath water.
Of cos I agree with u...I've conversed with reasonable feminists whose views on feminism is just to be treated fairly and not marginalised or seen as a 2nd fiddle to men...I would have called myself a feminist if they hadn't deviated from their main objective(equal rights and opportunity) lol

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Re: "You Can't Be A Feminist And A Christian" - Reno Omokri by Nobody: 6:08pm On Jan 15, 2021
[quote author=Ogbotobo77 post=98094124][/quote]

Wake up
These women are not for equality but supremacy
Re: "You Can't Be A Feminist And A Christian" - Reno Omokri by DEMZEE(m): 6:09pm On Jan 15, 2021
bukatyne:


Do you remember the quote above?


You said submission makes me 'unequal' to my husband. That is where the discussion deviated.



If submission is no longer inferior or superior, then we can end the discussion.l and I have done the Lord's work tonight.

I would not dignify your second paragraph with a response.

P.S.: go and learn how to be a Christian husband who is a servant-leader and filled with love.

You need it.

Start from 1 For 13: 1 - 8

Wen it comes to marriage, Men are the head ND women are the neck.

And u too learn how to submit to ur husband if u want a successful marriage but if not then end up miserable divorced and having dogs as children to soot ur sadness and misery

Cheers **

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Re: "You Can't Be A Feminist And A Christian" - Reno Omokri by Nobody: 6:09pm On Jan 15, 2021
pocohantas:


They don’t even want you to learn. That is why some will twist themselves in all shapes and come up with fancy names for every thing you do or believe in. Very subtly manipulative creatures. They’ll gaslight you, then tell you to “calm down”. grin grin

Who brought down

Adam the first Simp?
Samson?
Solomon?
Re: "You Can't Be A Feminist And A Christian" - Reno Omokri by bukatyne(f): 6:09pm On Jan 15, 2021
JESHAL:


That's why statistics and facts shows
Progressive women are more likely to divorce than conservative women

Leave our conservative women in Nigeria alone,we don't you to destroy families and seperate wives from their husband and children via westernized femcentric biased family court legal system found in USA and Europe

undecided
Re: "You Can't Be A Feminist And A Christian" - Reno Omokri by Ogbotobo77(m): 6:11pm On Jan 15, 2021
JESHAL:


Wake up
These women are not for equality but supremacy
Lol..feminism is gradually turning into a fascist movement..but I won't condemn it in its entirety cos some extreme leftists have hijacked it..if it weren't for d pioneers,they wouldn't have their right to vote..so I still align myself with d original objective

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Re: "You Can't Be A Feminist And A Christian" - Reno Omokri by Nobody: 6:11pm On Jan 15, 2021
Re: "You Can't Be A Feminist And A Christian" - Reno Omokri by Ogbotobo77(m): 6:12pm On Jan 15, 2021
JESHAL:


They want men to be slaves and emasculated
Lol...we shouldn't generalise bro..there are still good ones out there that still believe in d main objective
Re: "You Can't Be A Feminist And A Christian" - Reno Omokri by Ladycewhy(f): 6:12pm On Jan 15, 2021
Ogbotobo77:

Of cos I agree with u...I've conversed with reasonable feminists whose views on feminism is just to be treated fairly and not marginalised or seen as a 2nd fiddle to men...I would have called myself a feminist if they hadn't deviated from their main objective(equal rights and opportunity) lol
Refocusing back to the main ideology should then be the main goal. There are still millions unreached that still need emacipation, so much still needs to be done for the girl child. I encourage you not to loose faith in the movement we cannot because of the few abandon the unreached for posterity sake .

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Re: "You Can't Be A Feminist And A Christian" - Reno Omokri by Magnoliaa(f): 6:12pm On Jan 15, 2021
pocohantas:


They don’t even want you to learn. That is why some will twist themselves in all shapes and come up with fancy names for every thing you do or believe in. Very subtly manipulative creatures. They’ll gaslight you, then tell you to “calm down”. grin grin

You see that riling up thing? It's also their specialty. I don't know how they come to possess all those vile behaviors. Gaslighting, insulting. And I even don't know whether they think such antics is not even obvious ni o.

Subordination thrives on such... If they don't keep regurgitating their backward beliefs - how can they find someone to put with their rubbish? We wouldn't need all these preachings for a so-called gender made to be submissive.

Animals do not fight over what nature dictated.

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Re: "You Can't Be A Feminist And A Christian" - Reno Omokri by DEMZEE(m): 6:13pm On Jan 15, 2021
Ladycewhy:
Refocusing back to the main ideology should then be the main goal. There are still millions unreached that still need emacipation, so much still needs to be done for the girl child. I encourage you not to loose faith in the movement we cannot because of the few abandon the unreached for posterity sake .

Wat about the boy child
Re: "You Can't Be A Feminist And A Christian" - Reno Omokri by DEMZEE(m): 6:15pm On Jan 15, 2021
Ogbotobo77:

Lol...we shouldn't generalise bro..there are still good ones out there that still believe in d main objective

Wat objective

Women gave the same rights as men under the law

Women dominate education

Women dominate the workplace in Nigeria

So wat are they asking for again
Re: "You Can't Be A Feminist And A Christian" - Reno Omokri by Nobody: 6:15pm On Jan 15, 2021
DEMZEE:


Wat about the boy child

Ahbi
Re: "You Can't Be A Feminist And A Christian" - Reno Omokri by Nobody: 6:16pm On Jan 15, 2021
Magnoliaa:


You see that riling up thing? It's also their specialty. I don't know how they come to possess all those vile behaviors. Gaslighting, insulting. And I even don't know whether they think such antics is not even obvious ni o.

Subordination thrives on such... If they don't keep regurgitating their backward beliefs - how can they find someone to put with their rubbish? We wouldn't need all these preachings for a so-called gender made to be submissive.

Animals do not fight over what nature dictated.

RUBBISH
Re: "You Can't Be A Feminist And A Christian" - Reno Omokri by Ogbotobo77(m): 6:16pm On Jan 15, 2021
Ladycewhy:
Refocusing back to the main ideology should then be the main goal. There are still millions unreached that still need emacipation, so much still needs to be done for the girl child. I encourage you not to loose faith in the movement we cannot because of the few abandon the unreached for posterity sake .
Sure sure...I have sisters so I understand..Africa is a messed up continent.. So much to do..I was a hardcore sexist,misogynist,male chauvinist name it all lol...but recently I've been trying to emancipate myself from such ideology....I also enlighten ppl when I have d chance too...but we have stumbling blocks like religion and socially constructed gender roles enforced by society!

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Re: "You Can't Be A Feminist And A Christian" - Reno Omokri by Probz(m): 6:17pm On Jan 15, 2021
JESHAL:


Women should focus on their strengths not Men's strength

It’s not as if all women are the same. Likewise for men.
Re: "You Can't Be A Feminist And A Christian" - Reno Omokri by Nobody: 6:17pm On Jan 15, 2021
Ogbotobo77:

Lol...we shouldn't generalise bro..there are still good ones out there that still believe in d main objective

My brother

If you're a woman and not a feminist I will respect you better
Re: "You Can't Be A Feminist And A Christian" - Reno Omokri by Ladycewhy(f): 6:18pm On Jan 15, 2021
Ogbotobo77:

Sure sure...I have sisters so I understand..Africa is a messed up continent.. So much to do..I was a hardcore sexist,misogynist,male chauvinist name it all lol...but recently I've been trying to emancipate myself from such ideology....I also enlighten ppl when I have d chance too...but we have stumbling blocks like religion and socially constructed gender roles enforced by society!
Its not going to be easy to shed off such mentality in this part of the world ,but we move smiley. Sooner or later the center will have to give way.

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Re: "You Can't Be A Feminist And A Christian" - Reno Omokri by tribalistdcriti: 6:18pm On Jan 15, 2021
Ladycewhy:
Refocusing back to the main ideology should then be the main goal. There are still millions unreached that still need emacipation, so much still needs to be done for the girl child. I encourage you not to loose faith in the movement we cannot because of the few abandon the unreached for posterity sake .
pls what do you really mean by "emancipation "
Re: "You Can't Be A Feminist And A Christian" - Reno Omokri by Nobody: 6:19pm On Jan 15, 2021
Probz:


It’s not as if all women are the same. Likewise for men.

That's what Femcentrism, feminization, gynocentrism and Feminism of the Western world, mainstream media,and Social media want us in Africa to think

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