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Re: The Woman I Have Done Introductions For Is Driving Me Crazy by solonubinho(m): 8:38pm On Jan 20, 2021
You've done introduction. Baba, you better de-introduce. Before you bring her to jand and she reduces you to square 1. While taking your house in the process, leaving you homeless and penniless.

Like someone earlier said, most of these girls just want to get married because that's what girls are expected to do according to society and perhaps to have some prestige amongst their peers. Many of them have no business being in anybody's house. None whatsoever.

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Re: The Woman I Have Done Introductions For Is Driving Me Crazy by Clinghton: 8:48pm On Jan 20, 2021
She's a time bomb.

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Re: The Woman I Have Done Introductions For Is Driving Me Crazy by yinkaOdutuyo: 10:18pm On Jan 20, 2021
OP are you mad or something?

Do you really know what a decent or virtual woman is?

That girl is possessed with Sex and a vulva/clitoris itching gang.

Send her away asap
Re: The Woman I Have Done Introductions For Is Driving Me Crazy by Derrylatei: 10:20pm On Jan 20, 2021
What else do you want to hear she again. Bro, borrow yourself brain, ruj for your dear life
Re: The Woman I Have Done Introductions For Is Driving Me Crazy by baralatie(m): 12:38am On Jan 21, 2021
SavageResponse:
Una never even marry e don dey start shocked
Re: The Woman I Have Done Introductions For Is Driving Me Crazy by SavageResponse(m): 1:12am On Jan 21, 2021
Tbadbad:
Hello everyone, ‘my story is long but I will skip some to try to make it short, sorry for my grammatical error, I am not a writer and I am writing with pains and I might made some mistakes , please bear with me.

I have been dating my wife to be since 2017, I have been taking care of her and everything, the truth is I was hearing some funny stuff about her since I met her but I didn’t take it serious because I trusted her and I really thought she was decent from every other girls.
When I met her, she told me she had only dated 3 boys for have sex only three times, her first boyfriend and two other girls she met in school. I really believed her because she was acting decent, at a point I begin to suspect her when I started hearing some stuff about her but I didn’t pay attention because I trusted her, sometimes when I asked her if she ever dated some one else or cheating on me, she will just turn the whole thing to quarrel and I will just locked up. Fast forward to 2020 , I got her pregnant before I left Nigeria, we did introductions , but she lost the baby during child birth which was so painful to us, but after some month I begin to hear some news about her, and u confronted her and treat her that I have proof, which she confess to me that she has dated about 3 boys, slept with them several times, she also bleeped 2 girls just once and they didn’t date, she just had crush on them and bleeped them before she met me, and she cheated on me when she found out I was chatting with my ex’s, she couldn’t bear the pains even after begging her, sex her and still give her money to school, the same week she met a guy and bleeped him because she wanted to ease her pains, and 2019 when we had little quarrel, she met a guy and bleeped twice because she thought we broke up(what happened was that we had little argument and I have her money to sch and we didn’t talk for a week, that week she met a guy and stayed dated him because she thought we broke up). I was heart broken when she told me, and I wanted to brk up, her parents begged me and they never supported her and they were even surprised she could did such thing because she came from a very decent background, I forgave her but I still have the pains in my heart, we always chat everyday, because of corona things are some how and I don’t have money like before , she begins to show me some attitude which is not really comfortable and I explain things to her and she apologize, so last month she told me since I left she have been having sexual urge to sleep with a girl because she have been watching lesbian porn, that she promised never to cheat on me with a man and it’s taboo but she wanted to have sex with a female, I was so shocked and didn’t know what to do. She said she just started having the strange feelings because she have been watching lesbian porn since I left, I feel like I don’t know anything about her, I wanted to brk up now because she is begging me and she is saying she is just trying to be truthful to me because she promised herself never to hide anything from me or lie to me. What should I do ? Should I continue to be with her and marry her? Or run away? Mine she have never slept with a woman before and she has always hated lesbian but because I have been a way since feb 2020, she usually watch porn to help herself. Pls what should I do?

This one tire me o!
Re: The Woman I Have Done Introductions For Is Driving Me Crazy by Yusufisraelj(m): 1:51am On Jan 21, 2021
Tbadbad:
Hello everyone, ‘my story is long but I will skip some to try to make it short, sorry for my grammatical error, I am not a writer and I am writing with pains and I might made some mistakes , please bear with me.

I have been dating my wife to be since 2017, I have been taking care of her and everything, the truth is I was hearing some funny stuff about her since I met her but I didn’t take it serious because I trusted her and I really thought she was decent from every other girls.
When I met her, she told me she had only dated 3 boys for have sex only three times, her first boyfriend and two other girls she met in school. I really believed her because she was acting decent, at a point I begin to suspect her when I started hearing some stuff about her but I didn’t pay attention because I trusted her, sometimes when I asked her if she ever dated some one else or cheating on me, she will just turn the whole thing to quarrel and I will just locked up. Fast forward to 2020 , I got her pregnant before I left Nigeria, we did introductions , but she lost the baby during child birth which was so painful to us, but after some month I begin to hear some news about her, and u confronted her and treat her that I have proof, which she confess to me that she has dated about 3 boys, slept with them several times, she also bleeped 2 girls just once and they didn’t date, she just had crush on them and bleeped them before she met me, and she cheated on me when she found out I was chatting with my ex’s, she couldn’t bear the pains even after begging her, sex her and still give her money to school, the same week she met a guy and bleeped him because she wanted to ease her pains, and 2019 when we had little quarrel, she met a guy and bleeped twice because she thought we broke up(what happened was that we had little argument and I have her money to sch and we didn’t talk for a week, that week she met a guy and stayed dated him because she thought we broke up). I was heart broken when she told me, and I wanted to brk up, her parents begged me and they never supported her and they were even surprised she could did such thing because she came from a very decent background, I forgave her but I still have the pains in my heart, we always chat everyday, because of corona things are some how and I don’t have money like before , she begins to show me some attitude which is not really comfortable and I explain things to her and she apologize, so last month she told me since I left she have been having sexual urge to sleep with a girl because she have been watching lesbian porn, that she promised never to cheat on me with a man and it’s taboo but she wanted to have sex with a female, I was so shocked and didn’t know what to do. She said she just started having the strange feelings because she have been watching lesbian porn since I left, I feel like I don’t know anything about her, I wanted to brk up now because she is begging me and she is saying she is just trying to be truthful to me because she promised herself never to hide anything from me or lie to me. What should I do ? Should I continue to be with her and marry her? Or run away? Mine she have never slept with a woman before and she has always hated lesbian but because I have been a way since feb 2020, she usually watch porn to help herself. Pls what should I do?


My brother a lot have have been said here, I will take a slight deviation, you see certain lady's can only be handle from certain foundations from certain kinds of men and vice versa they won't tell you this on google or marriage counselling.

I Could decern that you not a prayerful fellow, you see its costly to approach certain lady's when you are not on fire, bkos of what they carry (gifts and calling) certain attacks are bent on making their life miserable, and if you can't stand up or provide a covering for her, you become a victim.

Hmmmmm, certain discussion are not meant for NL, they are deep and putting it here may be counter productive. May God help you.
Re: The Woman I Have Done Introductions For Is Driving Me Crazy by TrueChristians: 8:00pm On Jan 23, 2021
I have said these things to you, that in me you may have peace. In the world you will have tribulation. But take heart; I have overcome the world.”
Re: The Woman I Have Done Introductions For Is Driving Me Crazy by Omezif(m): 8:01pm On Jan 23, 2021
I blamed your unseriousness because you didn't marry her.
no wise man can allow that kind of behaviour from his partiner.
Re: The Woman I Have Done Introductions For Is Driving Me Crazy by Nobody: 8:01pm On Jan 23, 2021
Bisexual. Tufia! Abi do you like threesomes?
Re: The Woman I Have Done Introductions For Is Driving Me Crazy by fredoooooo: 8:02pm On Jan 23, 2021
You just dey start brother grin
Re: The Woman I Have Done Introductions For Is Driving Me Crazy by Yuceeluv(f): 8:05pm On Jan 23, 2021
From your replies, you are very attracted to her. I won't call it love. Maybe obsession. Because love is always healthy. Knowing all these and still wanting to keep her is an unhealthy feeling. Allow her be free.

I hope you know you can love someone from afar? If you want her happiness, let her go. Her real desires are to be with a woman. Deep down within you, you know this.

Let her go.

Tbadbad:
I mean when I met her, she said she only dated 3 guys and have sex only 3 times ,her first boyfriend and 2 other boys, not girls please

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Re: The Woman I Have Done Introductions For Is Driving Me Crazy by omotolarunsewe: 8:06pm On Jan 23, 2021
My advice for you is to breakup with her. Be glad you found out abt her sex life.move on my brother. There are better girls abroad . Never settle for less

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Re: The Woman I Have Done Introductions For Is Driving Me Crazy by Nobody: 8:06pm On Jan 23, 2021
Chii59:

Bisexual. Bleeping both male and female anyhow.
May God forbid. Tufia!
stop policing women on what they do with their bodies.

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Re: The Woman I Have Done Introductions For Is Driving Me Crazy by JooEeL(m): 8:07pm On Jan 23, 2021
Lol
Re: The Woman I Have Done Introductions For Is Driving Me Crazy by LadySarah: 8:07pm On Jan 23, 2021
grin
Nwanne Ndo! If you understand,good for you.
Re: The Woman I Have Done Introductions For Is Driving Me Crazy by Nobody: 8:07pm On Jan 23, 2021
This is why I advice people not to watch porn, she has contracted the spirit of lesbianism from watching porn. Take her to a church for deliverance. She needs it. The spirit will keep disturbing her till she leaves you and become a full blown lesbian.

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Re: The Woman I Have Done Introductions For Is Driving Me Crazy by DesChyko: 8:07pm On Jan 23, 2021
Tbadbad:
Pls what should I do?

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Re: The Woman I Have Done Introductions For Is Driving Me Crazy by Nobody: 8:07pm On Jan 23, 2021
theForth:
stop policing women on what they do with their bodies.
Who's this one? Are you sure you're OK?

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Re: The Woman I Have Done Introductions For Is Driving Me Crazy by RedPanthar: 8:07pm On Jan 23, 2021
Tbadbad:
I mean when I met her, she said she only dated 3 guys and have sex only 3 times ,her first boyfriend and 2 other boys, not girls please



My dear it's not your responsibility to fix her. She's damaged. Let her go find her healing herself while you find a decent woman.

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Re: The Woman I Have Done Introductions For Is Driving Me Crazy by Lomprico2: 8:08pm On Jan 23, 2021
Tbadbad:
Hello everyone, ‘my story is long but I will skip some to try to make it short, sorry for my grammatical error, I am not a writer and I am writing with pains and I might made some mistakes, please bear with me.

I have been dating my wife to be since 2017, I have been taking care of her and everything, the truth is I was hearing some funny stuff about her since I met her but I didn’t take it serious because I trusted her and I really thought she was decent from every other girls.

When I met her, she told me she had only dated 3 boys for have sex only three times, her first boyfriend and two other girls she met in school. I really believed her because she was acting decent.

At a point I began to suspect her when I started hearing some stuff about her but I didn’t pay attention because I trusted her, sometimes when I asked her if she ever dated some one else or cheating on me, she will just turn the whole thing to quarrel and I will just lock up.

Fast forward to 2020, I got her pregnant before I left Nigeria, we did introductions, but she lost the baby during child birth which was so painful to us, but after some month I begin to hear some news about her, and I confronted her and threatened her that I have proof, which she confess to me that she has dated about 3 boys, slept with them several times, she also bleeped 2 girls just once and they didn’t date, she just had crush on them and bleeped them before she met me, and she cheated on me when she found out I was chatting with my ex’s, she couldn’t bear the pains even after begging her, sex her and still give her money to school, the same week she met a guy and bleeped him because she wanted to ease her pains, and 2019 when we had little quarrel, she met a guy and bleeped twice because she thought we broke up (what happened was that we had little argument and I have her money to sch and we didn’t talk for a week, that week she met a guy and stayed dated him because she thought we broke up).

I was heart broken when she told me, and I wanted to brk up, her parents begged me and they never supported her and they were even surprised she could do such thing because she came from a very decent background. I forgave her but I still have the pains in my heart, we always chat everyday, because of corona things are some how and I don’t have money like before, she begins to show me some attitude which is not really comfortable and I explain things to her and she apologized.

So last month she told me since I left she have been having sexual urge to sleep with a girl because she have been watching lesbian porn, that she promised never to cheat on me with a man and it’s taboo but she wanted to have sex with a female, I was so shocked and didn’t know what to do. She said she just started having the strange feelings because she have been watching lesbian porn since I left, I feel like I don’t know anything about her, I wanted to brk up now because she is begging me and she is saying she is just trying to be truthful to me because she promised herself never to hide anything from me or lie to me. What should I do? Should I continue to be with her and marry her? Or run away? Mine she have never slept with a woman before and she has always hated lesbian but because I have been a way since feb 2020, she usually watch porn to help herself. Pls what should I do?

heart attack loading if you go ahead n marry her.

.....but she is a sincere person sha o! some girls will do all these n worse and you won't know shìt.

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Re: The Woman I Have Done Introductions For Is Driving Me Crazy by umykal: 8:08pm On Jan 23, 2021
Tbadbad:
Hello everyone, ‘my story is long but I will skip some to try to make it short, sorry for my grammatical error, I am not a writer and I am writing with pains and I might made some mistakes, please bear with me.

I have been dating my wife to be since 2017, I have been taking care of her and everything, the truth is I was hearing some funny stuff about her since I met her but I didn’t take it serious because I trusted her and I really thought she was decent from every other girls.

When I met her, she told me she had only dated 3 boys for have sex only three times, her first boyfriend and two other girls she met in school. I really believed her because she was acting decent.

At a point I began to suspect her when I started hearing some stuff about her but I didn’t pay attention because I trusted her, sometimes when I asked her if she ever dated some one else or cheating on me, she will just turn the whole thing to quarrel and I will just lock up.

Fast forward to 2020, I got her pregnant before I left Nigeria, we did introductions, but she lost the baby during child birth which was so painful to us, but after some month I begin to hear some news about her, and I confronted her and threatened her that I have proof, which she confess to me that she has dated about 3 boys, slept with them several times, she also bleeped 2 girls just once and they didn’t date, she just had crush on them and bleeped them before she met me, and she cheated on me when she found out I was chatting with my ex’s, she couldn’t bear the pains even after begging her, sex her and still give her money to school, the same week she met a guy and bleeped him because she wanted to ease her pains, and 2019 when we had little quarrel, she met a guy and bleeped twice because she thought we broke up (what happened was that we had little argument and I have her money to sch and we didn’t talk for a week, that week she met a guy and stayed dated him because she thought we broke up).

I was heart broken when she told me, and I wanted to brk up, her parents begged me and they never supported her and they were even surprised she could do such thing because she came from a very decent background. I forgave her but I still have the pains in my heart, we always chat everyday, because of corona things are some how and I don’t have money like before, she begins to show me some attitude which is not really comfortable and I explain things to her and she apologized.

So last month she told me since I left she have been having sexual urge to sleep with a girl because she have been watching lesbian porn, that she promised never to cheat on me with a man and it’s taboo but she wanted to have sex with a female, I was so shocked and didn’t know what to do. She said she just started having the strange feelings because she have been watching lesbian porn since I left, I feel like I don’t know anything about her, I wanted to brk up now because she is begging me and she is saying she is just trying to be truthful to me because she promised herself never to hide anything from me or lie to me. What should I do? Should I continue to be with her and marry her? Or run away? Mine she have never slept with a woman before and she has always hated lesbian but because I have been a way since feb 2020, she usually watch porn to help herself. Pls what should I do?
I wasted my precious time reading this meaningless post.

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Re: The Woman I Have Done Introductions For Is Driving Me Crazy by missiret(f): 8:08pm On Jan 23, 2021
if you want to live long...just leave her.
Re: The Woman I Have Done Introductions For Is Driving Me Crazy by Nobody: 8:08pm On Jan 23, 2021
Your brain dey shake
I sorry for you

Tbadbad:
Sorry I read my message and I found out i made a lot of mistake , I am just writing with things , she has not really had sex with girl before , she said she just started having sexual urge with girls because she has been watching lesbian since I have been away, she told me she only dated 3 boys, which later I found out she has dated 3 guys, bleeped 2 she had Crush on and they didn’t dated , and cheated with 2 guys , which is making it 7, but she has been denying all these and telling me she only dated 3 boys and had sex 3 times since 2017(3 years) until last year October but she confess to me�
Re: The Woman I Have Done Introductions For Is Driving Me Crazy by Rushna27(f): 8:09pm On Jan 23, 2021
It's true we all have our flaws but take dis..... never u endure wot u are supposed to enjoy..... woteva u can't change during courtship can never be changed in marriage.. u are seeing d signal already it's better u choose wot u really want for ur life.. marriage is not a matter of lemme try maybe it will work cos in d process of trying u might be maimed if not die sef
Re: The Woman I Have Done Introductions For Is Driving Me Crazy by iamJ(m): 8:10pm On Jan 23, 2021
Women still dey carry men play cheesy


I trust myself grin

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Re: The Woman I Have Done Introductions For Is Driving Me Crazy by meobizy(f): 8:10pm On Jan 23, 2021
Which kind of failed creative writing exam is this? In one paragraph you claim she slept with two females then in another you claim she has never done it before and is only curious.

My friend, you already know what to do. Why are you here again? I guess this is the admin's style of gauging the amount of users who visit here daily.
Re: The Woman I Have Done Introductions For Is Driving Me Crazy by Nobody: 8:11pm On Jan 23, 2021
Chii59:

Who's this own? Are you sure you're OK?
i think you're the one who isn't okay, a purveyor of feministic ideal, yet here you are castigating a woman because she's a bisexual. I thought people(men) aren't supposed to tell and judge women on the choices they deem fit?

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