If you haven't cheated there,then complain and try to encourage her to stay faithful.
For the lesbian urge,send Love Machine down to her so she can get relieved cos it's not easy.
Don't use her past to judge her cos nobody holy pass.

Bros calm down...
And to the guys in da house anytime a lady tells u dis carp that she had sex not more than two times or she had only one ex...all na wash.... Its either u stay and eat her pekus Or u japa..

Tbadbad:
I mean when I met her, she said she only dated 3 guys and have sex only 3 times ,her first boyfriend and 2 other boys, not girls please

Hoes everywhere

Tbadbad:
Hello everyone, ‘my story is long but I will skip some to try to make it short, sorry for my grammatical error, I am not a writer and I am writing with pains and I might made some mistakes, please bear with me.

I have been dating my wife to be since 2017, I have been taking care of her and everything, the truth is I was hearing some funny stuff about her since I met her but I didn’t take it serious because I trusted her and I really thought she was decent from every other girls.

When I met her, she told me she had only dated 3 boys for have sex only three times, her first boyfriend and two other girls she met in school. I really believed her because she was acting decent.

At a point I began to suspect her when I started hearing some stuff about her but I didn’t pay attention because I trusted her, sometimes when I asked her if she ever dated some one else or cheating on me, she will just turn the whole thing to quarrel and I will just lock up.

Fast forward to 2020, I got her pregnant before I left Nigeria, we did introductions, but she lost the baby during child birth which was so painful to us, but after some month I begin to hear some news about her, and I confronted her and threatened her that I have proof, which she confess to me that she has dated about 3 boys, slept with them several times, she also bleeped 2 girls just once and they didn’t date, she just had crush on them and bleeped them before she met me, and she cheated on me when she found out I was chatting with my ex’s, she couldn’t bear the pains even after begging her, sex her and still give her money to school, the same week she met a guy and bleeped him because she wanted to ease her pains, and 2019 when we had little quarrel, she met a guy and bleeped twice because she thought we broke up (what happened was that we had little argument and I have her money to sch and we didn’t talk for a week, that week she met a guy and stayed dated him because she thought we broke up).

I was heart broken when she told me, and I wanted to brk up, her parents begged me and they never supported her and they were even surprised she could do such thing because she came from a very decent background. I forgave her but I still have the pains in my heart, we always chat everyday, because of corona things are some how and I don’t have money like before, she begins to show me some attitude which is not really comfortable and I explain things to her and she apologized.

So last month she told me since I left she have been having sexual urge to sleep with a girl because she have been watching lesbian porn, that she promised never to cheat on me with a man and it’s taboo but she wanted to have sex with a female, I was so shocked and didn’t know what to do. She said she just started having the strange feelings because she have been watching lesbian porn since I left, I feel like I don’t know anything about her, I wanted to brk up now because she is begging me and she is saying she is just trying to be truthful to me because she promised herself never to hide anything from me or lie to me. What should I do? Should I continue to be with her and marry her? Or run away? Mine she have never slept with a woman before and she has always hated lesbian but because I have been a way since feb 2020, she usually watch porn to help herself. Pls what should I do?

Bro no woman is perfect, we all have our flaws, she have high libido, she just need serious help controlling it. For a start Tell her to stop watching porn

For your original iphones WhatsApp me 0.8.0.3.0.7.0.0.1.1.1

You are only sounding worried because she has confessed and promised not to hide anything from you.
If you tell her your body count and those you have cheated with while stil with her, will she stil trust you?

This is a fcking case dump dis bitch pls n move on

When would men learn? You have a multisexual as a fiancee, a chronic liar, a manipulator and you're asking for our advice? You mean you're this naive to know what to do?

Oh, you don't want ur relatives to tag you as a divorcee abi? Or probably you think she's the best thing you can find. You need deliverance in a white garment church.

My candid advice is;
1. Since you starved her sexually, come and fix that. A sex-starved woman can do anything, anything to satisfy herself.
2. If her sexual adventure persist, return her to her family and discard her. That means that she's not a thoroughbred she claimed.

If u ever need a decent girl, let me know. I have not less than 6 ladies who are good in the mind. They may not be as beautiful as Bianca or Agbani Darego or Omotola but they're character to behold.

Tbadbad:
Please you all should stop speaking in parable and give me advice , since October , I have been drinking and start smoking sometin I have never done before , I’m not myself anymore , I’m confused and don’t know what decisions to take

there are two options here, 1.is either you run for your life and for the safety of your emotions or You stay back in her life and be her rehabilitation centre, She might change with your endurance and prayers

Pharaoh4rin:
When would men learn? You have a multisexual as a fiancee, a chronic liar, a manipulator and you're asking for our advice? You mean you're this naive to know what to do?

Oh, you don't want ur relatives to tag you as a divorcee abi? Or probably you think she's the best thing you can find. You need deliverance in a white garment church.

My candid advice is;
1. Since you starved her sexually, come and fix that. A sex-starved woman can do anything, anything to satisfy herself.
2. If her sexual adventure persist, return her to her family and discard her. That means that she's not a thoroughbred she claimed.

If u ever need a decent girl, let me know. I have not less than 6 ladies who are good in the mind. They may not be as beautiful as Bianca or Agbani Darego or Omotola but they're character to behold.

You have at least 6 decent girls? You sound like a p-i-m-p. I dey find wife sha but I go confirm the character first...

thomwell:


Hello Friend, i hardly make comments on post but this one caught my attention because i had similar experience but got delivered and today have a very happy Home. Let me advise you as a brother, your current relationship has a wrong foundation, built on lies and already failed. Retreat from it now, pray to God and allow him lead you to the woman that will give you peace. One major sign of wrong moves for any marriage is.. LOST OF PEACE. You already lost your peace on arrival, that's a bad sign, back down immediately without consideration. Thank me later.

You sound very authentic.

PRAY FERVENTLY, YOU CLAIMED YOU'VE MARRIED HER. RESORT TO PRAYER AND FASTING FOR A WHILE AND PERSUADE HER TO JOIN YOU. AFTER INTENSIVE PRAYER FOR SOME TIME (2 WEEKS TO A MONTH) MONITOR HER AND SEE IF THERE IS IMPROVEMENT THEN DECIDE WHAT TO DO

WE ARE IN END TIME
SEX IS ONE OF THE TOOL BEING USED BY THE DEVIL TO RUIN AND HARVEST SOULS

oladikenie:
If all you said above is true, then in your best interest, I'll advice you leave that lady. Please you deserve happiness in your life! Don't compromise and take foolish risks you will certainly and obviously regret in the future. First, the fact that she said she's only slept with two men doesn't even look like its true then lesbian porn? Maka why? Oga you will one day have children I believe, and the best you can give them is a decent mother please. Don't allow pressure from her family make you take foolish steps towards your future. I won't even be surprised they're aware of all her behaviours, forget the drama they're putting up before you!
And see you saying you've started smoking, something you don't do before. Don't you see your future doesn't look like what will bring peace to you with that lady? You won't even be able to travel and have peace, you won't only be thinking of the fact that your woman could be cheating, you'll then be wondering if she's cheating on you with a man or woman. Is that how much you hate your own future and peace?
Imagine you one day get to see your wife on the bed with another man, worse still another woman? Or maybe not even you, your daughter gets to see that. Isn't that the start of a crack in their own mentality about sexuality too? Please apologise to her family, tell them about the whole development, the lesbian thing and let her go. Like I stated earlier, YOU DESERVE TO BE HAPPY. Of course except you think otherwise!

How can I love, like and wow this comment at the same time.
U deserve peace oga take this advise and move on.

Leave the girl alone she’s has not been truthful, faithful and straightforward form the beginning. You should focus on you and build you, you’re going to meet the right woman, but it is not her. You can see the problem clearly but you don’t want to admit it, you don’t want to believe it’s true, but sadly it is. Please face your front and build your self. She’s not even thinking or as worried as you are right now.

Bros you get mind ooo and the girl get luck to have a guy like you that will be asking what can he do over such a lady like her.

Imagine my girlfriend telling me such nonsense. I won't even need any advice from anywhere to push her off my way.

Save your life and flee from that babe.

Oga what do you want us to tell you again?

You two are not even married yet

This kinda lies and emotional trouble don start.

Abeg bro, read the hand writing on the wall jare.

A good vagina and preek people are supposed to bring peace of mind and happiness in marriage.

Abeg better vagina people still dey

The same with the preek people.

Go for your peace of mind.

FATALE

Tbadbad:
Hello everyone, ‘my story is long but I will skip some to try to make it short, sorry for my grammatical error, I am not a writer and I am writing with pains and I might made some mistakes, please bear with me.

I have been dating my wife to be since 2017, I have been taking care of her and everything, the truth is I was hearing some funny stuff about her since I met her but I didn’t take it serious because I trusted her and I really thought she was decent from every other girls.

When I met her, she told me she had only dated 3 boys for have sex only three times, her first boyfriend and two other girls she met in school. I really believed her because she was acting decent.

At a point I began to suspect her when I started hearing some stuff about her but I didn’t pay attention because I trusted her, sometimes when I asked her if she ever dated some one else or cheating on me, she will just turn the whole thing to quarrel and I will just lock up.

Fast forward to 2020, I got her pregnant before I left Nigeria, we did introductions, but she lost the baby during child birth which was so painful to us, but after some month I begin to hear some news about her, and I confronted her and threatened her that I have proof, which she confess to me that she has dated about 3 boys, slept with them several times, she also bleeped 2 girls just once and they didn’t date, she just had crush on them and bleeped them before she met me, and she cheated on me when she found out I was chatting with my ex’s, she couldn’t bear the pains even after begging her, sex her and still give her money to school, the same week she met a guy and bleeped him because she wanted to ease her pains, and 2019 when we had little quarrel, she met a guy and bleeped twice because she thought we broke up (what happened was that we had little argument and I have her money to sch and we didn’t talk for a week, that week she met a guy and stayed dated him because she thought we broke up).

I was heart broken when she told me, and I wanted to brk up, her parents begged me and they never supported her and they were even surprised she could do such thing because she came from a very decent background. I forgave her but I still have the pains in my heart, we always chat everyday, because of corona things are some how and I don’t have money like before, she begins to show me some attitude which is not really comfortable and I explain things to her and she apologized.

So last month she told me since I left she have been having sexual urge to sleep with a girl because she have been watching lesbian porn, that she promised never to cheat on me with a man and it’s taboo but she wanted to have sex with a female, I was so shocked and didn’t know what to do. She said she just started having the strange feelings because she have been watching lesbian porn since I left, I feel like I don’t know anything about her, I wanted to brk up now because she is begging me and she is saying she is just trying to be truthful to me because she promised herself never to hide anything from me or lie to me. What should I do? Should I continue to be with her and marry her? Or run away? Mine she have never slept with a woman before and she has always hated lesbian but because I have been a way since feb 2020, she usually watch porn to help herself. Pls what should I do?

Omo, you better run for your life. Any time you have issues with this one, na bleeping straight with anybody. You can't settle down with someone you don't trust. Forget about her and find someone decent enough.

This decent word sef has been abused. No girl decent o

Some people don sign say wahala na their first love.

Don't be surprised op will marry that girl las las then come back in few years wailing
and typing "marriage is a scam" on every thread

Don't marry Her? Don't run away! Just let Her be and Let Her go! Because She is confused. And YOU are confused. And right now, the only thing both of you can do is multiply confusion.

Forget about relationships for now and get your act together.

uote author=Tbadbad post=98242162]Hello everyone, ‘my story is long but I will skip some to try to make it short, sorry for my grammatical error, I am not a writer and I am writing with pains and I might made some mistakes, please bear with me.

I have been dating my wife to be since 2017, I have been taking care of her and everything, the truth is I was hearing some funny stuff about her since I met her but I didn’t take it serious because I trusted her and I really thought she was decent from every other girls.

When I met her, she told me she had only dated 3 boys for have sex only three times, her first boyfriend and two other girls she met in school. I really believed her because she was acting decent.

At a point I began to suspect her when I started hearing some stuff about her but I didn’t pay attention because I trusted her, sometimes when I asked her if she ever dated some one else or cheating on me, she will just turn the whole thing to quarrel and I will just lock up.

Fast forward to 2020, I got her pregnant before I left Nigeria, we did introductions, but she lost the baby during child birth which was so painful to us, but after some month I begin to hear some news about her, and I confronted her and threatened her that I have proof, which she confess to me that she has dated about 3 boys, slept with them several times, she also bleeped 2 girls just once and they didn’t date, she just had crush on them and bleeped them before she met me, and she cheated on me when she found out I was chatting with my ex’s, she couldn’t bear the pains even after begging her, sex her and still give her money to school, the same week she met a guy and bleeped him because she wanted to ease her pains, and 2019 when we had little quarrel, she met a guy and bleeped twice because she thought we broke up (what happened was that we had little argument and I have her money to sch and we didn’t talk for a week, that week she met a guy and stayed dated him because she thought we broke up).

I was heart broken when she told me, and I wanted to brk up, her parents begged me and they never supported her and they were even surprised she could do such thing because she came from a very decent background. I forgave her but I still have the pains in my heart, we always chat everyday, because of corona things are some how and I don’t have money like before, she begins to show me some attitude which is not really comfortable and I explain things to her and she apologized.

So last month she told me since I left she have been having sexual urge to sleep with a girl because she have been watching lesbian porn, that she promised never to cheat on me with a man and it’s taboo but she wanted to have sex with a female, I was so shocked and didn’t know what to do. She said she just started having the strange feelings because she have been watching lesbian porn since I left, I feel like I don’t know anything about her, I wanted to brk up now because she is begging me and she is saying she is just trying to be truthful to me because she promised herself never to hide anything from me or lie to me. What should I do? Should I continue to be with her and marry her? Or run away? Mine she have never slept with a woman before and she has always hated lesbian but because I have been a way since feb 2020, she usually watch porn to help herself. Pls what should I do?[/quote]

The girl matter strong no be small.

God no go let my brother or friend marry this kind of woman.

I even reject her for you @op.

It may be very difficult for me to say this to you Bro! But i have to be frank with you. In your best intrest, you have to put an end to that relationship. She may be doing all the confesions for three basic reasons: 1* because of her family and the introduction, 2* because she's staying in your house, which now is a save Haven for her, and 3* because you are abroad and maybe, very prospective. She's not gonna change, and if she ever will, you are not the best person for such, because of the contempt and faulty foundation. Just ask one of your relative to get your keys from her. This may be my worst advice ever, as i never want to hear or see breakups. But ofcourse, a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage. You have the yam and the knive.

Tbadbad:
Please you all should stop speaking in parable and give me advice , since October , I have been drinking and start smoking sometin I have never done before , I’m not myself anymore , I’m confused and don’t know what decisions to take

RUN BRO !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Tbadbad:
I mean when I met her, she said she only dated 3 guys and have sex only 3 times ,her first boyfriend and 2 other boys, not girls please

Na by force? Move on with your life women dey everywhere

This your story is just too long abeg.... forget about her and move on with your life biko

Where u see this one pick?

Bros,SHE HAS SLEPT WITH THE LADY ALREADY,she is just preparing you for when/if u hear it outside,why would you marry anyone who has cheated on you this many times and is BISEXUAL? Ehn?

If she's telling you now then she's doing it already.

Me nor just understand why some people go just create problem and unnecessary headache for demselves for this modern day...wey na woman wey go give person peace of mind we dey find...dis one wan find trouble for himself

Tell her to slow down make una no get accident please. Slow and steady wins the race!

Tbadbad:
Please you all should stop speaking in parable and give me advice , since October , I have been drinking and start smoking sometin I have never done before , I’m not myself anymore , I’m confused and don’t know what decisions to take

Bro, you dont need to destroy your life for a cheat... She has been playing you for long as she sees you as fool... Thank God that no child between the 2 of you and no legal marriage... Just leave her, focus on your life and get another reasonable lady out there... I wish you best of luck