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acesboy:
op if I were you I will take this advice

Drsnives:
Wake up young man, which other advice do you need, Isn't it obvious that your relationship was built on lies? You better focus on the reason you travelled abroad and forget her totally.
As for your house she's staying, if it's just a rented appartmet then free her till the rent expires if she can continue footing the bills herself fine, if not then she should seek accomodation somewhere else. But if it's your own personal building then tell her to vacate it that your brother/sister/parents or relations wants to make use of it shikina and then block her line asap cos o ce a cheat always a cheat.

op if I were you I will take this advice

Guy if you continue with this nonsense, you will only be digging ur own grave.

Tbadbad:
Hello everyone, ‘my story is long but I will skip some to try to make it short, sorry for my grammatical error, I am not a writer and I am writing with pains and I might made some mistakes, please bear with me.

I have been dating my wife to be since 2017, I have been taking care of her and everything, the truth is I was hearing some funny stuff about her since I met her but I didn’t take it serious because I trusted her and I really thought she was decent from every other girls.

When I met her, she told me she had only dated 3 boys for have sex only three times, her first boyfriend and two other girls she met in school. I really believed her because she was acting decent.

At a point I began to suspect her when I started hearing some stuff about her but I didn’t pay attention because I trusted her, sometimes when I asked her if she ever dated some one else or cheating on me, she will just turn the whole thing to quarrel and I will just lock up.

Fast forward to 2020, I got her pregnant before I left Nigeria, we did introductions, but she lost the baby during child birth which was so painful to us, but after some month I begin to hear some news about her, and I confronted her and threatened her that I have proof, which she confess to me that she has dated about 3 boys, slept with them several times, she also bleeped 2 girls just once and they didn’t date, she just had crush on them and bleeped them before she met me, and she cheated on me when she found out I was chatting with my ex’s, she couldn’t bear the pains even after begging her, sex her and still give her money to school, the same week she met a guy and bleeped him because she wanted to ease her pains, and 2019 when we had little quarrel, she met a guy and bleeped twice because she thought we broke up (what happened was that we had little argument and I have her money to sch and we didn’t talk for a week, that week she met a guy and stayed dated him because she thought we broke up).

I was heart broken when she told me, and I wanted to brk up, her parents begged me and they never supported her and they were even surprised she could do such thing because she came from a very decent background. I forgave her but I still have the pains in my heart, we always chat everyday, because of corona things are some how and I don’t have money like before, she begins to show me some attitude which is not really comfortable and I explain things to her and she apologized.

So last month she told me since I left she have been having sexual urge to sleep with a girl because she have been watching lesbian porn, that she promised never to cheat on me with a man and it’s taboo but she wanted to have sex with a female, I was so shocked and didn’t know what to do. She said she just started having the strange feelings because she have been watching lesbian porn since I left, I feel like I don’t know anything about her, I wanted to brk up now because she is begging me and she is saying she is just trying to be truthful to me because she promised herself never to hide anything from me or lie to me. What should I do? Should I continue to be with her and marry her? Or run away? Mine she have never slept with a woman before and she has always hated lesbian but because I have been a way since feb 2020, she usually watch porn to help herself. Pls what should I do?

You are feeling guilty for the crime of a low life?

Tbadbad:
Hello everyone, ‘my story is long but I will skip some to try to make it short, sorry for my grammatical error, I am not a writer and I am writing with pains and I might made some mistakes, please bear with me.

I have been dating my wife to be since 2017, I have been taking care of her and everything, the truth is I was hearing some funny stuff about her since I met her but I didn’t take it serious because I trusted her and I really thought she was decent from every other girls.

When I met her, she told me she had only dated 3 boys for have sex only three times, her first boyfriend and two other girls she met in school. I really believed her because she was acting decent.

At a point I began to suspect her when I started hearing some stuff about her but I didn’t pay attention because I trusted her, sometimes when I asked her if she ever dated some one else or cheating on me, she will just turn the whole thing to quarrel and I will just lock up.

Fast forward to 2020, I got her pregnant before I left Nigeria, we did introductions, but she lost the baby during child birth which was so painful to us, but after some month I begin to hear some news about her, and I confronted her and threatened her that I have proof, which she confess to me that she has dated about 3 boys, slept with them several times, she also bleeped 2 girls just once and they didn’t date, she just had crush on them and bleeped them before she met me, and she cheated on me when she found out I was chatting with my ex’s, she couldn’t bear the pains even after begging her, sex her and still give her money to school, the same week she met a guy and bleeped him because she wanted to ease her pains, and 2019 when we had little quarrel, she met a guy and bleeped twice because she thought we broke up (what happened was that we had little argument and I have her money to sch and we didn’t talk for a week, that week she met a guy and stayed dated him because she thought we broke up).

I was heart broken when she told me, and I wanted to brk up, her parents begged me and they never supported her and they were even surprised she could do such thing because she came from a very decent background. I forgave her but I still have the pains in my heart, we always chat everyday, because of corona things are some how and I don’t have money like before, she begins to show me some attitude which is not really comfortable and I explain things to her and she apologized.

So last month she told me since I left she have been having sexual urge to sleep with a girl because she have been watching lesbian porn, that she promised never to cheat on me with a man and it’s taboo but she wanted to have sex with a female, I was so shocked and didn’t know what to do. She said she just started having the strange feelings because she have been watching lesbian porn since I left, I feel like I don’t know anything about her, I wanted to brk up now because she is begging me and she is saying she is just trying to be truthful to me because she promised herself never to hide anything from me or lie to me. What should I do? Should I continue to be with her and marry her? Or run away? Mine she have never slept with a woman before and she has always hated lesbian but because I have been a way since feb 2020, she usually watch porn to help herself. Pls what should I do?

Are you expecting us to ask you to leave yiyr wife? Bros kwontinue with her but while on it, you use your tongue to count your teeth.


Besides tell your tell your parents about it and tsje whatever advice they give you.

peoples have said all what I have to said, but that lady didn't Worth you,reasons is she didn't tell you the truth from the beginning, she is acting decent to get you down to marry her,experts won't tell you this and sex with her has bond your feeling for her and her future character will make you regrets it.
I wish you all the best but choose carefully.

I am a lady but truth be told, do not kill yourself because of a woman by drinking and smoking unless you are into it.You know her better ,if you can deal with her attitude especially introduction of lesbianism, guy its left to you but one thing I want to let you know, marriage is a life time occupation unless you are ready to divorce anytime, anyday

Tbadbad:
Hello everyone, ‘my story is long but I will skip some to try to make it short, sorry for my grammatical error, I am not a writer and I am writing with pains and I might made some mistakes, please bear with me.

I have been dating my wife to be since 2017, I have been taking care of her and everything, the truth is I was hearing some funny stuff about her since I met her but I didn’t take it serious because I trusted her and I really thought she was decent from every other girls.

When I met her, she told me she had only dated 3 boys for have sex only three times, her first boyfriend and two other girls she met in school. I really believed her because she was acting decent.

At a point I began to suspect her when I started hearing some stuff about her but I didn’t pay attention because I trusted her, sometimes when I asked her if she ever dated some one else or cheating on me, she will just turn the whole thing to quarrel and I will just lock up.

Fast forward to 2020, I got her pregnant before I left Nigeria, we did introductions, but she lost the baby during child birth which was so painful to us, but after some month I begin to hear some news about her, and I confronted her and threatened her that I have proof, which she confess to me that she has dated about 3 boys, slept with them several times, she also bleeped 2 girls just once and they didn’t date, she just had crush on them and bleeped them before she met me, and she cheated on me when she found out I was chatting with my ex’s, she couldn’t bear the pains even after begging her, sex her and still give her money to school, the same week she met a guy and bleeped him because she wanted to ease her pains, and 2019 when we had little quarrel, she met a guy and bleeped twice because she thought we broke up (what happened was that we had little argument and I have her money to sch and we didn’t talk for a week, that week she met a guy and stayed dated him because she thought we broke up).

I was heart broken when she told me, and I wanted to brk up, her parents begged me and they never supported her and they were even surprised she could do such thing because she came from a very decent background. I forgave her but I still have the pains in my heart, we always chat everyday, because of corona things are some how and I don’t have money like before, she begins to show me some attitude which is not really comfortable and I explain things to her and she apologized.

So last month she told me since I left she have been having sexual urge to sleep with a girl because she have been watching lesbian porn, that she promised never to cheat on me with a man and it’s taboo but she wanted to have sex with a female, I was so shocked and didn’t know what to do. She said she just started having the strange feelings because she have been watching lesbian porn since I left, I feel like I don’t know anything about her, I wanted to brk up now because she is begging me and she is saying she is just trying to be truthful to me because she promised herself never to hide anything from me or lie to me. What should I do? Should I continue to be with her and marry her? Or run away? Mine she have never slept with a woman before and she has always hated lesbian but because I have been a way since feb 2020, she usually watch porn to help herself. Pls what should I do?

You are a complete mad man for coming here to ask stupid questions.

You are foolish.

Marry her and live the rest of your life in regrets.

Tbadbad:
This is deep, please what should I do? I am confused, she is in my house right now in Nigeria, this is some one I have her house and everything,

Guy free this babe now that it's still morning, I'm Glad you haven't had a baby with her yet, THIS IS BIG RED FLAG, RUN FOR YOUR LIFE.

theForth:
i think you're the one who isn't okay, a purveyor of feministic ideal, yet here you are castigating a woman because she's a bisexual. I thought people(men) aren't supposed to tell and judge women on the choices they deem fit?

Now I'm sure you aren't OK. I'm not a feminist. Get lost.

That your babe is a lesbian simple and short, and they never change, even if you give her heaven and earth she'll still bleep girls. Be truthful to yourself, you love her too much to leave her, that's your problem... Well it's up to you, if you can manage the emotional trauma in future, then go ahead

It baffles me when people will see a problem and don't know how to walk away from one. What advice do you want again? Can't you advice yourself this new year.?
A broken courtship is better than a broken marriage. Advice yourself if you want to live long because your partner will either make you or break you. For your info your partner is a lesbian.

Tbadbad:
Hello everyone, ‘my story is long but I will skip some to try to make it short, sorry for my grammatical error, I am not a writer and I am writing with pains and I might made some mistakes, please bear with me.

I have been dating my wife to be since 2017, I have been taking care of her and everything, the truth is I was hearing some funny stuff about her since I met her but I didn’t take it serious because I trusted her and I really thought she was decent from every other girls.

When I met her, she told me she had only dated 3 boys for have sex only three times, her first boyfriend and two other girls she met in school. I really believed her because she was acting decent.

At a point I began to suspect her when I started hearing some stuff about her but I didn’t pay attention because I trusted her, sometimes when I asked her if she ever dated some one else or cheating on me, she will just turn the whole thing to quarrel and I will just lock up.

Fast forward to 2020, I got her pregnant before I left Nigeria, we did introductions, but she lost the baby during child birth which was so painful to us, but after some month I begin to hear some news about her, and I confronted her and threatened her that I have proof, which she confess to me that she has dated about 3 boys, slept with them several times, she also bleeped 2 girls just once and they didn’t date, she just had crush on them and bleeped them before she met me, and she cheated on me when she found out I was chatting with my ex’s, she couldn’t bear the pains even after begging her, sex her and still give her money to school, the same week she met a guy and bleeped him because she wanted to ease her pains, and 2019 when we had little quarrel, she met a guy and bleeped twice because she thought we broke up (what happened was that we had little argument and I have her money to sch and we didn’t talk for a week, that week she met a guy and stayed dated him because she thought we broke up).

I was heart broken when she told me, and I wanted to brk up, her parents begged me and they never supported her and they were even surprised she could do such thing because she came from a very decent background. I forgave her but I still have the pains in my heart, we always chat everyday, because of corona things are some how and I don’t have money like before, she begins to show me some attitude which is not really comfortable and I explain things to her and she apologized.

So last month she told me since I left she have been having sexual urge to sleep with a girl because she have been watching lesbian porn, that she promised never to cheat on me with a man and it’s taboo but she wanted to have sex with a female, I was so shocked and didn’t know what to do. She said she just started having the strange feelings because she have been watching lesbian porn since I left, I feel like I don’t know anything about her, I wanted to brk up now because she is begging me and she is saying she is just trying to be truthful to me because she promised herself never to hide anything from me or lie to me. What should I do? Should I continue to be with her and marry her? Or run away? Mine she have never slept with a woman before and she has always hated lesbian but because I have been a way since feb 2020, she usually watch porn to help herself. Pls what should I do?

You and the girl live your lives in sexual recklessness.

I see decent in your write up. I don't see decency in both of you.

Seek Jesus, repent and live a pure life.

pyyxxaro:
Just barbecue her


Contact MANNABBQGRILL , he would DHL the spices to you

Lol

MejiLoyon:
She wants to marry because women are meant to marry. A lesbian will never change. Never. Marry her and be ready to cope with cheating.

Marry her.
Heheheh

She wants to marry him because the African society is forcing people who aren't heterosexuals into heterosexual relationships. At the end, it backfires.

OP, it appears she's lesbian. I really don't see you having a happy marriage with her cause marriage doesn't change one's sexuality. But that's up to you to decide what you can condone and what you can't.

Sigh.... How do most of you people just sit in your dinghy rooms and cook up these dumb, tired and over-used stories?!! Like seriously now...

I guess y'all must actually believe the average Nairalander has an IQ lower than a mosquito's. Smh!!!

Omo... Did you just say she wan sleep with woman, Chai.... Mehn ur village pple don overtake you for express

TheUndercover:
You saw all these red flags and you still went on with the relationship? Some men are just evolutionary DUMB!.

I swear

Bro, even that porn she's watching is cheating. Best believe!

The truth be told... guy you didn't do well, how can you marry someone who have a kid for you and you left her since last year Feb ha ha bro its a way too long...body no be firewood now or can you tell us that you didn't bleep where you are since last year??she tried calling you to tell you how she feel and her urge...bro come home immediately to bleep ur wife or somebody will do it for you...you also have your fault if you want to divorce her, don't do that on the basis of cheating or her past...divorce her on the basis that you are tired ofbthe marriage...

The truth be told... guy you didn't do well, how can you marry someone who have a kid for you and you left her since last year Feb ha ha bro its a way too long...body no be firewood now or can you tell us that you didn't bleep where you are since last year??she tried calling you to tell you how she feel and her urge...bro come home immediately to bleep ur wife or somebody will do it for you...you also have your fault if you want to divorce her, don't do that on the basis of cheating or her past...divorce her on the basis that you are tired ofbthe marriage...

Tbadbad:
Please you all should stop speaking in parable and give me advice , since October , I have been drinking and start smoking sometin I have never done before , I’m not myself anymore , I’m confused and don’t know what decisions to take

I know what is holding u is because her parents begs u to for forgive her not necessarily u want the relationship. Deep within u, the relationship don do u.
Since u don indulge in some bad habits, bros disengage her for Ur sanity.

u need to be smart and know how to mind Bleep people. girlfriend included. when i met one of my gf, i made her to feel i was ok with a girl that has bleeped so many guys than a girl that have bleeped a few guys. once she knew i was ok wth this, i asked her to tell me how many guys she has bleeped, she gave ma a list. i knew they where more. i pushed the game further. first i made it look like she was the type i really wanted. this made her so comfortable to a point where she told me how many guys she bleeped and where she bleeped them. the most mportant part of the discussion was when she said she stopped all the random Bleep like a year ago before meeting me now. well i wanted to be sure. i lured her with several guys and she declined. most times she even came home to tell me what happened etc. now this was how i knew she is changed for good. we have been dating for years. you guys need to know how to mind Bleep these hoes mind if not na arm robber moto una go enter

Run for your life bro

The truth be told... guy you didn't do well, how can you marry someone who have a kid for you and you left her since last year Feb ha ha bro its a way too long...body no be firewood now or can you tell us that you didn't bleep where you are since last year??she tried calling you to tell you how she feel and her urge...bro come home immediately to bleep ur wife or somebody will do it for you...you also have your fault if you want to divorce her, don't do that on the basis of cheating or her past...divorce her on the basis that you are tired ofbthe marriage...

PAWG:
...and I thought I had problems


I have been single and celibate for almost a year and I like it laidat. I can’t allow any babe to come and mess with my mind like this brother is suffering. Damn

I envy you bro .

I didn't read your full story but if you have doubts...RUN!!!

The truth be told... guy you didn't do well, how can you marry someone who have a kid for you and you left her since last year Feb ha ha bro its a way too long...body no be firewood now or can you tell us that you didn't bleep where you are since last year??she tried calling you to tell you how she feel and her urge...bro come home immediately to bleep ur wife or somebody will do it for you...you also have your fault if you want to divorce her, don't do that on the basis of cheating or her past...divorce her on the basis that you are tired ofbthe marriage...

Tbadbad:
Hello everyone, ‘my story is long but I will skip some to try to make it short, sorry for my grammatical error, I am not a writer and I am writing with pains and I might made some mistakes, please bear with me.

I have been dating my wife to be since 2017, I have been taking care of her and everything, the truth is I was hearing some funny stuff about her since I met her but I didn’t take it serious because I trusted her and I really thought she was decent from every other girls.

When I met her, she told me she had only dated 3 boys for have sex only three times, her first boyfriend and two other girls she met in school. I really believed her because she was acting decent.

At a point I began to suspect her when I started hearing some stuff about her but I didn’t pay attention because I trusted her, sometimes when I asked her if she ever dated some one else or cheating on me, she will just turn the whole thing to quarrel and I will just lock up.

Fast forward to 2020, I got her pregnant before I left Nigeria, we did introductions, but she lost the baby during child birth which was so painful to us, but after some month I begin to hear some news about her, and I confronted her and threatened her that I have proof, which she confess to me that she has dated about 3 boys, slept with them several times, she also bleeped 2 girls just once and they didn’t date, she just had crush on them and bleeped them before she met me, and she cheated on me when she found out I was chatting with my ex’s, she couldn’t bear the pains even after begging her, sex her and still give her money to school, the same week she met a guy and bleeped him because she wanted to ease her pains, and 2019 when we had little quarrel, she met a guy and bleeped twice because she thought we broke up (what happened was that we had little argument and I have her money to sch and we didn’t talk for a week, that week she met a guy and stayed dated him because she thought we broke up).

I was heart broken when she told me, and I wanted to brk up, her parents begged me and they never supported her and they were even surprised she could do such thing because she came from a very decent background. I forgave her but I still have the pains in my heart, we always chat everyday, because of corona things are some how and I don’t have money like before, she begins to show me some attitude which is not really comfortable and I explain things to her and she apologized.

So last month she told me since I left she have been having sexual urge to sleep with a girl because she have been watching lesbian porn, that she promised never to cheat on me with a man and it’s taboo but she wanted to have sex with a female, I was so shocked and didn’t know what to do. She said she just started having the strange feelings because she have been watching lesbian porn since I left, I feel like I don’t know anything about her, I wanted to brk up now because she is begging me and she is saying she is just trying to be truthful to me because she promised herself never to hide anything from me or lie to me. What should I do? Should I continue to be with her and marry her? Or run away? Mine she have never slept with a woman before and she has always hated lesbian but because I have been a way since feb 2020, she usually watch porn to help herself. Pls what should I do?

which kind idiot you dey date self...
She knows no other thing apart from sex.. Why wtf??
This girl won't add anthing to your life dump her!!

Orishirishi something ... If u feel u deserve long life, now is the time to lay the foundation. No sentiments. You know with this girl, your life is like a bird perching on a tin rope. You will dance surugede for the rest of your life. U can choose a problematic life or a fairly decent life. The choice remains yours. Don't let it get late

Chii59:
Now I'm sure you aren't OK. I'm not a feminist. Get lost.

You're inconsequential in the scheme of things, I'd rather find something worth spending my time on miss " I am not a feminist".

Lesbians are the bomb! If she relates well with you sexually what is the fear about her being a lesbian. All these people condemning her for coming out straight with you could do worse if they find themselves in her shoes. Not many women will be able to stay without s*x for one full year. She is just being human and open to you. Afterall, she is not doing it with a man.