Zabiboy:

My bro @ real4real2021,
What you need now is action man...Even if you read all the books recommended here, it wont mean so much if you dont go out there...
The Uni environment is the best atmosphere to be socially active because you would meet most of your colleagues in a later time...
Anyways, my Own advice is for you to download this book " Rules of the Game" by Neil Strauss....forget about the name, the book is just 30 Missions, 1 for each day, for people like you....
The Missions would make you socially active while you are still self-developing and no other better environment to do this than the University..
You can still be reading other recommended books while on the mission too
Goodluck man..

Thanks bro, you're right I need more action now.
Tho we've not resume yet, I will just find way to start even at home.
But please I couldn't find the book, the one on pdfdrive ain't downloading.
Can you mail it to me at **** pls

Richandcuteguy:


The abundance mindset is the most underrated tool for liberation.

All what you are going through today is because you had the scarcity mindset so you allowed the next available lady entangle you but you did not realize that there are women everywhere. Even better if you are able to become successful or even average then your options will be limitless if that’s your thing although becoming successful for the sake of women is a very very very shallow way of thinking

Think about this. Men want females. Females want resources. What does it imply? Simple, means resources are superior and every woman knows this but men are somehow oblivious to this. They work their ass off only to hand it over to mere body parts. I can imagine how the females would be laughing at us. Same way your hand is to you is same way that ass and boobs are to her.

Imagine someone splashing resources on you just for your hand?

I consider one of my superpowers to be the fact that I am able to kill off any desire for marriage. That shit slows men down. Think of any rich married man you know and imagine how much richer they would be if not married?

Hmmmmmm
This statement really touched me this morning.
As if the message is for me. Sometimes, i do think how far i would have gone if single.
Most feminist say that marriage is like slavery to women but the truth is that marriage is more of slavery and bondage to men.
How will you work all your life for others - mostly wife, kids, gfs, inlaws etc
I make close to 10m per year but hardly buy clothes or things for myself worth 100k per year. Don't even remember the last time i took myself out or do good shopping.
It's always from one bill to other, unending bills waiting at the end of the month to attend to.
Also, when a man dies, a woman who came into the marriage with a one suitcase will now co-own your house, other properties, cars, money and feminist say it is slavery to women?
For this comment, bro drop your number let me send you 2k recharge card this morning

Goddys:
I stopped picking my girlfriend's call and told her I needed space for sometime. She stopped contacting me.

I think it is imperative for all redpillers to checkmate their feelings for a woman by so doing.

I have gone two weeks without communicating with her and I feel good about it because I intend to start a relationship afresh with another woman.

I took the decision after swallowing alot of redpills here.

A real man should be in control of his feelings and emotions. When you realize that your emotions is overwhelming your logical part, take a break or break up with her.

There is no good woman. They are unlike men. Don't be deceived. They are all manipulative consciously or unconsciously.

i did the same last month, told her i need break.

Pls bossess... I want to start gyming but there are no gym facilities in my area..

Any idea how else I can exercise and build body mass(I'm skinny)

Thanks

Breaking up with your girlfriend hasn't solve the main problem which is the fact that you are yet to get your emotions under control.
You have to work on yourself as a man so that you will be ready to handle your next relationship better.
Inasmuch as we are all learning TRP,you don't go about breaking up with ladies when we haven't sorted out ur emotional insecurities.
The only time your advice will hold weight is when the lady in question comes with a lot of baggage which you have finally discovered to be exerting a lot of strain on you by being in the relationship.
We men have to be responsible too and not think it's only the woman's fault.thats the point am trying to make.

Goddys:
I stopped picking my girlfriend's call and told her I needed space for sometime. She stopped contacting me.

I think it is imperative for all redpillers to checkmate their feelings for a woman by so doing.

I have gone two weeks without communicating with her and I feel good about it because I intend to start a relationship afresh with another woman.

I took the decision after swallowing alot of redpills here.

A real man should be in control of his feelings and emotions. When you realize that your emotions is overwhelming your logical part, take a break or break up with her.

There is no good woman. They are unlike men. Don't be deceived. They are all manipulative consciously or unconsciously.

ubunja:
actually Ubunja is the opposite of Ubuntu. Where Ubuntu means humanity or humankindness and dignity towards fellow man, ubunja means doglike behavior, treachery and general assholeness. It was an intentionally disguiting moniker from my 2go days circa 2010 when I first embarked on spreading redpill truth but in South Africa.


Thanks man. God bless.

So those haters who were calling you asshole and other derogatory names were just calling your moniker but in other words?

Explains why you were never agitated.

Hater: Ubunja is a poor asshole, a stupid dog.

ubunja: how did you know that's what it means? Flesh and blood didn't reveal this...

emmaodet:
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Hmmmmmm
This statement really touched me this morning.
As if the message is for me. Sometimes, i do think how far i would have gone if single.
Most feminist say that marriage is like slavery to women but the truth is that marriage is more of slavery and bondage to men.
How will you work all your life for others - mostly wife, kids, gfs, inlaws etc
I make close to 10m per year but hardly buy clothes or things for myself worth 100k per year. Don't even remember the last time i took myself out or do good shopping.
It's always from one bill to other, unending bills waiting at the end of the month to attend to.
Also, when a man dies, a woman who came into the marriage with a one suitcase will now co-own your house, other properties, cars, money and feminist say it is slavery to women?
For this comment, bro drop your number let me send you 2k recharge card this morning

Thanks a lot buddy for the offer. Based off of your intention, consider it that you have done me a kind deed already and I am grateful.

Indeed, a successful man is more or less a retirement savings account for women. When the man is spent, his offspring which the woman must have brainwashed that she played a more pivotal role in their upbringing, will take over from where the man stopped. It’s a win-win for them.

I feel your pain but for what it’s worth, you have a peaceful home. A lot of people are in abusive and turbulent marriages that have stripped them of their identity and whatever youthful pride they once associated themselves with.

Regret will serve you no purpose at this time except to drain you emotionally. You would do yourself more justice at this point if you continue to remain self aware. I know there are red pilled ways of dealing with marriages and long term relationships.

I’d say this though, take care of yourself, your health, your mind and your body!

Hustle2flex:
Breaking up with your girlfriend hasn't solve the main problem which is the fact that you are yet to get your emotions under control.
You have to work on yourself as a man so that you will be ready to handle your next relationship better.
Inasmuch as we are all learning TRP,you don't go about breaking up with ladies when we haven't sorted out ur emotional insecurities.
The only time your advice will hold weight is when the lady in question comes with a lot of baggage which you have finally discovered to be exerting a lot of strain on you by being in the relationship.
We men have to be responsible too and not think it's only the woman's fault.thats the point am trying to make.

ds rite here, both genders are guilty of, breaking up wit som1 and gerring it on with som1 else and not working on themselves in the process, what's wrong with being alone for a while, chill and focus on otha things, there's more to this world than relationships amd sex

Hustle2flex:
Breaking up with your girlfriend hasn't solve the main problem which is the fact that you are yet to get your emotions under control.
You have to work on yourself as a man so that you will be ready to handle your next relationship better.
Inasmuch as we are all learning TRP,you don't go about breaking up with ladies when we haven't sorted out ur emotional insecurities.
The only time your advice will hold weight is when the lady in question comes with a lot of baggage which you have finally discovered to be exerting a lot of strain on you by being in the relationship.
We men have to be responsible too and not think it's only the woman's fault.thats the point am trying to make.

If taking a break or breaking up with her gives a man the control he needed, it served the purpose. You cannot tell a man to stay in a relationship and be forming alpha and logical when he is clearly trying to let go any manner of emotions he has for the woman that interferes in decision making.

Redpills is all about men being in total control and being logical at every moment in a relationship without being swayed by emotions.

If you are spending more on your woman than you spend on your mom, believe me, you are no different than a SIMP. They are all women but the difference is that the latter is biological and nurtured you.

When you can't handle it, take a break or break up. There is no shame in that.

emmaodet:
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Hmmmmmm
This statement really touched me this morning.
As if the message is for me. Sometimes, i do think how far i would have gone if single.
Most feminist say that marriage is like slavery to women but the truth is that marriage is more of slavery and bondage to men.
How will you work all your life for others - mostly wife, kids, gfs, inlaws etc
I make close to 10m per year but hardly buy clothes or things for myself worth 100k per year. Don't even remember the last time i took myself out or do good shopping.
It's always from one bill to other, unending bills waiting at the end of the month to attend to.
Also, when a man dies, a woman who came into the marriage with a one suitcase will now co-own your house, other properties, cars, money and feminist say it is slavery to women?
For this comment, bro drop your number let me send you 2k recharge card this morning

You're right bro.
This is same thinking disturbing me recently after I make a calculation and discover I have paid not less than 25m on school fees alone for the past 12yeras, and see me sometime now broke even looking for common 10k.
My current solution is to divert some fund for self development, care and enjoyment. Even if the urge is not there I will surely force it.
My new motto is SELF FIRST.

You are still at the anger phase of TRP and you still have much to learn.
Let's leave this discussion at that

Goddys:


If taking a break or breaking up with her gives me the control I needed, it serves the purpose. You cannot tell a man to stay in a relationship and be forming alpha and logical when he is clearly trying to let go any manner of emotions he has for the woman that interferes in decision making.

Redpills is all about men being in total control and being logical at every moment in a relationship without being swayed by emotions.

If you are spending more on your woman than what you spend on your mom, believe me, you are no different than a SIMP. They are all women but the difference is that the latter is biological and nurtured you.

When you can't handle it, take a break or break up. There is no shame in that.

.

L.

emmaodet:
[/b]

Hmmmmmm
This statement really touched me this morning.
As if the message is for me. Sometimes, i do think how far i would have gone if single.
Most feminist say that marriage is like slavery to women but the truth is that marriage is more of slavery and bondage to men.
How will you work all your life for others - mostly wife, kids, gfs, inlaws etc
I make close to 10m per year but hardly buy clothes or things for myself worth 100k per year. Don't even remember the last time i took myself out or do good shopping.[b][/b]
It's always from one bill to other, unending bills waiting at the end of the month to attend to.
Also, when a man dies, a woman who came into the marriage with a one suitcase will now co-own your house, other properties, cars, money and feminist say it is slavery to women?
For this comment, bro drop your number let me send you 2k recharge card this morning

They say the Man is expendable....Now I got the meaning in a deeper level.

luminouz:


So what is your solution to these problems?

Bro I'm blank for now

I collected a girl's number yesterday and she was so happy and was trying to hide her smile.
I met her 5 months ago, where I went to improve my graphics design skill (the place had constant supply of electricity), then I was still stuck in the anger phase of the red pill, so I was very snobby, I noticed that she had an high influx of attention from guys and always talking about how one guy or the other is asking her out, here I saw the extent of the thirsty nature of beta males, as they were always offering her financial help and gifts even when she refuses.
As I came there, I didn't even give her one kobo attention, she started trying to get my attention, she said I don't reply her greetings and I told her I do answer her greetings, except she is looking to receive special greetings from me, special greetings which I don't have to give, the look on her face was golden, I no send I just continue my attitude.
I was going there everyday, and everyday she tried getting my attention, trying to engage me in conversations, but I just give short answers and end the conversation. It was strange to her, I guess she was wondering if something was wrong with me, cus I was the only one not giving a Bleep about her existence. I must confess, it felt so good doing that, depriving her of attention.
Then came a shit test, she came to me that she was hungry, I said "OK? What should I do?" then one other guy was like "come lemme buy food for you" and I was like "follow him", she said no, that's it me that she wants to buy food for her, I just laughed and told her that she ain't hungry then, the other guy was still persistent on buying her food, so when she saw I wouldn't bulge, she went with him, she came back with snacks, and offered me the snacks, I collected it and ate it(lol, you cannot shame the shameless, moreover eating beta males money is sweet ehn).
Since then, she started looking at me differently, she had nothing but respect, one day she came to meet me and collected my number, I didn't even ask for hers in return, I just gave her mine and lock up.
Since last month I decided to get out of the anger phase, I started building relationships with ladies I knew, wanted to get to know women better from my experience, while applying the red pill tenets.
I started talking with her frequently whenever I went there, she was always giving me attention, she tried shit testing me alot of times, but I passed with flying colours, later she started becoming clingy, and giving me eye contact every time, I later decided to collect her number, as I asked her she just brought her phone out and called me with the number I gave her (if she had did any shakara, God knows I would have locked up and not collected again), she was so happy ehn.

With women the way up is the way down and the way right is the way left, doing obvious things will get you nowhere.
God bless the red pill.

ichidodo:
I stopped judging them but harnessed their "chi" to my advantage...I stopped pining after those I couldn't harness or stopped stressing myself on "The One" , because there's a lot of fishes in the Ocean....Due to my status and stand in life I had my own tribe, that is, those women that are liable to fall for you and fortunately for me Red pill gave me the clues on how to "chop and clean mouth" dodging and avoiding those wiles these women would put up...and so much more..But i envy you, to think of where I would be by now if was redpilled at age 20 just blows my mind...I could be a big time celebrity Heck even the President of United States or I could just be a normal guy but the possibilities is mind numbing.

I got d red pill last year when i was 15. I'm 16 now

.

Shit testing is real.

My girlfriend and I had a disagreement, in anger she asked me never to call her again. I called her twice she didn't pick.

For about two months we didn't call each other. This is a girl that always told me she can't do without me, LOL. I couldn't believe she could go that long because of how clingy she was. It's just recently she started sending messages and erotic picture may be to remind me of what I am missing. I miss those things but I ain't failing this test.

What happens is that at any point they keep their options open, so if you have disagreement they most likely be able to go as long as possible since there are other guys on their list.

If she doesn't come back, leave her. You have lost that one. Move on.

Emmynator:
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Then came a shit test, she came to me that she was hungry, I said "OK? What should I do?" then one other guy was like "come lemme buy food for you" and I was like "follow him", she said no, that's it me that she wants to buy food for her, I just laughed and told her that she ain't hungry then, the other guy was still persistent on buying her food, so when she saw I wouldn't bulge, she went with him, she came back with snacks, and offered me the snacks, I collected it and ate it (lol, you cannot shame the shameless

With women the way up is the way down and the way right is the way left, doing obvious things will get you nowhere.
God bless the red pill.

I literally rolled on the floor when I read that line. Lol! Oh boy! You mad o!

With women, the way up is the way down; the way right is the way left, doing obvious things will get you nowhere: A powerful quote indeed!

Emmynator:
I collected a girl's number yesterday and she was so happy and was trying to hide her smile.
I met her 5 months ago, where I went to improve my graphics design skill (the place had constant supply of electricity), then I was still stuck in the anger phase of the red pill, so I was very snobby, I noticed that she had an high influx of attention from guys and always talking about how one guy or the other is asking her out, here I saw the extent of the thirsty nature of beta males, as they were always offering her financial help and gifts even when she refuses.
As I came there, I didn't even give her one kobo attention, she started trying to get my attention, she said I don't reply her greetings and I told her I do answer her greetings, except she is looking to receive special greetings from me, special greetings which I don't have to give, the look on her face was golden, I no send I just continue my attitude.
I was going there everyday, and everyday she tried getting my attention, trying to engage me in conversations, but I just give short answers and end the conversation. It was strange to her, I guess she was wondering if something was wrong with me, cus I was the only one not giving a Bleep about her existence. I must confess, it felt so good doing that, depriving her of attention.
Then came a shit test, she came to me that she was hungry, I said "OK? What should I do?" then one other guy was like "come lemme buy food for you" and I was like "follow him", she said no, that's it me that she wants to buy food for her, I just laughed and told her that she ain't hungry then, the other guy was still persistent on buying her food, so when she saw I wouldn't bulge, she went with him, she came back with snacks, and offered me the snacks, I collected it and ate it(lol, you cannot shame the shameless, moreover eating beta males money is sweet ehn).
Since then, she started looking at me differently, she had nothing but respect, one day she came to meet me and collected my number, I didn't even ask for hers in return, I just gave her mine and lock up.
Since last month I decided to get out of the anger phase, I started building relationships with ladies I knew, wanted to get to know women better from my experience, while applying the red pill tenets.
I started talking with her frequently whenever I went there, she was always giving me attention, she tried shit testing me alot of times, but I passed with flying colours, later she started becoming clingy, and giving me eye contact every time, I later decided to collect her number, as I asked her she just brought her phone out and called me with the number I gave her (if she had did any shakara, God knows I would have locked up and not collected again), she was so happy ehn.

With women the way up is the way down and the way right is the way left, doing obvious things will get you nowhere.
God bless the red pill.

It seems one common thing in the anger phase after coming in contact with TRP is to snob women, I am still in my anger phase and I just ignore women. I do as if I can't see them. I saw my secondary school class mate recently and I didn't even go and greet her. I saw her from afar and I just looked away and did as if I never saw anything.

Regex:


So those haters who were calling you asshole and other derogatory names were just calling your moniker but in other words?

Explains why you were never agitated.

Hater: Ubunja is a poor asshole, a stupid dog.

ubunja: how did you know that's what it means? Flesh and blood didn't reveal this...

if you insult yourself first no insult from anyone else will ever touch you. It's something I learnt.

ubunja:
if you insult yourself first no insult from anyone else will ever touch you. It's something I learnt.

Words.

Chii59:

I'm upset because you guys remind me of who I was, before I found peace.
I know what it means to be hurt, to hold on to my pain. To be lied to, to be deceived, TO BE HEARTBROKEN.
It saddens me to see a bunch of young men living in the past.

And I know that society expects men to be tough, but pain is pain. The world expects you to suck it up, and "be a man". That's bullshit.t. You all have emotions, even if you don't show it.
That's why I know that even among you, several have been hurt by women in the past.
You need to get yourself together and move on.
Hating women, assuming we're hoes won't heal your wound!

We are not here because we have been hurt (victims) but because we are men. Why are you here?

ubunja:
if you insult yourself first no insult from anyone else will ever touch you. It's something I learnt.

Damn dis guy here is d real MVP

How do you get out of the anger phase
In fact I don't know what is wrong with me
Is it just anger or am I beginning to hate women
I've been reading a lot about red pill from well experienced men and I've also been reading stories about men that have undergone hell at the hands of women
If I see a woman outside I'll just start thinking
Liar
Cheat
Manipulator
Get away from me
Currently I don't have a girlfriend and I'm even beginning to cut ties with some of my female friends
Whenever I see a couple now
Oh lord

SOZINN:
How do you get out of the anger phase
In fact I don't know what is wrong with me
Is it just anger or am I beginning to hate women
I've been reading a lot about red pill from well experienced men and I've also been reading stories about men that have undergone hell at the hands of women
If I see a woman outside I'll just start thinking
Liar
Cheat
Manipulator
Get away from me
Currently I don't have a girlfriend and I'm even beginning to cut ties with some of my female friends
Whenever I see a couple now
Oh lord

Same thing with me though

I even go crazy with guys that worship their girlfriends... I don't gel with them anymore

Peaceyw:

It seems one common thing in the anger phase after coming in contact with TRP is to snob women, I am still in my anger phase and I just ignore women. I do as if I can't see them. I saw my secondary school class mate recently and I didn't even go and greet her. I saw her from afar and I just looked away and did as if I never saw anything.

I was in the anger stage for a little over 4 years, this thread helped me get over it, I got to scoop some knowledge from those far ahead of me in trp game, it was then I knew I was stuck.
Last month I decided to leave that phase, the goal is not to hate women, it is to be the best version of yourself and honestly being the best version of yourself naturally attracts women, and so the red pill arms you with tools necessary to deal with them.

emmaodet:
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Hmmmmmm
This statement really touched me this morning.
As if the message is for me. Sometimes, i do think how far i would have gone if single.
Most feminist say that marriage is like slavery to women but the truth is that marriage is more of slavery and bondage to men.
How will you work all your life for others - mostly wife, kids, gfs, inlaws etc
I make close to 10m per year but hardly buy clothes or things for myself worth 100k per year. Don't even remember the last time i took myself out or do good shopping.
It's always from one bill to other, unending bills waiting at the end of the month to attend to.
Also, when a man dies, a woman who came into the marriage with a one suitcase will now co-own your house, other properties, cars, money and feminist say it is slavery to women?
For this comment, bro drop your number let me send you 2k recharge card this morning

In the end, the woman will take the glory when her kids buy her car or build house for her. People seeing the gesture will automatically think that the father is useless and she single-handedly raised the kids. Not knowing that dem don use papa, he don wear off, and he's below 6 ft in the ground. If you live to see the day, they'll use "not bonding with the kids" to sideline you after years of slavery to take care of the kids. Before you see 40k from your kids, mama don see 500k. The funniest part is that you will still spend the 40k to take care of bills in the house while she spend her own money on herself.

Fatherhood is a thankless job

CaveAdullam:
I literally rolled on the floor when I read that line. Lol! Oh boy! You mad o!

With women, the way up is the way down; the way right is the way left, doing obvious things will get you nowhere: A powerful quote indeed!

Lol, i tell you.
When I was a simp, I thought doing this or that will get me women, imagine my shock when I realised it the opposite thing was actually going to work, that's why I value this quote.

Ablemax:


Thanks I will get them...

cool. WATCH POWER SERIES TOO.

Emmynator:

I was in the anger stage for a little over 4 years, this thread helped me get over it, I got to scoop some knowledge from those far ahead of me in trp game, it was then I knew I was stuck.
Last month I decided to leave that phase, the goal is not to hate women, it is to be the best version of yourself and honestly being the best version of yourself naturally attracts women, and so the red pill arms you with tools necessary to deal with them.

I hope to leave my anger phase soon tho.
But for now, lemme continue ignoring them