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Re: I Have Send N125,000 To Her But She Is Asking For More by Nobody: 9:29pm On Feb 02, 2021
SMH. This guy again and his fake stories.
Re: I Have Send N125,000 To Her But She Is Asking For More by InfernoNig: 10:04pm On Feb 02, 2021
lefulefu:
app don dey like that? cheesy
Most yahoo boys I know wey dey do dating scam mostly use their girlfriends to converse with the mugu
Yes na. Those small itel or tecno phone. One of my boy then use am dey run local.
Re: I Have Send N125,000 To Her But She Is Asking For More by Richsteemit: 10:18pm On Feb 02, 2021
Have you visit the oracle for brain reset?
Re: I Have Send N125,000 To Her But She Is Asking For More by Nobody: 10:20pm On Feb 02, 2021
InfernoNig:
Yes na. Those small itel or tecno phone. One of my boy then use am dey run local.
so if the maga request for video chat wetin Im dey tell them? cheesy
Re: I Have Send N125,000 To Her But She Is Asking For More by InfernoNig: 10:57pm On Feb 02, 2021
lefulefu:
so if the maga request for video chat wetin Im dey tell them? cheesy
Usual excuse na. Only take vid call at night when everywhere is dark, so they won't use light as excuse.
Re: I Have Send N125,000 To Her But She Is Asking For More by Arthurnna: 11:42pm On Feb 02, 2021
Frankraj:
I have really fall mugu , I meet this girl early January this year like like play like play she bill me house rent I gave her cos she said she loves me . As time goes on bill keep coming until the money I have sent her go to N125,000. Now she nags at me because I said I will send money again . She doesn't pick my calls anymore she only picks when she like . My brother I thought I can find a single good girl in Nigeria but right now I can tell you that there is no Good girl in Nigeria. All of them are tifs and scemmer
A girl asks you for financial help and you help her she takes for a marga or a full
Chaiii... they are "tifs" and "scemmer" u said??!!... Please shift,lemme faint .
Re: I Have Send N125,000 To Her But She Is Asking For More by Nobody: 2:54am On Feb 03, 2021
InfernoNig:
Usual excuse na. Only take vid call at night when everywhere is dark, so they won't use light as excuse.
if na me I go just jejeli block such a person cos I go know straight away na fake but most conjified fellows go still fall cheesy
Re: I Have Send N125,000 To Her But She Is Asking For More by Mrscarter(f): 3:16am On Feb 03, 2021
Frankraj:
I have really fall mugu , I meet this girl early January this year like like play like play she bill me house rent I gave her cos she said she loves me . As time goes on bill keep coming until the money I have sent her go to N125,000. Now she nags at me because I said I will send money again . She doesn't pick my calls anymore she only picks when she like . My brother I thought I can find a single good girl in Nigeria but right now I can tell you that there is no Good girl in Nigeria. All of them are tifs and scemmer
A girl asks you for financial help and you help her she takes for a marga or a full
The only girl U should date is a girl that seeks you out as U do her, seeks U out to spend time together and calls U as much as U do her and whom does not expect you to give her money or material things constantly.
If she's not picking your calls but expects money then she's not really into you.
There's good girls out there U just gotta have patience n you'll meet her
Re: I Have Send N125,000 To Her But She Is Asking For More by Mrscarter(f): 3:19am On Feb 03, 2021
Yusufisraelj:
My brother good ladies still exist, your approach was the problem,you never took time to see the lady for who she was. Sorry about the disappointed expectations.

Solutions

1. Forget about her and move on. Only deal with people who are genuinely interested in you, and keep money away from your relationship as much as possible especially during the beginning phaze, except if it's for investment and equally treat that differently from your relationship. You are not her father why should you be paying her bills when you are just knowing her.

2. Take time to be friends with ladies and know her mindset and how she sees life and her approach to life, you can't just fall in love just like that, you can admire at first, love follows after admiration, during that admiration stage get to know her before you profess love.

3. Know what you want,if you want a wife material, select a lady with those tendencies and attributes, character must come first, not physically appearance, that will matter but it should be the last point of consideration. Never date a lady that you don't think can raise your kids.


Haba, you just blow money bkos you hear love, guy nawa for you ooo, and pls ask God to help you,this relationship thing you need divine help, else devil go position nonsense for you.
Yep op listen to this guy he's wise
Re: I Have Send N125,000 To Her But She Is Asking For More by Nobody: 3:20am On Feb 03, 2021
This is why I just fucck and go. No love, no emotional attachment and no relationship whatsoever.
Re: I Have Send N125,000 To Her But She Is Asking For More by Mrscarter(f): 3:28am On Feb 03, 2021
iRepNaija1:
OP, please ignore the people insulting you and calling you names. We're human beings with feelings and you should never be made to feel ashamed for loving someone and showing that love through actions. That being said, this woman does not love you and is emotionally blackmailing you to get money from you. A relationship should not cause you unnecessary stress and this one is. So I know it might be hard but you need to cut her off completely and move on with your life. No more calls, texts, social media, etc. Take what happened in this relationship as a lesson learned and only give the amount of money you're comfortable with (meaning an amount you won't give a second thought to). There are users all around us, regardless of gender. Good luck.
Op listen to this guy too
Re: I Have Send N125,000 To Her But She Is Asking For More by Femzaremz(m): 6:22am On Feb 03, 2021
Sonnobax15:
no be your fault say mumu dey for your DNA.....Na just the way God create you pass....

Sometimes i tire 4 u christians so ur loving God/father in his infinite benevolence chose to make someone a MUMU! Wow 9ice God!
Re: I Have Send N125,000 To Her But She Is Asking For More by Angelacruz: 6:44am On Feb 03, 2021
You cant buy love with money
Re: I Have Send N125,000 To Her But She Is Asking For More by femi4: 6:51am On Feb 03, 2021
Frankraj:
I have really fall mugu , I meet this girl early January this year like like play like play she bill me house rent I gave her cos she said she loves me . As time goes on bill keep coming until the money I have sent her go to N125,000. Now she nags at me because I said I will send money again . She doesn't pick my calls anymore she only picks when she like . My brother I thought I can find a single good girl in Nigeria but right now I can tell you that there is no Good girl in Nigeria. All of them are tifs and scemmer
A girl asks you for financial help and you help her she takes for a marga or a full
Maga man ...pls kontinu
Re: I Have Send N125,000 To Her But She Is Asking For More by bodman1010(m): 7:02am On Feb 03, 2021
SalafRider:
Chai and if I ask you for 5k now you will tell me episodes of story but you de do Chairman of Bill Gate Foundation for vagina people. Ah swear guy, make I no even talk wetin my mind, I for just call you muuuummmmuuuuuu wallahi
As in ehn, people like them no go fit help a struggling guy in need!
Re: I Have Send N125,000 To Her But She Is Asking For More by Charx122: 7:08am On Feb 03, 2021
Bola146:
There are still good ladies in Nigeria. You just met the mumu one. Both of you need to seek for counseling, you did the right thing but she is one of these hungry ladies. Love is not only about money, she might be a harlot pretending to be in a relationship. I just pity her because she is raining curses on her head. I always tell people not to start what you can't continue. Don't date someone you can't endure with. Don't love because of money or car!
Thumps up
Re: I Have Send N125,000 To Her But She Is Asking For More by vickertony(m): 7:38am On Feb 03, 2021
Is she Oliver twist? cheesy
Re: I Have Send N125,000 To Her But She Is Asking For More by Skepticus:
Frankraj:
I have really fall mugu , I meet this girl early January this year like like play like play she bill me house rent I gave her cos she said she loves me . As time goes on bill keep coming until the money I have sent her go to N125,000. Now she nags at me because I said I will send money again . She doesn't pick my calls anymore she only picks when she like . My brother I thought I can find a single good girl in Nigeria but right now I can tell you that there is no Good girl in Nigeria. All of them are tifs and scemmer
A girl asks you for financial help and you help her she takes for a marga or a full
There are good girls. Na u fool ursef.

This 2021, I won't join you guys to blame women for taking advantage of your stupidity.

Shebi, U get money pass other guys and u wan show say u sabi spend as a lover boy. You must double that money.

I appreciate the lady for teaching some of you sense. Weak men everywhere!
Re: I Have Send N125,000 To Her But She Is Asking For More by Nobody: 8:48am On Feb 03, 2021
Be honest with yourself, you were attracted to her looks, and not necessarily her mind. And this is the mistake lots of guys make in relation with women. I'm a guy, so I understand the dilemma lots of men have in resisting the temptation of a stunning woman, although is you can resist it, you will hardly be at the caricature of a woman.

There is a proverb that says, "fool me once, your fault, but fool me twice, my fault". I'm not sure if this your first time of being embezzled but do not allow it to happen next time, that's the only way you'll feel better. Being a one-time naive is allowed, but being perpetually stupid becomes your fault.

So forgive yourself and move on, don't be too harsh on yourself that you fell for her charm and scam, because even all the folks here calling you names must-have in the past, had similar experiences, but of course, no one dries their dirty pant outside. Just do not let it ever happen again. Next time, look beyond the surface. If you judge the value of a woman by her looks, you'll fail woefully.

And lastly, about that there are no good girls in Nigeria, well, I'll tell you that it is a lie. There are good, wonderful, resourceful women in Nigeria, you're just looking at the wrong places. Every day, I see good women doing well for themselves, from the roadside food sellers to the social media entrepreneurs, in the church and everywhere. But perhaps, they are invincible to you because they are not flashy enough, have the latest wig and multilayers of make-up, or too local for you.

To find God (meaning the good things of life, women inclusive), you must be willing to look low. Yes, that is where it is (1st kings 19.11-13). Good women are not advertising themselves on social media, they are everywhere doing well for themselves, hoping that a good man finds them. Also, because you want a good woman, doesn't mean a good woman wants you. So to have the audacity to request the commitment of a good and virtous woman, you must be deserving of her, because good women won't just surrender themselves to you because you want them.

If you play your game right, finding quality women shouldn't be a problem, because they are everywhere, you only need to remove the filter on your face, so you can see them.
Re: I Have Send N125,000 To Her But She Is Asking For More by Regex: 2:42pm On Feb 03, 2021
Skepticus:
There are good girls. Na u fool ursef.

This 2021, I won't join you guys to blame women for taking advantage of your stupidity.

Shebi, U get money pass other guys and u wan show say u sabi spend as a lover boy. You must double that money.

I appreciate the lady for teaching some of you sense. Weak men everywhere!
Ever since I gave up. In fact I'm encouraging women to continue with advantage. Some niggies ain't supposed to be rich.
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