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elipheleh:
Idiot. You are lucky the nigga didn't kill you. Useless imp.
You are a dirty bastard. May God never give me a selfish betrayer like you as a friend.
Your friends Fiancee not just girlfriend . A girl he intends to marry? You see you, you are a wicked somebody. And you have the guts to say he's your best friend and you slept with his future wife just like that.
Even if the girl is a LovePeddler, you should have acted like a brother by revealing the true nature of his girl to him, not going ahead to be very wicked and tasting his girl.
And the annoying thing is idiot as you came here to seek sympathy while you are the betrayer.

I pity your friend, he has a wicked snake like you as a friend. All these immature idiots wearing beards as if they are the shit in town. Wicked idiot

And I guess you would be very mad if one of your own friends sleeps with your fiancee. A girl you know he's been with 2016 - 2020 maybe even more.

God punish you and I pray God permit that your friend to fulfill his revenge on you to his satisfaction. Bastard

Your blood is too hot. Be calming down. Everybody in the story is at fault. There is a reason why you don't tell a cat to guard your fish for you.

How are we even sure you're telling us the truth?

slimjohn2k5:
I suspect
Babe:please no, I am your friends fiancee
Guy:No worries he won't catch us unless you tell him
Babe:please no
Guy:you know how we were then na, if he did not date u I would have dated u
Babe:but but stop na uhh Ahhh unnnn

Criminal, if girl say No, Na yes!

If girl say stop stop stop!!!
Na lie she means Do Do Do

Bola146:
But you slept with her or you raped her You didn't think of that before you accommodated her alone in the house, who does that? Who be the mumu lady self Your friend want to kill you because of public toilet All of you are I just pity the useless goat sleeping with two friends, haba! Wonders shall never cease It's a matter of time, your friend will soon come down if she never used juju on him. Go far away from your friend's area for now.

You didn't say anything about the foolish friend who was comfortable to send his girl to stay with a single guy.

You should have just been the bad person. Two sure things that can break family and friends are money and woman.

elipheleh:
Idiot. You are lucky the nigga didn't kill you. Useless imp.
You are a dirty bastard. May God never give me a selfish betrayer like you as a friend.
Your friends Fiancee not just girlfriend . A girl he intends to marry? You see you, you are a wicked somebody. And you have the guts to say he's your best friend and you slept with his future wife just like that.
Even if the girl is a LovePeddler, you should have acted like a brother by revealing the true nature of his girl to him, not going ahead to be very wicked and tasting his girl.
And the annoying thing is idiot as you came here to seek sympathy while you are the betrayer.

I pity your friend, he has a wicked snake like you as a friend. All these immature idiots wearing beards as if they are the shit in town. Wicked idiot

And I guess you would be very mad if one of your own friends sleeps with your fiancee. A girl you know he's been with 2016 - 2020 maybe even more.

God punish you and I pray God permit that your friend to fulfill his revenge on you to his satisfaction. Bastard

OD waiting naw you no blame d girl na d guy u hype ur blame finish abi woman never seduce u b4 ni. why u dey para like dis abi na u dey tin happen to or women don break ur heart bros take time e no b dat guy fault oh, no dey reason upside down oh reason straight oh, women na witch how u go send ur woman go stay with ur guy alone 4 one week alone bros waiting u think go happen self!

Any man that lacks self control cannot go far in life.

From your narrative, you're a very weak person, immature, lack discipline and lack self control.

A girl your best friend introduced to you as his fiancee starts disturbing you for hugs and kisses, rather than distance yourself from her, you still foolishly acomodated her in your house. If you were wise, you should have cut off from her the moment she started flirting with you.

But you didn't... instead you knowingly and willingly slept with her, and when she tried to get clingy with you, you started forming repentance and blocked her afterwards, how old are you sef? That action only worsened things cos you made her feel used, believe me, girls hate such attitude that's why she decided to deal with you.

The only thing you can do now is to send your friend a lengthy apology and stay away from him for now, so he can recover from your betrayal.

And you need to learn self-control, stop behaving like a goat. Learn to say no and stick to it.

If you didn't want to it wouldn't have happened. You've always wanted to sleep with this girl and she knew. Your excuses are lame.

chumaZ:
Nairalanders I need your advise, please pardon my grammar and my typographical errors as I am under pressure, I will try and make this story short in order not to bore you guys

I finished school 2016 and went for nysc at abuja 2017 unfortunately for me I ran into my best friend supposed fiancée since I know her too well, we bounded till one day she ask to know where I stay in abuja, but because I was staying with my aunty, I couldn't take her to my place.... One Friday morning I got a call from my bestie that his girl is down, that I should take her to hospital, I left whatever I was doing and rush down to apo resettlement. When I got there her fiancée was in good condition to my greatest surprise, she begged me not to let my friend know, that she needed attention and all that. she didn't know it will got to this extent, and I agreed with her and bid her a goodbye but she wouldn't let me go until I kiss her.... I swear I had no option if that would make her free me because she was creating a lot of drama already. I kept cool and avoided this girl till I left abuja after nysc and never mentioned anything that happened between her and I to my friend.

Fast forward to October 2020, my friend called me that her fiancée have an event to attend in yaba Lagos for a week and want me to accommodate her since I stay in two bedroom apparent alone, I refused and suggested it was better he get a hotel room for her, my friend said the girl have not been to Lagos that it would be better she stays with someone who's familiar with Lagos. I contacted a female friend I know to see if she can stay with her, but my friend's fiancée' complained the place will be far from where the event would be taking place, my best friend was now seeing me as wicked person and I don't wanna help his girl. I had no option than to allow her to come stay with me, I made sure I invited my sister to stay with me for the one week, to avoid temptation. But my sister couldn't stay for a week because of some personal issues, that's how I was left with my best friend fiancée, I don't wanna talk about what I pass through staying with her alone but I ended up having sex with her which I regretted bitterly, when she left Lagos back to anambra I pleaded with her not to chat me nor call me, but she wouldn't listen. She's always chatty and sending me nude which I finally blocked her. A week ago, my bestie called me that he was in Lagos and would want us to meet, I was reluctant, because I can't stand him after what happened between me and his fiancée, when I got to the bar(venue) the face I saw around his table were kinda strange aside one of our old friend who was with them. Uncle no even allow me finish greeting before I know it a broken bottle have landed on my hand, his target was my face but thank God I defended on time, that's how my blood spilled everywhere and his friends tried to calm him down while other ones was giving me general beating like a common criminal. Thank God police arrived on time, I might have been a dead man today over a girl I never wanted to help.

Please I need help on how to go about this and clear myself from whatever this girl told my bestie, from the little I heard, she claimed I raped her during her stayed with me. Although I have got a lawyer now who is handling this issue but I still wanna clear myself before my friends, none of them believes me maybe because of my lifestyle back in school. Even my family are aware of this ugly issue and are calling me bumper to bumper, because me and my bestie are from the same village and we are like family friends. I don't know how to clear my name. Please help me. I am depressed already, I can't believe my OG tried killing me

Even me I don't believe u

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chumaZ:
Nairalanders I need your advise, please pardon my grammar and my typographical errors as I am under pressure, I will try and make this story short in order not to bore you guys

I finished school 2016 and went for nysc at abuja 2017 unfortunately for me I ran into my best friend supposed fiancée since I know her too well, we bounded till one day she ask to know where I stay in abuja, but because I was staying with my aunty, I couldn't take her to my place.... One Friday morning I got a call from my bestie that his girl is down, that I should take her to hospital, I left whatever I was doing and rush down to apo resettlement. When I got there her fiancée was in good condition to my greatest surprise, she begged me not to let my friend know, that she needed attention and all that. she didn't know it will got to this extent, and I agreed with her and bid her a goodbye but she wouldn't let me go until I kiss her.... I swear I had no option if that would make her free me because she was creating a lot of drama already. I kept cool and avoided this girl till I left abuja after nysc and never mentioned anything that happened between her and I to my friend.

Fast forward to October 2020, my friend called me that her fiancée have an event to attend in yaba Lagos for a week and want me to accommodate her since I stay in two bedroom apparent alone, I refused and suggested it was better he get a hotel room for her, my friend said the girl have not been to Lagos that it would be better she stays with someone who's familiar with Lagos. I contacted a female friend I know to see if she can stay with her, but my friend's fiancée' complained the place will be far from where the event would be taking place, my best friend was now seeing me as wicked person and I don't wanna help his girl. I had no option than to allow her to come stay with me, I made sure I invited my sister to stay with me for the one week, to avoid temptation. But my sister couldn't stay for a week because of some personal issues, that's how I was left with my best friend fiancée, I don't wanna talk about what I pass through staying with her alone but I ended up having sex with her which I regretted bitterly, when she left Lagos back to anambra I pleaded with her not to chat me nor call me, but she wouldn't listen. She's always chatty and sending me nude which I finally blocked her. A week ago, my bestie called me that he was in Lagos and would want us to meet, I was reluctant, because I can't stand him after what happened between me and his fiancée, when I got to the bar(venue) the face I saw around his table were kinda strange aside one of our old friend who was with them. Uncle no even allow me finish greeting before I know it a broken bottle have landed on my hand, his target was my face but thank God I defended on time, that's how my blood spilled everywhere and his friends tried to calm him down while other ones was giving me general beating like a common criminal. Thank God police arrived on time, I might have been a dead man today over a girl I never wanted to help.

Please I need help on how to go about this and clear myself from whatever this girl told my bestie, from the little I heard, she claimed I raped her during her stayed with me. Although I have got a lawyer now who is handling this issue but I still wanna clear myself before my friends, none of them believes me maybe because of my lifestyle back in school. Even my family are aware of this ugly issue and are calling me bumper to bumper, because me and my bestie are from the same village and we are like family friends. I don't know how to clear my name. Please help me. I am depressed already, I can't believe my OG tried killing me

You’re a very bad friend you even have guts to get a lawyer, I wish you were dead idiot

His just lying to cover himself, when the real truth comes out now , you will see how he rape his best friend wife to be

You could have left the house and leave her alone in the house for one week and ask her guy to stay with her.

Fianceè in 2017, Fianceè in 2021!

Chima you know I don't talk much, I don't care about your lame excuse nor believe you... U can get de whole lawyers in Nigeria but I what I will do is what I will do, nobody can stop me... You can't mess my relationship up & go free. I swear u will pay.... u didn't even tell me all things as brother, you come here to yarn trash, we shall see

elipheleh:
Idiot. You are lucky the nigga didn't kill you. Useless imp.
You are a dirty bastard. May God never give me a selfish betrayer like you as a friend.
Your friends Fiancee not just girlfriend . A girl he intends to marry? You see you, you are a wicked somebody. And you have the guts to say he's your best friend and you slept with his future wife just like that.
Even if the girl is a LovePeddler, you should have acted like a brother by revealing the true nature of his girl to him, not going ahead to be very wicked and tasting his girl.
And the annoying thing is idiot as you came here to seek sympathy while you are the betrayer.

I pity your friend, he has a wicked snake like you as a friend. All these immature idiots wearing beards as if they are the shit in town. Wicked idiot

And I guess you would be very mad if one of your own friends sleeps with your fiancee. A girl you know he's been with 2016 - 2020 maybe even more.

God punish you and I pray God permit that your friend to fulfill his revenge on you to his satisfaction. Bastard

You can abuse me as much as you want, you're no saint

Offorken:
Chima you know I don't talk much, I don't care about your lame excuse nor believe you... U can get de whole lawyers in Nigeria but I what I will do is what I will do, nobody can stop me... You can't mess my relationship up & go free. I swear u will pay.... u didn't even tell me all things as brother, you come here to yarn trash, we shall see

Yes Kennedy, you follow me come here too lol, is even better if you're not faking. For your info I was caught unaware by you and your coward gangs, if you were man enough, you would've challenge or summoned me without any backup at lest hear what I have to say but you choose to escalate issue and inform the whole village because I am far away Lagos and can't defend myself. As for you girl who refused to tell you the real truth, I don't care. I swear if you ever approach me violently again, one of us gonna die

him suppose hospitalize you, how you go Bleep your padi gf? are you not mad like this

Offorken:
Chima you know I don't talk much, I don't care about your lame excuse nor believe you... U can get de whole lawyers in Nigeria but I what I will do is what I will do, nobody can stop me... You can't mess my relationship up & go free. I swear u will pay.... u didn't even tell me all things as brother, you come here to yarn trash, we shall see

Onyea osi no gini?

chumaZ:
You can abuse me as much as you want, you're no saint

Witch. I am a saint compared to you. Your wickedness will soon kill you. Now you can't walk freely.

chumaZ:
Yes Kennedy, you follow me come here too lol, is even better if you're not faking. For your info I was caught unaware by you and your coward gangs, if you were man enough, you would've challenge or summoned me without any backup at lest hear what I have to say but you choose to escalate issue and inform the whole village because I am far away Lagos and can't defend myself. As for you girl who refused to tell you the real truth, I don't care. I swear if you ever approach me violently again, one of us gonna die

Lol.You guys will never learn. Offorken and yourself.
One of you will die and the other rot in prison. By the time you are out, she'd have 3 kids already and happily married to another man and still hoping on another dick. Yes, Chumaz was very wrong from what he did. It was a wicked thing but the blame is for you three; the seducer, the seducee/acclaimed rape victim and Offorken who didn't read the signs given the alternative accommodation the Op offered yet the fiancee rejected all.

Both of you borrow yourselves sense and douse this matter.
Igbo si 'Onye nwanyi na furu oja ji ukwu awula mmuo'.. .
Don't let this woman matter take you guys to hell. Ejim A-ha Chineke ario unu.

chumaZ:
Yes Kennedy, you follow me come here too lol, is even better if you're not faking. For your info I was caught unaware by you and your coward gangs, if you were man enough, you would've challenge or summoned me without any backup at lest hear what I have to say but you choose to escalate issue and inform the whole village because I am far away Lagos and can't defend myself. As for you girl who refused to tell you the real truth, I don't care. I swear if you ever approach me violently again, one of us gonna die

Na u get ur mouth, I will expose u soon bastard, just keep ranting, after raping an innocent girl, u come here come pretend to be a best friend? Best friend wil kill u there anuofia

Offorken:
Na u get ur mouth, I will expose u soon bastard, just keep ranting, after raping an innocent girl, u come here come pretend to be a best friend? Best friend wil kill u there anuofia

bros
Your guy fu**kd up but calm down and hear him out as a guy man wey you be,,I know that the love and trust no go they there again but hear him out first.
Don’t kill yourselves because of a lady,,she fit get date with another guy today wey be Sunday sef.
Please calm down and hear your guy out or if you don’t want to talk about it,ghost both of them and move on with your life

heniford2:
OD waiting naw you no blame d girl na d guy u hype ur blame finish abi woman never seduce u b4 ni. why u dey para like dis abi na u dey tin happen to or women don break ur heart bros take time e no b dat guy fault oh, no dey reason upside down oh reason straight oh, women na witch how u go send ur woman go stay with ur guy alone 4 one week alone bros waiting u think go happen self!

That guy collect all the blame, e get why.
You be my guy
You discover say girl I want marry probably be ashawo
You get mind, leave me with such girl since 2016 , probably make I make that kind marital mistake
That one no do
You kiss am
You no fit come Confide in me
You still dey chat am secretly and even exchange nudes, still no let me know the kind girl she be
You Bleep am 2020, still no want me about the LovePeddler.
When I don finally discover by my self after probably investing myself in wrong relationship , then you want claim say I nearly killed you.
You are not a good friend
You only pretend you have a conscience because I caught you.
Bringing her nudes and chat to me at this point will make me get more angry at you. They are all proofs of your betrayal.

Offorken:
Na u get ur mouth, I will expose u soon bastard, just keep ranting, after raping an innocent girl, u come here come pretend to be a best friend? Best friend wil kill u there anuofia

My guy give your friend benefit of doubts. What if he's saying the truth. How do you know the girl is saying the truth. Na calmness and wisdom Una go use solve this matter no be violence...

You have heard his story, what is the girls own side of the story

You shouldn't have accommodated her in the first place sha. Even though it'll cost you your friendship, at least it's way better than this mess you're in.

That's how these ladies put guys in trouble, she had probably painted a bad image of you.

Women watch a lot of home video, they can easily formulate a script in their head in split seconds.

And some stupid boys wouldn't sit and analyze the issue before taking action, they die or end up in prison for nothing and the LovePeddler will get married to another dude.

I will NEVER fight because of a lady. You can't just trust most them very manipulative. If you see bad guy from his behaviour you can tell but a woman can be a devil's incarnate and still look like an angel.

Offorken:
Chima you know I don't talk much, I don't care about your lame excuse nor believe you... U can get de whole lawyers in Nigeria but I what I will do is what I will do, nobody can stop me... You can't mess my relationship up & go free. I swear u will pay.... u didn't even tell me all things as brother, you come here to yarn trash, we shall see

You will end up in prison or dead because of a woman. That lady will mourn/visit you in prison for at most a month and finally get another man. Use your HQ.

bugatti02:
Big issue already... You can't explain things to your OG right now... Because you broke the bro code already....... Unblock the girl in question. Chat her up and ensure your conversation are straight and honest about happenings when she came visiting/stayed at your home.... This will serve as your defence and maybe evidence as the case unfolds...nothing you can do right now.... Get GBwhatsapp activate message invoke... So she can't chat and delete her conversation... I hope you clear yourself finally.... Be security conscious now.... Hope you understand.... If you lusgard.... Sorry...

Brother, when a lady choose to lie she stand by it till she is caught red handed just forget it.

Offorken:
Na u get ur mouth, I will expose u soon bastard, just keep ranting, after raping an innocent girl, u come here come pretend to be a best friend? Best friend wil kill u there anuofia

I won't call you names, you know I don't trade that part, and from the way you write, is obvious you're Kennedy.... Regarding you as a friend should be a privilege because me and you are not of same level, I will not upload my chats nor the nudes your innocent girl sent to me, let it be on record I never mess your relationship. Who know if I told early you would've believed your girl over me with the way you're overreacting and approaching me violently. Organize a meeting lemme and your said girl come defend ourselves face to face

chumaZ:
Yes Kennedy, you follow me come here too lol, is even better if you're not faking. For your info I was caught unaware by you and your coward gangs, if you were man enough, you would've challenge or summoned me without any backup at lest hear what I have to say but you choose to escalate issue and inform the whole village because I am far away Lagos and can't defend myself. As for you girl who refused to tell you the real truth, I don't care. I swear if you ever approach me violently again, one of us gonna die

Lol look at the- idiot. And people think this guy is sorry. You did those thing intentionally. Keep it up. Yen will soon get killed or permanently disabled. ISEE

elipheleh:
That guy collect all the blame, e get why.
You be my guy
You discover say girl I want marry probably be ashawo
You get mind, leave me with such girl since 2016 , probably make I make that kind marital mistake
That one no do
You kiss am
You no fit come Confide in me
You still dey chat am secretly and even exchange nudes, still no let me know the kind girl she be
You Bleep am 2020, still no want me about the LovePeddler.
When I don finally discover by my self after probably investing myself in wrong relationship , then you want claim say I nearly killed you.
You are not a good friend
You only pretend you have a conscience because I caught you.
Bringing her nudes and chat to me at this point will make me get more angry at you. They are all proofs of your betrayal.

Keep quiet! you aren't helping this issue one bit. You guys senses will only return when blood is spilled. Chase the cat away before blaming the rat.
peace is the focus here not this.