chumaZ:
I might not be able to reply all the quotes here, but the truth is my friend Kennedy is here, let him narrate his own side of the story and that of his fiancée. I have no reason to lie and ye all condemning me are no saint.... I never broke any bro code, I wanted him to figure out himself because I don't think I am the only guy she's cheating on him with because I stay with this girl for a whole year in abuja, I didn't want to look like a relationship destroyer till the whole stuff escalated. Noted if I had opened up to him, he would have still believed his girl over me, Kennedy you girl is a manipulator I don't owe you any apology not after making an attempt on my life... Meanwhile I am not the only one she made advances to, just that our friends involved don't wanna be involved in all this.... If you ever carry out your threat towards anyone related to me, heaven will let loose

My last reply for you

U claimed she made advances towards u, you didn't report to me, u know she was cheating on me, you kept cool... Do I take u back to memory lane where I caught you rocking my ex gf in school and u claimed u were under influence of alcohol, I forgave u but never forgot, u disgusted me now.... Why don't u name all the friends nah, bastard lier, u have been exposed.. Now that I have leave the girl for u, goan marry her nah, as for all those stupid screenshots WhatsApp chats you sent to, they're all trash, you will hear from me soon

SouthSouth1914:


The OP is a wicked human being. He must have been eyeing his friend’s fiancée from the start. He doesn’t have any nude of the girl in question. He just made that up.

From his story, you would deduce that he is lying from the start to paint himself in a good light. He said he invited someone over to stay with him for 1 week and the person mysteriously left because of some reasons whatsoever!

Does it mean the OP don’t have a girlfriend? When his friend’s fiancée is giving him green light, can’t he call his friend to let him know about the situation? In cases like this, can’t the OP leave the house and stay out for a few days?

Couple of days ago, a friend’s girlfriend came to my place to spend the night without him, my house is very big but I had to leave to sleep in a hotel for the night. I don’t want to hear stories that touch!

Everything the OP did was intentional and he needs to apologize sincerely to his friend if he gives him the chance. Most of you blaming the OP’s friend do not know anything about trust! Sleeping with someone’s fiancée is like sleeping with someone’s wife!!

I am not entirely sure about these facts that you have put out about op, neither can I completely vouch for what the op has put out here as well...but one thing is sure, a little self control and boldness would have prevented this mess from happening. Women are weaker beings and I believe that a woman is not meant to make a man to do things that are not of his volition....



You deserve a bottle of cold sachet water for your wisdom in handling your friend's girlfriend. Its better to be paranoid than to be sorry.

Why would a man call his male friend bestie?

elipheleh:
Idiot. You are lucky the nigga didn't kill you. Useless imp.
You are a dirty bastard. May God never give me a selfish betrayer like you as a friend.
Your friends Fiancee not just girlfriend . A girl he intends to marry? You see you, you are a wicked somebody. And you have the guts to say he's your best friend and you slept with his future wife just like that.
Even if the girl is a LovePeddler, you should have acted like a brother by revealing the true nature of his girl to him, not going ahead to be very wicked and tasting his girl.
And the annoying thing is idiot as you came here to seek sympathy while you are the betrayer.

I pity your friend, he has a wicked snake like you as a friend. All these immature idiots wearing beards as if they are the shit in town. Wicked idiot

And I guess you would be very mad if one of your own friends sleeps with your fiancee. A girl you know he's been with 2016 - 2020 maybe even more.

God punish you and I pray God permit that your friend to fulfill his revenge on you to his satisfaction. Bastard

Take it easy bro, the idiot fukd up and deserves to be messed up but you went far to drag him.

Let karma do her work on his head.

I'm restraining myself so hard from calling you names. Seriously....

You knew she wanted to lure you yet you allowed her to come and stay. If you remained adamant to your friends pleas to accommodate her, this wouldn't have happened but because you're already rotten and don't see this rubbish act you guys commit with ease as anything, that's why you slept with her even when you could have pushed her out of your house and reported to her guy immediately.

You know what, youve just landed yourself into a hot mess because that guy will not rest until he .... hm... I don't want to say it. You too know how jealous you guys can get when it comes to woman matters.

Mtchew.

Nonsense. Useless piss of shit. Story like this irritates me badly. When you say no, let it be no. After enjoying yourself u come here spilling trash. To hell with you. He shld have gotten you by your heart self.

Whew! Sometimes, it amazes me how edits enjoy being edits. Just telling your friend who he was dealing with at the beginning would have helped saved a lot...wasted time, attempted murder, wasted money, displaced affection, ruined friendship, etc. Unfortunately, you still dont sound like someone who has gotten any clarity yet.

Speak up azzzhole!!

Juliearth:






I am not entirely sure about these facts that you have put out about op, neither can I completely vouch for what the op has put out here as well...but one thing is sure, a little self control and boldness would have prevented this mess from happening. Women are weaker beings and I believe that a woman is not meant to make a man to do things that are not of his volition....



You deserve a bottle of cold sachet water for your wisdom in handling your friend's girlfriend. Its better to be paranoid than to be sorry.

You deserve a bottle of cold sachet water for your wisdom in handling your friend's girlfriend. Its better to be paranoid than to be sorry.

Lol.., yeah, I understand. People need to be careful when it comes to women and money. I avoid these two things like HIV, especially people’s girlfriends etc. I don’t sleep in a lady’s house no matter what!

If I see my girl with another man, I will act like I haven’t seen her before in my life, even if she greets me, I will act like a dumb person. I haven’t drank any sachet water in more than 10 years o!! But thanks for the offer!!

CalliDora1:
I'm restraining myself so hard from calling you names. Seriously....

You know she wanted to lure you yet you allowed her to come and stay. If you remained adamant to your friends pleas to accommodate her, this wouldn't have happened but because you're already rotten and don't see this rubbish act you guys commit with ease as anything, that's why you slept with her even when you could have pushed her out of your houyand reported to her guy immediately.

You know what, youve just landed yourself into a hot mess because that guy will not rest until he .... hm... I don't want to say it. You too know how jealous you guys can get when it comes to woman matters.

Rubbish!

Don't mind the bastard. I can't help it. He wanted it, he got it, do repercussion came knocking he is shouting victim.

Benwallt:
Don't mind the bastard. I can't help it. He wanted it, he got it, do repercussion came knocking he is shouting victim.

So annoying, mehn..

If this information of rape didn't come out immediately after she left Lagos then you need to thread carefully. My best advice is let go of your friend and your girlfriend and give yourself some to time to recover from the mess. Your best friend mess up no thought but that your girlfriend who planned all of this from the initial needs to be very far away from you. This story should be an eye opener to all we guys , never be close to your friend's or family girlfriends or wives. Don't escalate this more than this am ashamed this here in the first place.

sisisioge:
Whew! Sometimes, it amazes me how edits enjoy being edits. Just telling your friend who he was dealing with at the beginning would have helped saved a lot...wasted time, attempted murder, wasted money, displaced affection, ruined friendship, etc. Unfortunately, you still dont sound like someone who has gotten any clarity yet.

Speak up azzzhole!!

come on man do you think its that easy to convince a friend madly in love about things like this. Put yourself in this guys shoe, don't fan the embers.

chumaZ:


I won't call you names, you know I don't trade that part, and from the way you write, is obvious you're Kennedy.... Regarding you as a friend should be a privilege because me and you are not of same level, I will not upload my chats nor the nudes your innocent girl sent to me, let it be on record I never mess your relationship. Who know if I told early you would've believed your girl over me with the way you're overreacting and approaching me violently. Organize a meeting lemme and your said girl come defend ourselves face to face

Word!!!

elipheleh:


Lol look at the- idiot. And people think this guy is sorry. You did those thing intentionally. Keep it up. Yen will soon get killed or permanently disabled. ISEE

Please get a life

chumaZ:
Nairalanders I need your advise, please pardon my grammar and my typographical errors as I am under pressure, I will try and make this story short in order not to bore you guys

I finished school 2016 and went for nysc at abuja 2017 unfortunately for me I ran into my best friend supposed fiancée since I know her too well, we bounded till one day she ask to know where I stay in abuja, but because I was staying with my aunty, I couldn't take her to my place.... One Friday morning I got a call from my bestie that his girl is down, that I should take her to hospital, I left whatever I was doing and rush down to apo resettlement. When I got there her fiancée was in good condition to my greatest surprise, she begged me not to let my friend know, that she needed attention and all that. she didn't know it will got to this extent, and I agreed with her and bid her a goodbye but she wouldn't let me go until I kiss her.... I swear I had no option if that would make her free me because she was creating a lot of drama already. I kept cool and avoided this girl till I left abuja after nysc and never mentioned anything that happened between her and I to my friend.

Fast forward to October 2020, my friend called me that her fiancée have an event to attend in yaba Lagos for a week and want me to accommodate her since I stay in two bedroom apparent alone, I refused and suggested it was better he get a hotel room for her, my friend said the girl have not been to Lagos that it would be better she stays with someone who's familiar with Lagos. I contacted a female friend I know to see if she can stay with her, but my friend's fiancée' complained the place will be far from where the event would be taking place, my best friend was now seeing me as wicked person and I don't wanna help his girl. I had no option than to allow her to come stay with me, I made sure I invited my sister to stay with me for the one week, to avoid temptation. But my sister couldn't stay for a week because of some personal issues, that's how I was left with my best friend fiancée, I don't wanna talk about what I pass through staying with her alone but I ended up having sex with her which I regretted bitterly, when she left Lagos back to anambra I pleaded with her not to chat me nor call me, but she wouldn't listen. She's always chatty and sending me nude which I finally blocked her. A week ago, my bestie called me that he was in Lagos and would want us to meet, I was reluctant, because I can't stand him after what happened between me and his fiancée, when I got to the bar(venue) the face I saw around his table were kinda strange aside one of our old friend who was with them. Uncle no even allow me finish greeting before I know it a broken bottle have landed on my hand, his target was my face but thank God I defended on time, that's how my blood spilled everywhere and his friends tried to calm him down while other ones was giving me general beating like a common criminal. Thank God police arrived on time, I might have been a dead man today over a girl I never wanted to help.

Please I need help on how to go about this and clear myself from whatever this girl told my bestie, from the little I heard, she claimed I raped her during her stayed with me. Although I have got a lawyer now who is handling this issue but I still wanna clear myself before my friends, none of them believes me maybe because of my lifestyle back in school. Even my family are aware of this ugly issue and are calling me bumper to bumper, because me and my bestie are from the same village and we are like family friends. I don't know how to clear my name. Please help me. I am depressed already, I can't believe my OG tried killing me

Try to explain what happened to your friend, but most importantly get a good and be ready to fight both of them court.

yetunsbay:
The only mistake was that you should have stood your ground of not accommodating

Exactly.

If what he said about the excuses for not hosting her were true but the boyfriend was not ready to accept any of the excuses .
Chuma should have just come out with the real reason he couldn't host her then and let all hell lose but trust me, boyfriend still wouldn't have believed.

Offorken:


My last reply for you

U claimed she made advances towards u, you didn't report to me, u know she was cheating on me, you kept cool... Do I take u back to memory lane where I caught you rocking my ex gf in school and u claimed u were under influence of alcohol, I forgave u but never forgot, u disgusted me now.... Why don't u name all the friends nah, bastard lier, u have been exposed.. Now that I have leave the girl for u, goan marry her nah, as for all those stupid screenshots WhatsApp chats you sent to, they're all trash, you will hear from me soon

Make good of your threat, I will be waiting to hear from you, is obvious your mind is made up. Let it be on record that I tried maintaining a decorum but you chose your part of destruction. And don't bring Esther into this because you were high and for peace to reign our friends pressured me to accept and plead with you with hope when your eye clear we will explain better. But your strong head will not allow you listen. Noted that we were playing truth or dare and she's dared to rock a guy of her choice and she picked me, so I don't understand where all this one is coming from. Seems something is wrong somewhere, this is not the KENNEDY I used to know.... What is eating you up man

SouthSouth1914:


This guy is unrepentant and a wicked friend! The lady stayed with him for one week, obviously she must have been giving passes at him. He could have called his friend back home telling him about his fiancee’s advances!

Besides, this is his own side of the story and we all shouldn’t believe him. There are always 3 sides to a story.

I don't think the boyfriend was ready to hear anything short of nice about his girl.

Orlaoluwayimika:


It's like u know something we don't know or u ve something against the OP.

He has narrated his' side of d story and u kept on hammering he did intentionally

Was he d one dt invited d friends fiancee?
Did he not provide alternative?
Did he not suggest dt his friend shld gt an hotel for her?
Wld he ve done dt if he had sinister motive?

If he invite my sister to my house and so. Etching suddenly comes up dt she needs to attend to wld I ve tied her down?
What if he couldn't afford to lodge in an hotel at dt time?

See ehn dre re many things attached to dis story.

Give everybody benefit of doubt

Your head dey there bro.

Abi o...

SouthSouth1914:




Lol.., yeah, I understand. People need to be careful when it comes to women and money. I avoid these two things like HIV, especially people’s girlfriends etc. I don’t sleep in a lady’s house no matter what!

If I see my girl with another man, I will act like I haven’t seen her before in my life, even if she greets me, I will act like a dumb person. I haven’t drank any sachet water in more than 10 years o!! But thanks for the offer!!

You are right, the fear of women (myself inclusive oh ) is the beginning of wisdom.




Okay, let me upgrade it to bottled water then, lol! Cheers!!

Offorken:



Hahaha, u claimed she seduce u, u never mention to me till u were exposed and now u want a meeting, bastard soul what u sow is what u go reap. Upload whatever u want, I don make up my mind on how 2 handle did issue. It was a privilege being ur friend abi Time shall tell

Ruggedboy01

i bu anuofia, will you man up and stop behaving like an overfed little boy, first and foremost who send his fiancee to stay with his best friend. Are you sure you are an Igbo guy cos you don't behave like one, you are a pussy, a girl accuses your friend and believe her absolutely, no investigation of sort, who does that, why not investigate, if your so called girl is saying the truth, there is always a three sides to a story, his side, her side and the truth, are you sure this girl is not even a cheap harlot, yes i said it, she is a cheap harlot, who insists on staying with her fiance best friend even when he looked for an alternative accommodation, that girl is not saying the entire truth and you are too blind to see you, she has given you kayanmata chop, you no longer reason, you better check well. You all be disgracing me and my beloved state, pachara anya unu. Anumpama n'abuo

ruggedboy01:


guy I am so disappointed with you bringing this up here and still went ahead exchanging words. Are you trying to create more problems... Oh! you want to get other people involved in this mess so you can prove a point, be guided what you say here, you should be feeling remorseful for what you did, I am not saying ken is right but you two should act matured

Bro, it seems you are friends with the OP and the boyfriend and you are trying to play the role of a peacemaker between friends which is good.

One thing I noticed is that it seems you know more about this situation than what you are saying and letting on.

"I am not saying Ken is right", a statement you made is pregnant with meaning(s) o.

Mind you, I'm just an observer and innocent NLer who wants all parties to get a meaningful life.

You people want to turn nairaland to a battle ground ba

Prinnce1:
come on man do you think its that easy to convince a friend madly in love about things like this. Put yourself in this guys shoe, don't fan the embers.

Thank you.
Exactly my thought.

Prinnce1:
come on man do you think its that easy to convince a friend madly in love about things like this. Put yourself in this guys shoe, don't fan the embers.

It is not easy but can be done. If he had initially told him that, "guy your babe no sick o. She just dey look for attention. In fact, I no like as she dey do around me" and moved on. We wont be where we are now. Rape is a serious allegation and aunty had demonstrated over time that shes not friends with integrity. See them nursing avoidable headaches because he was too shy to speak up. He who must dine with the devil must bear a long spoon!

elipheleh:
Idiot. You are lucky the nigga didn't kill you. Useless imp.
You are a dirty bastard. May God never give me a selfish betrayer like you as a friend.
Your friends Fiancee not just girlfriend . A girl he intends to marry? You see you, you are a wicked somebody. And you have the guts to say he's your best friend and you slept with his future wife just like that.
Even if the girl is a LovePeddler, you should have acted like a brother by revealing the true nature of his girl to him, not going ahead to be very wicked and tasting his girl.
And the annoying thing is idiot as you came here to seek sympathy while you are the betrayer.

I pity your friend, he has a wicked snake like you as a friend. All these immature idiots wearing beards as if they are the shit in town. Wicked idiot

And I guess you would be very mad if one of your own friends sleeps with your fiancee. A girl you know he's been with 2016 - 2020 maybe even more.

God punish you and I pray God permit that your friend to fulfill his revenge on you to his satisfaction. Bastard

God bless you for this....The Idiot of a betrayal is a bastard.

Juliearth:






You are right, the fear of women (myself inclusive oh ) is the beginning of wisdom.




Okay, let me upgrade it to bottled water then, lol! Cheers!!

Kobicove:
How are we even sure you're telling us the truth?

He his not...I know his kind of person.

sisisioge:


It is not easy but can be done. If he had initially told him that, "guy your babe no sick o. She just dey look for attention. In fact, I no like as she dey do around me" and moved on. We wont be where we are now. Rape is a serious allegation and aunty had demonstrated over time that shes not friends with integrity. See them nursing affordable headaches because he was too shy to speak up. He who must dine with the devil must bear a long spoon!

Rape is out of this context , this babe is a love peddler and the guy failed to signal the friend . This life I fear women including my mom no offence here.... As a player I know what women are capable of doing. This has saved this guy future DNA test and he is not Happy. My then ex started a fresh relationship 30mins after our breakup.

Imagine fighting with your best friend because of a hoe. Tufia.

Both of you are foolish.

I love my life once I see my friend's serious gf messing up anywhere I will signal my friend immediately its left for him to decide or not... After all what have achieved in this life no close friends has done it for me rather its strangers or arms length friend . so if the gf wants to turn him against me then its their fucking business.

First of Mr Clever, u must solve the problem u created all by yourself. U aint seen nothing . U can run all u want but u cant hide, las las, na hin go still kill u. Infact he must kill u. Very anyhow shameless, pathetic, idiotic & unapologetic someborry.


Albert Einstein said "a clever person solves a problem, a wise person avoids it"