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Lordsagna:
Good evening everyone, I'm a silent follower of this thread.... I'm having problem with a lady and I need your candid advice...

She's an old classmate of mine back the in primary school, tho I had crush on her then....life goes on we left primary school I went to a government school she was in a private school, but i noticed every coaching lesson she'll come to my school I thought it was normal stuff until....until I gained admission to a federal university the first person I saw when we resumed was her but she didn't see me....my mind wasn't settled untill I met a friend that told me this so so so girl is also an akokites... In my mind, I was like why did she keep following everywhere?.... is this normal or just a coincidence?...has anyone here experience this?
I collected her contact from that told me she's in my school we converse well until last week when we argued about religion cos this girl Is damn religious.... she said she doesn't like the way I think I'm an atheist.... what caused the argument was because I said God doesn't care about our wellfare she said something before I said that na so she blocked me on WhatsApp, ignoring my text , calls...did I made a mistake by that statement?..do we have something in common?....am I a simp by contacting her every now and then?...am I stupid? cos this girl is driving me crazy.... should I stop contacting her even though she's ignoring my calls?

Pls advice me like your younger brother..

Stop calling. Stop every form of communication. DAz all. If she calls or sends message after some time (could be weeks or months) don't respond.

Thank me later.

Please if you want to fight.
Fight ooo
I have gun for rent, since I bought that thing I've not used it.
Maybe now I'll make small money from it.
Don't be like those guys that were wasting pages of that Ashawo thread fighting.
Drop ur location and settle it once.
That's why we are men

emmaodet:


Bro, we are in spirit.
Nairaland is a very big distraction for me, very very big.
Woke up 3am today and determine to just flip through nairaland and sleep back till morning, lo and behold, i was glued to nairaland till 7am.
I think i need to find a way to stop this addiction.
Don't even no the harder one to stop between masturbation and nairaland sef, abi oga seun don add juju join this forum?

don't stop anything that gives you joy

okay Guys I have been following this thread for almost a year now, best thing on Nairaland. I really need to have whatever all the contributors on this thread are smoking. lol. I never thought I would do this but I have an issue with this girl im seeing, {I got her through the tricks on this thread} lol

okay so I met this girl last year through her friend a mutual friend of mine, as a sharp guy I chyked this girl, we really flowed well when we started talking, heck I even had sex with her within three weeks, she came all the way from ondo state, thats when she told me her side hustle that she sells loud, she brought like almost 20k loud for me when she was coming to my place, mind you , I send this girl money anytime hustle pays, although she doesn't ask for much but I like to take care of my woman in my own little ways without she even asking, and it bursts her brain its literally her weak point, little surprises lol.
she left my place for lagos last week then she told me that she was swindled and she needed some money for her thrift. I sent her 10k, I even told her that she should chill that I will give her the loud money she lost,. she said ok.

normally I'm a hustler , im always on my laptop 24/7 , so I admit that our communication was very off recently, but I noticed her reaction when she asks for the money and I tell her to chill she will just flare up one kind, I don't know how to make her understand that I feel overall better about myself if I have enough money in my account for myself. now I don't know what she's angry at , the money or the lack of attention. and she is the one that is that is telling me that I should not worry about the money again.

now she is saying I'm seeing her as a liability thats why I'm have not been texting her recently. and truth is I'm just looking for better living.

I like the girl, so I don't wanna dump her yet.

what you guys suggest? give her space

Damilare65:
okay Guys I have been following this thread for almost a year now, best thing on Nairaland. I really need to have whatever all the contributors on this thread are smoking. lol. I never thought I would do this but I have an issue with this girl im seeing, {I got her through the tricks on this thread} lol

okay so I met this girl last year through her friend a mutual friend of mine, as a sharp guy I chyked this girl, we really flowed well when we started talking, heck I even had sex with her within three weeks, she came all the way from ondo state, thats when she told me her side hustle that she sells loud, she brought like almost 20k loud for me when she was coming to my place, mind you , I send this girl money anytime hustle pays, although she doesn't ask for much but I like to take care of my woman in my own little ways without she even asking, and it bursts her brain its literally her weak point, little surprises lol.
she left my place for lagos last week then she told me that she was swindled and she needed some money for her thrift. I sent her 10k, I even told her that she should chill that I will give her the loud money she lost,. she said ok.

normally I'm a hustler , im always on my laptop 24/7 , so I admit that our communication was very off recently, but I noticed her reaction when she asks for the money and I tell her to chill she will just flare up one kind, I don't know how to make her understand that I feel overall better about myself if I have enough money in my account for myself. now I don't know what she's angry at , the money or the lack of attention. and she is the one that is that is telling me that I should not worry about the money again.

now she is saying I'm seeing her as a liability thats why I'm have not been texting her recently. and truth is I'm just looking for better living.

I like the girl, so I don't wanna dump her yet.

what you guys suggest? give her space

[color=#1980BC] By crook or design somehow she manipulated your brain into giving her money thereby breaking the hold you had over her, but you're not above mistake thus we forgive you on that....Now you must flip her back into mumu mode by playing the "Dread Game"..It always work, trust me.[/color]

JasperVII:
The proverb goes thus in Igbo "ọbụrụ na agwọ emeghị ihe ojiri bụrụ agwọ, ụmụ nwaanyị ewere ya kee nkụ".

i'm laughing in chiwetalu Agu's voice 。

BLOODYSPERM:
Lead your woman to glory, or she will lead you to ruin.There's a good chance she'll try to wrestle for control out of ego.But in practice, you both lose if she gets her own way.So don't let her have it.Do what's right for both of you.

TELL YOUR SON THIS

an ounce of simping will be at play here。

emmaodet:
Bro, it is mostly like that.
Men are financial slaves that are meant to work their asses off to float the family and if you don't or fail to, you would be insulted, rubbished, mocked, looked at like a failure that doesn't know is purpose in life, a waste of space etc.
My father in-law worked as a doctor in saudi arabia in is younger time but after some time, he stopped due to pressure from wife that he stays too long there, now he is a shadow of himself. He is exhausted, finished, over-used and over-run and just counting time to die while is wife is going from one daughter's house to the other enjoying. The man has been relegated to the background, he is done with.

• Team "we must continue our lineage."
• Team "all the hard work our ancestors did to further the lineage must not be wasted.

I am sure your father-in-law's ancestors have a shining gold medal and laurel to confer on him for furthering the lineage, now that he is exhausted, finished, over-used and over-run. SMH.

I don't know why one will carry marriage and reproduction on his head like gala, even to one's detriment.

SOZINN:
Of all days February 14th Damn

NO BAD INTENTIONS THOUGH,JUST TO MAKE IT A DAY TO REMEMBER 。

Guys, I have a lot of memes I want to share. Should I drop all of them here or should I create a new thread?

The memes are many.

ichidodo:
[color=#1980BC] By crook or design somehow she manipulated your brain into giving her money thereby breaking the hold you had over her, but you're not above mistake thus we forgive you on that....Now you must flip her back into mumu mode by playing the "Dread Game"..It always work, trust me.[/color]

hmm I accept. whats dread game please bro. don't go sleep yet oo

BLOODYSPERM:
Lead your woman to glory, or she will lead you to ruin.There's a good chance she'll try to wrestle for control out of ego.But in practice, you both lose if she gets her own way.So don't let her have it.Do what's right for both of you.

TELL YOUR SON THIS

answer my question up there please really need ur input bro

Martinez39s:
Guys, I have a lot of memes I want to share. Should I drop all of them here or should I create a new thread?

The memes are many.

So long as its about red pill
Drop it here

CaveAdullam:

DAY 39, REDPILL 2021


From an evolutionary point of view, women go for the highest men who occupies the society's totem pole. This is because she has limited ova, the risk of pregnancy is high, the cost of nurturing children is high. She's also weak in nature, and more vulnerable to adversity during pregnancy, especially adversity from other tribes. Women decide which men has the capability of progressing their genes to the next generation, and these are men who are strong, elegant and virile in whatever nature that's particular to masculinity. In summary, it is called hypergamy.

On the other hand, men don't go for the most beautiful women, their seeds are abundant, and they can spread it among different women because there's no risk when it comes to sex and sexual reproduction unlike women. And because women are very selective on the type of men they need, and men are scared of not continuing in the gene pool through their progenies, men evolved to have a higher libido than women, 10-100 times more testosterones than women.

Without men's sexual thirst, desire and high libido, the human gene pool will become smaller and quickly send humans gradually into extinction. And without women's selective nature on the type of men, their offsprings will be weak, and can't face adverse conditions.

Hope you can see why that young lady seriously want to anchor a (false) pregnancy on your neck. Pregnancy guarantees a woman a man's protection and provision, because it's not all about her but his seed that she carries.

We humans are different from other animals because of our cognitive ability, our rationality, our creativity and freewill.

Young man, you made a bloody mistake! As a higher animal(man) you ought to understand the human era will live. It is a mess up world where people live without accountability, impatient, illogical, highly mendacious coupled alongside the wave of feminism and gynocentrism. The mistake you made was your refusal to use a condom on a woman you don't desire to become the mother of your children. But no, you succumb to your sexual thirst, you were moved by lust, her physique clouded your intellect and you took a great risk which its fruits are now haunting you.

By the way, who f^cks a sociopathic woman? Sexual thirsty men! You saw the signs as you've informed us but you never weighed the consequences. Such kind of women will make you know no peace. She will frustrate you and henpeck you till eternity. If you allow her to cohabit with you, you will not last long.

Now, you must face the consequences of your actions and mistakes and take accountability. Don't run away from your house is easier said, however, you need to protect your life by all means at the moment. In the modern life we live, it is full of uncertainty, she might team up with her sociopathic colleagues to hurt you. If you're staying around her or if she knows your place of residence you must be careful and quick to immediate actions. For me, I will advice you go to a limpid and placid environment to analyze and strategize patiently aiming for the desired results you want.

Since previous pregnancy results has proved negative but she still choose to limit you with it and has also informed her parents, make sure you go make complaint in a police station. Next, tell her the next pregnancy test will be carried out in a military facility where DNA test will also be carried out in order to prove the paternity of the foetus if there be any.

You see, women don't really worth it if we're to consider the whole scenario both genders are subjected to. Notwithstanding, human nature and traits must thrive. Now, you know that as a man it's not about f^cking different p^ssys. Life is worth more than sexual needs and it even rank among the least of all human desires especially for a man.

Bro, take charge! Don't be afraid! Counter and win this battle mano a mano. May your predicament open your heart to the tenets of TRP.

Thanks.

Authority: Be wise as a serpent and gentle as a dove.

.

Update

We went and conduct another test, the result was negative, all this while she was lying.

Damilare65:
okay Guys I have been following this thread for almost a year now, best thing on Nairaland. I really need to have whatever all the contributors on this thread are smoking. lol. I never thought I would do this but I have an issue with this girl im seeing, {I got her through the tricks on this thread} lol

okay so I met this girl last year through her friend a mutual friend of mine, as a sharp guy I chyked this girl, we really flowed well when we started talking, heck I even had sex with her within three weeks, she came all the way from ondo state, thats when she told me her side hustle that she sells loud, she brought like almost 20k loud for me when she was coming to my place, mind you , I send this girl money anytime hustle pays, although she doesn't ask for much but I like to take care of my woman in my own little ways without she even asking, and it bursts her brain its literally her weak point, little surprises lol.
she left my place for lagos last week then she told me that she was swindled and she needed some money for her thrift. I sent her 10k, I even told her that she should chill that I will give her the loud money she lost,. she said ok.

normally I'm a hustler , im always on my laptop 24/7 , so I admit that our communication was very off recently, but I noticed her reaction when she asks for the money and I tell her to chill she will just flare up one kind, I don't know how to make her understand that I feel overall better about myself if I have enough money in my account for myself. now I don't know what she's angry at , the money or the lack of attention. and she is the one that is that is telling me that I should not worry about the money again.

now she is saying I'm seeing her as a liability thats why I'm have not been texting her recently. and truth is I'm just looking for better living.

I like the girl, so I don't wanna dump her yet.

what you guys suggest? give her space

Apply Dread and she will sit up

Martinez39s:
Guys, I have a lot of memes I want to share. Should I drop all of them here or should I create a new thread?

The memes are many.

Create a special thread for it since it's a lot

Martinez39s:
Guys, I have a lot of memes I want to share. Should I drop all of them here or should I create a new thread?

The memes are many.

I thought you once created a separate thread for memes. If you wanna create a new thread, you can send the link here or update the previous one. Just update us with whichever choice you chose.

Or maybe you can drop it here, but not everything at once. Little by little, 4-5 memes per day? Just a suggestion though. So that all Red Pill nuggets can be on one thread. What do you think?

Damilare65:
hmm I accept. whats dread game please bro. don't go sleep yet oo

Dread Game is an approach that applies a certain degree of fear of loss or competition anxiety in an interaction or a relationship.

Dread is used to indicate or remind someone of your value, usually by showing that you’re willing to remove yourself from a situation, walk away, or seek another option as a replacement in order to gain more power or respect in the power dynamic that is a romantic relationship

Martinez39s:
Guys, I have a lot of memes I want to share. Should I drop all of them here or should I create a new thread?

The memes are many.

a new thread will be nice. I also need to post a Meme thread. Memes are powerful teaching aids.

I saw people arguing because of the 'mothers manipulative techniques they use on their children'

When we say manipulative, we don't mean it in a bad way, its just in the woman's nature.. They like to create the children in their own image (my mum is no exception).

I have a great relationship with my mum but a terrible relationship with my dad. So guys thanks for the wake up call.

I just sent my dad a heartwarming message. Thanking him for all his sacrifices.
I know it must come to him as a shock but he deserves it..although I'm still hustling and I don't have the money to shower him now but I'm positive that soon its gonna click for me.

Long live our dads..and those dad that died in the line of duty may God rest their amazing souls..

Peace.

Damilare65:
okay Guys I have been following this thread for almost a year now, best thing on Nairaland. I really need to have whatever all the contributors on this thread are smoking. lol. I never thought I would do this but I have an issue with this girl im seeing, {I got her through the tricks on this thread} lol

okay so I met this girl last year through her friend a mutual friend of mine, as a sharp guy I chyked this girl, we really flowed well when we started talking, heck I even had sex with her within three weeks, she came all the way from ondo state, thats when she told me her side hustle that she sells loud, she brought like almost 20k loud for me when she was coming to my place, mind you , I send this girl money anytime hustle pays, although she doesn't ask for much but I like to take care of my woman in my own little ways without she even asking, and it bursts her brain its literally her weak point, little surprises lol.
she left my place for lagos last week then she told me that she was swindled and she needed some money for her thrift. I sent her 10k, I even told her that she should chill that I will give her the loud money she lost,. she said ok.

normally I'm a hustler , im always on my laptop 24/7 , so I admit that our communication was very off recently, but I noticed her reaction when she asks for the money and I tell her to chill she will just flare up one kind, I don't know how to make her understand that I feel overall better about myself if I have enough money in my account for myself. now I don't know what she's angry at , the money or the lack of attention. and she is the one that is that is telling me that I should not worry about the money again.

now she is saying I'm seeing her as a liability thats why I'm have not been texting her recently. and truth is I'm just looking for better living.

I like the girl, so I don't wanna dump her yet.

what you guys suggest? give her space

Keep spending on her so that she won't get angry at you

That's your duty as a simp sorry man

Martinez39s:
Guys, I have a lot of memes I want to share. Should I drop all of them here or should I create a new thread?

The memes are many.

A new thread would be better.

Hustle2flex:
Last 2 weeks,I was going through my last relationship.i was like despite my own spending,what did this girl got for me?.could you believe that she bought only 'cotton buds' for cleaning ears throughout the duration (1yr) of the relationship.i was shocked and at the same time laughing.It was then I knew that only few women have something to offer and even if you get those ones, you will spend more on them than on broke ladies due to their high maintenance tendencies and hypergamy.

bro! This is either an exaggeration or an outright lie! And if this is true then you must have been a chronic simp! If u spent regularly on a girl for that period of time and u didnt immediately realise dat 1 PACKET OF COTTON BOARD AS GIFT in a whole calendar year means u are dating a leech then i think u need to start this thread from page 1! Dats if ur story is true! Thanks!

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