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She Broke Up With Me Few Days To Valentine. So Hurt by Leetika: 2:14pm On Feb 11, 2021
So I really don’t know who I have offended my love life Is a course I always fail. I have been seeing this girl since June 2020 but friends before then. She is been a financial burden to me as she doesn’t work, well in my own way I support her, my salary is actually 35k per month here in Abuja hoping it will increase but it didn’t.

Now I am not financially strong but I do my best, this girl borrows money from me claiming family issues But she doesn’t give me back. I give her to the extent that all my savings in PiggyVest turned to 0. She claims she is a virgin Nd no sex rule. I Obliged. And I haven’t cheated even though I was sexually active before I met her. So it is not because of sex I do what I do . Just wanted serious relationship cos I am getting old and pressure to marry is coming already.
Cut long story short she asked me to buy her iPhone 12 for her birthday in February. She made this request in November. I told her I honestly don’t have the money.. we argued I said ok let me give her my iPhone 7 she said nope that her friends are using iPhone 11 upward. Let me try buy iPhone 8 now she say no. She sha said she will settle for iPhone 11 Pro Max . Just to kill the argument I said ok and anytime she brings it up I tell her I am working on it. Deep down I knew I can not raise that money . My salary for 10 months will not even be able to buy the phone. She has been hopeful always saying when are we buying it. Anyways her birthday has passed. I wasn’t around as I traveled but now I am back on Tuesday she called telling me hope I am giving it to her on Sunday that she can’t wait to get it bla bla bla . She was excited . Had to tell her the truth that I don’t have the money yet and she should be patient. She just kept quiet on the phone. Babe what’s up? I asked . She said nothing I want to sleep and she cannot come over to my house this weekend again. Our conversation went from 100 to 0 real quick. I then texted her to calm down that I will try raise the money. Anyways like play like play this girl hasn’t read my message since Tuesday nor pick my calls. Like how can somebody be so insensitive. Ignoring all do times I have helped her financially but a freaking gadget that can be stolen is your problem. Even my salary no dey do me for a whole month . Men are only loved by what they can provide, Nd I do provide to this girl God knows. E pain me sha. Anyways just writing this to ease my pain.

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Re: She Broke Up With Me Few Days To Valentine. So Hurt by Bola146(f): 2:15pm On Feb 11, 2021
grin grin grin cheesy cheesy You be mumu seriously and you are of age , how old are you? 23 yrs grin grin A lady you just met messed up you up financially and you are not happy she left A jobless lady looking for expensive phone cheesy cheesy cheesy Why not tell her to go find job and spoil herself? Are you a pikin lipsrsealed lipsrsealed Please go and Rob to satisfy her request Oniranu, I don't know why some men no get sense lipsrsealed, how can a jobless man say I should buy him expensive phone when he knows my financial ability? I can buy it if I have the money but I would not if that is the reason he will go, I don't damn care!!!! I know that your parents are still waiting for you to give them money, na one mumu you dey spend all your money to sad Koburu ooo

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Re: She Broke Up With Me Few Days To Valentine. So Hurt by chatinent: 2:22pm On Feb 11, 2021
Cut long story short she asked me to buy her iPhone 12 for her birthday in February.

How dare you let her complete the statement that she needs an iPhone 12 without giving her like about five headbutts?

undecided sad

this girl borrows money from me claiming family issues But she doesn’t give me back. I give her to the extent that all my savings in PiggyVest turned to 0.


Anyways just writing this to ease my pain.


How old is your stupidity?

Nna’m, you represent the opposite of the slogan of Hero Lager Beer: your name has been lost. She has stolen the man in you that you now happily swim the river of tomfoolery with a grin.


Ahagi efula!!

Did you need an exemmuo to translate to you that this demon-powered witch is overusing you?

If I was close to you, I'd punch you repeatedly at the rear of your cerebellum. You don't deserve a living brain.


I'm so pissed off rn.


I really cannot mince words but you deserve the crown...



...first order knight of foolery.


Proudly sit in the throne with the Valentine charisma...nwa slave.



I can't believe I share oxygen with you.

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Re: She Broke Up With Me Few Days To Valentine. So Hurt by Nobody: 2:23pm On Feb 11, 2021
When will guys know the difference between relationship and slavery?



You are her slave not boyfriend if what you wrote here is true.

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Re: She Broke Up With Me Few Days To Valentine. So Hurt by extol1(m): 2:25pm On Feb 11, 2021
you better be thanking God and mother for the bullet you dodged rather than feeling sorry for yourself.

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Re: She Broke Up With Me Few Days To Valentine. So Hurt by karkinase(m): 2:25pm On Feb 11, 2021
Leetika:
So I really don’t know who I have offended my love life Is a course I always fail. I have been seeing this girl since June 2020 but friends before then. She is been a financial burden to me as she doesn’t work, well in my own way I support her, my salary is actually 35k per month here in Abuja hoping it will increase but it didn’t.

Now I am not financially strong but I do my best, this girl borrows money from me claiming family issues But she doesn’t give me back. I give her to the extent that all my savings in PiggyVest turned to 0. She claims she is a virgin Nd no sex rule. I Obliged. And I haven’t cheated even though I was sexually active before I met her. So it is not because of sex I do what I do . Just wanted serious relationship cos I am getting old and pressure to marry is coming already.
Cut long story short she asked me to buy her iPhone 12 for her birthday in February. She made this request in November. I told her I honestly don’t have the money.. we argued I said ok let me give her my iPhone 7 she said nope that her friends are using iPhone 11 upward. Let me try buy iPhone 8 now she say no. She sha said she will settle for iPhone 11 Pro Max . Just to kill the argument I said ok and anytime she brings it up I tell her I am working on it. Deep down I knew I can not raise that money . My salary for 10 months will not even be able to buy the phone. She has been hopeful always saying when are we buying it. Anyways her birthday has passed. I wasn’t around as I traveled but now I am back on Tuesday she called telling me hope I am giving it to her on Sunday that she can’t wait to get it bla bla bla . She was excited . Had to tell her the truth that I don’t have the money yet and she should be patient. She just kept quiet on the phone. Babe what’s up? I asked . She said nothing I want to sleep and she cannot come over to my house this weekend again. Our conversation went from 100 to 0 real quick. I then texted her to calm down that I will try raise the money. Anyways like play like play this girl hasn’t read my message since Tuesday nor pick my calls. Like how can somebody be so insensitive. Ignoring all do times I have helped her financially but a freaking gadget that can be stolen is your problem. Even my salary no dey do me for a whole month . Men are only loved by what they can provide, Nd I do provide to this girl God knows. E pain me sha. Anyways just writing this to ease my pain.
Sorry bro..this shit hurts. Nigerian ladies are the worst on planet earth no iota of single love from them, it's always what they will benefit. angry

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Re: She Broke Up With Me Few Days To Valentine. So Hurt by Boxer007(m): 2:26pm On Feb 11, 2021
Leetika:
So I really don’t know who I have offended my love life Is a course I always fail. I have been seeing this girl since June 2020 but friends before then. She is been a financial burden to me as she doesn’t work, well in my own way I support her, my salary is actually 35k per month here in Abuja hoping it will increase but it didn’t.

Now I am not financially strong but I do my best, this girl borrows money from me claiming family issues But she doesn’t give me back. I give her to the extent that all my savings in PiggyVest turned to 0. She claims she is a virgin Nd no sex rule. I Obliged. And I haven’t cheated even though I was sexually active before I met her. So it is not because of sex I do what I do . Just wanted serious relationship cos I am getting old and pressure to marry is coming already.
Cut long story short she asked me to buy her iPhone 12 for her birthday in February. She made this request in November. I told her I honestly don’t have the money.. we argued I said ok let me give her my iPhone 7 she said nope that her friends are using iPhone 11 upward. Let me try buy iPhone 8 now she say no. She sha said she will settle for iPhone 11 Pro Max . Just to kill the argument I said ok and anytime she brings it up I tell her I am working on it. Deep down I knew I can not raise that money . My salary for 10 months will not even be able to buy the phone. She has been hopeful always saying when are we buying it. Anyways her birthday has passed. I wasn’t around as I traveled but now I am back on Tuesday she called telling me hope I am giving it to her on Sunday that she can’t wait to get it bla bla bla . She was excited . Had to tell her the truth that I don’t have the money yet and she should be patient. She just kept quiet on the phone. Babe what’s up? I asked . She said nothing I want to sleep and she cannot come over to my house this weekend again. Our conversation went from 100 to 0 real quick. I then texted her to calm down that I will try raise the money. Anyways like play like play this girl hasn’t read my message since Tuesday nor pick my calls. Like how can somebody be so insensitive. Ignoring all do times I have helped her financially but a freaking gadget that can be stolen is your problem. Even my salary no dey do me for a whole month . Men are only loved by what they can provide, Nd I do provide to this girl God knows. E pain me sha. Anyways just writing this to ease my pain.


Brother I beg gimme her nomba so I can help u beg her. PREACH smiley

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Re: She Broke Up With Me Few Days To Valentine. So Hurt by MickzyDonald: 2:26pm On Feb 11, 2021
She wan use iphone that her father cant buy her grin grin grin...
Anyway Congrats man, i know some simps might borrow the money but you didn't grin

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Re: She Broke Up With Me Few Days To Valentine. So Hurt by Nobody: 2:27pm On Feb 11, 2021
I don't want to tell you. grin














Maybe the person below will tell you. angry
Re: She Broke Up With Me Few Days To Valentine. So Hurt by Nezzjnr: 2:28pm On Feb 11, 2021
cheesy cheesy cheesy

What did I just read

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Re: She Broke Up With Me Few Days To Valentine. So Hurt by Marcus2(m): 2:28pm On Feb 11, 2021
I can't believe what I just read shocked

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Re: She Broke Up With Me Few Days To Valentine. So Hurt by Leetika: 2:33pm On Feb 11, 2021
karkinase:

Sorry bro..this shit hurts. Nigerian ladies are the worst on planet earth no iota of single love from them, it's always what they will benefit. angry

Like I don’t understand .. it is sad why can’t we both add value to ourselves not trying to drain a person because you are dating.. I have met other non Nigerian girls and they don’t behave like this.

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Re: She Broke Up With Me Few Days To Valentine. So Hurt by Cerebellum: 2:35pm On Feb 11, 2021
chatinent:


How dare you let her complete the statement that she needs an iPhone 12 without giving her like about five headbutts?

undecided sad







How old is your stupidity?

Nna’m, you represent the opposite of the slogan of Hero Lager Beer: your name has been lost. She has stolen the man in you that you now happily swim the river of tomfoolery with a grin.


Ahagi efula!

Did you need an exemmuo to translate to you that this demon-powered witch is overusing you?

If I was close to you, I'd punch you repeatedly at the rear of your cerebellum. You don't deserve a living brain.


I'm so pissed off rn.


I really cannot mince words but you deserve the crown...



...first order knight of foolery.


Proudly sit in the throne with galantine charisma...nwa slave.



I can't believe I share oxygen with you.

Shuttup Arindindin, u no see say nah cruise wey una dey disturb my moniker upandan

Take time o

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Re: She Broke Up With Me Few Days To Valentine. So Hurt by Leetika: 2:35pm On Feb 11, 2021
MickzyDonald:
She wan use iphone that her father cant buy her grin grin grin...
Anyway Congrats man, i know some simps might borrow the money but you didn't grin

I can’t borrow money, I hate the idea of borrowing money . I always try save no matter how little I earn.. so as not to put pressure on another person. But babe no send that iPhone she craves for the main goal is to show others she has arrived . What happened to using lesser phone.. I will be fine sha , few days time and little distraction . We move.
Re: She Broke Up With Me Few Days To Valentine. So Hurt by MickzyDonald: 2:40pm On Feb 11, 2021
Leetika:


I can’t borrow money, I hate the idea of borrowing money . I always try save no matter how little I earn.. so as not to put pressure on another person. But babe no send that iPhone she craves for the main goal is to show others she has arrived . What happened to using lesser phone.. I will be fine sha , few days time and little distraction . We move.
Niqqa we move, she ain't worth it, a lady once asked my niqqa if he has iphone before she can date him

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Re: She Broke Up With Me Few Days To Valentine. So Hurt by Intoboy(m): 2:41pm On Feb 11, 2021
Leetika:
So I really don’t know who I have offended my love life Is a course I always fail. I have been seeing this girl since June 2020 but friends before then. She is been a financial burden to me as she doesn’t work, well in my own way I support her, my salary is actually 35k per month here in Abuja hoping it will increase but it didn’t.

Now I am not financially strong but I do my best, this girl borrows money from me claiming family issues But she doesn’t give me back. I give her to the extent that all my savings in PiggyVest turned to 0. She claims she is a virgin Nd no sex rule. I Obliged. And I haven’t cheated even though I was sexually active before I met her. So it is not because of sex I do what I do . Just wanted serious relationship cos I am getting old and pressure to marry is coming already.
Cut long story short she asked me to buy her iPhone 12 for her birthday in February. She made this request in November. I told her I honestly don’t have the money.. we argued I said ok let me give her my iPhone 7 she said nope that her friends are using iPhone 11 upward. Let me try buy iPhone 8 now she say no. She sha said she will settle for iPhone 11 Pro Max . Just to kill the argument I said ok and anytime she brings it up I tell her I am working on it. Deep down I knew I can not raise that money . My salary for 10 months will not even be able to buy the phone. She has been hopeful always saying when are we buying it. Anyways her birthday has passed. I wasn’t around as I traveled but now I am back on Tuesday she called telling me hope I am giving it to her on Sunday that she can’t wait to get it bla bla bla . She was excited . Had to tell her the truth that I don’t have the money yet and she should be patient. She just kept quiet on the phone. Babe what’s up? I asked . She said nothing I want to sleep and she cannot come over to my house this weekend again. Our conversation went from 100 to 0 real quick. I then texted her to calm down that I will try raise the money. Anyways like play like play this girl hasn’t read my message since Tuesday nor pick my calls. Like how can somebody be so insensitive. Ignoring all do times I have helped her financially but a freaking gadget that can be stolen is your problem. Even my salary no dey do me for a whole month . Men are only loved by what they can provide, Nd I do provide to this girl God knows. E pain me sha. Anyways just writing this to ease my pain.


this shit you wrote up her really got me exasperated... I don't knw stupid men like you still exist,i actually tot i insulted the last one not knowing ab still got more to insult...well lemme ask you

How old are you?
You want a serious relationship bcus there's pressure on you to get married with a salary of 35k...are you for real?

now let's be realistic,dat bitch dat told you she's a virgin ad asked you to wait,do you knw why she didn't give you dat pussy?lemme tell you
she noticed you aren't sensible enof,so she's using you while some random guy enjoys dat virgin pussy.
No bitch is entitled to ur money...not even ur 100naira
if she wants iphone she should work ad get herself one or beta still she shud go steal one.

you even wanted to give her ur phone...omg!!!
please who is dis person,lemme check ur profile.
so please sir,how may we help you,shud we gather money for you to buy her the phone or wat?

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Re: She Broke Up With Me Few Days To Valentine. So Hurt by TSBO: 2:46pm On Feb 11, 2021
Hahahahaha


Oro buruku aterin

What did I just read??

In Macaroni's voice... Are you normal??

This better be a fake story..

No vex o... O shock mi bakan ni

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Re: She Broke Up With Me Few Days To Valentine. So Hurt by Themainboy22: 2:49pm On Feb 11, 2021
1. You are dating yourself, you are just one of her magas and not boyfriend. 2. She's angry because she thought her maga don fall, until you come disappoint. You said she's insensitive, but the only one who I see as insensitive here is you.

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Re: She Broke Up With Me Few Days To Valentine. So Hurt by ichidodo: 2:52pm On Feb 11, 2021
From what I deduced from that write up is that you're a very silly, nincompoop simp....And to add insult to injury... You don't even have money..What double tragedy.

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Re: She Broke Up With Me Few Days To Valentine. So Hurt by yomi007k(m): 2:56pm On Feb 11, 2021
Fool..

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Re: She Broke Up With Me Few Days To Valentine. So Hurt by Stephenmoka4(m): 2:59pm On Feb 11, 2021
You called this love. I can only give a lady money if I know it's true help and [b] she is supportive to both me or my family and hers [b] .

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Re: She Broke Up With Me Few Days To Valentine. So Hurt by Psoul(m): 3:00pm On Feb 11, 2021
Shaving before sexual intercourse makes you prone to infections. Once you meet an infected person, you may get an STD even with protection.
Those open pores need to close up before you can be sure and safe from STDs especially when dealing with a partner you are not sure of.
Today is Thursday, you are planning to shave or even wait till Saturday before shaving, so your boo/bae will know you are a neat person...
Okay, please bring down your leg from the toilet sink, don't do it. Save yourself please.
Shaving for valentine sex is over.

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Re: She Broke Up With Me Few Days To Valentine. So Hurt by EmmaNuella77(f): 3:02pm On Feb 11, 2021
Awcry . I feel your pain.. How can she be so insensitive tho? I don't think she loves you Sha.. I know it hurts but be thankful as you have all your money to yourself.. You'll be fine okay?

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Re: She Broke Up With Me Few Days To Valentine. So Hurt by Katridge2021: 3:04pm On Feb 11, 2021
You shouldn't be wailing boy! You should be happy one of the problems in your life is gone. grin

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Re: She Broke Up With Me Few Days To Valentine. So Hurt by solalal36(m): 3:06pm On Feb 11, 2021
OP is using us to catch cruise. This can't be true
Re: She Broke Up With Me Few Days To Valentine. So Hurt by realman42: 3:08pm On Feb 11, 2021
I don't want to call you a fool.But u shud thank God he separated you from her.
Re: She Broke Up With Me Few Days To Valentine. So Hurt by 2dice01: 3:11pm On Feb 11, 2021
Toni Kroos or Santa Cruz ?

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Re: She Broke Up With Me Few Days To Valentine. So Hurt by Olakunleyakub(m): 3:16pm On Feb 11, 2021
The rate at which men are loosing their self worth and sanity this days all because of stupid relationships or marriages is so disheartening!

If I were you she will not even finished calling the iPhone before I will end the relationship!!


You truly need to work on your selfworthiness!!!

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Re: She Broke Up With Me Few Days To Valentine. So Hurt by 2rez: 3:27pm On Feb 11, 2021
Calling u a mumu is an insult, I mean a big insult to the mumu gengs. U know what,

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Re: She Broke Up With Me Few Days To Valentine. So Hurt by karkinase(m): 3:30pm On Feb 11, 2021
Why is everybody blaming the OP. Is not foolishness its foolishness on the girl's part to demand smtin that's near impossible for him to afford. See ehn most of you criticising the OP dont know the pains it takes dating a Nigerian lady, except you are game n you got no feelings attached. But how long do we wanna keep playing games, truth be the told the value system within the Nigerian dating scene is damaged. It's only a trade that's what dating seems here for me.
I think it's time to stop dating Nigerian women.

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Re: She Broke Up With Me Few Days To Valentine. So Hurt by pretydiva(f): 3:44pm On Feb 11, 2021
Op sounds and behaves like a teenager. Your salary is 35k that isn't even enough for your own expenses, yet you went ahead dating a jobless, lazy, broke ass girl. Phone wey her papa no fit buy for her, na she dey demand from you. IPhone 12 kee her there

Op try get sense this 2021 Biko. Any girl that can't add value to your life, financially and other wise, shouldn't be taking seriously. Dump that lazy ass asap. She's of no use to you

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Re: She Broke Up With Me Few Days To Valentine. So Hurt by WHITELIGHTER: 4:00pm On Feb 11, 2021
pretydiva:
Op sounds and behaves like a teenager. Your salary is 35k that isn't even enough for your own expenses, yet you went ahead dating a jobless, lazy, broke ass girl. Phone wey her papa no fit buy for her, na she dey demand from you. IPhone 12 kee her there

Op try get sense this 2021 Biko. Any girl that can't add value to your life, financially and other wise, shouldn't be taking seriously. Dump that lazy ass asap. She's of no use to you

What's your favourite drink �? U deserve 2 chilled of Ur favourite RN.... OP is a simp with low self esteem... Couldn't finish the wrote up jare...I just dey shame

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