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How Can I Stop Feeling So Much Attraction To Same Sex. by Mode4: 1:26pm On Feb 19, 2021
I am a guy and I am tired of being drawn to guys. These days I observed I fancy guys more than girls and seem to like their company. And I don't seem to know why because I have a strong desire to get married to a woman and settle down anytime soon.

However The more I try to keep away from the thoughts of having a guy around the more i find myself drawn to them. Please I need help on what to do. I have been praying and fasting and I am still praying...
Re: How Can I Stop Feeling So Much Attraction To Same Sex. by Nobody: 1:29pm On Feb 19, 2021
You’ll eventually get your asx bursted soon.
Re: How Can I Stop Feeling So Much Attraction To Same Sex. by BuisnessThrills: 1:29pm On Feb 19, 2021
Hmmmmm, it is well , give it time , time take cares of everything

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Re: How Can I Stop Feeling So Much Attraction To Same Sex. by SoulMus: 1:34pm On Feb 19, 2021
Better go for deliverance or therapy session with a psychologist...

Vagina was solely created for Penis so enjoy the Pussy
Re: How Can I Stop Feeling So Much Attraction To Same Sex. by Mode4: 1:43pm On Feb 19, 2021
BuisnessThrills:
Hmmmmm, it is well , give it time , time take cares of everything

How long? I'm tired.
Re: How Can I Stop Feeling So Much Attraction To Same Sex. by temiyato(m): 3:59pm On Feb 19, 2021
Mode4:
I am a guy and I am tired of being drawn to guys. These days I observed I fancy guys more than girls and seem to like their company. And I don't seem to know why because I have a strong desire to get married to a woman and settle down anytime soon.

However The more I try to keep away from the thoughts of having a guy around the more i find myself drawn to them. Please I need help on what to do. I have been praying and fasting and I am still praying...
Ur mind is playing a bad move on u. U have to reject the thought anytime it comes and replace it with praise singing. Evaluate the friends u keep. Anyone that encourages such shud be thrown out of ur cycle. Embrace christ , accept christ , be save from sins through the crusification of our lord jesus christ on the cross and his resurrection.mingle with true christ believer and u will know that such is sin and u can not be a slave to sins. God loves u.

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Re: How Can I Stop Feeling So Much Attraction To Same Sex. by Righteousness2(m): 4:13pm On Feb 19, 2021
You need Deliverance .
A Demonic and Destructive Foul Spirit has found its way into You. Probably due to what you have allowed your eyes to see.
Locate the Nearest Lords Chosen Branch Church or any Bible Believing Ministry.
Go For Deliverance...
The Hands of GOD is well able to Deliver you.

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Re: How Can I Stop Feeling So Much Attraction To Same Sex. by Mode4: 5:44pm On Feb 19, 2021
Righteousness2:
You need Deliverance .
A Demonic and Destructive Foul Spirit has found its way into You. Probably due to what you have allowed your eyes to see.
Locate the Nearest Lords Chosen Branch Church or any Bible Believing Ministry.
Go For Deliverance...
The Hands of GOD is well able to Deliver you.

Shame no go gree me tell pastor this kind issue o
Re: How Can I Stop Feeling So Much Attraction To Same Sex. by Uyi168: 5:46pm On Feb 19, 2021
Embrace who u are bro.

Na gay u be, u nor kill person.

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Re: How Can I Stop Feeling So Much Attraction To Same Sex. by Righteousness2(m): 5:46pm On Feb 19, 2021
Mode4:


Shame no go gree me tell pastor this kind issue o

My Brother, the Devil does not have shame when he deals with humans.
Do not allow Shame mess ur destiny!

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Re: How Can I Stop Feeling So Much Attraction To Same Sex. by Mode4: 5:50pm On Feb 19, 2021
Righteousness2:


My Brother, the Devil does not have shame when he deals with humans.
Do not allow Shame mess ur destiny!



I will go for deliverance

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Re: How Can I Stop Feeling So Much Attraction To Same Sex. by havilla(f): 6:07pm On Feb 19, 2021
[quote author=Mode4 post=99229311]

I will go for deliverance[/quote

Try mountain of fire three days deliverance programme, it's very good or you can speak to one of their pastors for prayers.

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Re: How Can I Stop Feeling So Much Attraction To Same Sex. by Mode4: 6:14pm On Feb 19, 2021
[quote author=havilla post=99229764][/quote]

Okay.
Re: How Can I Stop Feeling So Much Attraction To Same Sex. by SpicyMimi(f): 6:20pm On Feb 19, 2021
Mode4:


I will go for deliverance
Go for deliverance, this is very important!

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Re: How Can I Stop Feeling So Much Attraction To Same Sex. by Nicoddemus(m): 6:24pm On Feb 19, 2021
Mode4:
I am a guy and I am tired of being drawn to guys. These days I observed I fancy guys more than girls and seem to like their company. And I don't seem to know why because I have a strong desire to get married to a woman and settle down anytime soon.

However The more I try to keep away from the thoughts of having a guy around the more i find myself drawn to them. Please I need help on what to do. I have been praying and fasting and I am still praying...

God damnit. For you to have this kind of unusual feeling something is seriously wrong nigga. That's I wonder........ nigga you need deliverance asap

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Re: How Can I Stop Feeling So Much Attraction To Same Sex. by Mode4: 6:28pm On Feb 19, 2021
Nicoddemus:


God damnit. For you to have this kind of unusual feeling something is seriously wrong nigga. That's I wonder........ nigga you need deliverance asap

I knew Something is seriously wrong with me. I will go for deliverance.

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Re: How Can I Stop Feeling So Much Attraction To Same Sex. by cococandy(f): 7:05pm On Feb 19, 2021
Mode4:


I knew Something is seriously wrong with me. I will go for deliverance.

Please update this thread and let use know if it worked.
I’m curious for academic purposes

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Re: How Can I Stop Feeling So Much Attraction To Same Sex. by Nicoddemus(m): 7:06pm On Feb 19, 2021
Mode4:


I knew Something is seriously wrong with me. I will go for deliverance.
Have you heard in the bible where Jesus said that when an unclean spirit is casted out it wanders in dry places without rest then it says to itself let me go back to my house and when it goes back it finds it clean and tidy. Then it goes and brings seven other demons more wicked than he is such that the later end of the man is worse than the former.

Going to deliverance without genuine repentance and jesuJ coming into your life to fill the places the devil had occupied is an exercise in futility.

The person of jesJe in your life and a personal walk with him is deliverance itself and the assurance you need

If you do this one day you yourself will cast out devil's in time to come

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Re: How Can I Stop Feeling So Much Attraction To Same Sex. by Aladdin1(m): 7:12pm On Feb 19, 2021
Prayer,fasting and deliverance would help you but not completely.the solution lies with you.i have overcome such challenge at a time.the feeling usually emanates from watching pornography until your mind gets f up with seeing harder and more depraved pornography and eventually you stumble into samesex porn and then begins or worsens your samesex curiousity.i would advice you to be who you want to be and dont act what you feel.

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Re: How Can I Stop Feeling So Much Attraction To Same Sex. by gfon(m): 7:31am On Feb 20, 2021
If you were within my range,would have given you seven puxxies for seven days..lets start the evaluation on the 8th day..if you still attracted to guys after that seven days,then even deliverance no fit help you

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Re: How Can I Stop Feeling So Much Attraction To Same Sex. by YourCoffin: 9:41am On Feb 20, 2021
Op clarify if you prefer the company of guys or you have erection when in their company.

Anyway, there nothing wrong with you. If you are attracted to kids or animals then there is a problem

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Re: How Can I Stop Feeling So Much Attraction To Same Sex. by sisisioge: 11:10am On Feb 20, 2021
Hmmmm....could your attraction to guys be pure platonic or you get funny sensations in your privates when around them? For instance, as a female, I know I'm sexually attracted to males cos for those I find appealing, I tend to stare too much at their lips, look at their shoulders too much, get too cozy when I hug them, become a fountain at some point....blablabla. Normal feeling,sex is natural. Do you feel same way with guys? You wanna getnaked with a Male? If yes, you need to leave naija before them homophobes get you. Good luck.

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Re: How Can I Stop Feeling So Much Attraction To Same Sex. by Mode4: 11:30am On Feb 20, 2021
YourCoffin:
Op clarify if you prefer the company of guys or you have erection when in their company.

Anyway, there nothing wrong with you. If you are attracted to kids or animals then there is a problem

Well, I don't necessarily have erections but I find them attractive as compared to girls. I have been crushing on a couple of people and they are mostly guys. I am plain tired of this ordeal. I just want a healing. I want to love women and crush on them and marry and have children and leave boys alone.
Re: How Can I Stop Feeling So Much Attraction To Same Sex. by vhuqnl(m): 12:22pm On Feb 20, 2021
Mode4:


I will go for deliverance
Ur wasting your time. You are gay and there's nothing you can do about it. You are going through internalised homophobia. Read on it.
The earlier you accept and come to terms with your sexuality, the better for you. Read about sexuality and sexual orientation. You can't change. You can only pretend to be straight. Which is a life of frustration.

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Re: How Can I Stop Feeling So Much Attraction To Same Sex. by Akanimoh113(m): 1:15pm On Feb 20, 2021
Mode4:


Well, I don't necessarily have erections but I find them attractive as compared to girls. I have been crushing on a couple of people and they are mostly guys. I am plain tired of this ordeal. I just want a healing. I want to love women and crush on them and marry and have children and leave boys alone.

Crush
On Boys

When was the last time you Talked to a Girl
Or Even Touched a Girl

Guy I was in your Shoes But when it Occurred to me that the Boys I hangout with are mostly my Friends and my Parents knew them.

I Started Seeing some Guys Older than me getting Attracted to me, They will even ask for my number and be calling me on late Hours. As a Soft Guy I'll give my number but they'll never be able to reach me neither will they see me, Even if its a Mistake they'll not Recognize me, Won't even have the Mind to call me... What Nonsense !!!

I've always wanted to Bleep a Girl but within me I can't, I Rather Flow and Burst her mind than do something am not ready for... 80% of my Contacts are Girls, 17% are Boys with Sense and they know how to do Something, 1.5% are Boys I Barely move with because of the way they live, 1.5% are Numbers I don't know who Owns it


The Moment your Gay and you Want to Involve me with your Gay friendship... You'll Rarely see me, Maybe in a Month you've seen me Twice or Thrice.
I can't Have them Around me, Even if they are Around me... Let me not know they are Gay cus My Reaction alone will set them Ablaze

My Advice For You
Try to Hang out with Girls... Be a Kind of Guy that Burst Girls Minds... That Always say Something a Girl would want to Hear Not the Opposite
Your Penis is Meant to Bleep Pussies not Assholes
Your Penis is Meant to Bleep Pussies to Produce Offspring's

You see this Feeling your Having, Wanting a Woman and Being Attracted to a Man

In the Future When you get Married you'll have no Peace of mind
You maybe Married to a Wife and Give Birth to children But you will bleep a Man
When your Family Finds out, Not to Talk of Your Children?
You will Loose Your Family
You will Loose Your Job
You will Loose Your Happiness
You will Loose Probably a lot of things.

But I Reject it Over Your Life

Guy make a Choice or Remain Miserable for Life
Or More So... Seek God's Presence

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Re: How Can I Stop Feeling So Much Attraction To Same Sex. by Nobody: 1:51pm On Feb 20, 2021
Realize that God did not make Adam and Steve, but Adam and Eve.

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Re: How Can I Stop Feeling So Much Attraction To Same Sex. by etrouble: 9:00pm On Feb 20, 2021
You will end up with 14 years imprisonment

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Re: How Can I Stop Feeling So Much Attraction To Same Sex. by SweetCunt97(f): 9:45pm On Feb 20, 2021
Mode4:


I will go for deliverance
Simply experience that which ur mind craves for and the aftermath will determine if you'll drop or continue.

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Re: How Can I Stop Feeling So Much Attraction To Same Sex. by Mode4: 10:44pm On Feb 20, 2021
Thorpido, what are u looking for here?. Stop viewing this thread. Go away!
Re: How Can I Stop Feeling So Much Attraction To Same Sex. by mosdii(m): 7:46am On Feb 21, 2021
You can't stop it because Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them

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Re: How Can I Stop Feeling So Much Attraction To Same Sex. by thorpido(m): 9:36am On Feb 21, 2021
Mode4:
Thorpido, what are u looking for here?. Stop viewing this thread. Go away!
I'm always learning.I'm always trying to understand things.
Re: How Can I Stop Feeling So Much Attraction To Same Sex. by YourCoffin: 9:54am On Feb 21, 2021
Mode4:


Well, I don't necessarily have erections but I find them attractive as compared to girls. I have been crushing on a couple of people and they are mostly guys. I am plain tired of this ordeal. I just want a healing. I want to love women and crush on them and marry and have children and leave boys alone.

Healing? You are imposing sickness on yourself. Why force yourself to be attracted to those you don't find attractive? Be true to yourself and you will recieve the healing you crave

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