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Re: Kaduna Pensioner Burns Down His House To Prevent Estranged Wife From Returning by yommen: 6:33am On Feb 21, 2021
He should have just locked up the whole house and opt to sell off not burn down the whole house in anger.

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Re: Kaduna Pensioner Burns Down His House To Prevent Estranged Wife From Returning by SEGLIZ: 6:48am On Feb 21, 2021
Lakadastickla:


Redpill knowledge bro cool

better stop this your 'Redpill knowledge' nonsense before its ember consumes you.
that is pretty the Bible teaching and not any form of stupid Redpill knowledge.
a good number of you come here to say trash of the Bible but today you are claiming its content because it supports your folly.
Re: Kaduna Pensioner Burns Down His House To Prevent Estranged Wife From Returning by Jagznation(m): 7:27am On Feb 21, 2021
women think they are wise after flirting up and down u want him to eat chaf after 20 years
Re: Kaduna Pensioner Burns Down His House To Prevent Estranged Wife From Returning by 9Stamp(f): 7:34am On Feb 21, 2021
Cutting the nose to spite the face.

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Re: Kaduna Pensioner Burns Down His House To Prevent Estranged Wife From Returning by descartes400: 7:35am On Feb 21, 2021
blinking001:
This man is brave...you never can tell what he went through in the hands of that woman...but then burning his own house down? Nahh that's too far..

My Guy, it is not too far. It is better than after being forced to accept the estranged wife by the wayward children, while every one is asleep, he now decides to burn the whole place down. He can do it but decided the lesser evil.
Re: Kaduna Pensioner Burns Down His House To Prevent Estranged Wife From Returning by egopersonified(f): 7:36am On Feb 21, 2021
Musa when said that such actions are very rare with people of his age who normally would want to keep legacy for their children to inherit, when they are no more, he said, “Yes but when they are not good you don’t keep anything for them, except if they are good and they listen to you. They are not good.



Wow, never thought of it this way. The Bible says a good man leaves an inheritance for his children. Didn't say if the children deserved the inheritance. If a good man leaves an inheritance for his children, a bad man will leave no inheritance. So by deductive reasoning, if a good child deserves an inheritance, a bad child doesn't deserve inheritance.
Re: Kaduna Pensioner Burns Down His House To Prevent Estranged Wife From Returning by Benoxvals(m): 7:36am On Feb 21, 2021
Righteousness2:
House Gone!
Money Gone!
Certificates and Documents gone!
All because of a Terrible spirit of Destructive anger..

When the issues of Life overwhelm you, unburden it all at the Feet of JESUS.

Burdens are lifted at Calvary..

It’s not as easy as you anticipate young man..
There is a reason why JESUS reacted in ANGER when he saw people trading in the synagogue..
Though we created in God’s imagine,we are still HUMAN afterall.
Re: Kaduna Pensioner Burns Down His House To Prevent Estranged Wife From Returning by advanceDNA: 7:37am On Feb 21, 2021
yommen:
He should have just locked up the whole house and opt to sell off not burn down the whole house in anger.

Did u read where they broke the roof to force the woman’s load into his house??

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Re: Kaduna Pensioner Burns Down His House To Prevent Estranged Wife From Returning by AkuOlisa: 7:48am On Feb 21, 2021
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catice:
Why not just move out of the house for them? This seems like the most foolish thing ive ever read on the internet.


Why will he leave the house for them ? Did any of them assisted in building the house ?

Where was the wife in the last 20 year's ?

After the wife don waka waka for 20 years ? The man should then abandon his house because of a wayward woman.

Na this kind mentality the make women believe the can do and behave anyhow and get away with it.
Re: Kaduna Pensioner Burns Down His House To Prevent Estranged Wife From Returning by BnBgrillNG(m): 8:15am On Feb 21, 2021
Mekudi:
Ogbenutan

Iroyin agbo se ahhhh!!!

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Re: Kaduna Pensioner Burns Down His House To Prevent Estranged Wife From Returning by learnedman(m): 8:23am On Feb 21, 2021
He should have sold the house and relocated elsewhere instead of burning it !!
Re: Kaduna Pensioner Burns Down His House To Prevent Estranged Wife From Returning by m140(m): 8:30am On Feb 21, 2021
emmanuel596:
Better to live in a forest than with a scornful woman

Proverbs 21:19
AJE!
Woman matter no be here ooo, man that has been living without her since 20 years
Re: Kaduna Pensioner Burns Down His House To Prevent Estranged Wife From Returning by m140(m): 8:31am On Feb 21, 2021
Amayo192:
most people will blame the man , but bet me , this man will live long
Walai!
Re: Kaduna Pensioner Burns Down His House To Prevent Estranged Wife From Returning by Jodano: 8:40am On Feb 21, 2021
LadySarah:
why did the wife choose to return now?

It's not anger, it's pent up emotional frustration. It must have been a tough time for him those years training those ungrateful kids alone. . The children should have kept on trying to coerce him instead of forcing her on him.
20 whole yrs. Mbanu!

The monster she made just engulfed them.
You gat a good brain, the best comment so far.

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Re: Kaduna Pensioner Burns Down His House To Prevent Estranged Wife From Returning by Oyiboman69: 9:00am On Feb 21, 2021
catice:
Why not just move out of the house for them? This seems like the most foolish thing ive ever read on the internet.
what is the meaning of this statement... I can do more than that if I sense any form of betrayal from my loved ones....

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Re: Kaduna Pensioner Burns Down His House To Prevent Estranged Wife From Returning by Oyiboman69: 9:05am On Feb 21, 2021
Spectaclesawe25:
Its a state of frustration, depression and hopelessness, not to far from being suicidal.
Some women are very wicked, she abandoned the man and wasted him in his prime to probably go after those she thinks were better than him. Now e dn clear, she wants to come back and be the 'mother of the house', the old man is used to doing things by himself and doesn't want any help from who doesn't love him.
He feels none of the children is seeing things from his perspective.
His actions are bad but still better to direct the frustration on the house than on the woman.
Some issues like this are difficult to judge expecially when you reason from mental health point of view.
the only did wrong by not burning all of them together with the wife...I hate betrayal.
If it were me,I'll burn all of them or probably sell the house with them inside...I'll go for the later, lol....

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Re: Kaduna Pensioner Burns Down His House To Prevent Estranged Wife From Returning by m140(m): 9:36am On Feb 21, 2021
Swinger60:
Anger.! he was so consumed by anger that he rendered himself homeless.

Later when he is calm, he Will realise the damage he did to himself.

self control is key.

BTW, his children didn't do well. they should have been sensitive to the man's reason too. a woman has been separated from a man for 20whole years, you woke up one morning and decide to force them to start living as husband and wife. Haba.!

If they so much desire having their mother back, they should have build their own house, then, take her in.


But, mehn, that man needs to take anger management class. As an elderly person, he should have known that one moment of uncontrolled anger can make you loose all you have built for years
One can do anything to avoid early death
Re: Kaduna Pensioner Burns Down His House To Prevent Estranged Wife From Returning by DarkJeddi(m): 9:55am On Feb 21, 2021
BeeBeeOoh:
shocked



Musa Aga is not just a stupid fool, he's a foolish fool.
Na you get your mouth.. shocked

You never walked in his shoes,so you are free to talk.. undecided
Re: Kaduna Pensioner Burns Down His House To Prevent Estranged Wife From Returning by November24(f): 9:55am On Feb 21, 2021
emmanuel596:
Better to live in a forest than with a scornful woman

Proverbs 21:19

Thank you sir. Children should learn to stay in their place. The man know wetin him see before he divorce.
Re: Kaduna Pensioner Burns Down His House To Prevent Estranged Wife From Returning by DarkJeddi(m): 10:01am On Feb 21, 2021
9Stamp:
Cutting the nose to spite the face.
He took an action that would prolong and give him a stress free life..

Let the Ingrates go and erect a house for their beloved MAMA..

Nonsense and 20 years.. angry

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Re: Kaduna Pensioner Burns Down His House To Prevent Estranged Wife From Returning by m140(m): 10:13am On Feb 21, 2021
Jaqenhghar:

By that action you should know why she left him in the first place.
Will you agree to come back to live with death, the woman only want to eat her cake and also have it.
Re: Kaduna Pensioner Burns Down His House To Prevent Estranged Wife From Returning by Jaqenhghar: 10:26am On Feb 21, 2021
m140:

Will you agree to come back to live with death, the woman only want to eat her cake and also have it.

Read the story. He divorced her. He drove her away. So now whatvhas he achieved by burning his house? Clearly this guy has a temper. Now he is homeless. If I was his son he wont come anywhere near my house not with that temper.
Re: Kaduna Pensioner Burns Down His House To Prevent Estranged Wife From Returning by Jodano: 10:42am On Feb 21, 2021
VULCAN:
She said no to return home when they begged her cos a man outside was taking care of her.

As soon as that fellow dumped her she manipulated the kids to force her back to her ex husbands home.

Women love manipulation.
You are a thinker.
Re: Kaduna Pensioner Burns Down His House To Prevent Estranged Wife From Returning by Jodano: 10:50am On Feb 21, 2021
Jaqenhghar:

Or better yet sell the house. He is lucky he didnt burn orher people's house in the process Im sure na there dem go beat the crase comot for him body
You b woman wrapper.
Re: Kaduna Pensioner Burns Down His House To Prevent Estranged Wife From Returning by henrydwayne(m): 10:51am On Feb 21, 2021
Re: Kaduna Pensioner Burns Down His House To Prevent Estranged Wife From Returning by NamelessOGBENI(m): 10:59am On Feb 21, 2021
E BE THINGS!


BUH DIZ TORI NO COMPLETE NAU, E BI LAIK DI SENIOR MAN NO WAN ANODA GBEGE INSYD HIN HOUSE AGAIN ABI WETIN DEY SUP HERE...
Re: Kaduna Pensioner Burns Down His House To Prevent Estranged Wife From Returning by Jaqenhghar: 11:05am On Feb 21, 2021
Jodano:
You b woman wrapper.
And so?
Re: Kaduna Pensioner Burns Down His House To Prevent Estranged Wife From Returning by alizma: 11:12am On Feb 21, 2021
Righteousness2:
House Gone!
Money Gone!
Certificates and Documents gone!
All because of a Terrible spirit of Destructive anger..

When the issues of Life overwhelm you, unburden it all at the Feet of JESUS.

Burdens are lifted at Calvary..
Where did you see terrible spirit?
Re: Kaduna Pensioner Burns Down His House To Prevent Estranged Wife From Returning by gdbelt(m): 11:18am On Feb 21, 2021
West2019:
If the children are good you keep something for then, correct why are then forcing they father to eat what he didn't want, as for me there is a way you will talk to the man that he will understand everything,. When things are not ok you run away my pastor and I beg you several times in other for you to come back home you said NO .now I have train .my children build house for my self .over 20 years you are coming to stay with me by force are you not afraid of your life . The man is a very good man if it's another man there is many way to kill a rate . silent Killin but he dnt want to mis heaven . ND go to hell fire .the children are very stupid for not handle this matter in a mature way


well said bro

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Re: Kaduna Pensioner Burns Down His House To Prevent Estranged Wife From Returning by Swinger60(f): 11:42am On Feb 21, 2021
m140:

One can do anything to avoid early death
He didn't handle this well. there are other better ways he could have handled it.

since his children are grown, he could have involved police to eject them and their mother out of his house.

second option, he could have also use a less drastic action of removing all the zincs of the house, that way, everyone will find their way.

But, setting his house on fire...? No No. he allowed anger to make him destroy his sweat of many years.
Re: Kaduna Pensioner Burns Down His House To Prevent Estranged Wife From Returning by Brian47(m): 11:44am On Feb 21, 2021
Jaqenhghar:
By trying to burn other people's house abi.
he built the house himself
Re: Kaduna Pensioner Burns Down His House To Prevent Estranged Wife From Returning by Jaqenhghar: 11:53am On Feb 21, 2021
Brian47:


he built the house himself
So what!?
Because you built a house means you must endanger others houses abi. See shithole reasoning. If the fire had spread to other people's house he is still justified abi? Why not get people to demolish the house.

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