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Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by fati2001(m): 12:02am On Feb 23, 2021
Bouz:
Like you have anything to offer in marriage.
BECAUSE YOU ARE USELESS, I CAN'T DEAL WITH MY USELESS COUNTERPART..

LIKE YOU HAVE SOMETHING TO COLLECT FROM A RELATIONSHIP NOT TO TALK ABOUT MARRIAGE.
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by fati2001(m): 12:03am On Feb 23, 2021
addexx:
Speak for your father
AFTER HE HAD THE ENCOUNTER FROM UR FATHER.
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by ibkonekt(m): 12:04am On Feb 23, 2021
Sixfeetbelle:
Them no dey because all of una deflowered them before they turned 18. Yes, you all did, even you too as you dey look me like cow. As you were deflowering her, so was another lady being deflowered by another guy. In fact, some of you deflowered more than 12 ladies before you turned 21. Now that you want to settle, you're looking for virgin. How is that possible? Is the hymen a magical structure?

You're only reaping the nonsense you sowed in your younger years. Simple.
who the hell is this worthless wh0re of babylon, listen women "choose" and have a "choice" who they open their legs to. if a man comes to take away your prized possession it is your duty to keep it and guard it. that is chastity, but women of today are weak and always want to spread their legs when they see a man of means stature and glamour. jezebel wh0re like traits. its the bad boys that mostly disvirgin these girls and use them up like rags during their prime, you now want the man that was denied sex when the girl was tight and fresh to marry a girl that slept with the bad boys, rappers and politicians when she was younger(nonsense). women of these example should carry their infested Vagina to who deflowered them and not try to market worthless vagina to another man.
i say again if a man tries to take a woman's virginity and she lets it be done, then she is the fool for giving away her prize because society told her it is just sex. when men say women have chicken brains you take offence but women really are not smart in things like this
any woman thats not a virgin is only meant to be a mistress or concubine, marriage is for virgin brides and wealthy strong men
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by fati2001(m): 12:05am On Feb 23, 2021
Obasanjoslim:
i know you are one of the victim, that didn't see good man to marry..you better leave your father's house or before you're useless
I CAN NEVER BE A VICTIM TO A USELESS NIGERIAN MAN...
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by fati2001(m): 12:07am On Feb 23, 2021
Keketu:
hi good morning, please pm me thank
NOT INSTRESTED
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by fati2001(m): 12:07am On Feb 23, 2021
Keketu:
hi good morning, please pm me thank
NOT INSTRESTED
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by fati2001(m): 12:10am On Feb 23, 2021
OlawaleBammie:
Said by one Oponurudeen
SAID BY AMALA LOVER FROM THE USELESS NATION LOCATED IN AFRICA.
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by fati2001(m): 12:11am On Feb 23, 2021
TemmyT002:
Sha don't give birth to a male child in Nigeria
NOT TO MARRY IN NIGERIA.. AND YOU ARE HERE TALKING ABOUT BIRTH..
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by fati2001(m): 12:13am On Feb 23, 2021
BabylonCruise:
Speak for Yourself
NIGERIANS MEN ARE USELESS... WE HAVE PROVE OF EM EVERYWHERE.
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by fati2001(m): 12:15am On Feb 23, 2021
12345baba:
including the ejaculator of the sperm that created u
YES, AFTER HE WAS USELESS BY THE USELESS EJACULOTOR THAT DONATED HIS SPERM IN UR MOM EGGS.
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by fati2001(m): 12:16am On Feb 23, 2021
Trimjos:
Is ur father useless?
YES, AFTER YOUR FATHER.
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by ayusco85(m): 12:19am On Feb 23, 2021
Tunagee:
Because na runs girls full everywhere now(Both married and single) as in, ashawo, and materialistic ladies who are not genuinely after you, but what they can get from you.
No fucking cap �
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Nobody: 12:25am On Feb 23, 2021
wildikeman:
Because the unhappiness marriage causes is getting too much
But do you know when you find the right one,one who is understanding,a faithful one...you would have no issue.
You would not experience unhappiness if you get married to the right and good ones.
Do not be discouraged about getting married.What you have to do right now is just to be in search of the good ones and stop trying to join those who sees no purpose in marriage.
"There are no good women,good women doesn't exist anymore",and some people are still lucky to get married/have the good ones.
So,what are you waiting for?
NO ONE SAYS BECAUSE IT'S NOT EASY TO EARN MONEY, HE/SHE WOULDN'T WORK FOR IT.
but Note :the unfaithful ones,one who is much interested in pre-marital sex,the irresponsible ones might not get or have the faithful and responsible ones
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Franklydes(m): 12:37am On Feb 23, 2021
simple cause ladies out there are becoming stupid on a daily basis]
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by BabylonCruise(m): 12:42am On Feb 23, 2021
fati2001:
NIGERIANS MEN ARE USELESS...
WE HAVE PROVE OF EM EVERYWHERE.
How is your Dad?.....Just Asking huh
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Nobody:
pocohantas:
Definitely a Nairaland problem. A romance section problem to be very specific, which makes it dismissible as the boys in this age group are not even the target for any reasonable woman who wants to settle down.

I have contributed towards 4 weddings in my team from Jan till date. With two newborns from last year’s wedding. We are even begging them to chill, make them pay next month before anybody drops another one. Right now in my hand bag, there is an IV from my hairdresser.

Men and women that want to get married, get married and every week too. If you like, let them be deceiving you online. When they are ready, they’ll quietly marry and shut up when topics like this come up.
cheesy cheesy I love this,you get the point.
Most of them online saying they can't get married are planning about getting married offline,I just laugh when I hear/see some males forming redpillers, most of them are not redpillers,they just keep on ranting as if they are whereas offline,they aren't such kinda person (i.e they are not redpillers)..I understand what I am saying.. it's what I have experienced (when I say experienced,I mean I know of people forming redpillers on Nairaland messaging and doing some kinda things a redpiller shouldn't do cheesy )
What do they gain from trying to be what they aren't?..

Lol, even most of those forming redpillers on nairaland are simps but they just come online and start ranting..
Then the senseless ones would start believing them cheesy .I don't know why people are failing to make use of this statement "the useless ones are in search of people to turn to a useless person just like they are so they can make friends" I think this is how it's written in Yoruba "Oloribu nma wa ara kun ara ni"
Men are now losing interest in getting married?.what gender are those getting married to the other every weekend?

Please,some people here should just stop discouraging people to find solutions to their problem just because they are too lazy to find the solution to theirs.
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Nobody: 1:23am On Feb 23, 2021
Toks2008:
[s]When you get the cow milk for free there wont be any need to buy the cow.[/s]
Who gave you for free or told you It's free?? A lot of people keep on making same mistake by writing the wrong sentence. Nothing Is free even In "Freetown"
The right saying should be "When you can buy the cow milk and have rest of mind and peace. Why pay for the whole cow. Since the Milk Is exactly what you needed......
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Nobody: 1:44am On Feb 23, 2021
peacenaija:
I need to also add this, marriage is somewhat a scam or an institution that majorly favours women. Please run away from ladies older and richer than you, they will frustrate your life especially those who are hard to satisfy because of their ostentatious affinity. Go for a lady within or slightly above your class but with focus and robust ambitions. Oluwa a wa pelu e
Marriage in Nigeria actually favors men. You have all the control.
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by OlawaleBammie: 4:32am On Feb 23, 2021
fati2001:
SAID BY AMALA LOVER FROM THE USELESS NATION LOCATED IN AFRICA.
Point of correction, in case u want to yab me some other day pls dont use amala, not all yoruba loves amala grin

Like me now i love pounded yam and beans to the brim grin
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Iatrogen: 5:02am On Feb 23, 2021
Warripikine:
Is it just lack of money or is it a case of no virtuous women out there?
You people should tell me ooo, cos ayam not understanding today's men anymore..
Is Marriage now a death sentence or what?
Because woman no dey again to marry, na only towtow remain and we no fit marry towtow...na fvck dem dey fvck am...
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by OwenJesse27(m): 5:31am On Feb 23, 2021
fati2001:
NIGERIAN MEN ARE USELESS....
AFTER LUSTING OVER THE SLAY QUEENS,PROSTITUTES,CLASSY BABE'S THEY COME ONLINE TO SPILL TRASHS...
NIGERIAN MEN ARE USELESS...
This your bitterness and frustration won't help you change undecided
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by wildikeman(m): 5:33am On Feb 23, 2021
iamcee:
But do you know when you find the right one,one who is understanding,a faithful one...you would have no issue.
You would not experience unhappiness if you get married to the right and good ones.
Do not be discouraged about getting married.What you have to do right now is just to be in search of the good ones and stop trying to join those who sees no purpose in marriage.
"There are no good women,good women doesn't exist anymore",and some people are still lucky to get married/have the good ones.
So,what are you waiting for?
NO ONE SAYS BECAUSE IT'S NOT EASY TO EARN MONEY, HE/SHE WOULDN'T WORK FOR IT.
but Note :the unfaithful ones,one who is much interested in pre-marital sex,the irresponsible ones might not get or have the faithful and responsible ones
Finding money is not easy but you must have it.. You have no choice. Marriage on the other hand is a btw two persons that may change with time or not.
90 percent of people who are married today aren't happy.
100 percent of those that have money are contented and happy.
See the difference?
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by BigMamaNaija: 6:06am On Feb 23, 2021
It's a case of "why pay for what you can have free of charge?" Girls of nowadays have so cheapened themselves. This is the result; it's not even full blown yet.
Many good men are marrying on a daily basis and will keep marrying... they go for wise girls who are not cheap.
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Ahasco(m): 6:09am On Feb 23, 2021
They more enlightened about marriage than before
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by fati2001(m): 6:38am On Feb 23, 2021
OwenJesse27:
This your bitterness and frustration won't help you change undecided
and it's not ur business

Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by HelpYourself(m): 7:02am On Feb 23, 2021
Nuttella:
Seer that is operating under familiar spirit, is that one a seer? Get out.
grin
No need to be rude na grin
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Nobody: 7:03am On Feb 23, 2021
GofuckYourself:
grin
No need to be rude na grin
I didnt ask for your favour. So kindly vamose.
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by JOACHINpedro: 7:05am On Feb 23, 2021
BigYash:
You no know wetin dey happen for the background oga. Not how far o,na how well. No be same marriage people wen dey get sex partners reach 10? Abegee!
Bottomline, guys still dy marry and still will be marrying till infinity Q.E.D
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Nobody:
LOVEGINO:
tell dem bro. Nigerians gals re nothing but liability. Stupid.
Yeah,the ones you roll with not all Nigerian girls..
Lol,I can't laugh in French.. because some girls are demanding for urgent 2k or whatever from you doesn't mean all Nigerian ladies are nothing but liability.

Besides, if that's the reason why you're thinking about not getting married,it shows you ain't really
responsible..yeah, even in the olden days,men are responsible for catering for their wife and children,a wife could be supportive,yeah SUPPORTIVE meaning She could help you to with SOME but not ALL..
So, what's stopping you from getting married and stop thinking girls are liability?. Because most men don't have money..

They(men) should work on how to earn and have different streams of income,LADIES SHOULD WORK ON THIS AS WELL (nothing should stop you from having

different streams of income,I am not saying you should start indulging in bad acts in exchange of money or to increase the bad acts you engage in for the exchange of money,I mean LEARN DIGITAL SKILLS,THINK SMART,THINK ABOUT
DIFFERENT GOOD THINGS and IDEAS YOU COULD DO/USE TO EARN MONEY,BE OPEN TO LEARNING,READ GREAT E-BOOKS,and all that.


Well,Saying this "SOME/MOST Nigerian girls are nothing but liability" would be much better..
and what some people fails to know is that THE SUCCESSFUL ONES DO NOT LIKE TO ASSOCIATE WITH THE USELESS ONES
Which is why in most cases, useless people get attracted to each other..
So,most of those who are complaining about Nigerian girls,they are so-so,Nigerian girls are useless and all that should try to be USEFUL AND SUCCESSFUL as well,so they can work with the useful, productive, successful, faithful , decent and good ones.
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by HelpYourself(m): 7:06am On Feb 23, 2021
Nuttella:
I didnt ask for your favour. So kindly vamose.
But I can tell you all you need to know and beyond all doubt

I have seen your future grin

It's best you know
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by PastorFire: 7:12am On Feb 23, 2021
Nuttella:
Na so dem dey take marry? Oga be calming down small small. lipsrsealed
So, what is wrong in my statement?. I can meet you today and marry you this Saturday. Life no hard na.. Oya, i will send my whatapp number to you.
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by BigYash: 7:24am On Feb 23, 2021
JOACHINpedro:
Bottomline, guys still dy marry and still will be marrying till infinity Q.E.D
Yes,of course . Everybody can't be wise to understand that marriage where there is zero commitment is not marriage. Some guys are pussy niggas,when they are with the opposite sex,they can't think properly. Go to front page and see what a lady did to one husband to be. Borrowed money for her and now she blocked his ass. That bitch was quick to show her color, other bitches wait till after marriage.
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