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Hi nairalanders

I am sick, tired and exhausted emotionally of meeting single mothers. I'm single and 30+ of age myself.

I don't know they are single mothers until they drop the bomb that they are one with either a male or a female child.

Honestly they are kind,sweet and romantic but I am not into them. I don't want a woman with kids from some other men as I see those kids as bastards but I just wondered why I keep meeting them single mother women even when my principle doesn't agree with it. it is as if no girl is single.

I feel bad when I meet them and they tell me they single mothers because from that moment I already know I can't be with them. I only making this post because of their sweet nature and their beeping my phone I told them straight up I am not interested in single mother but one of them is still adamant and keep ringing my phone.

Baba ask them first.

No tangible reason...

#ILMOVON
#Attitude
#Bliv



Never you Marry a single mom..
They always see you as a means to an end..
Most times, they purposely look for a responsible young man to play the father role to their out of wedlock child coz she knows the real father is a deadbeat..
And that job is a thankless job, instead, you would see a struggle and division between the kid(s) and yours in future..
Most women can Bleep anytype of man but are choose on whom to stay with permanently, a possibility of her still sleeping with the baby daddy and other men while still married to you is 95% positive..
Use your brain..
Lots of single ladies out there without a child out of wedlock..
Change the environment you scout ladies from..
Only a fool starts a match at 1-0 scoreline deficit..

Man stay the fucck away from single mothers

SweetCunt97:
Baba ask them first.

Thank you. It kinda feel awkward for me to meet a person for the first time and be asking if they single mother or not. But I will try and do that so no one get hurts. Just tired of meeting lot of them meehn

Thanks man. I am trying my best to stay away from them single mothers. I don't want anyone to get hurt..

ABANGWABOI:
#ILMOVON
#Attitude
#Bliv



Never you Marry a single mom..
They always see you as a means to an end..
Most times, they purposely look for a responsible young man to play the father role to their out of wedlock child coz she knows the real father is a deadbeat..
And that job is a thankless job, instead, you would see a struggle and division between the kid(s) and yours in future..
Most women can Bleep anytype of man but are choose on whom to stay with permanently, a possibility of her still sleeping with the baby daddy and other men while still married to you is 95% positive..
Use your brain..
Lots of single ladies out there without a child out of wedlock..
Change the environment you scout ladies from..
Only a fool starts a match at 1-0 scoreline deficit..

Baba it's your destiny, embrace it.

being a single mother isn't a disease, infact they are the best if u need a serious relationship.

forget the fact she has a child out of wedlock, but they always give the best attitude if eventually they get someone who loves them.

my father has 3 wives, my mom is the last wife, and she was a single mom before my dad met her. when things went bad for him, it was my mom who stayed with him till things got better. till death, only my mom lived peacefully with him, others were sent away because they couldn't live with his conditions. and it wasn't even my dad that took care of her son.

and a lot of experience I have seen about single moms.

my opinion

It's good to b with them. pls embrace it n try to make it work. Drop all negative feelings. Or would you prefer a lady tell u that d baby with her is her youngest sis or nephew/niece?

Goodheart012:
Hi nairalanders

I am sick, tired and exhausted emotionally of meeting single mothers. I'm single and 30+ of age myself.

I don't know they are single mothers until they drop the bomb that they are one with either a male or a female child.

Honestly they are kind,sweet and romantic but I am not into them. I don't want a woman with kids from some other men as I see those kids as bastards but I just wondered why I keep meeting them single mother women even when my principle doesn't agree with it. it is as if no girl is single.

I feel bad when I meet them and they tell me they single mothers because from that moment I already know I can't be with them. I only making this post because of their sweet nature and their beeping my phone I told them straight up I am not interested in single mother but one of them is still adamant and keep ringing my phone.

Stop Acting Like A Woman. If U Don't Want Her, Let It Be. I Perceive U Like Her But D Child Or Children Is D Issue. Or U Aren't Sure Weda To Av A Relationship With Her Or U Are Scared Of Having A Relationship With Her.

This was also my Achilles Hill, have met about 5 so far, nice ladies o! But, I couldn't just bring myself to it.

Not until recently, I met this angel here on Nairaland .

My advice to you is to keep searching, definitely! You will soon meet your spec.

The one beeping your phone steadily is in a dreadful search for a husband now after she has wasted her life in her prime, b1tch wants to eat her cake and have it. bro RUN!

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The one beeping your phone steadily is in a dreadful search for a husband now after she has wasted her life in her prime, b1tch wants to eat her cake and have it. bro RUN!

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Slimslimqq:
being a single mother isn't a disease, infact they are the best if u need a serious relationship.

forget the fact she has a child out of wedlock, but they always give the best attitude if eventually they get someone who loves them.

my father has 3 wives, my mom is the last wife, and she was a single mom before my dad met her. when things went bad for him, it was my mom who stayed with him till things got better. till death, only my mom lived peacefully with him, others were sent away because they couldn't live with his conditions. and it wasn't even my dad that took care of her son.

and a lot of experience I have seen about single moms.

my opinion

it is well, having a kid is not a disease, having a kid doesnt define any body, someone can be single nd be the worst.. Shit happens.. I hate when people discriminate..