Hey pple, so I'm in love with this fulani man with all my heart even though I'm a Christian and made it clear to him I won't leave my religion, I've accepted to be his third wife and I see myself converting to islam.
some girls will form they can't do that but deep down they know I'm threading on the right path.

so, can you accept to be married into a polygamous family.

Depends on what you want. I'm not a girl but I know in today's world it's the woman who decides to be with a man. The man only follows her lead.

It all depends on what's on the menu for you. What r your options? If it's the best for you then go with it. And seems you sound like you're low-key okay with switching religions it'll be even easier for u

Nonyeadamu:
Hey pple, so I'm in love with this fulani man with all my heart even though I'm a Christian and made it clear to him I won't leave my religion, I've accepted to be his third wife and I see myself converting to islam.
some girls will form they can't do that but deep down they know I'm threading on the right path.

so, can you accept to be married into a polygamous family.

Hell no. I cant even be a first wife.
Im the only wife!
Or no wife.
I think being in a polygamous marraige only works if u dont have jelousy issues.

Also if u can change ur religion just like that then ur faith cant b very strong

Clearly, chridtendom's version of 'marry in the Lord' is different.


...to the extent of supporting polygamy, and converting.

With this type of economy someone is thinking of two, three wives hmmm. Me iam very jealous so it can't work for me.

chatinent:
Clearly, chridtendom's version of 'marry in the Lord' is different.


...to the extent of supporting polygamy, and converting.

Oga shatap, where in ur bible was polygamy condemned?? Tell us.


Mind u, i am a Christian.

OlawaleBammie:


Oga shatap, where in ur bible was polygamy condemned?? Tell us.


Mind u, i am a Christian.

For a time, God did permit a man to have more than one wife. (Genesis 4:19; 16:1-4; 29:18-29) But God did not originate the practice of polygamy. He provided only one wife for Adam.

God authorized Jesus Christ to reinstitute His original standard of monogamy. (John 8:28) When asked about marriage, Jesus said: “He who created them from the beginning made them male and female and said, ‘For this reason a man will leave his father and his mother and will stick to his wife, and the two will be one flesh.’”—Matthew 19:4, 5.

One of Jesus’ disciples was later inspired by God to write: “Let each man have his own wife and each woman have her own husband.” (1 Corinthians 7:2) The Bible also states that any married man in the Christian congregation who is given special responsibilities must be “a husband of one wife.”—1 Timothy 3:2, 12.


You are welcome.

Have a nice century.

Third wife?

And you don't think the same man would not leave you for the 4th wife when he is fed up with you like your Iya'les?

You may end up breaking up with your Fulani man boyfriend when you begin to learn a lot from this forum. This forum will enlighten you over time. Perhaps you're born and bread in Bauchi that's why you don't see anything wrong in being a third wife or converting to Islam. Take a chill pill, give yourself sometime before you make any decision or better still visit some other parts of Nigeria (southern ) or the capital of your state of origin ( Owerri) I bet you will see life differently after some exposure.

chiommy123:
With this type of economy someone is thinking of two, three wives hmmm. Me iam very jealous so it can't work for me.

If Ngozi Iweala calls me to be her 18th husband, I'll gladly accept.

Ask about me, I don't have shame o

Mrscarter:


Hell no. I cant even be a first wife.
Im the only wife!
Or no wife.
I think being in a polygamous marraige only works if u dont have jelousy issues.

Also if u can change ur religion just like that then ur faith cant b very strong

u just deh talk, if Ned Nwoko decide to make u one of his wives, u no go gree?
After knowing that u will likely cash out about N5b when he dies in 8-10yrs time, u no go do am?

richmond500:
If Ngozi Iweala calls me to be her 18th husband, I'll gladly accept.

Ask about me, I don't have shame o

OK oh enjoy

Do what makes you happy and follow your instincts!! But don't let money and luxury be the only determinant in making a decision!!

You never how prolific that man career can be.. He may have plans of releasing 8 albums before his retirement and now you are just his 3rd album.

richmond500:
u just deh talk, if Ned Nwoko decide to make u one of his wives, u no go gree?
After knowing that u will likely cash out about N5b when he dies in 8-10yrs time, u no go do am?

Nope. I cant let someone i dnt love touch me. Especially an older man.
No matter the amount of money.
Especially for years lol.
Money isnt everything.
Give me love over money anyday.
As long as im with my man n have my basic needs im easy pleased.

If it was a million for one night i could maybe force myself do the deed lol then go get my man n i everuthing he could want.

As for sharing the man i love..thats a hell no

Nonyeadamu:
Hey pple, so I'm in love with this fulani man with all my heart even though I'm a Christian and made it clear to him I won't leave my religion, I've accepted to be his third wife and I see myself converting to islam.
some girls will form they can't do that but deep down they know I'm threading on the right path.

so, can you accept to be married into a polygamous family.

Do What Pleases You, Nobody will live your life for you. Not even your families will your life for you talk less of faceless Nairalanders.

chatinent:


For a time, God did permit a man to have more than one wife. (Genesis 4:19; 16:1-4; 29:18-29) But God did not originate the practice of polygamy. He provided only one wife for Adam.

God authorized Jesus Christ to reinstitute His original standard of monogamy. (John 8:28) When asked about marriage, Jesus said: “He who created them from the beginning made them male and female and said, ‘For this reason a man will leave his father and his mother and will stick to his wife, and the two will be one flesh.’”—Matthew 19:4, 5.

One of Jesus’ disciples was later inspired by God to write: “Let each man have his own wife and each woman have her own husband.” (1 Corinthians 7:2) The Bible also states that any married man in the Christian congregation who is given special responsibilities must be “a husband of one wife.”—1 Timothy 3:2, 12.


You are welcome.

Have a nice century.

But With All This Quote From Jesus, Jesus himself did not Marry, neither did his Disciples.

mrscarter this ur question sef lets go and ask regina daniels

deep dwn every lady woudnt mind being a sixth wife bcus we are in that time isiah41 talked bout and thats the truth

funkymeky:
You may end up breaking up with your Fulani man boyfriend when you begin to learn a lot from this forum. This forum will enlighten you over time. Perhaps you're born and bread in Bauchi that's why you don't see anything wrong in being a third wife or converting to Islam. Take a chill pill, give yourself sometime before you make any decision or better still visit some other parts of Nigeria (southern ) or the capital of your state of origin ( Owerri) I bet you will see life differently after some exposure.

Thanks but I grew in the south all through my life nd I was posted to Bauchi for PPA. That's how I met him

Those things are for Aboki women, stay in your lane.

Reex12:
mrscarter this ur question sef lets go and ask regina daniels

deep dwn every lady woudnt mind being a sixth wife bcus we are in that time isiah41 talked bout and thats the truth

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we r in that time but not everybody desires the same things.

Stop modifying my post. Idiot

Nonyeadamu:


Thanks but I grew in the south all through my life and I was posted to Bauchi for PPA. That's how I met him

You grew up in the south all through your life and you are cool with being a third wife and converting to Islam? Well, all I can say is wow

Mrscarter:


Nope. I cant let someone i dnt love touch me. Especially an older man.
No matter the amount of money.
Especially for years lol.
Money isnt everything.
Give me love over money anyday.
As long as im with my man n have my basic needs im easy pleased.

If it was a million for one night i could maybe force myself do the deed lol then go get my man n i everuthing he could want.

As for sharing the man i love..thats a hell no

hmm ... a million? do you know what a million is? so a million will make you do what you dont want to do?

if that is the case I dont believe your write that " it is is love over money."

Nonyeadamu:
Hey pple, so I'm in love with this fulani man with all my heart even though I'm a Christian and made it clear to him I won't leave my religion, I've accepted to be his third wife and I see myself converting to islam.
some girls will form they can't do that but deep down they know I'm threading on the right path.

so, can you accept to be married into a polygamous family.

Nonye dont try it o. I know you are carried away by the show of love and probably money. I know how it feels but please just walk away.

He will allow you practise your religion in the beginning but with time, you will be stopped from going to church. if you succeed and continue going to church, your children will never be given that opportunity.

He will also tell you religion doesnt mean anything for him likewise your tribe. But ask him how many of his sisters have been allowed to marry a southerner. You will see him stammering.

Religion is man made, do what makes you happy and as well face the consequences.

Mrscarter:


Nope. I cant let someone i dnt love touch me. Especially an older man.
No matter the amount of money.
Especially for years lol.
Money isnt everything.
Give me love over money anyday.
As long as im with my man n have my basic needs im easy pleased.

If it was a million for one night i could maybe force myself do the deed lol then go get my man n i everuthing he could want.

As for sharing the man i love..thats a hell no

I swear, i love people like you, simple and straightforward, no mincing words. so many nl ladies will still claim they can't do a nyt wit 1m.

Do whatever that rocks your boat sis, at the end of the day it's your decision and you should be able to bear the brunt if it goes south.

There's no need seeking public validation over something you've already made up your mind to do, the choice and consequences is solely yours to bear.

As for your question: nope, I can't even be a side chick not to talk of a third wife. When it comes to my man I'm a selfish bitch and I'm unapologetic about it. Being an only child makes it easier for me to own toys for a long time and never give nor share them with anyone, so I can't possibly nurture the thoughts of sharing my man.
He's mine and mine alone, the thought of sharing him with the kids sef is unnerving not to talk of a strange woman. Mba, not gonna happen.

Michelle55:
Do whatever that rocks your boat sis, at the end of the day it's your decision and you should be able to bear the brunt if it goes south.

There's no need seeking public validation over something you've already made up your mind to do, the choice and consequences is solely yours to bear.

As for your question: nope, I can't even be a side chick not to talk of a third wife. When it comes to my man I'm a selfish bitch and I'm unapologetic about it. Being an only child makes it easier for me to own toys for a long time and never give nor share them with anyone, so I can't possibly nurture the thoughts of sharing my man.
He's mine and mine alone, the thought of sharing him with the kids sef is unnerving not to talk of a strange woman. Mba, not gonna happen.

wahala

Your live, your business

ena5four:


I swear, i love people like you, simple and straightforward, no mincing words. so many nl ladies will still claim they can't do a nyt wit 1m.

So, because she admitted she can do a one night stand for one million, every lady on nairaland must admit same? How some of you reason baffle me. Listen and listen good, I can never ever let someone I don't love touch me, let alone have sex, not even for a billion dollar. It irritates me to the core, I rather die poor than do such.

Lol Ibo girl don dey enjoy Fulani prick

Quinex2:
So, because she admitted she can do a one night stand for one million, every lady on nairaland must admit same? How some of you reason baffle me. Listen and listen good, I can never ever let someone I don't love touch me, let alone have sex, not even for a billion dollar. It irritates me to the core, I rather die poor than do such.

the problem with we guys is that we see all ladies as the same which in reality shouldn't be. that a woman is given out sex freely to any guy don't means all of them are same.