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Re: Childless For 9 Years: Help! I'm Losing My Mind To Depression! by Hathor5(f): 7:14am On Mar 08, 2021 |
cococandy: What happened to for better for worse? 5 Likes |
Re: Childless For 9 Years: Help! I'm Losing My Mind To Depression! by Malawian(m): 7:59am On Mar 08, 2021 |
IntentionTremor:As an aside, why not go on a full month of multivitamin supplements (both of you), while also (very important for both of you), abstain from alcohol of any kind. You might be suprised |
Re: Childless For 9 Years: Help! I'm Losing My Mind To Depression! by eseh1(f): 8:23am On Mar 08, 2021 |
I'm so sorry about all these. I can't say I know how you feel, but I'm sure your wife can cos she's in the same shoes or even worse. Please I do not think there's anything wrong with surrogacy. Please rethink it and embrace that option please. I dunno about polygamy because it has its own wahala and divorce ain't the promise of for better for worse you made to her bro especially if the only problem you have with her is this child bearing issue. Please have a rethink on surrogacy if you can afford it . It doesn't make you less of a man. May God be with you both. |
Re: Childless For 9 Years: Help! I'm Losing My Mind To Depression! by GboyegaD(m): 8:37am On Mar 08, 2021 |
IntentionTremor: All I will say is be careful as "not all that glitters are gold". IntentionTremor: Hasn't this taught you anything whatsoever lesson about fate? |
Re: Childless For 9 Years: Help! I'm Losing My Mind To Depression! by BigDick70inch(m): 9:05am On Mar 08, 2021 |
IntentionTremor: Mehn!!! U really a man Oo........ Won't go this far...............knowing fully well I got married to someone who aborted in the past...........probably due to her spending her fruitful day with one irresponsible guy............ The only reason.........that could ever make me go 9years and bear all that..........is only if I got married to her as a virgin............ Just get yosef a child and stop wasting time and resources...........she might as well leave u if u couldn't father a child/were in her position..........due to yo reckless life in the past......... |
Re: Childless For 9 Years: Help! I'm Losing My Mind To Depression! by Remijuice: 9:16am On Mar 08, 2021 |
Please, the OP do not have hatred for his wife. He called her beautiful. This is for those of you trying to emotionally blackmail the him. Talk to him as if he is your blood brother in this kind of situation. *He has stated that he doesn't want to think of surrogacy. #respect_that. *He made it clear he doesn't want adoption. Knowing fully well that he is OK. *The first pregnancy was after some rounds of fertility treatment after two years wait. *A tissue damage could possibly be as a result of the abortion she had for another man, who left her and now the OP is facing a fertility problem. *They have been together for 9 years. *He is the only son of his father. *They have done over 5 IVF *The op is already down and looking for a way forward.. 1, would you advise your blood brother to continue waiting? Or... We are all here to learn. |
Re: Childless For 9 Years: Help! I'm Losing My Mind To Depression! by kimoyo: 11:03am On Mar 08, 2021 |
IntentionTremor: Thanks. 5+ years. It was really dark. I wish you all the best |
Re: Childless For 9 Years: Help! I'm Losing My Mind To Depression! by Greenlandncom(m): 11:14am On Mar 08, 2021 |
IntentionTremor: Try any of this products: Proceive or Fertiaid. Buy for both of you and take it religiously. Also try and seek Spiritual help, who knows it maybe utterly Spiritual. |
Re: Childless For 9 Years: Help! I'm Losing My Mind To Depression! by ThatPetiteChic: 11:31am On Mar 08, 2021 |
IntentionTremor: I really feel for you sir. A family member of mine(female) is over 50 and hasn't conceived so I really understand what you're passing through. If it's possible to take eggs from your wife and your sperm, then I suggest you open your mind to surrogacy. Though, it will be costly but it's your last resort. BUT if extracting eggs from your is wife impossible, pls sir, get another lady to bear you a child. All these options shouldn't stop you from loving your wife because she's also passing through a lot. Both of you need each other's support. Baby dust to you sir. |
Re: Childless For 9 Years: Help! I'm Losing My Mind To Depression! by johhbekeboh09: 11:47am On Mar 08, 2021 |
IntentionTremor: Join a facebook group named DO IT YOURSELF (DIY) The platform practically address diverse health problems via use of herbs with good results |
Re: Childless For 9 Years: Help! I'm Losing My Mind To Depression! by tchidi066(f): 12:01pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
JidennaJason:Guy do you have a conscience at all, cause I've gone through this thread and seen how you reek of evil, telling a man to do away with his wedded wife because she has no child, what if that lady was your sister, will you give him same advice, desist from your wickedness, because it will come back to haunt you! |
Re: Childless For 9 Years: Help! I'm Losing My Mind To Depression! by Nobody: 12:18pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
tchidi066:I just checked your profile picture and I noticed that you're a beauty without brain... I "reek" of evil because I was the one who persuade her to have reckless sex and kill an innocent child? Do you know that God frowns at abortion? Even nature too? Have you sat your silly ass down to reason if the aborted innocent child was her only chance of becoming a mother? I guess NO, but you were quick enough to stretch your tiny fingers to type bullshit... By the way, if the lady was my sister, I will still give IntentionTremor the same advise and even more because I am not a hypocrite like most of you. She has damaged her womb in her reckless sexual fantasies with her ex boyfriend, now the innocent IntentionTremor is bearing the consequences of her irresponsible behavior.... Like I said before, "I am not a nice person" Now desist from jumping into my mention. Rubbish. 5 Likes |
Re: Childless For 9 Years: Help! I'm Losing My Mind To Depression! by cococandy(f): 12:26pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
Hathor5:they only remember it when the guy is cheating or beating the woman. But when an actual situation that requires that commitment comes, it’s silence. It’s not like he was deceived into the marriage. OP listen to those who are asking you to step outside. But before then, set your wife free. She might be lucky to conceive with someone else. 14 Likes |
Re: Childless For 9 Years: Help! I'm Losing My Mind To Depression! by eyinjuege: 1:01pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
femi4: What if she is able to conceive naturally with someone else? She was able to do it before even though had a still birth then. Who knows if it is some genetic incompatibility between them, and perhaps she may be able to carry to term and have a live baby with someone else. I guess it's better he discusses with his wife about it though. I really wish them the best because I understand it can be so difficult when you're trying to conceive and it's not happening. It takes someone with a very strong heart not to give up or not to fall into depression. 6 Likes |
Re: Childless For 9 Years: Help! I'm Losing My Mind To Depression! by michaeljh241: 1:14pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
Go to a marriage counselor, he should be able to help. Or maybe you need medication. |
Re: Childless For 9 Years: Help! I'm Losing My Mind To Depression! by IntentionTremor: 3:31pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
Saintmary: Thank you |
Re: Childless For 9 Years: Help! I'm Losing My Mind To Depression! by IntentionTremor: 3:40pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
eyinjuege: I appreciate your time. No. 2 sounds to reason right now. Thanks 1 Like |
Re: Childless For 9 Years: Help! I'm Losing My Mind To Depression! by IntentionTremor: 3:44pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
femi4: Won't it be more complicated? Moreso it's a criminal offence to remarry while still legally married to another. Thanks 1 Like |
Re: Childless For 9 Years: Help! I'm Losing My Mind To Depression! by IntentionTremor: 3:46pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
Hathor5: It is skewed. To the right, if it is for you. And to the left if it is against you - my case! 4 Likes |
Re: Childless For 9 Years: Help! I'm Losing My Mind To Depression! by IntentionTremor: 3:50pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
Malawian: Multivitamins make the list of all fertility therapy which we have been on and she's still on as I type. Alcohol is on a very light note for us - we are social drinkers. Thanks |
Re: Childless For 9 Years: Help! I'm Losing My Mind To Depression! by IntentionTremor: 3:55pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
eseh1: Amen to your prayers. Truly nothing is wrong with the surrogacy option if I were you. But it has refused to sink in my head. It rather flares me up like... ThankS for your empathy |
Re: Childless For 9 Years: Help! I'm Losing My Mind To Depression! by IntentionTremor: 3:58pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
GboyegaD: Yes, you are right. Life is a mess; one way or the other! Thanks |
Re: Childless For 9 Years: Help! I'm Losing My Mind To Depression! by IntentionTremor: 4:00pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
BigDick70inch: Thanks bro. But you're blunt sha, lol 2 Likes |
Re: Childless For 9 Years: Help! I'm Losing My Mind To Depression! by Nobody: 4:00pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
IntentionTremor:May God answer you and wifey's prayers soon, IJN. Amen. 1 Like |
Re: Childless For 9 Years: Help! I'm Losing My Mind To Depression! by Truthman(m): 4:04pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
@intentionTremor, I fully understand your feelings and what you are going through. My wife and I were childless for eleven years before we had our child. We went through two IVF treatments, the first being unsuccessful. We ended up doing the second one outside the country and God answered our prayers. You need to love and cherish your wife, going through 5 IVF cycles is not an easy experience, I am quite sure she is drained out and emotionally wrecked by now. You strengthen her by standing by her through her difficult moments, bailing out on her now does not guarantee you will have kids with another woman. I will advise you to channel your energy towards saving your marriage. Wishing you all the best. 8 Likes |
Re: Childless For 9 Years: Help! I'm Losing My Mind To Depression! by IntentionTremor: 4:06pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
Remijuice: You just amplified the tantrums in my head most nights!!!!!!!! They're driving me crazzzy! You spoke so brotherly! Thanks 2 Likes |
Re: Childless For 9 Years: Help! I'm Losing My Mind To Depression! by IntentionTremor: 4:10pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
kimoyo: Thanks man! Lucky you! |
Re: Childless For 9 Years: Help! I'm Losing My Mind To Depression! by IntentionTremor: 4:17pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
Greenlandncom: Yes, we learnt of those products from a TTC thread on NL. And guess what we tried them. Lol, uterrly spiritual?? Hahahaha Thanks anyway for the comic relief |
Re: Childless For 9 Years: Help! I'm Losing My Mind To Depression! by IntentionTremor: 4:24pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
ThatPetiteChic: Thanks. Love? I stopped loving her some years now after the third failure.. I still do all I should do for her as her man...but THAT love! I'm afraid it's gone with the pain I feel each day! |
Re: Childless For 9 Years: Help! I'm Losing My Mind To Depression! by IntentionTremor: 4:27pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
johhbekeboh09: Thanks. |
Re: Childless For 9 Years: Help! I'm Losing My Mind To Depression! by IntentionTremor: 4:35pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
michaeljh241: Hahahahahahaha Indeed I need medication my dear! What a laugh! Thanks. And I'm waiting for your prescriptions |
Re: Childless For 9 Years: Help! I'm Losing My Mind To Depression! by IntentionTremor: 4:42pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
aroundtheearth: Amen! |
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