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Re: Do Nigerian Women Really Make Out Time To Listen To Their "Men"? by Godoverevery: 5:15pm On Mar 11, 2021
Romanoff:
So does your wife listen to you? Considering the help that you give to her?
Them born her make she no listen.......I dey change am easily for her oooo.

I keep her on her toes with my craze all the time.
Re: Do Nigerian Women Really Make Out Time To Listen To Their "Men"? by Romanoff(f): 5:20pm On Mar 11, 2021
Godoverevery:
Them born her make she no listen.......I dey change am easily for her oooo.

I keep her on her toes with my craze all the time.
Lol. Believe it or not, even I will wonder why she doesn't listen to you since you help out at home.

Thanks for making my point for me.
Re: Do Nigerian Women Really Make Out Time To Listen To Their "Men"? by LauraClasikVibe(f): 6:03pm On Mar 11, 2021
Jeon:
Nigerian men really make out time to listen to their "wives"?

like their pyscho-emotional well being.

abi, she's a strong woman?.

how many men have you seen discussing with the woman at the way they communicate with their side chick's?
what's your point?
Re: Do Nigerian Women Really Make Out Time To Listen To Their "Men"? by LauraClasikVibe(f): 6:04pm On Mar 11, 2021
Godoverevery:
Them born her make she no listen.......I dey change am easily for her oooo.

I keep her on her toes with my craze all the time.
This is emotional toture.
Re: Do Nigerian Women Really Make Out Time To Listen To Their "Men"? by abebi77572: 6:24pm On Mar 11, 2021
: I'm having this feeling he cooks better than you. Say the truth. Lol.
Re: Do Nigerian Women Really Make Out Time To Listen To Their "Men"? by OBelz(f): 6:37pm On Mar 11, 2021
grin
abebi77572:
: I'm having this feeling he cooks better than you. Say the truth. Lol.
Re: Do Nigerian Women Really Make Out Time To Listen To Their "Men"? by Jeon(f): 7:21pm On Mar 11, 2021
LauraClasikVibe:
what's your point?
my point is that they should let women have a little breathe.
Re: Do Nigerian Women Really Make Out Time To Listen To Their "Men"? by SweetCunt97(f): 8:22pm On Mar 11, 2021
baralatie:
it brings the issue of trust and confidentiality.
most women who want to listen only listen to what can be used against you!
that a guy comes out clean will make the woman loose interest in the man very fast
He told me some secrets, i felt him open up to me though he collected himself but in that moment i felt like his confidant, a shoulder he could lean on. Never judged him and i simply love him. When u love someone, you wouldnt hurt them.
Re: Do Nigerian Women Really Make Out Time To Listen To Their "Men"? by talk2hb1(m): 8:38pm On Mar 11, 2021
SweetCunt97:
He told me some secrets, i felt him open up to me though he collected himself but in that moment i felt like his confidant, a shoulder he could lean on. Never judged him and i simply love him. When u love someone, you wouldnt hurt them.
WeHaveHear, IBilivYou
Can anybody imagine what Jonah Went Through After Telling His Wife He Was Being Swallowed By Fish For Tiri Days?
Re: Do Nigerian Women Really Make Out Time To Listen To Their "Men"? by baralatie(m): 9:04pm On Mar 11, 2021
SweetCunt97:
He told me some secrets, i felt him open up to me though he collected himself but in that moment i felt like his confidant, a shoulder he could lean on. Never judged him and i simply love him. When u love someone, you wouldnt hurt them.
you at least understand the issue.
not all men have been that lucky with opening to their women due to the gravity of the information they sit on.some information are too personal,some are general.
so thank God that he could display a certain level of trust, confidentiality with you.

my experience is that some individuals are trustworthy with information more than others while some others information access is like samson and delilah
Re: Do Nigerian Women Really Make Out Time To Listen To Their "Men"? by baralatie(m): 9:09pm On Mar 11, 2021
talk2hb1:
WeHaveHear, IBilivYou
Can anybody imagine what Jonah Went Through After Telling His Wife He Was Being Swallowed By Fish For Tiri Days?
grin

now this is a personal information

imagine those servants (after Jesus turned water into wine) saying to their wives that the wine they served was from the clay water pots"
Re: Do Nigerian Women Really Make Out Time To Listen To Their "Men"? by LauraClasikVibe(f): 9:36pm On Mar 11, 2021
wink
Jeon:
my point is that they should let women have a little breathe.
Re: Do Nigerian Women Really Make Out Time To Listen To Their "Men"? by Wittyglam(f): 7:08am On Mar 12, 2021
You make out time to listen to someone that is willing to speak up. Society have made most men believe it's wrong to cry before a woman or get emotional. Men talk to your women they want to listen.

A friend of mine will always say her father get angry and aggressive when something is bothering him but will not speak even when the wife please with him to. This is sad.
Re: Do Nigerian Women Really Make Out Time To Listen To Their "Men"? by Oyindamolah(op): 1:28pm On Mar 12, 2021
undecided
Jeon:
Nigerian men really make out time to listen to their "wives"?

like their pyscho-emotional well being.

abi, she's a strong woman?.

how many men have you seen discussing with the woman at the way they communicate with their side chick's?
Re: Do Nigerian Women Really Make Out Time To Listen To Their "Men"? by Oyindamolah(op): 1:29pm On Mar 12, 2021
Use dictionary
baralatie:
abeg which one is psycho mental emotional something something
Re: Do Nigerian Women Really Make Out Time To Listen To Their "Men"? by Oyindamolah(op): 6:51am On Mar 13, 2021
embarassed
Romanoff:
Between child upbringing, cooking and doing chores plus a job or a business?

See why a woman can't do it all for a healthy marriage?
Re: Do Nigerian Women Really Make Out Time To Listen To Their "Men"? by IyaTola: 5:02am On Mar 22, 2021
grin
PeaceIlya:
You’ve said it all!!! some will even ask you why you’re becoming an FBI agent simply because you want to share in their pain�‍♀️
Re: Do Nigerian Women Really Make Out Time To Listen To Their "Men"? by LauraClasikVibe(f): 6:41am On May 13, 2021
undecided
baralatie:
what kind of story do you think a man will narrate to a woman that will not bring problem
Re: Do Nigerian Women Really Make Out Time To Listen To Their "Men"? by Snow02: 8:30am On May 13, 2021
Open up to a woman at your peril, women can't handle male vulnerability simple.
Re: Do Nigerian Women Really Make Out Time To Listen To Their "Men"? by Belafonte(m): 11:06am On May 13, 2021
Romanoff:
Between child upbringing, cooking and doing chores plus a job or a business?

See why a woman can't do it all for a healthy marriage?
Wonderful grin
Re: Do Nigerian Women Really Make Out Time To Listen To Their "Men"? by cassyrooy(m): 12:06pm On May 13, 2021
IyaTola:
That's if you're even lucky to meet a Nigerian man that talks. I tried everything I could to get him to talk and be vulnerable but he thought it as weakness and just kept shutting me out until he managed to push me out of his life You can only listen to someone willing to talk.
Iya I'm one of those people who do this.
Re: Do Nigerian Women Really Make Out Time To Listen To Their "Men"? by cassyrooy(m): 12:09pm On May 13, 2021
yazga:
A lot of men are willing to talk and a lot do talk, but here's what happens:

His secrets re used against him in an argument,
He looses respect from the supposed confidant,
A lot of women don't listen, they hear what they want to hear, string piece of words he said together.... And jump to conclusions FAST
Battle scars are real reasons men lock up and melt the key and the moulder.
Re: Do Nigerian Women Really Make Out Time To Listen To Their "Men"? by legallyminded: 12:23pm On May 13, 2021
LauraClasikVibe:
Most of them don’t talk!
They don’t. Look women always ask “are you okay?”
“Are you sure?”
"You don’t look happy” women always sense the slightest mood change.

But men will rather “Yh it’s nothing, I’m alright just slight headache”. Most time it's "I am fine with a smile"
They do not talk.
Because most female folks are the wrong set of persons to open up to. Not many of them can proffer solutions when he needs more than consolation. Some will see him as a weakling for doing such and those that only give a damn about themselves just shrug and nothing more.
Re: Do Nigerian Women Really Make Out Time To Listen To Their "Men"? by legallyminded: 12:24pm On May 13, 2021
yazga:
A lot of men are willing to talk and a lot do talk, but here's what happens:

His secrets re used against him in an argument,
He looses respect from the supposed confidant,
A lot of women don't listen, they hear what they want to hear, string piece of words he said together.... And jump to conclusions FAST
Another valid point
Re: Do Nigerian Women Really Make Out Time To Listen To Their "Men"? by legallyminded: 12:27pm On May 13, 2021
Snow02:
Open up to a woman at your peril, women can't handle male vulnerability simple.
Another valid point, it's best keeping sealed lips
Re: Do Nigerian Women Really Make Out Time To Listen To Their "Men"? by IyaTola: 7:36pm On May 13, 2021
cassyrooy:
Iya I'm one of those people who do this.
E ku ise
Re: Do Nigerian Women Really Make Out Time To Listen To Their "Men"? by yazga: 8:47am On May 14, 2021
wink
legallyminded:
Another valid point
Re: Do Nigerian Women Really Make Out Time To Listen To Their "Men"? by goooze(m): 1:15pm On May 14, 2021
Romanoff:
Between child upbringing, cooking and doing chores plus a job or a business?

See why a woman can't do it all for a healthy marriage?
Chores and cooking are two assignments I do without stress and they are assignmens that will not take more than two hours so what happen to the rest hours? I also believe we are partners in baby sitting because we do it excellently well too. You go to work I do go to work too but they, (women) still want a high level of emotional attention to a level which they can't give quarter of what they want from men. Please I want these opposite sex out there to know that men are as emotional as they are if not more than. We are not super hero.
Re: Do Nigerian Women Really Make Out Time To Listen To Their "Men"? by Oyindamolah(op): 6:27pm On May 25, 2021
Snow02:
Open up to a woman at your peril, women can't handle male vulnerability simple.
This hasty generalization
Re: Do Nigerian Women Really Make Out Time To Listen To Their "Men"? by addictiv(m): 9:10pm On May 25, 2021
Most Women don't see a man and think "how can I make this man's life better today?" They see a man and think "what will I gain from being with this man" maybe that's why the needs of the man always come last in a relationship. Its good to be vulnerable a little as a man but being too vulnerable to ur woman is not a good idea. The more vulnerable you get the less attractive you are to her. A too vulnerable guy = weak guy who needs his mama. That's how she will perceive you and in relationships perception is everything.
Re: Do Nigerian Women Really Make Out Time To Listen To Their "Men"? by EverythingFit: 9:15pm On May 25, 2021
Re: Do Nigerian Women Really Make Out Time To Listen To Their "Men"? by frozen70(f): 9:33pm On May 25, 2021
BadRadio:
depends... if the guy is intelligent enough to say something sensible... u know we have a lot of dumb guys roaming the streets without direction !!!
Exactly
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