Do Nigerian women really make out time to listen to their "men"?.

Like their psycho-emotional well being.

Abi, He's a Strong Man?.

Between child upbringing, cooking and doing chores plus a job or a business?

See why a woman can't do it all for a healthy marriage?

Romanoff:
Between child upbringing, cooking and doing chores plus a job or a business?

See why a woman can't do it all for a healthy marriage?

Married women always use cooking and house chores to justify their laxity!

Most don't because they hardly even listen to there parent.

depends... if the guy is intelligent enough to say something sensible... u know we have a lot of dumb guys roaming the streets without direction !!!

Most of them don’t talk!
They don’t. Look women always ask “are you okay?”
“Are you sure?”
"You don’t look happy” women always sense the slightest mood change.

But men will rather “Yh it’s nothing, I’m alright just slight headache”. Most time it's "I am fine with a smile"
They do not talk.

Kriss216:

Married women always using cooking and house chores to justify their laxity!

Maybe if wives get the help they can get from their husbands, there wouldn't be any excuse for laxity.

Don't you think so?

Romanoff:
Between child upbringing, cooking and doing chores plus a job or a business?

See why a woman can't do it all for a healthy marriage?

like why do ladies always give this excuse of cooking bla bla bla to justify there excesses.

I cook and help my woman out.....I no men who do this aswell.....in my house is we men that clean our apartment on weekends(mopping etc)..infact I clean the dishes anytime I get home before her.

So stop sounding as if men are just useless when it comes to house chores...

is in our father days that women do house work alone ooo.

Godoverevery:


like do ladies always give this excuse of cooking bla bla bla to justify your excesses.

I cook and help my woman out and I no men who do this.....in my house is we men that clean our apartment on weekends.... infact I clean the dishes anytime I get home before her.

is in our father days that women do house work alone ooo.

So does your wife listen to you? Considering the help that you give to her?

Oyindamolah:
Do Nigerian women really make out time to listen to their "men"?.

Like their psycho-emotional well being.

Abi, He's a Strong Man?.

abeg which one is psycho mental emotional something something

Everyone should make out time to listen to everybody around them. You make it seem like it's a duty that is specific to any one partner.

That's if you're even lucky to meet a Nigerian man that talks. I tried everything I could to get him to talk and be vulnerable but he thought it as weakness and just kept shutting me out until he managed to push me out of his life You can only listen to someone willing to talk.

Romanoff:


Maybe if wife get the help they can get from their husbands, there wouldn't be nay excuse for laxity.

Don't you think so?

What help? Same duties y'all perform freely without complains to your boyfriends before getting married?

Kriss216:

What help? Same duties y'all perform freely without complains to your boyfriends before getting married?

If that's how your girlfriends play the part of housewives, not all women need to do that.

IyaTola:
That's if you're even lucky to meet a Nigerian man that talks. I tried everything I could to get him to talk and be vulnerable but he thought it as weakness and just kept shutting me out until he managed to push me out of his life You can only listen to someone willing to talk.

that is the problem!
the aim of him opening up was counterproductive and that is a big no

meaning of vulnerable:
exposed to the possibility of being attacked or harmed, either physically or emotionally.

You’ve said it all!!! some will even ask you why you’re becoming an FBI agent simply because you want to share in their pain�‍♀️

Romanoff:


If that's how your girlfriends play the part of housewives, not all women need to do that.

Are you gonna swear you didn't cook for your husband when you guys were dating?

A lot of men are willing to talk and a lot do talk, but here's what happens:

His secrets re used against him in an argument,
He looses respect from the supposed confidant,
A lot of women don't listen, they hear what they want to hear, string piece of words he said together.... And jump to conclusions FAST

Oyindamolah:
Do Nigerian women really make out time to listen to their "men"?.

Like their psycho-emotional well being.

Abi, He's a Strong Man?.

Nigerian men really make out time to listen to their "wives"?

like their pyscho-emotional well being.

abi, she's a strong woman?.

how many men have you seen discussing with the woman the way they communicate with their side chick's?

yazga:
A lot of men are willing to talk and a lot do talk, but here's what happens:

His secrets re used against him in an argument,
He looses respect from the supposed confidant,
A lot of women don't listen, they hear what they want to hear, string piece of words he said together.... And jump to conclusions FAST

it brings the issue of trust and confidentiality.
most women who want to listen only listen to what can be used against you!
that a guy comes out clean will make the woman loose interest in the man very fast

Kriss216:

Are you gonna swear you didn't cook for your husband when you guys were dating?

Yes I cooked, mostly cause na two of us go chop am.

In most cases, na him dey cook sef, especially if I say im on my way to his place and I'm hungry.

Romanoff:


Yes I cooked, mostly cause na two of us go chop am.

You wanted to cook for the whole community before?








And you didn't complain then that cooking is too tedious for you, why now

Kriss216:

You wanted to cook for the whole community before?

How I go cook wey I no go chop?

If I hear.

Romanoff:


How I go cook wey I no go chop?

If I hear.

I'm having this feeling he cook better than you. Say the truth.

Kriss216:

I'm having this feeling he cooks better than you. Say the truth.

Lol.

Romanoff:


Lol.

I thought as much

Kriss216:

I thought as much

I did not confirm nor deny anything o.

Romanoff:

I did not confirm nor deny anything o.

Some truths are better left unsaid.


I understand.

Kriss216:

Some truths are better left unsaid.



I understand.

Being tactful is a skill.

baralatie:

it brings the issue of trust and confidentiality.
most women who want to listen only listen to what can be used against you!
that a guy comes out clean will make the woman loose interest in the man very fast

Just tell them a story to let leave you alone.

talk2hb1:

Just tell them a story to let leave you alone.

what kind of story do you think a man will narrate to a woman that will not bring problem

baralatie:

what kind of story do you think a man will narrate to a woman that will not bring problem

Mostly I will tell her indirect stories, or I give her the option of me telling her a fabulous lies which I don't want to tell her.
Mostly she will go suckling that you did not trust her, guy just lock up like noghting happened.
But expect her to be persistent and perhaps retaliate too