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Re: When Will A Man Enjoy In This Life? by Robertgreene1(m): 3:03pm On Mar 14, 2021
interesting...
Re: When Will A Man Enjoy In This Life? by lekki1444: 3:05pm On Mar 14, 2021
Bouz:
Wahala no dey finish, for a man. the worst is when you get married, that is why men don't live longer than the female gender. Enjoy now o! You will still take care of your wife, providing for her and the children their basic needs.
well it is a curse to be married to a woman ( a cosmic curse ) and it is also a curse to have children these are affliction rituals but if GOD is on your side as a man you will marry a woman who will be paying you for being the light in her world of darkness because women represent darkness and so a woman is supposed to pay you for bringing her out of darkness. if you find out that you are the one taking care of the woman ? its a curse on you. it means you are not the light you are supposed to be. and so you are in her world of darkness where she rules and you must take care of her in your affliction of 9 to 5 hussle
Re: When Will A Man Enjoy In This Life? by Ghostmode2two(m): 3:08pm On Mar 14, 2021
Enjoy yourself when you have the time. Life is too short and stressful. The truth is nobody really knows this life.

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Re: When Will A Man Enjoy In This Life? by hermesprogidy(m): 3:08pm On Mar 14, 2021
Everything we strive and work towards is nothing, life is nothing. Love, religion, the afterlife, Heaven, Hell etc. Are all artificial constructs created to give our lives meaning and purpose. The moment you understand and embrace the futility of the human existence, the better for you.

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Re: When Will A Man Enjoy In This Life? by milann: 3:09pm On Mar 14, 2021
saphiere:
Man will enjoy in heaven.
there's also on earth.
Re: When Will A Man Enjoy In This Life? by VicM6: 3:13pm On Mar 14, 2021
the day he dies
Re: When Will A Man Enjoy In This Life? by real777(m): 3:13pm On Mar 14, 2021
You mean all the drinking, partying, fornication, adultery, smoking weed, taking drugs and playing senseless music, stupid dressing etc by the so called Nigerian youths of this generation is not enjoyment? Abeg which enjoyment are you talking about again? I thought you guys said all of the above na enjoyment baaa
Re: When Will A Man Enjoy In This Life? by Cleanworld(f): 3:15pm On Mar 14, 2021
AishaYesufu:
When we were younger we were told to face our studies so as to enjoy in future. As adults (working) we are advised to invest and save so we won't suffer when we grow old. At old age, when we can't enjoy things we should have at our younger years, we are still told not to eat those things we love and confined to fruits and vegetables because of our "health".

When will a man enjoy in this life?���

Life is like a balance scale that shoudn't weigh too much on one side. Your Health, Wealth and Priorities should be in equal balance. Don't neglect your health in your younger days if you don't wan to eat only fruit and veggies in old age.
Insure your life from younger age so you don't over work your body in old age
Save as much as you can, just enough to make you comfortable. Poverty and Riches are the things of the heart, don't let it rub you off your health.

Remember some don't eat sugar and still have diabetes
some don't eat salt and still over salt grin
some don't drink nor smoke and are plaque with cancers
some are rich but only in numbers
some are rich in wisdom and knowledge
some are poor but content

find your balance, you can live and live well. the choice is yours

MY2CENT

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Re: When Will A Man Enjoy In This Life? by Crypto4life: 3:16pm On Mar 14, 2021
depends on ur definition of enjoyment, man is meant to be born suffer and die.

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Re: When Will A Man Enjoy In This Life? by lekki1444: 3:23pm On Mar 14, 2021
hermesprogidy:
Everything we strive and work towards is nothing, life is nothing. Love, religion, the afterlife, Heaven, Hell etc. Are all artificial constructs created to give our lives meaning and purpose. The moment you understand and embrace the futility of the human existence, the better for you.
it is futile in that everything you think you are doing means absolutely nothing. nothing being created means anything because all will be erased and forgotten in the sands of time. nothing means anything. your life and your deeds mean absolutely nothing and its all just a spiritual ritual manifesting in the 3 dimensional world what is within you. as within so without. and so all you see in this world is just physical manifestations of the spiritual realm and as the spiritual realm is constantly evolving so is the physical realm and so deeds and creations get erased in the sands of time. HOWEVER one thing that is with you forever is your spiritual essence and in as much as your life and deeds mean nothing yet it is essential to develop your essence so that when you keep reincarnating each time you come back into this world you come back into a great family with minimal suffering to accomplish great things which mean nothing but still you will enjoy accomplishing them even if they mean nothing in the grand scheme of the cosmos. and so in essence while your existence means nothing, it means something in that you should always seek to be a higher version of yourself so that in every reincarnation you will come back great. all these beggars or people struggling you see on the streets ? these are people who never worked on their spiritual essence in past life. now they are back here struggling and wretched
Re: When Will A Man Enjoy In This Life? by Bankalert(m): 3:30pm On Mar 14, 2021
heendrix:


Noticed something recently. It actually don't cost up to 2k going to shoprite to get rich snacks n juice to have lil fun with or if you'll like to get a plate of Rice at Bitemore with big chicken on top it still doesn't cost up to 2k

Atimes just go out like that with ur fellow guy to chill and Start enjoying with the lil you've got
which fellow guy? With all the pvssy ass niggars we have roaming up and down these days? Fellow guy that will pick pvssy over you if he was in your shoes? Nah. I will rather go out and enjoy alone. Na only me waka come.

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Re: When Will A Man Enjoy In This Life? by Whazar(m): 3:31pm On Mar 14, 2021
prinsam30:
my guy just try hustle borrow 10K then go on bet9ja, stake the 10K on....

1. Man united to play draw or win

2. Juventus to play with cagliari

3. AC Milan to play with Napoli

4. Leicester city to play win or draw

I don't wanna talk about assnall and tot, those guys can disappoint u

when u do this, u win millions and life of enjoyment goes on, I have 10K standby on my bet9ja account, I only use it to play one or two sure games, abeg I can't cum and go and kill myself bikonu

Bro abeg can you help me fund my account with just #200? Please I have some games I want play but I'm broke
Re: When Will A Man Enjoy In This Life? by lekki1444: 3:32pm On Mar 14, 2021
real777:
You mean all the drinking, partying, fornication, adultery, smoking weed, taking drugs and playing senseless music, stupid dressing etc by the so called Nigerian youths of this generation is not enjoyment? Abeg which enjoyment are you talking about again? I thought you guys said all of the above na enjoyment baaa
enjoyment is a state of mind in doing all those things many are not happy and these things are pain numbers. a man can sit down in one spot and be happy and in enjoyment more than a man smoking weed and chasing women

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Re: When Will A Man Enjoy In This Life? by shegzydave(m): 3:48pm On Mar 14, 2021
Tommorrow is not guaranteed so I enjoy my life at every opportunity
Re: When Will A Man Enjoy In This Life? by professore(m): 3:56pm On Mar 14, 2021
Very funny
Re: When Will A Man Enjoy In This Life? by bahdpersona(m): 3:59pm On Mar 14, 2021
Offpoint1:
Life has no purpose, the bitter truth humans don't want to accept, we're no different from other animals... We are just fortunate to have a bigger brain and same brain gives that delusion that we are better than other animals because we can create things.

If you spend more time watching nature or NatGeo wild you'll realise not only humans can build/create... A bigger brain is just the difference.


Op forgot about such thing as enjoyment, it's an illusion.
you're wise
Re: When Will A Man Enjoy In This Life? by marttol: 4:01pm On Mar 14, 2021
UncleSnr:
When you stop thinking of afterlife and try to make this earth a better place to live.
do you knw any man can die at any moment...the afterlife is the utlimate.
Re: When Will A Man Enjoy In This Life? by Maj196(m): 4:08pm On Mar 14, 2021
Enjoy life while you still can
Re: When Will A Man Enjoy In This Life? by Nobody: 4:22pm On Mar 14, 2021
You should come let me mentor you on enjoyment. As a hedonistic morrafucker, that's the only thing we live and work for.
Re: When Will A Man Enjoy In This Life? by Nobody: 4:32pm On Mar 14, 2021
Offpoint1:
Life has no purpose, the bitter truth humans don't want to accept, we're no different from other animals... We are just fortunate to have a bigger brain and same brain gives that delusion that we are better than other animals because we can create things.

If you spend more time watching nature or NatGeo wild you'll realise not only humans can build/create... A bigger brain is just the difference.


Op forgot about such thing as enjoyment, it's an illusion.

I agree with everything except that your last paragraph isn't the whole truth. Enjoyment is as real as suffering... In the moment. If enjoyment is an illusion, then suffering (including delayed gratification) is also an illusion.

It then follows that in this grand, meaningless, illusory existence of ours, it only makes sense to choose the most pleasurable illusion available to you.... Which is enjoyment!

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Re: When Will A Man Enjoy In This Life? by IvarDboneless: 4:38pm On Mar 14, 2021
My grandmother will always say.. na the one way you chop now be your own ooh... every other thing u get nor be ur own ooh becus wen u die people go fight 4ur property join.
Re: When Will A Man Enjoy In This Life? by Offpoint1: 4:43pm On Mar 14, 2021
Hedonini:


I agree with everything except that your last paragraph isn't the whole truth. Enjoyment is as real as suffering... In the moment. If enjoyment is an illusion, then suffering (including delayed gratification) is also an illusion.

It then follows that in this grand, meaningless, illusory existence of ours, it only makes sense to choose the most pleasurable illusion available to you.... Which is enjoyment!
Are you truly "enjoying" either rich or bro?
Re: When Will A Man Enjoy In This Life? by Scientist007: 4:48pm On Mar 14, 2021
... Thing is, our distorted reality has skewed our minds and our mindsets. Things that are basic in sane societies are our luxury here, because of our failed society.... Enjoyment is relative, but the level of collapse of our society has made the average Nigerian see Good health care, stable electricity, sound and working infrastructures and the likes, which are supposed to be basic as Luxury and the enjoyments of life. Pathetic!

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Re: When Will A Man Enjoy In This Life? by IMASTEX: 4:50pm On Mar 14, 2021
What is your view Flexherbal
Re: When Will A Man Enjoy In This Life? by IMASTEX: 4:56pm On Mar 14, 2021
saphiere:
Man will enjoy in heaven.
Check the lives of those that told you that, they are all enjoying the best of life, expense houses, jets, cars, etc. Many even carry women & do all those things you were told are sins just to catch fun. Yet Christ gave all & told everyone to build up heavenly treasures. How come they haven't don't what Christ said since they want to enjoy in heaven.

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Re: When Will A Man Enjoy In This Life? by dododawa1: 4:57pm On Mar 14, 2021
life is a choice
Re: When Will A Man Enjoy In This Life? by tonididdy(m): 4:59pm On Mar 14, 2021
To be honest it's an endless circle BUT regardless do not deprive yourself of the best things you can afford.

If you can afford to buy 3 iphone13proMAX at once, dude do not hesitate to get yourself one and rock it as you like.

I noticed when you settle for less, you later regret not going for the best when later you realise the little you saved from "going for less", you already spent it meaninglessly.

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Re: When Will A Man Enjoy In This Life? by Nobody: 4:59pm On Mar 14, 2021
Wisejohnson47:
Why wait till tomorrow for something you can do now, abeg chop chicken and drink better juice now. You can still save for tomorrow used and still enjoy today
wow! I got chicken in my pot and can drinks, alihadumilah! Thank God!

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Re: When Will A Man Enjoy In This Life? by Nobody: 5:02pm On Mar 14, 2021
prinsam30:
my guy just try hustle borrow 10K then go on bet9ja, stake the 10K on....

1. Man united to play draw or win

2. Juventus to play with cagliari

3. AC Milan to play with Napoli

4. Leicester city to play win or draw

I don't wanna talk about assnall and tot, those guys can disappoint u

when u do this, u win millions and life of enjoyment goes on, I have 10K standby on my bet9ja account, I only use it to play one or two sure games, abeg I can't cum and go and kill myself bikonu
correct guy! U go soon hammer be that, sure games, hmmm, one day I go load my bet account like yours.
Re: When Will A Man Enjoy In This Life? by Nobody: 5:08pm On Mar 14, 2021
If you want to live an amazing life
A truly abundant, happy life
Make it a priority to LIVE more in the PRESENT MOMENT following your passion. It is hell doing what you hate to earn a living.

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Re: When Will A Man Enjoy In This Life? by Happy2020: 5:12pm On Mar 14, 2021
A man will enjoy and be able to exhale when he is working towards his personal goals, he has found a passion in life and when he finds that one true soulmate where he can be himself, who brings out the very best in him and who loves him like he’s never been lived before.
Then he can rest.

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