peacefull:


Oh.... Sorry, this is very difficult to me
I need take time for understand very well.

Ladys made men to believe money can buy love?
You think women force men to have money and buy their love?

To me, money can't buy love. Money can't buy someone's heart.
Relationship is not all about money.
Love, respect, trust, understand etc.

I didn't blame anybody. But to me, seems like some peoples attacking her.
Everybody have own thinking, own opinion etc.
So don't need to attack her. She has her opinion. I have my opinion. You have your opinion

Broke guy?
If I'm not misunderstand, that meaning is someone who don't have enough money or something like that?
What wrong with it? If there had love between borke guy and lady, what is wrong about it?
They can make it together! Make money, make more strong love, make more strong bond etc.
That's soooo sweet! Very beautiful love!

Me and my husband started our relationship about 16years or 17years ago.
Both of us were not rich. Still now, we are not rich person. But still together.
Of course, sometimes really had hard time about money. We had very bad experience.
But still together! Because we know our relationship, our marriage is not all about money.

Sorry, if I'm misunderstanding you and if I wrote strange things.
I maybe didn't understand well.
I'm sorry.

I will read your comment again and try to understand what you wrote very well.
Thank you for taking your time!
I appreciate you!

DrFunmisticGlow:
This is a long-winded way of saying you shunned wealth

peacefull:


Thank you so much for caring about me!
I appreciate you!

I just confusing
Seems like not good for talking about love.

I can't ignore If I ignore, not rude?
I have time today! So I can have time for discussion!
Always good to me for hearing other person's opinion. I can learn

But I'm sorry if I'm disturbing your topic too much.
I'm apologies you.

I just didn't know that talking about love and money is maybe not good.
I learned! I maybe better to talk about that only on my diary.

In fact, most of times I don't talk about or discussion about love in my real life.
Because I know some peoples laugh at me or think about I'm a childish.

If believing love made me childish, I'm gladly be childish

purples25:


Oh talk as much as you like here...I really don't mind . I just didn't want you to be stressed.

Believing in love is fine, its not childish dear.

ArisingStorm:

Your post and your words are cool. Such is rare especially in Nigeria. If you are indeed what your words portray, You are a rare and cool being.

However, I wouldn't blame anyone for not believing in love, many have pass through terrible experiences, many innocent young men have been deceived and same as women. Nigeria is a harsh environment where survival seems to be a priority, I wouldn't blame ladies that are just trying to survive(tho it is immoral), and men whose mindset has been configured that it is all about money. I can't blame anyone, To live like a normal and sane human in Nigeria takes grace.

Keep spreading the true message of love and affection.

Magnoliaa:


Am not "in" your head. Stop flattering yourself.

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purples25:
I just stopped laughing.

Something I'm used to happened today. A guy that I had politely refused last year came to me this morning. He immediately told me he has a job now. Told me the full name of the company and everything else. Then he started asking me aggressively about where I have reached in life and all that.

I chatted normally with him, I told him I was happy for him. Later, he asked if he could call me at a certain time. When I told him he could, he started saying that it was not so before, that before, my anthem was that he cannot reach me for various excuses.

I laughed, because, I now understood the whole issue. He believed it was because of money that I didn't allow him access to me anyhow. I just told him that he shouldn't worry because my phone was bad. He continued to reply in a sour tone. The funny thing is that I have no business with his money, because I am sure that none will land in my palm...so why would i be tripping because he got a job?

Another guy I rejected politely acted normal at the time. But after years he came back, asking me with full spite about my marital status and my job. Lol. He told me how he has a company now. I knew that was true because I had seen evidence of it growing and info about it in public over the years. He insisted that we should be dating now. But it couldn't happen because i knew he was just bitter, and thought that i should fall now because he has made it.

Guys, its not all about the money. Some women don't use your money to survive. Some have parents and don't really care to be bound in chains because of indomie and egg, credit, or sharwama. There are more serious issues. E.g the relationship should be going somewhere. Sometimes its tribal or religious, maybe she knows her parents wont accept you. Why would a woman smell what she won't eat, just because of your feelings?

Guys, take a chill pill.

BabbanBura:


You made some points here, hope sha u know say when time over-reach parents no dey choose again?

purples25:


Its a really selfish move by parents... Wasting their daughter's youth because of their preferences. Its also futile when at the end, when she is old, they would still agree to a man from another tribe. Its really sad cuz they just waste a life away.....for nothing. A girl they could have allowed since....waste her time ...then she would get married and be struggling to give birth in old age.

You know the worst.. Most of them would still blame the daughter for getting married late.

Nazgul:

But you just admitted to being in my thoughts not too long ago, what's with the sudden denial?

peacefull:
Some Nigerian men believe money can buy love?
Money can get everything what they want including women and their love?
Some peoples believe like that?
Why some peoples seems like attacking her? Because she said no to men before?

Or am I misunderstanding?

I like purples25!
I like what you write! I should say what you wrote?

To me, of course money is very important for life.
But not everything money, money, money.
Money can't buy everything especially someone's heart

purples25:


My price is love and affection, and something that is going somewhere. But sex is the thing that most guys want.

purples25:


Oh talk as much as you like here...I really don't mind . I just didn't want you to be stressed.

Believing in love is fine, its not childish dear.

bigpicture001:


Before nko money cannot buy you ppls heart...?

Its normal na

tosaino95:


Don't you want Sex i understand love is not all about sex but love,affection and sex are together.

purples25:

Sex should come into the picture last.

purples25:


Lots of women marry broke guys by the way.

Rich people are very few around here.

tosaino95:


You're trying to play smart but ain't get time for that...

purples25:
I just stopped laughing.

Something I'm used to happened today. A guy that I had politely refused last year came to me this morning. He immediately told me he has a job now. Told me the full name of the company and everything else. Then he started asking me aggressively about where I have reached in life and all that.

I chatted normally with him, I told him I was happy for him. Later, he asked if he could call me at a certain time. When I told him he could, he started saying that it was not so before, that before, my anthem was that he cannot reach me for various excuses.

I laughed, because, I now understood the whole issue. He believed it was because of money that I didn't allow him access to me anyhow. I just told him that he shouldn't worry because my phone was bad. He continued to reply in a sour tone. The funny thing is that I have no business with his money, because I am sure that none will land in my palm...so why would i be tripping because he got a job?

Another guy I rejected politely acted normal at the time. But after years he came back, asking me with full spite about my marital status and my job. Lol. He told me how he has a company now. I knew that was true because I had seen evidence of it growing and info about it in public over the years. He insisted that we should be dating now. But it couldn't happen because i knew he was just bitter, and thought that i should fall now because he has made it.

Guys, its not all about the money. Some women don't use your money to survive. Some have parents and don't really care to be bound in chains because of indomie and egg, credit, or sharwama. There are more serious issues. E.g the relationship should be going somewhere. Sometimes its tribal or religious, maybe she knows her parents wont accept you. Why would a woman smell what she won't eat, just because of your feelings?

Guys, take a chill pill.

Raalsalghul:


The question was directed at "you" and not "other women".

Humanoid01:

I've always known you to be among the sensible ladies on this forum. You made good points and your response to the first guy was mature. Kudos! You write so well too.

purples25:


If I have to start small with someone broke, that's just life. We will grow together.

Raalsalghul:


You are still being coy: was expecting a "Yes or No" answer.

Raalsalghul:


You are still being coy: was expecting a "Yes or No" answer.

StacyO:
I had same experience.

The guy called and told me that he now have a car, a house and is living really big. Lol


Who ask you??

omaclarry:
i dont have money, will u consider me for a romantic relationship?

purples25:


Having money or not having money is not the only requirement for a relationship, so this cannot be a yes or no question. However I've stated earlier that if a guy meets my requirements without money, why not.

Magnoliaa:
Lmaooo. Wahala for you, o, OP. See them attacking you. Sorry, ehear? If you con tell dem say na because of money you no gree, dem go still bite you.

There's NO convincing with a set of people who believe ALL women are inherently the same. NO. So, ...

purples25:


My price is love and affection, and something that is going somewhere. But sex is the thing that most guys want.

Yusufisraelj:


Not so my dear, some of us are from a different breed(mindset), don't let what you see always determine your world view about men.

Seek and you will find - this is a given to anything worthwhile. Most times you sound very sarcastic towards the male folks (I sense subtle bitterness)