Jessepaid:
What we all should understand is that the life of a man is hard...

Alot of guys think they need love, but they are wrong.. they are just looking for comfort in women which can never be found else where other than your mother's bosom...

There is nothing more depressing than being broke and having no pussy to bang too..

You have the looks, you have the flow, but after getting her attention what do you have to offer?

She senses you are broke and never takes you seriously...

You have goals and dreams, yet no means to achieve them... You dread each new year because you get older and time passes by you...


Some men find it easy, some don't...
Some pay for sex, some don't...

All women are potential whores, know that...

Your joy shouldn't be based on a woman....

Very few rich men are monogamous and faithful to their partners..

You know why?

Because money gives men options...

Poverty does not.. you just keep managing what you have because you can't change it..


In as much as we know the true nature of a woman and despise that nature...


Let us help each other to have options...

Because a man without options is most likely invincible..


If you want to go the diabolic, fetish or ritual route..

You are free to do so....

Life is all about risk..

Remember to weigh the consequences of your actions with the proposed benefits..


If you wan be holy man... You are also free to do so...

To make money

Do whatever makes you sleep at night..

What ever makes you have a sound appetite..

Whatever won't have you looking over your shoulder's......




If you single and broke, you are blessed already...

Do not be depressed by your current situation instead work hard so that you can have more options in life..

Sieze opportunities and avoid procrastinating..


Remember to take some bottles and pepper soup once in a while because problem no dey finish..


We are all on the same road,
some are ahead,

some are behind,

some are still in bed..


God no dey fall hands....

Happy Sunday

Zabiboy:

So guys, i have another Self-Evaluation topic for discussion....This might be the last because it seems most people are more interested in women talk...But that's fine tho...everyone and his interests....
The question is "How do you overcome/supress your sexual urge?? Or How can a fellow guy addicted to porn and or masturbation control his sexual urge without watching porn or masturbating??
Practical and Readily accessible methods/activities ONLY..
This could help one or two people out there..

Zabiboy:

So guys, i have another Self-Evaluation topic for discussion....This might be the last because it seems most people are more interested in women talk...But that's fine tho...everyone and his interests....
The question is "How do you overcome/supress your sexual urge?? Or How can a fellow guy addicted to porn and or masturbation control his sexual urge without watching porn or masturbating??
Practical and Readily accessible methods/activities ONLY..
This could help one or two people out there..

emmaodet:


Speak on brother, you are saying the bitter truth.
Poverty keeps a man optionless more reason i hate it with passion.
When i was struggling, i was always playing the loyal, humble faithful boyfriend/hubby but as things gets easier, more options opened and am really finding it hard to be faithful.
You just keep getting them with different options and factory fittings - All at your disposal
As a matter of fact, i met a NL lady that has been disturbing me for long to see early last month.
My brothers in the Lord and Redpill, it was a Royal Rumble match in the hotel room.
Let us bow our heads in prayer for a Butchered NL Ferminist

JESHAL:









The red pill is nothing like feminism, which is misandry right from the start. And there is nothing like moderation with the red pill. The red pill is the red pill, neither moderate nor extreme.
The anger that comes out when men start taking the red pill, is the initial rage that comes when they realise how foolish they have been for most or all of their lives.
Its a phase/stage of the red pill.
Some men have the mental fortitude to overcome and pass that stage and move to the next stage, but some men don't.
Such men, become really enraged at how they were conditioned to behave right from childhood. How every aspect of society was geared towards making them subservient to the feminine imperative(This applies heavily to western men).
Imagine, at the age of 45 or 50 you realise you have been an ozo all your life. You are not getting those lost years back, It can drive anyone crazy

SOZINN:



I've been following your posts lately
just a few weeks into the red pill community but you have acquired so much knowledge
You sound like someone that has been in this game for years
keep up the good work
ODOGWU

Chiagozieking:


They say it takes 21 days to break an addiction, well this is my story

But to answer your question bro, use that your energy and go outside and talk with this females, you don't have to be a stone because they will avoid you ,appear friendly and all, whilst manipulating your own way into everything, and never allow them exploit you, like you helping them to do this or that task, when there's no more anything to say, you can save yourself the temptation to start petty talks and say you have some things to do in your house , you guys will talk later and so on, just be cool, that's your seduction, be no stone.

@bolded....
Just for the records man, i don't watch porn neither do i masturbate....It's just a question i felt one or two Others could learn from...
Nice points/solutions BTW

Soulrebel2:

Sex is a necessity in an adults life.. forget what religion is telling you..you can't suppress nature..or you'll just be some sad, lonely hor*y dude with money. Like a lot of people I know

I understand your worries man...i'm an extrovert...so dont think i'm one lonely fellow...
However, i'll rather supress/control my sexual urge than to pay for sex, watch porn or masturbate.....even as small as 1k for lap dance, i'll pass...
I was talking to a lady at a club an she said " She'll rather kill her urge( even tho it gives her stomach pains) than to tell a guy that she want to f!ck him...
So that's the control i'm talking about....What to do when the urges comes at the wrong time and you feel like going out of your boundaries...

Soulrebel2:


Brother I understand there are monk mode and MGTOW movement and so on within the red pill, but I'm definitely not in support of such things.. we're humans, hate it all you want you can't deny nature...money and so called success is man made...but your urges to be with an opposite gender is hard to shake because it's nature.. confidence leads to success. Alot of Alpha's that are successful with woman watch how they excel in their other activities.. believe it money is not everything..when I was in Awka(unizik)...the high and mighty deputy director of anti-cult, Na me dey help am find woman...tall huge guy, because he used to see me and my guys how we were playing around with women, not only him many others like him Wey I chop their money tire that year.. successful guys with good cars and houses yet they melt in the presence of a 18 yrs old girl..it's a shame..
I believe everybody have their goals in life but guys you have to balance your life's...you can't spend all your days chasing money and no time for fun and when you realise it'll be too late and you may end up like this guys I mentioned.

Sex is a necessity in an adults life.. forget what religion is telling you..you can't suppress nature..or you'll just be some sad, lonely hor*y dude with money. Like a lot of people I know.

emmaodet:


Speak on brother, you are saying the bitter truth.
Poverty keeps a man optionless more reason i hate it with passion.
When i was struggling, i was always playing the loyal, humble faithful boyfriend/hubby but as things gets easier, more options opened and am really finding it hard to be faithful.
You just keep getting them with different options and factory fittings - All at your disposal
As a matter of fact, i met a NL lady that has been disturbing me for long to see early last month.
My brothers in the Lord and Redpill, it was a Royal Rumble match in the hotel room.
Let us bow our heads in prayer for a Butchered NL Ferminist

Zabiboy:

So guys, i have another Self-Evaluation topic for discussion....This might be the last because it seems most people are more interested in women talk...But that's fine tho...everyone and his interests....
The question is "How do you overcome/supress your sexual urge?? Or How can a fellow guy addicted to porn and or masturbation control his sexual urge without watching porn or masturbating??
Practical and Readily accessible methods/activities ONLY..
This could help one or two people out there..

foreman:


Twelve bottles of TROPHY for you, mehn. I love royal rumbles. that type you completely finish the job.

Faber:


"Brothers in the Lord and Redpill" this line don burst my head. More blessings and successes to your Alpha doings, Amen

BLOODYSPERM:

Hypergamy

I'll love to have this discussion on hypergamy with everyone and with a free-mind....
Now, for those who would eventually get married, How do you think your wife would be submissive to you if she's not hypergamous...Personally, i think women exhibiting hypergamy is just nature's way of making her submissive....
If we also apply the context of hypergamy to other areas of our lives, you'll discover that almost if not everyone is hypergamous( i mean, who wouldn't leave a 20k job for a 100k job??) and i believe it's a necessity too....
Men too can be hypergamous actually...but then you MIGHT not be the head of your house...
Ubu.nja once said he's heart abi love is for sale, that he'll marry whoever is ready to pay his groom price...Now, this is hypergamy too...such a person wont be bothered about being the head of the home because the woman is paying the bills and other stuffs....free money and sex for him ...
But what do you guys think tho?

Zabiboy:


I'll love to have this discussion on hypergamy with everyone and with a free-mind....
Now, for those who would eventually get married, How do you think your wife would be submissive to you if she's not hypergamous...Personally, i think women exhibiting hypergamy is just nature's way of making her submissive....
If we also apply the context of hypergamy to other areas of our lives, you'll discover that almost if not everyone is hypergamous( i mean, who wouldn't leave a 20k job for a 100k job??) and i believe it's a necessity too....
Men too can be hypergamous actually...but then you MIGHT not be the head of your house...
Ubu.nja once said he's heart abi love is for sale, that he'll marry whoever is ready to pay his groom price...Now, this is hypergamy too...such a person wont be bothered about being the head of the home because the woman is paying the bills and other stuffs....free money and sex for him ...
But what do you guys think tho?

MrColdsweat:
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Martinez39s:
I am not saying I disagree with mrcoldsweat, and I am not saying I agree with him.

I have read mrcoldsweat's post, the one above yours. What he is trying to say, I think, is that the society's status quo has changed, it's here to stay and it's not going back anytime soon to the traditional way of things no matter how men desire traditional life. On a societal level, things have changed. Therefore, according to mrcoldsweat, men must learn to adapt and flow with the tide and not remain rooted in CERTAIN archaic stereotypes and beliefs about masculinity that are limiting men and serving them no purpose in the modern world. Mrcoldsweat isn't saying in his last post that you should lose your balls as a man and become feminized, all he meant by modifying masculinity is that we put aside our egos and certain useless, archaic, and unproductive stereotypes and beliefs about masculinity and do what we can to make headway in life even if it comes down to doing certain jobs that were traditionally considered feminine like nursing, working in a hair saloon, babysitting in a daycare etc.

He is not saying men must do these jobs, all he is saying is if a man can make profit from these jobs and if he wants to do it, he shouldn't be seen as less a man and his ego shouldn't stop him since we don't consider a woman who becomes an engineer or doctor (former masculine professions) less feminine by society's standards. If women are now given rights and opportunities as men, and they are free to pursue any job or career, it shouldn't be different with men. Hence the ego and mindset that would make a man rather go hungry instead working in a daycare because he think it makes him less masculine should be abolished.

At any rate, mrcoldsweat's argument is reducible to the adage "as hunters learnt to shoot without missing, birds learnt to fly without perching." He is telling us to adapt or lose out. I think that's what he meant by modify masculinity or lose out.

I will still read his earlier posts to undeserved his arguments betters.

Vecto:
The problem here is that some guys don't know how to say "No" to sexual advances from females. They can't seem to possibly wrap their head round why they should reject free pusyyy, ya know. If most men can control their sexual urges then we will have less betas and more alphas since sex is the female dominion of power.

Ekakamba:



How does this correlate to the question about supporting your ambitious girlfriend/wife to achieve success?
See ehn, make wuna dey use wuna head for her ooo... No be everything wey wuna read online wuna go apply am waaaaaaaa in reality.

BLOODYSPERM:
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Hypergamy is a dualistic plural mating strategy of women that focuses on alpha fuvks(good genetics) and beta bucks(provisioning), you are focusing on only the dating upwards for resources and status aspect of Hypergamy,I'm not at all bothered with hypergamy because as I'm using my redpill awareness to develop alpha frame mindset, I'm also working with abundance mentality which has changed a monogamous Christian conservative like me to be open minded to polygamy using dread on any woman I enter long-term relationship with,women are innately Hypergamous I can't change that reality but i can make more pragmatic decisions to see more effective result with regards to my own Biological imperative which is to have an harem of beautiful young feminine fertile women since I'm now open to polygamy, to sustain my lifestyle and be better prepared for provisioning of my family, I'm working on my entrepreneurial skills to improve my financial status and social skills to improve my social status, I'm fully aware of and I accept to bear responsiblity and burden of performance when I want to settle down , right now I'm single and still gaming not setting down anytime soon

BLOODYSPERM:
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Hypergamy is a dualistic plural mating strategy of women that focuses on alpha fuvks(good genetics) and beta bucks(provisioning), you are focusing on only the dating upwards for resources and status aspect of Hypergamy,

Zabiboy:


@bolded....
Just for the records man, i don't watch porn neither do i masturbate....It's just a question i felt one or two Others could learn from...
Nice points/solutions BTW

PETUK:
again

BLOODYSPERM:
Prioritize work above pussy