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''Worst African Country'' I don't think that is exactly correct. Why not try and visit lybia and the likes of it

Meaning what exactly

Tinubu is a no go area

I killed this animal and captured it's three kids alive but I don't know what to do with them.

Niyeal:
she should drink more water and eat more fruit, the foetus will stil be healthy, check my signature and sign up

k, thanks. That would really help

EVILFOREST:
What type of Antibiotics were u given.....?
What are their names.
However, try as much as possible to avoid drugs, even antimalarial drugs within the 1st 3months of your pregnancy except otherwise deemed needful by a Medical Practitioner.
However take adequate water.
At least 2bottles of BIG EVA water can , everyday...that's about 3litres or rather 5-6 sachets of ??pure water...

k, thanks. I will relate your message to her immediately

She was on strong antibiotics for over a week only to discover she was about three weeks pregnant, and now she is afraid that the baby could be affected. She came to me with such questions but I was unable to help. I told her to go to hospital but the doctor only changed her drugs but she is still afraid and unsettled.
Just a word from you guys could bring peace to this lady. Thanks and God bless you.

Amicable24:
I agree with this response finewoman.. Why hide it from ur wife if u can trust her??

If your wife is not the understanding type, always want you to spend every money you got on her, unless you hide it from her, you will always quarrel and remember, trust has limits and categories

Is not bad but depending on whom your wife really is. Most women are very unwise when it comes to spending money.

The young man needs the attention of a psychiatrist

Why would government bound importation of rice in the first place causing suffering on the masses

If frequently depressed but causes more harm to your hearts than you can ever imagine

Those chibok girls must have all given birth by now. I wonder why it was so difficult to rescue them before now. The boko boys will return them already used.

OBJ always in a closed door meeting, discussing what, we don't know

Yes, but not until the evil politicians and leaders are completely eliminated. A goat does not give birth to a dog.

Things are really getting worse in Nigeria, I must confess. Dividing Nigeria is going to take more than just militancy. But will that really solve our problems

That is absurd. How can being inconclusive makes a strengthened Electoral process. It only makes it worst.

If the earth is quaking as it is clearly stated, it is something that should not be taken lightly most especially as lives of people is being threatened.

You really think any of what is happening now is all about party. Think straight Op, there is always individual differences. It is so unfortunate that almost 99 percentage of politicians are deceitful people and there is no truth found in them irrespective of the parties they belong.

Can you imagine. Science and technology has really caused us more harms than good. Interfering with nature. These people only sees the good part of what they do but at the tail end, something very disastrous is usually the repercussion.

The other guy told me he has been dating her for over 8 years till the moment I caught her. Thanks for your contribution Op

tatucci:
u didnt tell us "the whole truth" which the guy told you... how we wan take advise u?

It is obvious OP. Thanks

Olufemiolaolu:
Honestly speaking she doesnt love you 1 bit. Relationship without d network of love ll just lead 2 automatic playing of games just like phone without network. Its left 4 u 2 decide ok. She's probably dating u becos u can pay her bills.

I already done that. She told me she met the other guy before me and that she love him. Thanks Op

omauchay:
please I beg u...dont be one sided..u have heard from the guy...hear from your fiancee before u make any decisions...I know u myt feel you already have ur facts but still ask ur fiancee questions first..speaking from xperience, I have had facts some time but I listened to a one sided talk and judged from there..uptill now, I still regret it.my opinion bros

Ok, thanks so much Op for your quality advice

pweetyphola:
I'm really sorry you had to go thru that experience and I pray God gives you the heart to bear it. I will only put in my two cents and hope God leads you aright as pertaining your perculiar situation. I want to talk from a personal experience and it will help if you can understand the angle I am comming from. I have read most comments that says either you should forgive or forget the marriage and I need you to watch out. First of all inform your friends and family of prosponment cause obviously there is a break of trust. this is to make decision wherever this break is repairable or not. the problem must have been she tot she could get away with it not necesaarry lack of love on her part. I once cheated virtually (not physically)and my guy got to know and it hurt him immensely. infact I tot that was the end I the relationship being that he is a straight forward guy and had told me the consequence of such right from the begining. But the fact he loves me so much made him give me chances upon chances and I had to come clean with all my dealing with any other guy and I, with his guidance and patience, I can say I'm proud of who I am now. we have had our ups and downs but I can say they made us stronger knowing our very weak points to stay clear of. so please, try and see if she can work out things out with you concerning any oda person she could be with. let her understand that you will not be made and option and the prosponment will drive home the message that if she messes up, loosing you will be what she will have to contend with. This can only happen if u truly love, forgive and you can look past her former waywardness to a better future. But know this can only also work if she is willing to let it work.

Thanks for that advice Op

Ioannes:
Oga, imagine this scenario:

you go ahead and marry her because you are 35yrs and you feel old. two years later you catch her in a hotel room dishing out various styles to another dude, maybe even your gate keeper or her driver. you feel devastated and divorce her.

you are not only single again at 37 but also a divorcee.

if you like yourself do away with her otherwise you will be forced to raise the children of other men unknowingly.

once a cheat, always a cheat.

she has shown you whom she loves more. she is draining you to give to someone else.

if you get married to her, probably one day she will plot to kill you for her concubine to have your wealth.

a word is enough for the wise.

Thanks Op, that makes a lot of sense.

Vickyydera:
God used this situation that just occurred now to show you that she is not the one, things like this happens few months to wedding to show us like an eye opener that the person is not meant for us, that is why we put our partner in prayer before we marry so that God can reveal to us if the person is the right one.
your financee is in love with another guy, she want to marry you for marrying sake, if you marry her,she will continue the r/ship with him and you will spend the rest of your life regretting why you married her.

About your age, do you know that you can meet the right person date her for a month and you guys will get married and you will still find peace and happiness in your marriage. My friend dated her husband for 3weeks and they got married, the are happily living together for 5years now. its about finding the right person, your soul mate,your better half.

Ghost447:
If I was in your position, I will quit the relationship at once. This is my honest advise. ( I hope her name is not Edobor O. Precious )

you must have had a bitter experience too. Thanks Op

Olufemiolaolu:
Honestly speaking she doesnt love you 1 bit. Relationship without d network of love ll just lead 2 automatic playing of games just like phone without network. Its left 4 u 2 decide ok. She's probably dating u becos u can pay her bills.

Thanks Op, noted.

omauchay:
please I beg u...dont be one sided..u have heard from the guy...hear from your fiancee before u make any decisions...I know u myt feel you already have ur facts but still ask ur fiancee questions first..speaking from xperience, I have had facts some time but I listened to a one sided talk and judged from there..uptill now, I still regret it.my opinion bros

Thanks Op