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Alero3Arubi:
Just grab her and take her.
Simple.

Saying it like that makes it incredibly hot.

But thanks but no. Too much emotions in between us (mostly from my end I figure), taking her will give her a fresh excuse to ask for things. I think she deserves her current boyfriend.

innosaint27:
Your senses have long been depleted. Just imagine your crude way of displaying hyper-ignorance of the MLS profession & yet you list it as one of the possible options for your brother. Smh

Before u quote me, take out time to google Medical Laboratory Science & help your plastic brains understand better.


#SenseFallonU

Thank you. You have been noticed.

wildchild1:
My mum is a nurse, nurses are beautiful

Check my signature for 2017/2018 club Jerseys and Confederation Cup countries jersey

He is not studying to be a beautiful person. He is studying to be a man who can put food on the table.

captainbell:
Medicine anytime any day. have you ever seen an unemployed qualified medical doctor before ? they all get jobs even in this Nigeria, except for some if them that got the MBBS certificate from countries like Russia, Ukraine, cyprus and other countries that produce half baked medical doctors all in the name of the dollars they would pay as foreign student.

Are you for real?
Are you in Nigeria?

Medical doctors no longer get jobs like that without being very very connected. Ask around. Even after fellowship, there are no jobs waiting around for them. That, is the reality in Nigeria right now.

cnc:
If he ensures to be really good at whatever he does, he'll make a good living from it. He should study whatever course interests him most... The fact that there are unemployed doctors doesn't make him a potential one. There is no hospital that will refuse the free services of a doctor, with that he would get the required experience and if he's good, the hospital will do everything to retain him. That's if he finds it difficult getting a job on graduation. Most times we want things handed over to us on a platter... that rarely happens in real life.
But trust me, if he's determined and as brilliant as u say, he'll do just fine irrespective of what he studies.

Thanks for your contribution.

Two medical doctors in my family right now have no job. That is a sufficient clue for us to have a rethink.

@the bolded: how will the doctor survive in the meantime while he/she is rendering free services. I understand the concept of rendering free services but for how long, and how do you get fed in the meantime?

Guys thank you all for your help. It turns out the chic only wanted to be collecting easy money from me because the boyfriend has gone broke. I learnt he diverted the loan meant for his business into MMM and he got fleeced. I must confess that the girl has already collected money from me, but that's nothing now. It feels awful to be played... And she appeared very sincere like she was really in love with me.

nextprince:
For pride -MBBS
For job opportunities- Nursing
For immediate Self employment -Pharmacy.
I have all three in my family

Physiotherapy, very important but undervalued in naija and less chance of easily get job abroad.
I don't have any in my family.

I don't know what is MLS.

I appreciate your submission nextprince. It's just spot on. As a bright student, my brother believes medicine suits him, and especially because medicine is prestigious. However, he is (we all are) being forced to reconsider that, with so many doctors being unable to get job in the country. I don't know what the situation is for pharmacy... I don't know many pharmacists, except that some said pharmacy as a course is a lot tougher than medicine. That challenge is what is now making him consider pharmacy as a good, if not better option. But I'm concerned if he will be able to make a good life as a pharmacist.
MLS is medical laboratory science; i think the guys that carry faeces and urine. But if provides better living for him, why not?

Hello Nairalanders,

I have troubles advising my little brother on which course to choose in the health field. The family know that he likes both medicine and pharmacy, but we have two uncles who since graduating as medical doctors are having great problems getting a job. I want Nairalanders who have knowledge of the health field and their current job opportunities in Nigeria to advise us.

Which course should he choose?

Thank you Nairalanders.

CorGier:
and what makes you think you're the "best girl for her?"
I'm all for stealing a nīgga's girl but don't go about it thinking you gon/can treat her better. You be surprised to know her man currently treats her like shīt but she aint complaining.

Well, I've got to try at least. If I lose, no qualms, at least I fought for her hand.

Sheflex4real:
Easy!
First agree to be her friend,the listening type.
The Most important thing is " Anytime you are about her boy friend, Never I repeat Never speak bad of him, cause if you do she will defend him"

SO how do you accomplish your mission?

Easy! Always praise him, as a matter of fact over praise him, if you do it the right way, she will start noticing the flaws in him, it the way all our minds are design.

The minute she start comparing you to him in her mind, its over.

But its important to know that if you are not doing it for the right reasons, whatever it is you think you share with her is not going to last. We all know the saying " what goes around comes around"


Don_Lex.

My guy, you're da bomb!
Thanks...

For those saying all manner of things about my post, abeg reconsider my post. I'm not saying she is married. No no and no. She is not married. Meaning that she is still single. I don't think it is a crime to out-compete the boyfriend. This life is all about competition, natural selection they call it. The fittest, the best person wins. It is left for the boyfriend to out-compete me. But if I win her heart, then her hand, then I do not see anything bad in that.

If you've got a girlfriend, you gat her win her heart every day so a better dude doesn't sweep her away. As for Derby, I have a 100 % commitment to sweep her away.

That he asked her out first doesn't mean he is the best girl for her... Those with experience and good ideas, how would you go about re-winning the heart of a woman/man that has already been won by someone else?

Deicide:
I think it's more of Environmental Factors

Spot on!
Many Christians feel guilty just for drinking beer/alcohol in Nigeria, while they drink all such in the West without their conscience pricking them. I totally agree that it's environment. Which leads one to the inevitable conclusion, that the conscience cannot be the voice of God.

I have met people from different backgrounds and culture. They all refer to their conscience as the guiding light for their behaviour, some kind of a personal police and chaperone that keeps them in check. However, I have some doubts about trusting the conscience.

The conscience seems to be highly vulnerable to one's education and cultural upbringing. For instance, a woman in Saudi Arabia might be self-flogged by her conscience for driving a car because that's what has been drilled into her ears since birth, that it is illegal for a woman to drive. While another muslim woman in Nigeria may have no such internal wranglings about driving.

Is conscience at all to be trusted? Or, is it no more than a perfect reflector of one's education and ignorance?

What do you say, how far would you trust your own conscience?