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Phones / Re: Phone Engineers On Nairaland Willing To Assist You - Part II by prdjgood(m): 4:45am On Sep 25, 2019
How much will it cost me to change the back glass of iPhone XS Max?
Phones / Re: My Experience and Unboxing of The Infinix S4 by prdjgood(m): 3:43pm On Apr 19, 2019
tfortony:
So I did a 1 HOUR Gaming Session with the S4 and here are my results with regards to battery and heating of the phone. Enjoy smiley


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Mj0NLs_V2GM

What do you think about the S4's performance?
Does S4 has Xhide feature to hide applications and contacts?
Phones / Re: My Experience and Unboxing of The Infinix S4 by prdjgood(m): 12:27pm On Apr 19, 2019
Does S4 has Xhide feature to hide applications and contacts?
tfortony:
I also test the Infinix S4's 3 Cameras on the back

- 13MP Main "AI" Camera
- 2MP (120 Degree) Wide Angle Camera - Which has quite the barrel distortions
- 8MP Depth Camera

and its 32MP Front Camera

Although it's just an HD screen it's capable of viewing 1080p natively but not streaming due to the Helio P22 processor.

What are your thoughts?
Phones / Re: Lets talk about the Infinix S4 by prdjgood(m): 10:33am On Apr 19, 2019
Does S4 has Xhide feature to hide app?
NYSC / Re: How To Apply For NYSC Relocation & Redeployment by prdjgood(m): 5:18am On Apr 17, 2018
peemyke:
yes, to Abuja.
Good morning please I need your assistance I'm been deployed to Adamawa and will need to redeploy can you please put me through. 07066227652
NYSC / Re: NYSC 2018 Batch A Corps Members House by prdjgood(m): 4:49am On Apr 17, 2018
Iniobon:
please somebody help, how do I get to Adamawa from Akwa Ibom. thanks.
posted to adamawa too. is it true we'll be given an opportunity to redeploy after camp due to insecurity.
NYSC / Re: NYSC 2018 Batch A Corps Members House by prdjgood(m): 7:35am On Apr 16, 2018
Thought people posted to Adamawa, Borno, Yobe will be allowed to redeploy to another state of their choice.
NYSC / Re: NYSC 2018 Batch A Corps Members House by prdjgood(m): 3:05am On Apr 13, 2018
labodinho:


This guy resemble broda shaggy grin
Bro how far now?
NYSC / Re: NYSC 2018 Batch A Corps Members House by prdjgood(m): 2:45am On Apr 13, 2018
This must be some joke from NYSC���

NYSC / Re: NYSC 2018 Batch A Corps Members House by prdjgood(m): 8:59am On Mar 27, 2018
leCaptain:
Pls has anybody seen their call up no. yet? It's showing awaiting call up number for me
you’re not alone same here.
NYSC / Re: NYSC 2018 Batch A Corps Members House by prdjgood(m): 7:41am On Mar 24, 2018
Bro you ain’t alone. Futa never upload. Hopefully today.
leCaptain:
Please what's up with Futa? Anybody seen their names yet or have they even uploaded yet pls?!
Politics / Re: Owoola Seun Adetola Celebrates Fayose's 2 Years In Office In Local Style (Pics) by prdjgood(m): 10:43am On Oct 12, 2016
this is ritualism "IFA" @ its peak.
Education / Re: FUTA 500 level Student Wins Tony Elemelu’s $10,000 Grant (Photo) by prdjgood(m): 2:15pm On Apr 14, 2016
congratulations my brother fmsky.... You finally make it
Jokes Etc / Who Killed It? by prdjgood(m): 12:24pm On Oct 21, 2015
A guy ask a girl for her phone number,and the girl pulled out 1000 naira note from her purse,wrote the number on it and gave it to the guy.the guy collected it tore out the part that has the number and threw the other part away...who got more swag between the two of them?....
Health / Re: Persistent Pain On Neck, Head And Back by prdjgood(m): 8:26am On Oct 20, 2015
go for an HIV test
Computers / Re: . by prdjgood(m): 9:41am On Jul 31, 2015
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Phones / Re: 20 Naira Daily Unlimited Free Browsing On MTN With Simpleserver And Autoproxy by prdjgood(m): 9:36am On Jul 31, 2015
guydangerous:
Quietly waiting for testimonies as am still browsing with Bblited
pls give me the settings for pc
Celebrities / Breaking News; Ooni Of Ife Is Dead by prdjgood(m): 11:41pm On Jul 28, 2015
It was learnt that the state Governor, Ogbeni Rauf Aregbesola, has just been briefed on the development The Ooni of Ife, Oba Okunade Sijuwade, is dead. Details of his death were sketchy as at press time. However, sources in the Osun State Government House in Osogbo on Tuesday evening confirmed the development. It was learnt that the state Governor, Ogbeni Rauf Aregbesola, has just been briefed on the development. Details soon. source; http://www.punchng.com/news/ooni-of-ife- dies-at-85/
cc; MissyB3 , Fynestboi, ijebabe

Culture / Breaking News Ooni Of Ife Is Dead by prdjgood(m): 11:30pm On Jul 28, 2015
It was learnt that the state Governor, Ogbeni Rauf Aregbesola, has just been briefed on the development The Ooni of Ife, Oba Okunade Sijuwade, is dead.
Details of his death were sketchy as at press time.
However, sources in the Osun State Government House in Osogbo on Tuesday evening confirmed the development.
It was learnt that the state Governor, Ogbeni Rauf Aregbesola, has just been briefed on the development.
Details soon.

source; http://www.punchng.com/news/ooni-of-ife-dies-at-85/

CC odumchi fulaman198

Crime / Re: Local Car Dealer In Ilesa Kills Jobber Man, Hides His Corps by prdjgood(m): 7:28am On Jul 19, 2015
ANBAKO:
Na wah for you ooo!!!
I hope you guys are not lying or else this Topmost guy will come hard on you for defamation of character.
I cannot trust journalist....they are ready to write jargon to gain popularity.
no brother ask anyone from ILEA he as been in police custody since then
Crime / Local Car Dealer In Ilesa Kills Jobber Man, Hides His Corps by prdjgood(m): 7:21am On Jul 19, 2015
A top car dealer in Ilesa Osun state by the name Topmost, was yesterday said to have killed and hidden the body of a jobber man that went to fix something for him in his house. According to what egistville gathered, the man had gone to install an appliance for him in his house but, met his untimely death in the hands of this man. We gathered that he after killing this man, cut off some private part from his body. The secret came to light via the wife of the man whom her husband had already told that he was going to Topmost’s place to work for him, with the aim of getting paid after his services to him. She raised an alarm when she couldn’t find her husband whom had gone out to work hence, a search was conducted in
Topmost’s house where we learnt, that the young man’s body was found, but already harvested. Angry mob yesterday however, went to where he sells cars to vandalize the place but, discovered to their greatest dismay, that the cars had been moved away from the place. they then decided to go to his house but reaching there however, the man brought out his double barreled gun for self defense.
The police we gathered, have intervened right now, and even the sister to the said killer, we also gathered, had taken to her heels, as her shop at Adeti was found locked. The town of Ilesa remain troubled over this, until the truth finally comes to light. More news to unfold on this. We are still following the situation closely and, will keep you abreast of happenings.
source osun defender
Romance / Re: For Those Looking For Guys With 6 Packs,think Twice ( Photo) by prdjgood(m): 9:39pm On Jul 13, 2015
MGLogistics:
This is funny.

You know what's not funny? Paying too much money to unscrupulous "clearing agents" and still not having your goods cleared! Call us at MGL today and experience excellence in service!
I'm a transport/logistics management student. can I have my industrial training with you?
Romance / Re: How To Build Trust In A Relationship by prdjgood(m): 9:08am On Jul 07, 2015
achinaboy:
the urgly ones fuuuk more than the beautiful ones,,just saying
100% in support of this.
Romance / Re: Guys! 7 Sexiest Things You Can Do For Her by prdjgood(m): 9:07am On Jul 07, 2015
Cholls:
my brother i wan borrow cutehector word to qualify this thread. "Crap"
Bleep off
Romance / Re: 9 Advantages Of Online Relationships by prdjgood(m): 9:05am On Jul 07, 2015
IamLEGEND1:
so @O.P

tell me this,

U DEY DO ONLINE DATING.?
not really just felt like sharing my views on it
Romance / Guys! 7 Sexiest Things You Can Do For Her by prdjgood(m): 4:45am On Jul 07, 2015
When it comes to turning on a woman, you probably know what to do with your hands. And your mouth. And your tongue. But what really gets A girl in the mood to get frisky may surprise you. Though hot makeout sessions and romantic evenings complete with a bouquet and a bottle of wine are never a bad idea if you want to turn up the passion, there are far simpler things you can do that can make you more attractive.

Though everyone is different, take it from these women — of all ages and relationship statuses — who share the sexiest things that men have ever done for them (you can thank us later.)

Cleaning
When you need to take out the bin bags (for the 100th time), you might want to think again before rolling your eyes. “When I get home from work or the gym and I see him washing the dishes or folding laundry or doing anything that takes less work off of me, I want to jump him right then and there. The thoughtfulness is sweet and it takes weight off my shoulders that gives more time for other things,” says 26-year-old Julie from Boston. So if you want to get laid more… get scrubbing.

Confidence
In all healthy relationships, couples should be able to share their grievances, complaints and frustrations. But if most of your conversations make you sound like you aren’t the confident guy she fell for, you might be selling yourself short in the sack. “In his life, with his friendships, with his job, in the bed, there are three words that mean so much: be in charge!” says 37-year-old, Lauren from New York. If you want passionate, forward sexual experiences, create them.

Compassion
“There’s something really attractive about a man who is a gentleman, is humble and stands up for what he believes in,” says 25- year-old Kristin from North Carolina. Women listen intently to how you describe things, what’s important to you and how you show compassion for other people. It can be as simple as talking and letting your words match your actions that gets your lady turned on.

Charm
“I’ll admit it, I’m a total sucker for charm. There’s just something about a guy who can tell a good joke, steal a hand/kiss or say something to make me weak in the knees at just the right moment,” says 30- year-old Ashley. When it comes to being in public, make an effort to make her swoon just a little: a playful smooch, something silly to make her laugh, anything to show her that while you’re serious about your love, you always enjoy having fun with her, too.

Loyalty
“Hearing stories from acquaintances and friends of his respectfulness when I’m nowhere around, especially when it’s towards them. What you get is his genuine self,” says 29-year-old Jenna from Paris, France. When a woman can truly trust you — regardless of whether she is around you or apart from you — she is comfortable enough to unleash her sexual side. It builds your relationship and can genuinely help open up fantasies in the bedroom, too.

Handiness
Good around the tool shed, good in the bed. “My boyfriend is super handy: really good with appliances, cars, you name it. He uses that engineer brain all of the time and it’s really sexy,” says 27-year-old Nicole from Los Angeles. Even if you can’t put back together a computer or build a bookcase, if you show initiative to get things done, your lady will view you as someone who takes the lead.

Words
“When I’m getting ready or when we’re sitting at the dinner table and a guy whispers something like ‘You’re beautiful’ or ‘You’re sexy’ in my ear, I can’t wait for us to be alone so we can go at it. I love the reassurance,” Olivia, 28 says. A few simple words at the right time can be enough to push your girlfriend’s buttons and remind her just how attracted you are to her.
Romance / Re: How To Build Trust In A Relationship by prdjgood(m): 4:30am On Jul 07, 2015
fromnigeria:
Make him/her understand you believe and pratice 'One man One Vote', other falls in automatically.
and for him/her to understand nko?
Romance / 9 Advantages Of Online Relationships by prdjgood(m): 4:26am On Jul 07, 2015
For those who don’t have time to date “normally”, though, sometimes the Internet is all they have. If this fits you or you just want a new experience, here are nine advantages of online relationships.

Regardless of whatever you may have read or heard concerning online relationships, they actually have some positive benefits embeded in them. Don’t get this wrong, there are definitely risks to getting involved with someone on the internet; getting scammed for money, possible safety issues and someone being a creep, just to name a few. However, there are some who met the love of their lives online. This is not to suggest going online to cheat on your partner or using the Internet as a complete substitute for interaction.
For those who don’t have time to date “normally”, though, sometimes the Internet is all they have. If this fits you or you just want a new experience, here are nine advantages of online relationships.

1. Control: One of the biggest advantages of online relationships is that you have complete control over when and how much you communicate with the person. If a conversation gets to be too much, it’s a lot easier to log off than to walk away. Also, you can’t help but get a little excited when you see that you’ve gotten a message. If he says something sweet, you can keep it and look at it later. Messages on your computer take up much less space in your room than flowers and cards.

2. Things are as intense or as casual as you make them: When it comes to online relationships, a lot depends on what you’reooking for. If you’re the kind of person who likes her space and doesn’t need or want a lot of contact with her mate, online relationships can fit that bill. You can keep it casual and fun or you can get more serious-it’s up to you. Just make sure that both of you are on the same page on this, though; just like offline, it really hurts when someone means more to you than you do to them.

3. The physical aspect: The lack of physical contact in an online-only or strictly cyber relationship is a two-edged sword. On one hand, a computer can’t keep you warm at night or give you a hug after a hard day. We all need that sometimes. Without physical contact, though, you also don’t have the hormone rush that can distract you from your real issues. There are several people who have stayed in a bad relationship for the sex and been worse off for it. If you’re just out for fun this might not apply, but taking sex (“in-person” sex, anyway) off the table gives you a chance to get to know someone on a different level. Plus, there’s no chance of being used without knowing it.

4. The truth factor: While it is very possible to lie to someone without being caught, a lot of people are more honest online than they are in person. Think about it; have you ever felt like you couldn’t be yourself around certain people? Have you had to “put on a happy face” and be polite when you feel anything but? This isn’t a problem online; you can be as “real” as you want, when you want. This isn’t saying you get to be mean so much as that you don’t have to walk on eggshells as much.

5. More ways to meet someone: Depending on what you want, it can be a lot easier to meet someone online than in other places. People who are socially awkward or who are just plain busy probably don’t want to look for someone in a bar. If you meet in a special-interest forum like religion or gaming, you already have something in common. Since a lot of us don’t get to talk about those things in real life because we don’t know anyone who shares those interests or because it’s not “polite conversation”, you can bond over something in a way you might not otherwise.

6. You can go at your own pace: Have you ever felt pressured by a man to go further than you’re comfortable with? Have you ever been intimate with someone early on, but later regretted it? This doesn’t happen as much in online relationships. Part of the control mentioned in number one is being able to set the pace of a relationship without hormones or outside pressures getting in the way.

7. A larger “dating pool”: Again, a lot depends on what you’re looking for. If you’re okay with being far away from your partner, there’s literally a whole world out there to “choose from”. This is especially true for people in smaller areas or who have special interests; there might not be a gaming or Latin-dance community nearby, so going online gives you a better chance of meeting someone who shares that passion. Where things go from there is up to you.

8. The fun of “sexting”: Sexting and CyberLove can be really thrilling. There’s something very “freeing” about being able to do, say or wear things over a chat room or Skype connection that you might not otherwise. If you’re the type who enjoys dirty talk but is too shy to say the words out loud, the internet is a happy medium.

9. Looks are not as important: This isn’t to say that looks mean nothing, but online relationships allow you to get to know someone without having to worry as much about your appearance. A conversation
online is just as good in your pajamas as it would be in your best dress. Also, getting to know someone on an emotional level first means that you can be seen for who you are rather than what you look like, something that rarely happens in the “bar scene”.
Romance / How To Build Trust In A Relationship by prdjgood(m): 4:01am On Jul 07, 2015
Trust, as we know, is a crucial factor in any relationship. Many relationships have broken up over trust issues. Once violated, trust is very difficult to repair and rebuild, so it has to be guarded carefully and constantly nurtured. It can be compared to a plant that needs the right soil, water and temperature to flourish and attain full bloom. So too, trust requires the right conditions and environment to sustain a relationship through highs and lows.

If partners trust each other in a relationship, there is no guarantee that it will continue to stay that way. You can never trust enough, nor can you take it for granted. You have to constantly build on it.

What are the barriers to building trust in a
relationship?

1. Desire to control
When one partner or the other seeks to control the relationship and wants to achieve the upper hand, it is very difficult to meet on equal ground and establish trust. If you are not happy in a relationship and constantly seek to change your partner and dictate terms, it is not an environment conducive to building trust. Your partner will withdraw and alienate himself/herself from you.

2. Dishonesty
If you are always trying to hide things from your partner, or lie by omission, or only tell him/her what you think he/she needs to hear, you are not just being dishonest with your partner but you are not being true to yourself either. Remember that if you’re doing something wrong that you can’t talk about to your partner, it’s not about hiding it from your partner but whether you can live with it. Whatever you do, have the courage of your convictions and there will never be the need to be dishonest.

3. Self-centeredness
When we focus only on our needs and ourselves, we tend to do things that don’t help the relationship and will probably cause a rift in it. If you have selfish motives, it erodes the trust that your partner has placed in you and causes a loss of faith. This in turn hampers the growth of the relationship and causes it to stagnate.
In order to build trust in a relationship we have to overcome these barriers and ensure they don’t act as stumbling blocks. In addition, it is important to work on those factors that enhance trust and cement it so that it acts as a cohesive force in a relationship.

4. Be open
It is vital in a relationship to be as open and honest as possible. Sometimes couples lie to each other on the pretext that the truth will hurt their partner. That is something they should think about when they are indulging in the dishonest act, not at the time of disclosure. If you think twice about what you’re doing and how it will hurt your partner, if you really care for him/ her, you won’t do it. If you’re constantly hiding things and not being sincere, it stunts the relationship and inhibits trust.

5. Communication
Communication forms the core – an integral part of building trust and sustaining a relationship. Communication does not involve one person doing all the talking – that too only surface talk about fashion trends and gossip. Communicating effectively involves both partners contributing their fair share to the conversation and listening when the other talks. It involves laying your cards on the table and telling it like it is, talking about your deeper emotions and feelings. It means being straightforward about your needs and expectations.

6. Forgiveness
Building trust in a relationship also involves being able to forgive your partner for the hurt he may have caused you in the past. If you can’t do that and insist on clinging to petty problems or keep raking up old issues, the relationship will die a natural death. Or one or both of you is going to be extremely unhappy. If you decide to continue in a relationship despite the hurt your partner may have inflicted on you in the past and would like to work on rebuilding the trust, you have to be willing to wipe the slate clean and start over.

7. Empathize
When problems come up or difficult situations arise, as they are bound to, it is important to show concern for your partner’s feelings and be sensitive to their needs. Even if you didn’t agree with the course of action and he didn’t take your advice, support him in his time of despair. If you understand his deepest desires and identify with his interests, he is more inclined to trust you with his feelings. If you throw them back in his face, ridicule him or rub it in when he’s stumbled and fallen, he will not be inclined to trust you.

8. Maintain positive feelings
If your partner has never given you reason to doubt him, then don’t. What’s that line about someone not being guilty unless proven otherwise? If you’re always suspicious and doubting his motives, jealous and quick to jump to conclusions (often the wrong ones), it will be very difficult to build trust. Treat your partner just the way you would want to be treated – with love and respect.

Building trust in a relationship doesn’t come with a snap of the fingers. It takes hard work and commitment, but once you have it and work to keep it alive, you will reap the fruits of it.

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