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alutacontinua: It's even better sef!
At least, i will be able to use dt as an excuse for my mama!

Something lyk 'my baby doesn't want it and as you've tot me to be obedient, I don't want to make this a big deal'!

She no go know say i've been planning on nt doing a shouty wedding since lyk I could think straight! I just didn't know how to let her know each tym she describes what her gele would look like

Abeg do wedding don't disappoint ur mama. The joy of motherhood is to see her daughter marrying in a grand style.
Pls don't disappoint MAMA

Yield: Yeah, I would. I've always dreamt of a quiet, peaceful wedding anyway,
on a beach with just a few people and my dogs.


Your Uncle wants to occupy a magazine? Geez, how unnecessary.
His fiance is thinking ahead and wants to use the money he wants to
spend lavishly on starting a business. That's a smart woman right there.
Unlike your Uncle, it seems she doesn't care about material things or putting
on a show for people. If he can afford it and it won't affect them in any way
financially, understandable. But they still need to come to a compromise on
what would make the two of them HAPPY.

Na you try pass sis.

god_of_music: Yeah, i remember cause we got the same surname, everybody thought we were siblings

I've searched but ain't seen


#TeamGOM

Really, Or is she .......? (it can't be)

tpia@:
As soon as you explain how your uncle's wedding concerns me, I'll comment.

PoO. Nobody cares whether you comment or not in what way are you better than these commenters? FYI, i'm nt asking you to advice me, just asking what you will do if ur spouse does not want a wedding. Or are you a drop out?

sweet-tease:
Am talking about an elaborate wedding not wedding in general o







Not if you spoil the few guests
Thank you

spoiling the few guests costs money also. The truth is you can't organise a wedding without spending large.

Ego2: Mine started frm pry school tho i hated him den buh wen i got sec school we were in d same class(jss) n inseparable buh we never dated just best frnds, hid my feelings same as him, tho every1 in school knew Der was more too our friendship. We lerra got separated in (ss) n dat was d end of my biggest crush on tayo. Looking bk i just can't help smiling , wondering if he ever remember dat:|

Do you still have tayo's contact?

Nomso007: Primary 3 or 4 not sure. Her name's Ugomma. She was the prettiest girl I had ever seen! I remember clearly she had this very sweet scent #deepSigh... she always smelled so nice.

I can smell the scent NOW

Her name was Aisha, we weren't friends cos she was always takin d first position...
Me n ma frnds always made her the loner in class but damn I liked her like madt!!
We once had a fight and I injured her, didn't know wen tears rolled down my eyes *to be continued*

Sad news was she was betrothed to one Alhaji who had so many Cows/Cattle.

Crush and hatred. What do we call that?
Really? She's now married to YERIMA?

god_of_music: Her name was Chinonso Okoroafor, we schooled at Learnfast International Primary school Ajangbadi,Lagos.

Then we were in Primary 3, she was the brightest and smartest, I always got a crush on her. . . But she only saw me as a competition, cause I was the next smart kid in class. I was taking 3rd position but I was smarter than the 2nd guy. She looks exactly like Wizkid's girlfriend Tania

I've been looking for her since we left Lagos

Chinonso where are you?!!!





#TeamGOM

wow. You can even remember her surname! You must gat a good memory then. Search her name on FB na or GOOGLE. Its 90 percent likely to contact her via these means !

Amis: mia first crush was mia jnr in skul.. we ended up dating on n off chaiii mk i no talk, so i no go embarras miaself oo

even the one you have said has shown that it was an embarrasment indeed.@ the bolded.

Drdaps: if our fate cross again i will give it a shot

that's great still strong as ever.

sweet-tease:
Its not about managing seff, i love small weddings, just make d small wedding as great as possible and the story will be, 'they just did a small nice wedding' and even if its about managing, na dem won feed me after d wedding?

rotfll....... "small nice wedding is never a compliment". You would not even hear that from anyone in naija not even your parents. Anyway, I like the I don't care what they say stuf. Only few girls have that.

Drdaps: cant u read i said i am a loser then(dont know how to put things in motion)

oooookaaay I see. But how she too react maybe she was expecting you to make the move. Who knows may be it was mutual?

sweet-tease:
It is oo.... No matter how much you spend to satisfy your guests they will still complain, and i don't want to even talk about those that borrowed cos of the wedding nd face hardship for lik a year after d wedding. Why not do a small wedding where its easier to satisfy your guests, less stress and less spending.

People will still compare ur wedding to a friend's or another. And you know how bad it is when people say ur wedding na just "managing". "Make e no be lyk say I no do wedding". You knw naija and theor bad mouth na

Obiagu1: I think dating is an early stage of a relationship.
Dating can involve sex too.

How many months, years is that early stage before it grows into a relationship?

god_of_music: I didn't even read your Original post, my close crush should be one geh like that



#TeamGOM

ur reading it does not even add anything meaningful!

skydeep: Organise your wedding according to your income

So on point!
But some don't just want the elaborate thing not because of financial quagmire

Ab025: I think the woman is more interested in the days after the wedding, while ur uncle is more interested on the wedding day..

I must say, I like that woman, she thinks of the future.

Btw, why do ur uncle want to paint the town red becos of his wedding only to put d poor gal at home, lonely and jobless after d weddin? Isn't it beta for him to giv that "paint money" to his fiance to start a nice business?

Because that's the trend. May be you are the only person whod does not know that weddings these days are COMPETITiON from food, to the dJ, the emcee, the cake, the clothes, the ring and most competitive is the wedding gown!!! He wants it because that's what everybody does. # Do in rome what romans do #

sweet-tease:
I don't even want one so dats not a problem as far as am concerned. If he insists otherwise, fine but a quiet wedding is my dream wedding.
Although it won't be just paying dowry oo

she's just another you only that she's not passive. She sees wedding as "wasting of money". And I quite agree with her but me go do wedding ooo

god_of_music: Genevieve Nnaji



#TeamGOM

i learn't u attended the same school and was even living in the same house with you. Xixixixixixixi

Khalessi: Yep his name is Felix , back then when am sent on an errand instead of me taking the normal route I will pass in front of his house,so I can catch a glimpse of him ....we dated for while tho and I got bored...THE END.

So you started dating befor ten? How old were you then?

nekaa: yes I do... He was my teacher in primary school.

badt gal. @ what class?

I have an uncle whose Fiancee has said she is not ready for an elaborate wedding. 'Just call some members of your family,friends, colleagues, and come and meet my family pay the dowry. Then we are married. So, the money you would spend lavishly should be given to me to start a business since I can't find a job" she said. My uncle wants wedding, he wants to paint the town red and even occupy a magazine. In some cases, it is the guy who always go aginst it especially if the wife is from the east.
Can you break a relationship if your spouse doesn't want an elaborate wedding?

CastingCrowns: heart beat became rapid wen i saw him,sweating palms,confusion and disorientation.....took me seven years to get ova it.

You ve not told us how, where you met na. Abeg share the fun na

Drdaps: the last time i saw her (7 years ago) i was a good loser then so i cant say a word but [/b]now i am a fair loser four gf six friends wit advantage not bad[b].

@ the bolded: your case worse pass king solomon hehehehehe

Didn't you feel any spark when you saw her or was she no longer attractive?

OP this ur thread childish sha. You for ask them na. It may be attraction or repulsion. Maybe they see innocence in your eyes or stupidity. You can never tell!!!

"the heart of man is desperately wicked and deceitful above all things. Who can know it?" jer 17:9.

@farano:
Lol...Malachy was his name. We were in d dsame class,primary 2 n he was our class prefect. U dare not include my name in d list of noise makers. If mine was not written,then those on d list r not noise makers. We really liked eachother.

xixixixixi that's partiality/injustice. So you've known how to use what you have to get what you want since 1960?

Btw, everything is FAIR in love and war. Thumbs up gal

1one: I think dating is more like "WINDOW SHOPPING"..where you go to the market to more or less sight-see without having any serious intention to buy any of the stuff and that's why some people(I dare say girls) can comfortably date 5guys at a time.....but a relationship is more like going to a high-end supermall to actually buy/pay for expensive stuff,so its something you have invested not just your time into,but also your resources that's why even though its possible to have 5 different relationships...but wetin the tin go chop commot for your body you sef go sabi say make you do only one.

I guess you mean dating has less commitment than being in a relationship cos in a relationship you can't do as you like while in dating everything goes?

Drdaps: Yep i do remeber her.An artless igbo girl(Chidebere Okeke) i think i cnt 4get her name even back then i dnt knw wat i'm doin.
I wish to see her and tell her how she nearly killed the little boy wit her pretty face. South girls i hail ()()()()()

haahaahah so beauty na crime? Me self for die ooooo. Do you still have her contacts? When did you hear from her last?

Annie2gud: ....

why you con book 2 space na haba this is greediness! Are you Annie Obasanjo or Tinubu?

Annie2gud: Caveat emptor.........space booked.

njokusboy: Well, if all you and ur girlfriend do is go to the mall, beach, shopping, eat fried rice and chicken, hug, make calls and say I love you,all at your own expense, then you guys are dating... But if you do the main thing, lyk she cooking for you, making your bed, sleeping over, washing your clothes and banging you crazy, then you are both in a relationship...
Infact when dating, you only give but in a relationship, you give and receive... 50/50

if you read the above you will see there is no clearcut differnce there coz all theses things you mention are applicable in a relationship can not but be practised in dating!

gbengaola: the person was correct,although people use them interchangeably but they are two different words.Now to the question

DATING:this is when u fix time to meet in a place,restaurant,bars,e.t.c to talk about your intentions,what u want from the person,it may happen only one time,two times,or even as much as u arrange,but think of it,if her answer is NO,then u dated her succesfully but did not get in a relationship with her.

RELATIONSHIP:after hanging around/asking out/dating......if her answer is YES,now u are in a relationship with her.

I hope i answered you,GBENGAOLA

permit me not to agree with you cos the 1st one is a hanging out while dating is the proceed of hanging out with her i.e when she agrees ti b ur GF.

#May be I'm wrong#