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IHate9ja1:
ADVICE FOR MEN 1. Before you start a relationship with a lady, you must think carefully about what you are about to do. A relationship is not something you should rush into or handle lightly. 2. Are you ready for a relationship with her? Are you emotionally, mentally and spiritually mature to meet her needs? 3. Being sexually attracted to her means absolutely nothing. It isn’t a sign of likeness, love or any other thing your mind may come up with. It may just be your hormones messing with your mind. A woman is more than her body and her sexuality. She has a life which you should be able to blend with. Can you do that? 4. This lady has a history. Can you handle it? She has a past. Can you handle it? Can you handle her mistakes, failures and weaknesses? Can you handle her dreams without being intimidated and becoming jealous? 5. She already had a life before she met you. Can you fit into and help improve her life? 6. Love is commitment. Are you ready to commit your life to helping her grow and become all that she can be, by God’s grace? 7. Is she valuable enough for you to devote a large portion of your life towards the accomplishment of HER dream? Are you ready to pour your resources into making her all the Lord plans for her to be? If you are not ready, don’t just bother. 8. Before you open your mouth to say ‘I love you’, ask yourself if this is not just a moment of ‘emotional madness’. A lady needs much more than ‘I love you’. She needs your commitment. If you are not ready to make that commitment that will lead to marriage. Please leave her alone in peace and stop wasting her time and resources...

awesome...food for thought

thuao:
its so cool , I mean for the guy n ladies with no plan for the future yet.
wen I av my girl n she ain't around, y not, I will look around for another one(fwb). that will do the trick in the owners absence, moreso boundaries n rules of the games re set from the beginning.
it might help ,if but parties partner re away, just help each other , but problem is wen , feelings starts cropping up.
to me, its like a relationship with no promise made , no commitment expected , cos am commited to someone else.

thats true...with time feelings might set in

Urine:
Well...we both know that test is necessary.

how do you test?

bettercreature:
Not at all! i like to dominate and do my own things my own way,i dont like anything like a threat

lolz...when you are strong you wouldnt fear a girl's threat

bettercreature:
Not at all! i like to dominate and do my own things my own way,i dont like anything like a threat

lolz...when you are strong you wouldnt fear a girl's threat

to all the virgins in the house I greet u

am not looking for a perfect being just an imperfect being striving towards perfection

MrIpledge:
Single and searching

on your bluetooth, wifi, infra red...jst on everything there are lots of girls around u#winks

SocialRecluse:
No one's worth it

in the game of love...you dont quit, keep on being the loveable person that you are...someone special will appreciate you.

starlingbawa:
So much to learn from these comments. A worthwhile thread nonetheless...

am glad you learnt something...that's the essence of the thread

Mubby4luv:
Choii FWB sweet ehen.. .I was so into it till last month. I go nack am finish she go tell me thank you

like seriously?

tommychow:
Relationships with the "right person" isn't enough to make it work BUT...

A relationship with the "right person" at the RIGHT TIME has a better future.

You might meet a good enough person but sometimes the ongoing circumstances won't make it work e.g. doing serious relationship when the hustle is peak. The bae is complaining of lack of attention due to late hours, no phone calls etc., the guy is claiming she a gold digger cos she's selfishly demanding for shopping and seeing movies when it's inconvenient for him.

Niggas foolishly going into relationships cos of just knacks, chicks doing relationships cos she's too damn dependent emotionally and financially. What do y'all expect? Happily ever after? You are that stupid if you're optimistic in such a relationship.

Y'all need to start having a "work hard, play hard" mentality.

hmmm...true somehow

digitite:
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sinizia:
I don't have to be into one to know what it entails.

that's true

to be in a relationship as a guy...you must be financially loaded....true or false

sinizia:
FWB is not any form of prostitution. The guy doesn't pay for sex. It's just a relationship based on sex, no feelings, no emotional attachments.

have you been into one?

Tegaproxy:
Lesson: Not all relationships were meant 2 b, let ur brain take d lead in ur relationship not ur heart

that's true...we shouldnt get too emotional

andromida:
The problem with FWB is most times the people in it are not friends when its over someone is feeling used.

hmmm...most times the lady right?

Cutehector:
Well its actually not that bad... At least ur not bleepin a public giver.. ...

Buh wateva d case may be, dnt get hiv or stds..

hahaha...so u buy the idea ryt?

Jayjay0:
It has its own MERIT and DEMERIT.

what are they?

diddydiva:
people do

Those sacred of serious relationship or marriage.

scared? why will anyone be scared of been in a relationship?

micktoxin:
Well... yes It is when you are still young. Not the best in the long run, I would imagine.

hmmn...good when still young?

our hearts will keep yearning for love whether we like it or not...one has to pray to find the right person on time it saves you a whole lot of stress

Godvilla:
[color=olive]4rm Russia with love [/color]

funny dude

Godvilla:
[color=olive]Shake your fone... Those missing texts will appear[/color]

hahahaha...funny pix

justmag:
Pay for the service That's no friends with benefits....that's a prostitute and a client. Get it right! !

hahaha...they could be friend been in different relationships atimes

Youngpo413:
I have learnt to run away from any lady who doesn't need anything from me,not even N100 recharge card but will give me all the love,attention and sex I need.

i tell u thats the girls most guys are searching for

adami:
Expect the unexpected....i learnt that lesson in a hard way,a guy I was dating left me for a girl that was "supposedly" my friend. We never had any issues, i just realised he was becoming distant, didnt call like before n all,asked what was d problem n he said nothing till I ltr found out he was now with my friend, I have never been betrayed by a friend before that was the 1st time. was betrayed by my friend n boyfriend.....well,they deserve each other and I deserve better.

whoah! so sorry dear...its quite painful been betrayed by a close friend...God has someone better for you...never give up...its not the end its just a bend

I have heard of people just been "friends" no strings attached but are involved sexually and the guy pays for the service atimes too.

Is such a relationship the best or is it another form of prostitution?

What is your view on this?

Youngpo413:
stay on your own then,after all people in relationship are not gaining anything apart from the ussual pains and heartbreak...,if u were a guy,ill advice u to fuccck and dump anything in skirt but as a lady.I don't know what to advice u.











Maybe u can keep trying till u meet the one.

as for ladies keep sucking all guys dry...pocketwise...hahaha

femzi007:
dat I should make more money

hahaha....girls dont like dating broke guys right?

RAKITIC:
D earlier people realise dere is nothing called love the beta for them

my dear...i still believe love does exist...i have seen it in the lives of others...u just nid to be with right person to experience fulfulment