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Olami90:
Yea, it is true every1 is entitled to his/her opinion. I didn't say dat wit d intention of pickin on u. #pls dnt tak it personal #winks.

Looking @ d word love, it has no particular definition nd it is far from being a feeling.
For ex. A babe $ a guy can only b attracted to one another by superficial attributes. It will b silly for somone to tell d other person he loves at d first sight, rather it wld b mere attraction borne out of lust.

As I said, love is abstract and it develops/occurs frm d combination of certain elements like trust, commitment, care, sacrifice to mention a few.
To an extent, u must av lil trust/blief in somone bfor u can commit ursef to him/her.den u wil b exposed to seeing other gud finz in dat person dat cld mak conclude u love.

U will agree dat love can't hold a relationship where d trust/blief in d person has bin breached or where infidelity is d other of d day.

Now ignore dose elements I listed dat maks love nd tell me d meaning of love if it won't b a useless four-lettered word.


#i will back it up with dis points from

http://thoughtcatalog.com/daphne-sze/2014/10/7-reasons-why-trust-is-more-important-than-love/


1. We can only love someone we trust.

Love is built on trust. As rational individuals, we can only naturally love someone we already trust. Relationships that aren’t anchored in trust are not made to survive rocky trials.

2. Love only reflects our ability to trust others.

Our ability to selflessly give ourselves to others comes with a guarantee of reciprocation. We trust in order to be trusted, but we love only with the hope of being loved back.

3. We use trust to control our emotions.

We are emotional beings who put more emphasis on the means than the end. We engage ourselves in meaningful relationships that we value. Hence, we use trust to gauge our relationship with others, and in the process, we figure out how much we are willing to give of ourselves to others.

4. We put a premium on trust as the building block of any relationship.

Trust precedes love. Every type of relationship is anchored on our ability to be open and share ourselves with others.

5. Judgment is clouded by love but illuminated by trust.

We think that love can save us from emotional roller coasters. More often than not, we are blinded by what love has to offer—gaining the acceptance, admiration, and approval of others. What we fail to consider is the fact that sometimes, our judgment becomes flawed because there are times when love suppresses reason and we get trapped in its foolish play. Trust, on the other hand, routes us back to the reason we built the relationship—establishing a lifelong connection with that person.

6. Trust conquers all.

We always believe that love conquers all, but it is trust that pushes us to believe that we can and will conquer every obstacle. We can say that love is the overarching concept of overcoming whatever obstacle comes our way, but it is trust that holds everything together. It is the glue to every gap and difference.

7. Trust is what makes us love again.

At the end of it all, after we fall down, get back up, and head back on track, trust enables us to believe that deep inside, we are all hopeless romantics just trying to find our own better half among the seven billion little souls on Earth

remember007:
NOPE..
once beaten twice shy.. If you post your mind, they criticize, u lie,they attack,.so its best you watch thm

Oahray:
Lying without blinking doesn't mean one tells the most lies. It just means she's better at telling it with being caught, and for most ladies, it has nothing to do with practice.

So yeah, girls are better liars, but not necessarily the ones who lie the most. The more dishonest partner would definitely lie more. At times the guy, at times the lady. It depends...

ShayGirl:
wen there is love, the rest is history.....

falconey:

Let me take it from the BEGINNING.......THE DEVIL deceived(lied) EVE and EVE deceived(lied) ADAM and ADAM passed it on.


When it comes to LIE after DEVIL is WOMAN.

boboLIL:
Na female 0h.....they lie pass devil 0h....

demmy0325:
Both parties.. ..

Sassybae:
All

Sassybae:
All

kilokeys:
ehmmm.

i would accuse my babe of having a big ass... why she seduced him wt the way she swayed that arse.

then take her somewhere coded and pound it flat

stevenwestwood:
No o...y i go fear Na respect i dh respect am ni nd dey say RESPECT IS RECIPROCAL

endowednicky:
Nothing....whatever happens,happens!!!!

Jollyjoy:
Proudly deltan, am 4rm delta,isoko south precisely,i schooled and live there,fellow deltan in the house,holla let hookup...

nwadiuko1:
Dia r oda ways to humble him than fighting na.....I wan commit suicide?

PrinceZahzah:
LOL...presh presh...u no like me

Gurgle:
cant support or allow anybody to support me through school... to me it sounds like buying affection

don't want to owe my success to any human being

anyway you should have supported them not expecting anything in return because nobody has to marry anybody, support or not

its just because our economic climate is lacking. shouldn't have to rely on non-family members for support at all at all

Precious91:
The thunder that will fire that person is still rehearsing at national theatre

edorhe14:
I will try nd make him believe that I am been friendly with him and approach him hve a stand up face to face conversation and when I see an opening I will give him a Good kick in his ballz and beat him to stupor.
#Just saying

stevenwestwood:
i go greet am Gud mawin sir

stanvesco:
hahahagbghaia
my guy u no dey watch movies,wen boss go bit actor,actor go go recover 4 him babe hand...at least i stood up 4 her,(make i no too lie sha,na crios praya i bin day pray make pipu come separate and hold us)

PrinceZahzah:
Abeg I no want make d guy use me gain more 6packs

stanvesco:
d simple truth b say no 1 expects a small man 2 defeat him,but he must make mouth...
I was at a park once with my madam,and one of d bus guys insulted my babe bkos of 200naira change,
i kept quiet!!
He then readjusted d seats in d vehicle making the pipu on her row uncomfortable,
brother
i tore down d heavens ön dat day,
i was ready 2 draw blud.....and every1 knew it.......he tot i was an easy meat...
D morale.....
No let person kill u 4 notin bkos of woman,however ehn,
sumtyns u gat even fyt a lion 2 defend ur woman(dats if shes worth it sha)

SuperSuave:
a good kick or blow to his balls

presh247:
yes oh cos every relationship has 50% chance of surviving even as much as we try to make it work

YourMain:
Amen lol