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opedaydydx9:
someone might propose to you then, be ready

am waiting oh...want to know how it feels

zik4ever:
He must be a man of integrity, authentic, a preacher of righteousness, not covetous, husband of one wife, believing and teaching the Bible from cover to cover, emphasizing repentance from sin practically, separation from worldliness, readiness for the rapture and second coming, focused on seeking those things above, shunning compromise and carnality, not a jester, clown or entertainer, not loud, lousy or lazy but sober and apt to teach, holding forth the faithful word as he has been taught, human and humane yet holy and forthright, not popular with persons who refuse to repent, not running after a politician who has no ambition to respond to the gospel, and one who has abandoned self and addicted himself to prayer and the ministry of the word.

hmmm...and who can that be?

Long distant relationship takes grace to make it work

opedaydydx9:
It should happen only on a leap year

hahaha...that should be next year

kakinews:
Who says the next one won't cheat. Well when it comes to cheating also consider the circumstances first before any hasty decisions

hmmm...is it a natural thing to cheat in relationships?

it takes grace and understanding to make LDR work. when there is effective communication and trust and regularly visit each other it could work. you just need an extra effort and spicing up the relationship abit will do the magic.

XavierBlue:
This is super story, a life of strive and sorrows.

Make sure as your are proposing, you'll be the one to pay your bride price, sponsor the wedding, after which ill take over as the head of the family




XavierBlue

noooo, she will be the husband and you will be the wife...lol

REMMEI:


And they be clamouring for equity.. well,alot of them saying "I can't do that" are doing it presently to their bf..

You will hear.. "when will you come and visit my parents"

"I hope your mummy will like me"..and many more rhetorical questions..

Not until you kneel before will I comprehend your language..

you made a point there

I hear of guys/ladies who left the relationships
they've built for years 'cos the other party
cheated. Fine! The deed has been done. He/she
is sorry,really sorry. But your heart is made up.
You still wanna leave. It hurts,I know. But tell
me,what's the probability the next one isn't
gonna be the same?

MrsChima:
I would do it to piss people off and if my man say no..I will say good riddance.

It is not a big deal to ME.

hmm...i like that

PrimeJ:
This is love in Tokyo

lol...not love in naija?

ideyhere:
The question isn't if ladies can do it... The million dollar question should be 'guys what would you do if a lady did this to you?' And you would be surprised how myopically most Nigerian guys think *no offence intended to the guys*

thanks...i have added that to the question

RickRichards:
Wow! I've never seen a picture so _retarded it could qualify as a _retard. What am I even saying?
I think I need a breather.

lmao...the pix through u off balance right?

elantraceey:
Nope , not because of pride or I lack boldness but there are some things that just shouldn't be done.

hmm...its not proper for a lady to do such right?

Ladies: can you do this to a guy you love?
Guys: what will you do when your do this?

don't crucifer the girl yet. we all make typo-errors when chatting. no one is perfect. maybe she didnt go through her post before pasting it online. if you know u have never made a mistake all your life, cast the first stone.
#everyoneisguiltofsameoffence
lol

continuation...
well this is just one story of one of the seven friends there is still another one called bisi. Bisi married his wife without a job, bisi is a hustling brother he said he will rather marry than furnicate. Bisi sells stuff small small items his wife got a job in a bank and was practically feeding him for four years before his business stabilized but today things are not the same again i heard he is a part owner of computer ware house group also he has a few petrol stations and trucks, i heard he collects close to five million from federal government for subsidy payments weekly. The moral of this stories i just told you is " these guys did not have a steady 50k monthly that they can call their own as at the time they married. fast forward a few years they are the type of men most young spinsters like your self are looking for". If any of those sisters knew how rich kola will become they would not have used holy ghost fire to consume him. If bisis's wife was like you, she would not have married him because he did not have a job and his income was far less than 50k if any at all. both men a very happily married today because they married women that truly loved them.
POST BY SKJ1377

let me share a story of two of my cousins friends this is true story not home video. i was close to a cousin of mine when i was growing up. i visit him regularly in the university while i was growing up. my cousin had seven male friends i was close to some of them one of them is the person i want to talk about. lets call him kola, kola was a student at the federal university of technology akure where my cousin schooled. kola was studying architecture he was from a poor family in fact his father was a security man at the north gate of federal university of technology akure(futa). futa had two gates one gate is called northgate the other is called obakekere or south gate. my cousin and all his seven friends are church brothers serious students and all from different backgrounds, kola was the one with the least cgpa among all my cousins friends. sorry i forgot to tell you while kola's father was a gateman at futa and alternated between the northgate and southgate as a security man on afternoon or night duty, kola himself was a photographer. yep kola was a camera carrying brother ready to snap a picture at moments notice for a fee. life was hard for kola he had to argument his school fees from proceeds of his camera man business. kola had to work hard and float in the hostel with my cousin and his six friends. floating is when you sleep on the floor while others sleep on the bed in the hostel. life was hard for kola when i met him and he told me his story i was grateful to God that my story was not as bad as his. kola's story was bad and i could see it, when i stroll around with him while he waits for a fellow student like him to call him for a picture he will point at a lady and tell me that when he approached her she casted him away with" holy ghost fire" another would say he is not the type she is looking for some would insult him am talking of pretty fellowship sisters not the obviously worldly girls, remember kola is a brother. well kola finished school with a 2.2 married a lady he met in futa i remember the sister i met her once then she was dark and not fine at all let me say a little on the ugly side of things. well from the way kola was smiling and laughing i new he had some interest in the sister. years rolled by i kept in touch for some time then more years rolled by and i lost touch. Among the seven friends was another lets call him femi, femi was a profs son in fact a prof in futa life was good for femi. I see femi often and i ask about kola, the update i was getting was not good at all. The update was more like how kola's suffering is continuing with a wife and a kid, well, i collected his address and phone number and went to visit him in his room and parlour in iyana ipaja lagos state. life was not really good but the wife was happy and he was struggling with his business as he was unable to get a job with his 2.2 grade, the wife was actually helping out a lot he told me this him self he told me how the wife gives him transport to his office when he is out of cash. when i was going i gave his baby N50 they were very happy and pleased. I lost contact with kola again but i think it was because he was broke and i never imagined how things can turnaround in a mans life. i finished school and started working so years rolled by. Femi; one of my cousins seven friends, was working in a company that was a subcontractor to my company and so one day a project brought him to my office. we started talking then i inquired about kola the student photographer with gateman father, what femi told me about kola was simply unbelievable. Femi said kola was now a well established architect and business man in worri and that he was now a multimillionaire i took his phone number and called i pretended i have not known his change of status he gave me an open invitation to his house in worri. The following year a project took me to worri so i called him and told him the hotel i was staying, he came to pick me at my hotel with a brand new nissan armanda jeep on getting to his house in worri i counted like six different luxury state of the art cars, his house had among other things a heated swimming pool with underwater lights he now had four children and the so called ugly wife was now very beautiful and happy looking. honestly, i was in a state of shock to experience such change of circumstances. when i was getting married i called kola he apologised he could not make it but he sent me a hefty amount of money.

youmour:
Money truly matters,let no man tell you otherwise

No finance, no romance ryt?

Patience is a virtue one needs to have in every relationship

Never beg anyone to love you or else you will remain a beggar while the relationship lasts.

Communication is the life-blood of any relationship...with communication and great understanding you are quite safe

wasak:
Incidentally I'm a Muslim

ride on bro...

Youngpo413:
Any babe who dumps for another then later come back to beg,will surely do it again,she only came back cos the new didn't live up to her expectations,don't take her back.


No matter how you spend on a girl to make her feel comfortable,there is one guy at the corner fuckkking her pusy free of charge even without condom and she will still use the money you sent her to buy pills.


Its bad to let someone help u get any babe,he will still use the skill and lure her to bed,then fuccck the hell out of her pusy.


I have also learnt that a tight pusy ontop big assss is the best enjoyment any man can think of.



No matter how innocent your girlfriend appears,that another is bleeping her pusy behind ur back.

bro u are funny oh...but ur points sounds true

I see hope for us with this https://www.nairaland.com/2353492/buhari-appoint-self-petroleum-minister

Richiy:
Mine is: Do not chase after illusions. If it is dead, just let it go.

hmmm

komek:
Oath of not cheating u said? I guess u r among these pple that read the bible upside down. Whether u wanna cheat or not, ur yes is supposed to be yes and ur no is supposed to be no. Not involving ursefs in one archaic life style.

yes oh...u are right...the oath thing isn't good at all

Jayjay0:
When your hungry do you go for already cooked food or food about to be cook...

Girls will surely go for already made men except they have been with the guy since

hahaha...cooked food and about to be cooked food...nice illustration

Kingsasian:
Hmmmm. I was into one. Its not all that safe, as a matter of fact no kind of relationship is safe. It won't be safe If both parties involved lack trust and constant communication.

hmm...no safe relationship? so no more marriages then...lol

ronald4lif:
I'm not a lady but if I were one and have the option of dating a guy between a duo who possess equal attributes, I would go for the ready-made guy over the ambitious one.

Please, let's be realistic. That we all kick against women who are materialistic doesn't negate the importance of financial security and it essential role in a relationship or marriage. Does ambition pay bills?.

hahaha...ambition does not pay bills but the so called rich dude started small...everyone has his little beginnings...to me, it's better you grow together