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succipowei:
Yes, ambitious. What concerns do you have abt it?.

nothing really just curious

precisionindepth:
u r so correct ooo. virgin or no virgin, if u v good character and morals , den go. some virgins v good character while some do not v and vice versa. virginity is not directly proportional to gd character , same as non virgins

hmmmm...really?

finallyniklaus:
;DMe I really think ....with what girls have turned into dis days...what I have learnt is...don't trust her ....at least not upto 40%....get into her pant as much as she gets into ur pocket so that any time she breaks up with u,it won't actually be a heartbreak...it will be a good business... ;DMe I really think ....with what girls have turned into dis days...what I have learnt is...don't trust her ....at least not upto 40%....get into her pant as much as she gets into ur pocket so that any time she breaks up with u,it won't actually be a heartbreak...it will be a good business...

hahaha...u mst be an igbo man...u see ur relationship as biz...hope the terms of the biz are clearly spelt out?

uzolexis:
I deserve the best and should not stick with anyone that treats me less. I have learnt 2 be confident in myself n abilities cos I almost lost my self worth n pride ontop love matter.... Never again!!!

lolz...i like that...know ur self worth

nigelcoop:
Be in a relationship but never be inlove

hmm...u are suggesting never to be in love with anyone again?

succipowei:
God fearing, good (attitude/behavior), beautiful and ambitious / diligent.

hmm...ambitious?

Beemhan:
one word for u; RUN!!!

not just run but fly

crowns2:
Thanks though..but I have seen true love few times. For example I know a man whose wife went mad for 10 years, he took her to so many places to seek healing. After trying everywhere and spending money without success he took her back home. He never sent her away. He kept her in the same house he lived. Providing care for her even though she had to be chained. He never let her go into the streets eating dirt. For 10 solid years!!! Then miraculously God healed her completely. They are still married till today.
That is what I pray for. But true its only God's love that is reliable.

such love is hard to find

Hishowlau:
not all abortion are sin

how do u mean?

BobUg28:
I haven't been into any serious relationship before but from I have heard so far, I don't think I can sacrifice 100%of my emotion to any lady.

its worth giving a try...when u are fully ready for it, don't go into a relationship because others are doing it...pray to locate the right person

Phiniz:
Is not always true,if u handle a gal with lesser interest and not being too possessive they will value U,AND u know u cant dump what U value,i dont ve an ex,they know my happiness dont come from them so they know very well that once they go they lose because i can aways get another.best advice always remb WOMEN DONT MAKE U HAPPY,SEX DONT KEEP THEM EITHER what keep them is how u handle them.become too possessive they will dump U,Hit indirectly and directly they wil cling to u for years bcause thier mind will always tell them They need U more...

hmm...great lesson learnt

I was just wondering the fate of the pregnant girls and women rescued from boko haram in sambisa forest. Should they abort the babies or keep them and live with the constant remembrance of pains and hurt whenever they see the babies.

Remember biblically abortion is forbid.
What do you think?

PrinceVictorE:
I've learned not to over_pamper. Shit happens though but we have to move on.

yes oh, life goes on with or without anyone

chax100:
Pikin go sleep, it's late already.

mama, I dey wait make you sleep first

malele:
I met a girl last december in my home town, I was so excited, I threw away dating rules,and defined the relationship instantly, I told her boldly that na marriage I dey come for oo,no sex till our introduction, every end of month I dey travel to east from lag to see this girl. things looked well,after 4months, things started changing, no calls from her again, no pings from her again,if I call her she will be in a call for 30mins, anyway I have made my mind up to pull the plug, though I like her a lot, but u can't force anybody to like u in this world.
My lesson from that relationship is never be nice to any girl unless u have taken her to bed.
never show a girl how much u love her.
Never trust any girl .

sorry bro, I feel your pain...we don't know the value of what we have until we lose them, I know she will regret her actions in the nearest future..and i have learnt in relationship it takes God's grace to make a long distant relationship to work

chax100:
There is an adage that says, if dwarfs don't behave in strange ways, children will think they are age mate. I would prefer you take that your question to your aunt, if you don't have one, let me know ASAP.

hahaha...i dont have one

chax100:
It means someone will always be smarter and cleaver than the other and the stingy person could just become Maga or the hard to get go just turn 'carry go' in a relationship.

hahaha...funny gal...so which one are u? hard to get or carry go#winks

guys don't you think been God fearing should be the first quality we should look out for?

I must confess I have great respect for virgins

chax100:
I've learnt that what goes around, comes around but never in time. Everyone is someone's fool. If you are never in it, you cannot know it.

hmm...someone's fool? how?

Babaken:
As for that i can try it With my experience so far. Make you end up training another man pikin thinking is your own God forbid.

hahaha...that shouldn't stop you from helping in you have the means but its not compulsory

Babaken:
As for that i can try it With my experience so far. Make you end up training another man pikin thinking is your own God forbid.

hahaha...that shouldn't stop you from helping in you have the means but its not compulsory

Psuedy:
Yeah finally...plus too much niceness.

ok but never give up in terms of relationship...ur mr right will surely find u#winks

rukkyland:
NEVER TRUST ANYONE..NOT EVEN YOUR BEST FRIEND..but.I discovered that when trust is lost everything is lost in a relationship..so how do I trust? when d one who claim to love u for a very long time just left without saying goodbye..BUT despite all friends : NEVER SHUT YOUR HEART TO LOVE.. d one who will love u for who you are and for d end of time will come. PATIENT. THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN THE RIPE AND THE UNRIPE MANGO IS TIME.

hmm...patience is the key...I believe there is always the right one for everyone but are we patient enough to wait for him/her to come?

Psuedy:
Nah....difference is dat ppl take nice ppl.for granted and cn afford to mess up and treat her anyhow,knowing dey wil.always b understanding..
Srsly got so bad dat d dude dat was treated like a king, couldnt even put a call thru on Vals day and bday wit d excuse of work stress rubbish,which i later found out dt he culd afford time same day to take one bitch( dt treated him like dirt & later dumped his ass) shopping!!!...etc etc...
In conclusion,goodie-goodie aint worth it..

hmm...it shows that guy does not truly love you cos he would have treated u like a queen...only a king treats his woman like a queen

Never rush into a relationship or else you will rush out too

Psuedy:
Already one and dias a big difference....lesson learnt wella..

change my dear...all that glitters isn't gold...wat is the difference if I may ask?

Urine:
You should always test your partner's level of loyalty before making a total commitment, it's the only thing that will save you from future wahala.

how do u test ones loyalty in a relatuonship?

Onyiido:
The same goes for guys. Most of u guys that complain about been heart broken let that happen to u cuz of ur ignorance. Love less feel more

hnm...love less feel more?

tejumade14:
Y do pple think lyk dis I ws being forced to comment on dis thread becos of d silly comments pple made.ironically sum of u re encouraging premarital sex. Dere re a lot of virgins out dere dat re good mannered nd have good character.

very few of them my dear

Ojisik:
I learnt that all relationships have expiry dates and there is no point of trying to make things work when either party has lost feelings for the other, the se issues will keep cropping up.

It's better to let go on a friendly note when such happens and maybe....just maybe, your paths may cross again in the future when you've been with other people but discover that none were as good as your first love.

does every relationship really have an expiring date? wat about the ones that lead to marriages?