lendahand: you wear the L tag then. Mistake women make is suddenly baring hidden fangs the moment knots are tied thinking a man can never walk free again after professing loyalty to her before many witnesses. Nnaa mehn that's crazy oo. That's probably the reason why Oprah Winfrey's boyfriend remains a boyfriend for ages , he no wan hear another thing after tying nuptial knots. Women should learn to keep the fire of that relationship burning even when it blossoms into a higher relationship (marriage) and not suddenly wearing a toga of entitlement and mentality of having somebody's son already trapped by them, otherwise single mothers will be on the increase unapologetically. I'm speaking to you out of experience. I don't think you have got any real time experience in this matter, have you?
Which one is L tag? This has nothing to do with being attractive after marriage cos trust me, modern women are trying in that aspect. Most men change when they start making money, they won’t remember who have been with them but when the money goes, they go back to the former. I’ve had a similar experience of dating a single father before, trust me it’s not worth it. One of my aunties(a relative wife, she was a widow)suffered that too. The man who was legally divorced for 15 years, suddenly after 5 years of marriage, the ex wife called from nowhere and boom, they started to pick up from where they stopped leaving my aunt shattered.
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lendahand: I'm one of those who call a shovel a shovel trust me. My point is this: I can point out a long list of men whose second marriage thrived so much that you have to be shocked to even learn they were married to someone before. Your fear is second fiddle right? That comes up only when Anita is legally around but here she isn't again. Make your findings well, they are divorced. Paul travels all the way to America with a long notice to see his own kids. Mind you, most women are so possessive that they won't allow those kids ever reunited with their father again in a family way. So what's the fear here? Or you prefer Paul to continue staying alone? Ah no na you are way kinder than to wish him that ok? Don't be surprised this marriage is what will make Paul feel married for once in his lifetime.
Someone who has been in relationship for many years with Anita before they got married. Dey play.
lendahand: Paul is divorced and no longer married to Anita so how is the new wife playing second fiddle? Mind the way you quickly judge people because nobody knows what is in front for him/her.
They are not even legally divorced. It’s this ‘don’t judge people’ that has put the society the way it is. When someone says the truth it is termed judging. The bitter truth is that once a person becomes a second wife, that lady is a second fiddle. He would always put the first wife and kids first before you. That’s because they have a long history before you came on board. The guilt is always there, so the man will always be on her beck and call.That being said, this lady has been lurking around before the divorce saga. Learn to call a spade, a spade. You won’t die if you do.
Hmmn! Some parents sha. This is what my parents will NEVER accept no matter how rich or caring. My parents will tell you that they will never support you to become a second fiddle. If you like go carry belle for the married man, na you and the child go dey, Popsy no go ever collect bride price from the man
t2luv1: Okay I ain't got no problem with you marrying and having baby when you are young but please make sure you freaking have the means and fund to take care of the baby. I am freaking tired and about to go to def con 4 with my people in Ijebu Ode coming me and telling me that our wife is expecting. First of all it ain't our wife I wasn't invited to the party so why in Jesus H. Christ am I being invited to the after-party.
It’s your choice to help or not to help out. You were not tied a rope around your neck and forced to help. One can give birth early or late and still have financial difficulties.
EmekaBlue: But Una go dey hate Chinese because of one or two incident here and there forgetting the major development they are doing in Nigeria.
Is it free? Were they not paid to do it and even lobbied for the contract. The fact you work in a country shouldn’t stop you from obeying the laws of the land
Toosure70: They are not happy to rent small apartment, so bear with them. Not by your might or power to leave in a comfortable apartment, try to see them as your own blood and show love. No condition is permanent o baba olowo.
Was this one saying? So another person should suffer because they couldn’t rent a big apartment? Why can’t the said family wash in front of their own apartment? Abeggi!
nlfpmod: Vivian Ocheze Munachi: Here are photos of the Nigerian lady, OCHEZE OGBONNA, reportedly pushed to death by a Chinese Expatriate in Abia over 'rejected love'.
He needs to be prosecuted cos it’s a capital offense. Why is there no outcry on social media? The one that happened in Kano, the Chinese man has been convicted and sentenced to death by hanging which is the right way to go
Please show us samples across.the.world where people are granted bail for narcotics offenses,.convicted or yet to be convicted
It’s a criminal offense and the ACJA (Administration of Criminal Justice Act) allows a suspect to be granted bail. He has not yet been convicted and so is still innocent under the law until conviction
01Happiness: This is a motivation for every hustle out there. The pay day will surely come.Just keep grinding in your work of choosing.I wasn't born with a silver spoon but I never looked down on myself. I've been a hard worker right from when I was a kid and now at age 20, I have a place to call my own.
I have done menial jobs from clearing farms for people,going on errands and fetching firewood.I did all these while squatting with friends.They fed me because I washed their clothes and kept the place tidy.In this life,you always have to prove your usefulness to people so that they in turn can help you.
In the course of doing my menial jobs, I met a man who linked me with a fuel attendant job late last year.I was able to save up and secure my house.
Always believe in yourself.
Next thing is to save up and apply for my ND.
It can only get better from here. Thank you lord.
Congratulations! I understand the feeling of renting your own place. I hope you won’t start chasing girls and forget your plans. Unless you’re ready to settle down, leave women matter alone