Gistmedia10: A Nigerian man's attempt to reconnect with his family after years of abandonment was met with a fierce rebuke from his son, who was just 2 years old when he left.
In a viral video, the son can be heard shouting "Abeg get out! Get out!!" as he and his mother walk away from the estranged father, who was seen laughing off the rejection.
Was the boy justified in rejecting his father after being abandoned for so long?
That’s why I advise both genders to be responsible to their kids irrespective of the differences between the partners cos children of these generation will only care for those who cared for them. That pity party talk of ‘a child will always look for his father/mother doesn’t apply to them
There's no way you will not both fill the roles of parent to each other at some point in time. When the man is at his lowest ebb, he will first explain his predicaments to his wife and will rely on her for a measure of parental nurturing and vice versa for the wife too.
When spouses are celebrating milestones, the most important person they look out for in the audience is his or her spouse. Thats the role children put their parents o.
professorPABX: You want him to continue when he is depressed? You want him to continue until Baba goes to rest and another person becomes the G.O? You are a Spirit having a soul that dwells in the body. Once the soul is broken down, any arrow that enters the body penetrate the spirit directly. If the spirit doesn't have enough Fire, there will be problem. Again, in depression, the spirit cannot enjoy Baba's Grace. He needs to take a long break.
I quite understood what you said. It happens clearly in Winners and other Ministries. God knows best.
Depression can only come if he allows the thought of worldly pleasures to take over his mind, but if he looks at the transfer as doing the Lord’s work, then depression cannot come
As a man or woman of God who wants to do exploits for God, never leave your church where you serve with anger, it doesn’t usually end well. It is well with them and Christendom
Frost124: Good day nairalanders, thank God this site is a faceless forum... Few weeks ago my dad told me he is HIV positive, when he told me I was disappointed but I made sure I didn't show it and I encouraged him... Him and my mother has been sick for a while and I certainly know he has transferred it to my mum.... My dad was very promiscuous when he was younger even after he married my mom he was still promiscuous. I am the only child and I have been footing the bills for their medical cares I am just 26 years old and I have spent so much and there is more spending still to come.... My father only told me, my mother is not aware of her health status all she thinks it's just a normal sickness happening to her. I have no one to talk to, I don't trust any friends because I believe when I tell them, they will certainly spread the news and you know the stigmatization against HIV patients, it's not good... I am frustrated, depressed and financially drained, sometimes I stay in my room and cry.... To avoid thinking, sometimes I just drink some alcohol... This issue has been in my heart for several weeks I just had to put it on Nairaland to ease my pain. My father just called me today that my mom has been admitted to the hospital, she was too weak to even walk.... Another spending and I am running out of cash, don't know what to do anymore. It wouldn't be this severe if they found out earlier, it's almost late. May God help me and my parents.
I’m sorry to say it, your father is a very wicked man. He carried STD and transferred to your innocent mother who wasn’t promiscuous. May God heal your Mum
Northernblood9: I will suggest that Nigerians boycott some of these perishable foods. Let these greedy farmers suffer heavy loss.
It is not proper that federal government will fund these farmers to encourage self sufficiency but yet, these greedy bastards will still make these foods non affordable for common man
How can you boycott beans when meat and fish are expensive
loveoris: Is it such a bad idea though? I mean, to actually want separate bedrooms from your husband? Maybe his room bigger, the Master bedroom to accommodate both parties but another smaller separate room for wifey....just saying.
An intending couple got into a heated argument just a few weeks before their wedding when during a conversation the wife stated that she wanted her own bedroom. The man didn't take it to heart at first assuming she was joking, but soon enough realized the pretty lady wasn't joking at all. She meant every word of it. This ensued in a huge argument that dragged on for days. Members of the family and friends even got involved at some point. I remember my dad calling to ask me how I felt about the whole situation, my answer was pretty much simple- Give the young lady what she wants.
Hear me out!!!
Firstly, the space is not an issue, its not like they need to go buy or rent another house to accommodate this arrangement. They own a house of their own that has enough rooms that nobody uses. Secondly, her reasons are very valid, which probably would be my reasons too. We don't always want to talk, be cuddled or argue, sometimes we just need our space to think clearly and enjoy the solitude. She went ahead to say she doesn't like herself during her menstrual phase so she stays away from everyone, doesn't go to work, she is just indoor writhing in pain and consoling herself. She would like to continue with that without having to bother or lash out at her husband simply because she is in pain. She made him understand that he is only fighting it because he has been conditioned traditionally that they must have the same room. However, if he is been truthful to himself he would realize that alone times can't be bought with money, doesn't mean they don't love each other anymore, it just means there is a need for recharge.
Her other reason was she wouldn't want her siblings or very close friends to ever have a reason to step into their matrimonial bedroom, which is the husband's room. Her last reason, very valid too, is that she is quite a clumsy person, she looks for one outfit for the day and the whole place is upside down, her husband however is very neat freak and loves everything exactly how they should be. She said she wants to have her freedom and be able to have her things in a separate room, that way her mess is out of his face.
I personally think its a great idea for a woman to have a separate room that is hers, she can decorate it to her taste, have her me times, like her own closet. Even though most of the night I will be in my husband's room cuddled up, cos what is sleep without my man. But I'd love to know the option is there for me when I need to be alone for whatever reason. Moreso, the room is not going to be out of bound to my husband, he can always come in whenever he wants, the bed will be big enough for two, just incase the HS ministers to us right there....lol
Orisirisi! She should forget about getting married so that she can have her space, alone time and scatter her room. People just want to be married without adjusting to what marriage is
Gistmedia10: A gruesome discovery has been made in Abia State, Nigeria, as a decomposing body was found near the residence of Andrew Amaechi Ochekwo, the man who had been hosting two friends, Celine and Afiba, who have been missing since April 27, 2024.
According to Nigerian activist Harrison Gwamnishu, the body was found with its head, hands, and legs not visible, wrapped in a curtain similar to those found in Andrew's home. Andrew had been killed while trying to escape from arrest.
Gwamnishu confirmed the discovery and appealed for assistance in ascertaining whether the body belongs to either of the missing women. He assured that any information received would be kept confidential and urged the public to come forward with any useful information.
The search for Celine and Afiba continues, and the authorities are working to determine the identity of the discovered body.
Riosystem: I can't imagine reading all this about Dr olukoya, A man we give deep respect if you watch him from distance. But does close to him and all the controversy surrounding him is saying the opposite.
lailo: Is she not the one Fmr Delta Governor, Emmanuel Oduaghan denied as wife and said she should not be using his name again. Say na only one night stand dem do. Shey na by force to do attachee ni? Abi what does this Igbo ekuke girl want from our illustrious south south delta best governor?
Be deceiving yourself, her husband followed her to the red chambers when she was sworn in. Dem no dey put mouth for husband and wife matter
Double0h7: Maybe she’s blessed with innumerable potential partners and she has the luxury to shit test those who are below her standards.
That sounds like something you have no idea of so carry on being kind and understanding and we’ll see where that gets you because you seem to misunderstand your components.
These men judge you by your waste, *****, and your lips but you think judging them by their pockets is wrong! Continue pickmesha!
The men you meet that judge you by your waist, **** and lips only shows that’s what you can offer through your conversation with them. Truth be told, most ladies can’t even carry out a decent intellectual conversation when they meet a guy so what do you expect. What the lady did was not judgment by the pocket but INGRATITUDE and ENTITLEMENT. Learn to call a spade, a spade. You young ones never learn. I pray it’s not too late when you learn. Demanding for B when you were got A is not how to test a potential partner. If she has the luxury of numerous suitors, why not wait when a particular suitor gifts her the latest iPhone without she demanding for it? It’s sad the type of young people bred these days
Double0h7: Continue thinking you’re special until some son of man leaves you with children to cater for by yourself!
Your pick me strategy has been worn out and the results remain the same: you will lose!
You better know your worth before you’re played because women have tried it all!
They’ve paid the bills and got left holding the bag, they’ve played it soft and got holding the bag; the only difference is that the ones who play the soft game walk away with their rights.
Nothings new under the sun.
No son of man can leave me with any children to cater for in Jesus Name Amen. I will loose anything in Jesus Name Amen. That being said, the attitude displayed by the girl is an entitlement personality. You have no money and yet asking for what you can’t afford. What happened to ‘thank you’ that accompanies a gift? This is a gift for crying out loud? From someone you barely know. She can’t even look at the intention before she opened her entitled mouth? Learn to call a spade a spade. I’m not applying any pick me strategy neither am I even looking for love on nairaland so hold your peace.
Fafesot: Good day Nairalanders, I have a little problem. I bought some cowskin(ponmo) few days back. They are not so soft, at least to my satisfaction. I've been soaking it in water since I bought it but no significant change has happened. Are there ways I can make them soft? I mean very soft. Are there things I can add to it. Your responses are highly appreciated.
Put concrete nail in the pot and cook it. It works like magic
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