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Interesting post. I sugest you don't tell her when your're planning to visit but surprise her and insist on not ONLY meeting the lecturer and security guards (some lecturers might be willing to assist her depending on her relationship with) but reporting them to the School authority, I went to UNICAL and i can only tell you this, SORRY but your girl is lying and if you have ANY plan(s) for a future with her, please be sure you can accomodate ANYTHING she will do with you,

Hello Doc.
I appreciate the fact that you are spending some of the little time you should have to yourself to help people like me, Thanks.
I really hope you will answer my question ASAP because i'm very worried and bothered. I have been having Candidiasis since i was a virgin and at about 18. Now i'm 26 still battling with it. It comes and goes. I'm told its the common one(can't remember the scientific name). Its seem to be getting worse by the day. Before now, i never experienced it with any smell but now the smell is awful. Maybe this is not important but just to let you know, i'm a neat freak therefore it's not about hygiene. I'm a bit afraid too cos i'm told having infection can result in infertility.

@omotee4u; I almost did not reply this post becos i was crying as i read your story. From the deepest part of me, i feel VERY sad for you, i feel so sad becos i know right now, you are not really interested in any advice that has to do with your leaving behind a man who molest his sister, A lot of people have posted words of advice for you to meditate on, but are you ready to heed those words? You are hurting becos the man in question is not hiding his affairs with other ladies from you not becos you can see that you are in an abusive relationship, I'm glad somebody mentioned years to you-well if you're worried about years, let me tell you my own story but not on your post. I will just say we dated for 13years, we are not married and we don't see anymore, If you wouldn't mind i will like to meet you, i think i might be able to help you but ONLY if you are ready to be helped. MOST pains and tears go away but EMOTIONAL ABUSE NEVER leave a normal person behind. If you are what you have said you are(a loving person), you will NEVER have a child for this man becos your child or children will ALWAYS be TRAUMATISED by what your husband would do to them. I'm talking from experience, If you can look beyond YOU, You will SAVE another soul, most likely, YOUR daughter's, Untill you say ' I CAN' , you won't. All the best girl.

It's interesting when i read posts like what the OP posted, If he feels the girl is not good enough for marriage, he should not bother to date her, He should stick with free "girls". For us, that's exactly what we did, my man & I, we are happier for it.

People that leave you to move "on" depending on how you parted ways, good or bad are "dead to you" so to speak because except on exceptional cases, they are not just interested in you or what happens after they leave, they are only concern about themself, and like the dust that blows in and out, LET THEM GO. Sometimes it's the best thing you'll ever to for yourself. All the best cosmass

This is the best reply so far and i agree with her ebony,

The amount of money a man earns will depend on the woman he wants to marry and her standard of living.

Figures are kind of redundant as other factors need to be put into consideration 1) married men live in face me I face you if the wife to be is happy with that quality of life good on you. As long as he is the man and will provide for his family in those circumstances good for them

Men should go for women they can take care of and not rely that until their wives / girlfriend to brings her paycheck the family before they can live ( this is if you are based in Nigeria)

If you are based in the western world you a man MUST have a job / business that can sustain you and another person ( this is your child) before thinking of getting married. Your wife too must be able to look after herself this is a good formula for marriage. Do depend on your wife to feed you.

Some men do not want their wives to work goodluck to both you if you agree and it is not imposed on the woman and if the man can FULLY bear the responsibilities.

As a Man You are the head; you say it enough times so you also need to provide to be the HEAD.

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