stuffs4me:


One of the biggest challenges in cases of domestic violence against men is to prove that there is a possibility that the man could also be a victim.

Most people especially women are already stereotyped and will go into a tirade and will start raining curses on men as soon as a case of domestic violence is established irrespective of who is the victim.

Regarding the bolded, I once saw a video of a woman battering a man and inflicting very serious injuries on him while threatening him to "touch her and see". The guy actually never raised his hand against her to even defend himself, if he had done that, the society will never see it as self defense anymore. He would be crucified as a woman beater and with heavy consequences. Because he would most likely lose his peace of mind and he would be branded an animal, he may lose his job, his female friends etc.

More than 40% of domestic violence victims are male, report reveals
https://www.theguardian.com/society/2010/sep/05/men-victims-domestic-violence

Bonjoro:


Ok u are a woman.

miracle956:

oversabi

derecho:
Food or no food...what everyman wants is respect/submission.He wants peace and the support of his woman.
If na food,there are many cooks.If na sex,prostitutes full town.
Besides, he wants to know if she can be trusted because he'll love to confide in her.... Anyways,
everything is rolled into one word...CHARACTER.This before VALUE sef

gozzlin:


Cos I'm one too. Do you exhibit the typical traits of a Cancerian?

gozzlin:


Hmm, I just noticed you're a Cancerian. Amazing.

gozzlin:




Seriously? You didn't serve your fatherland?

gozzlin:


Hmm, interesting. what about you baby? Did you fvck in camp?

Flowers95:
Darling, true happiness can only be found in yourself. The truth is that no relationship that can be perfect. You might marry a broke man who will never give you happiness. The fact that you’re suffering may eventually make you unhappy. You may marry a rich man who makes you unhappy. Everybody must have flaws and there’s nothing like a perfect marriage. However you must priotize the last long factors that will benefit yourself and children first. Whatever you belive that to be is your choice.

I also pray that God will touch your heart so you can make decisions based on logic and not emotions. It is well. I have made all the decisions in my life that have benefited myself and my family, I hope you can do so too.

Flowers95:
Darling, true happiness can only be found in yourself. The truth is that no relationship that can be perfect. You might marry a broke man who will never give you happiness. The fact that you’re suffering may eventually make you unhappy. You may marry a rich man who makes you unhappy. Everybody must have flaws and there’s nothing like a perfect marriage. However you must priotize the last long factors that will benefit yourself and children first. Whatever you belive that to be is your choice.

I also pray that God will touch your heart so you can make decisions based on logic and not emotions. It is well. I have made all the decisions in my life that have benefited myself and my family, I hope you can do so too.

Flowers95:
My dear it’s not necessarily about being rich, or having hundreds of millions. It’s about being financially comfortable and sustaining a lifestyle that is above mediocre. When you get married you’ll realise love doesn’t feed you, take care of the kids and bring peace in to the house. Financial security should be your number one priority young lady, please wake up! You will grow to love a man who can provide and take care of you. Stop settling for less.

sonnie10:
Reminds me of Carotid vein and artery. Only anatomy student can relate.

dairykidd:

Its a good thing... I'm adding u tho. I like ur vibe its good

dairykidd:

Welcome & I'm good thanks.. Your signature is very interesting

dairykidd:

Lolzz...I know the place very well. How are u today