₦airaland Forum

Berrityga:
fish brain.. You should be locked up in a Sardine tin. A greedy girl tried to scam her bf of his heart earn money and in a responds he beat her up hoping she will relinquish the money but in her greed she held on till she died. The guy should get minimal sentence.

Hard earned? Oga the guy is a thief oooooo. Both of them are criminals, they are both at fault.

Nurses and doctors nko? Lol you people are not serious.

Victoronah1:
800k for a professor, that is 9.6miilion a year ,minus other allowances. you guys must be very selfish, and wicked. How much is director at level 16 in a ministry with over 35 years of work salary. Is your job more professional than them. Even permanent secretary salary is not up to 500k. Wicked souls. A teacher at primary school with over 35 years will retire with 70k max, but Una go take almost 800% of the salary. Now I see the reason ASUU is on strike. Federal government should sack all professors, who are into this, and replace them with PHd people who are serious.

In India average salary of a professor is 477,352.78
If not for the devaluation of our currency.

How much are specialized doctors earning.

How much are judges earning. A judge in Nigeria high or appeal court is not up to 400k. Do you know what it takes to become a judge. Nonsense, na only una dey build Nigeria for. Because they call themselves proffers which is a title, then they feel they are superior

How much is universities making for federal government that they should go into debt to pay such amount of money? If universities are making money, they should be able to pay these lecturers with ease.

God bless you! Doctors and nurses are suffering. Exposing themselves to diseases, the facilities are so poor. Meanwhile Prof go dey office with AC. Well I go Japa leave everything behind.

gloryhomemaker:
Hey, everyone come and celebrate with me!

Recipe:

Rice
Coconut
Chicken
Carrots
Green beans
Fresh peas
Onions
Spring onoins
Green bell pepper
Chicken seasoning
Curry powder
Thyme leaves
Ginger
Garlic
Rosemary leaves
Salt


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VCNg63PYuqo

Awwwwwwww. Sweet wife, you are doing well sis. I wish your husband many more happy years. Happiness will never be lacking in your home.

donbachi:
ASAP sandy

You are wicked

Niyola just complained about this. The poor girl is naive, people are already feeding her corrupt ideas. God help her. The pressure of trying to stay relevant so unhealthy

Qualer:
Over sleek dey worry you!

But what would be your reaction if you were to be in the said girl's shoes?

Omo na to run oooooo. Na who dey alive dey enjoy o, I can't take any form of abuse.

DrFunmisticGlow:
he's using her as an emotional crutch. I fear for the woman

Me too!

NwaAmaikpe:




The crack and other hard drugs must have really destroyed you for you to ditch a younger girl to go play daddy to a 7-year old and her older mom at 27.
What better way can we confuse dumbness for love.

Have you ever considered that you were an inexperienced 20year-old when that lady was spreading her legs wide in a labour room to push out a fvcking baby?

Only you can help yourself.
You know your triggers and you know your weaknesses.

From what I've read, being broke makes you a monster and it is only when you are broke that she starts being shitty.
But the beauty of this fvck is that you get broke from catering to her and her kid and not from living your youth to the fullest with other viable ladies.

But we shouldn't blame her for being shitty, you're just her fvckboy who pays the bills and plays dad to her child whose own father doesn't want anything to do with.

Yet you're emotionally at her mercy that your world revolves around another man's outcast.
Biko ditch that girl and look for an asset.
She's not just a liability, she's a master player and you my friend are her pawn.

He hits someone, when he leaves her. He will keep doing it, this has absolutely nothing to do with her. It's about him. I am a registered mental health nurse. I deal with these kind of people everyday. Over time, the drugs affects their behavior and emotions. They are so impulsive, destructive, verbally and physically abusive. Over 90% of male drug users that I have nursed abuse their partners. This is a fact, sad but true. When someone be it a man or a woman uses their fists during conflicts that person is in the wrong. He is not stable enough to be in a relationship with anybody so don't advise him to find someone else. He would just keep doing it. I don't know the lady in question but someone who can encourage him to give up drugs is not a liability that person is a life saver. He might have overdosed by now if he hadn't met her.

RadioMOUTH:
I have been dating a girl over a year now, she has been so nice to me over this one year, I was in another relationship before I met her... she was so nice to me that I had to dump the other girl which I dated from 2014 till early (2020... about 6 years)

Right now, I don't know what to comment on my relationship anymore.... she helped me stop crack and other hard drugs which I was taking...(I appreciate that from her)


Before I met her she has a 6year old daughter which is now 7... ever since I met her.. I've been doing my best, I Normally spend my money in hotels and clubs but now it ends in the house... I love her daughter like she's mine, and she knows that... I pay her fees..


BUT HERE IS THE PROBLEM



I'm a hot tempered person, words annoy me rather than action... I destroy things when I'm angry... I'm just 27 years old and she's 28... a programmer by profession..m I own a land and a personal car today...


She's respectful and does what a woman will do to satisfy every man, but most times when I'm broke, there's always trouble in the house... and I feel loved when I have money...


I have never hit a woman my whole life till I met her, now I'm used to beating and shouting... now she's even telling me I talk too much when I'm complaining..

This was never my life...


Please I need options..m what do I do, I've just few hours ago hit her, because I saw her texting someone and she rescued to open her phone... causing damage on her left eye .... please what do I do....


I don't want to kill someone because I now feel I'm obsessed about her... I'm confused


Modified:

My old relationship was worst... I found love and care in this lady...

Check yourself into a rehab, it's possible the drugs you abused affected the part of your brain that controls emotions and activity. No jokes I am being sincerely honest with you. You need to let go and work on yourself. You can't be in a relationship, you are not stable enough.

EdoFirstBorn:
Here are my thoughts

Learn to mind your business

Use your time and thoughts in something more beneficial

How can you sit and start to ponder on such a useless meaningless topic?

Focus on your life and build yourself up
Useless thread

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Die hard fans. Some of these behaviors can be become deadly, some of these fans are dangerously obsessed. Celebrities need to be careful who they encourage. Goggle obsessed fans, you wouldn't like what you see.

bestman09:


Flimsy excuses! Melinda and Bill want to taste other soups without any scandal. They really tried, eating the same soup for over 27 years! THE LITTLE ONE BILL TRIED TO TASTE OUTSIDE WANTED TO SPOIL HIS NAME. Now, he is freeeeeee to taste anyone, likewise Melinda

It's Jeffrey Epstein matter ooo, not a small thing. If my father or any man in my life has ties with him I will cut him off. Jeffrey was a devil, he manipulated little girls, he would take pictures and videos of them in compromising positions and threaten to leak them. He was very wealthy and well liked so he would convince them that nobody would believe them. He then give them out to other wealthy men for their pleasure. Donald Trump, Bill Clinton, even the Royal family of England had ties with him. They all visited his island where these girls were kept. Please watch the documentary, then you would fully understand. Jeffrey died before he even name his accomplices, something very suspicious about that. If you found out that your wife had an affair with a minor, don't lie, would you stay married to her knowing fully well that your grandchildren will be around her, kids will always be around her?
Most men like to blame woman when they decide to divorce their cheating and lying husband because he is rich, don't be like them. The situations most of you expect us to endure, you guys cannot endure it. How many men will forgive their cheating wives? I mean truly forgive? But women are expected to do so because he is a man? It's hypocritical right? You would have a daughter someday, I am sure you will always tell her never to allow any man take her for granted. Bill Gate's wife is a genius too. That woman could have have an empire of her own if she wanted. She stayed with him, worked his company, bought shares in it. She worked along side with him even when NOBODY believed in him. She saw potentials. Is that what most Nigerian men say Nigerian women are no longer doing. Let's not start with the double standards.

PlayMaker14:
You're a nice lady... And beautiful as well.

Thanks a lot.

davonlee:
For about 1-2 months, I've been experiencing rectal discharge (a lump above my anus which brings out bloody mucur), constant weakness and pain in my abdominal area. Initially, I thought it was a disease called Hemorrhoids, because the symptoms are exactly the same, and I never imagined this could happen to me. Two nights ago, my stool was filled with dark red blood; so I had to quickly inform my parents. They advised I go for a full scale test. To cut the story short, I've been diagnosed with stage 1 colon cancer. I really need your prayers.

So so sorry. I know you are afraid, it's going to be okay. It was caught early. They would give you treatment options, go for the one what you are most comfortable with, it's your life after all. You are young, give it your all. You will be OK, you are in my prayers.

So disgusting. You would be so surprise how common sexual predators are.

Omoluabi9:
The guy's a scam. He was busted last night in another thread. They are about 4 (or more) in on this. Be guided.

OK thanks

Hey friend. Please be strong, some of the world greatest world changers started with nothing. As long as u are alive, there is hope. Suicide is not the answer okay? Please reach out to me if u want to talk.

rentAcock:
Black stallion. This woman trips me even till today. There's just something about her imposing and voluptuous figure that turns me on. I remember her from the Girls Cot movie back in the days when I was a chronic masturbater, I almost went blind that year.

Happy 20th anniversary to one of the most beautiful and most down to earth Nollywood actress who never bleached her skin.

What is the meaning of this?

Ohhhhhhhhhhh! Lol na wa . What do I call this now? There is no smoke without fire abeg. Where is that bros that was insulting his ancestors on the comment section yesterday? Come and see yourself now o

zeuss:
get sense.....stop being nice when hate and loath blinds your objectivity.
so much so you bay for the blood of someone who may be innocent of rape.

Move along

zeuss:
but you want the COZA man to prove his innocence to you abi? wicked mob action.....give him a benefit of the doubt...he may be innocent of rape and guilty of randyness

Done now?

zeuss:
prove me Wrong you LovePeddler!!!

I don't have to prove anything to you. U are no one, u don't get to decide who I am. Don't beg for attention

zeuss:
just condemn him without evidence?? like I said you are just a pregnancy aborting prostitute

Whatever

zeuss:
call a man guilty to make u happy.....no pls not without evidenced... its wicked

Then move along.

zeuss:
please I never said rape is good. I am just saying RAPE is RAPE submissive sex or regretted sex is not RAPE. u cant redefine RAPE no matter how u feel.....and if u accuse a person of rape u better have evidence not your word against theirs we have seen this word power abused by many.

better have 99 guilty men walk free than one innocent man destroyed.

Well, like I said. Point taken. I don't like your decision but I respect it. Do the same.

eltalentino:
My point is after the whole incident, she kept going to his church even as an adult, sang in the choir, went for prayers... I don't understand

The reason why you don't understand is because you don't know the psychological changes that occur after someone has been raped. Why don't you do an extensive research about it? I would have loved to explain it all but u but it's really lengthy and it's usually a face to face conversation that I have with my patients.

zeuss:
he can be as dirty as a pig for all I care....a Randy man of God is not a Rapist man of God...did he rape you too.....the story is he bleeped her twice for goodness sake a 17 or 18 year old extrovert can openly reject what she does not fancy after all he never threatened her

I wish I could sit u down and talk to u, not to insult u but to tell you about how rape occurs. I am a mental health nurse, let me explain in a little way. You know what those stories we read about girls that were raped their relatives or whoever. Most times it happened more than once until they get pregnant or somebody discovers it. As a young girl, a virgin, a naive girl, virginity is pride once it's taken away, the person feels worthless, dirty. Most times the rapist is a powerful figure, and their victims feel that if they speak out nobody would believe them because of the person's status or how nice the person is on the outside. Sometimes the rapists would threaten to hurt to kill them. Some would say, nobody would believe u because people know I am a good person. They would say anything to put fear in her mind and once that fear is there, rape can happen again if the rapist decides to. Over 20% of my females patients have been raped in their early lives, some are already in their 50s and 60s before they decide to talk. Most of them have depression and schizophrenia. They carry that shame and regret, till affect their marriage, their jobs, their children. Some can't even have sex with their husbands without crying or resisting. It's a very terrible thing. Please not for the sake of argument, when you are free, just goggle rape. You will understand better. Some girls ran back to their captors in boko haram after being rescued, do you know why? That's another topic on it's own. Research on that too.

Rape doesn't affect only one gender, a male can be rape too. He was a child, he was probably intimidated. Poor guy. So sorry. As for all those people saying he probably enjoyed it, may you, your family and friends never know what rape is in your lives! I can't use rape to insult someone, it's just too horrific. People don't know how traumatizing it is.

zeuss:
no I am just judging you as you have judged and sentenced that man without fait hearing...wicked

I didn't need a fair hearing. I was a member of COZA and I left because I trusted my instinct that he wasn't clean and I stand by it. I don't have to explain my stand to u. Think all u want, it wouldn't count.

zeuss:
I have called u what I think suites you and I am others will agree with me.

Trying to get to me? Weak, very weak. The sad thing is that if u see me face face you wouldn't be able to say these things. I just have a different opinion from yours and you are already calling me names. Lol this is just funny

[quote author=zeuss post=79782181][/quote]Well, that's your problem. Insulting me won't change anything. I won't stoop so low to insult u either.