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LagbajaTheBEREAN:
Welcome to the league, Princess.

As an ambivert, we hope this is a sign of better things to come..

Ambivert ko, microvert ni

tydi:
Come let’s get introverted together my princess just the two of us in my dark cosy room so we glow with love whenever we out of our comfort room.

Opposites attract. I don't date introverts

akdjr:
So you don't know that those who have faith in their juju power that it will protect them are not different from those who have faith in the bible or koran for protection? At the end it does not prevent you from any adversary. You are only enjoying the grace of God the Almighty program in your life during when you think the book or juju is protecting.

We are saying the same thing na. Christ never said He healed anybody. He always said "Your faith healed you" Just like when Peter was walking on water. He started sinking when he started doubting - his faith was what was keeping him afloat!

As an introvert, I think Malami is lying!
As an introvert, I think Lai Muhammad is his uncle

As an introvert, FTC!!!

As an introvert, I dedicate this FTC to all ambiverts!

As an introvert, I say this guy sef

As an introvert, I'd say you have a point

As an introvert, I don't know, don't care

As an introvert, I have nothing to add

akdjr:
Juju power users are not different from those who will tell you they are covered with the blood of Jesus and that no weapon fashioned against them shall prosper yet, when weapon hit them, they die like Chicken, when accident happen they die too and they are not immune from sickness like every other human being who don't even share same believe with them. No matter the juju power, no matter the verses of either of the religious book you read and recite when it's you time for you to die by whatever means bros nothing fit hold you back.

It's by faith, Christ said it. We create reality by our beliefs. That's why placebo works

Just sad

Lunatic

PrinceOfLagos:
Strong men

Cultist language

See format

To make a short story make e long small

Davido hands down

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr

Be careful on the type of woman you chase..always chose those ones with big boobs....you know why son?
Because women with big breast are soft hearted, kind hearted, friendly and they have a heart of gold
But you see those ones with small small breast like oranges...avoid them son because they have a heart of stone and are very stubborn and wicked

That is it my brother......times flies
Let me puff my weed with burna boy song titled 'time flies'

Immature thinking as usual. Folks, say no to pot!

NewDelhi:
There's nothing like fela's first child because he has kids well above 60. That's man born many pikin littered around Lagos wey you no know of. I know quite a few of them.

She must be firstborn for real - Fela had her at 21. That was before Fela turned player much later

ygowon:
My friend, invest your money on yourself by learning a handwork that will remain with you anywhere and will be fetching you money steadily. Gambling is deadly. Crypto is for the rich with money to spare. Know the truth and you shall be free. You can't predict Cryptos.

Crypto and forex are handwork.

These people and money!

And u just now hearing this?

He go hear?

Below are the 23 clingy girlfriend signs:

1. You envy your guy whenever he does something without you.
This is one clingy girlfriend sign that is common among girls. And this sign is one of the reasons a guy can break up with you.

If aside from you getting jealous whenever you see him with someone else, you’re also envious whenever you are concentrating on whatever that is not you, restrain from that.

2. You need his assistance with everything
If you’ve noticed that you always need his assistance in everything you do, you might be one of the clingy girlfriends.

Normally, that a guy is dating you doesn’t mean that he owns you everything. That’s not what dating or relationship is all about.

Yes, your guy can help you out in one or two things, but not in everything. The truth is if you’re always expectant all the thing or you anticipate that he handles everything about you, you’re very clingy.

3. Low confidence
If you’re battling with low confidence or you depend on him to always give you a positive view of yourself. You really need to work on yourself if you don’t want to lose that relationship.

4. You Hate it when he spend time with friends
This is another clingy girlfriend sign you would love to know. The night doesn’t happen any longer since he generally needs to be with you. In fact, because of you most of his friends quit inviting him for hangout.

5. Always dropping Texts
Yes, sending texts to your guy once in a while isn’t a bad idea at all. When it looks clingy is when you do that 24/7.

And the most part guys find ignoring is the fact that when they don’t respond as expected your call immediately to know why. And if by chance you find yourself here there are still steps to take when he doesn’t call or text back

6. Space in a Relationship
This is the greatest clingy girlfriend sign that most guys despise. Do you give your boyfriend ample time to do whatever he might feel like doing?

Guys love their space and they need some time without help from anyone else, regardless of whether they’re sitting idle. It’s their approach to loosen up after a long day.

And even in a long distance relationship, there are still time they want to be left alone.

Read Also: 22 Things To Do in a Long Distance Relationship |long distance relationship ideas

7. Always Talking
You may cherish cuddling up in bed and speak with him via telephone or text him for quite a long time each night.

Your boyfriend may cherish doing that toward the beginning of the relationship as well. However, as the relationship’s curiosity begins to wear off and the love sinks into a happy zone, he might need to eliminate the time he goes through solely with you.

It doesn’t mean he doesn’t love you less. It simply implies he’s prepared to return to his ordinary life when he had different activities.

If your boyfriend hints about needing to invest less energy talking via the telephone, don’t force him to converse with you since that would mean you’re slipping into the clingy girlfriend domain.

All things considered, keep your calls short for a couple of days and hang up even before he needs to hang up. It’ll make him miss you more!

8. You don’t have a unique kind of life and dislike the fact that he has a life
This is one of the clingy girlfriend signs that is very bad. Be straightforward with yourself about this one. Do you detest that he goes out with his friends, and you end up sitting alone at home and exhausted?

Go out with your own friends. Don’t be waiting for him to make arrangements and take you out. Regard yourself and don’t be accessible at his beck and call.

If you are trying not to get a tag of the clingy girlfriend, make your boyfriend a piece of your life. Never make him your entire life.

9. You really think you are a negative influence on him
Let it out, your boyfriend got along fine with his life until you came into it. You fell in love with him for who he is before he met you.

Indeed, he may have a couple of bad friends. Yet, rather than requesting that he keep away from every one of his friends since “you’re the one in particular who really knows him”, assist him with realizing his mistakes by quietly revealing the flaws of a couple of friends when he’s talking about them.

10. Don’t often play the victim
Another sign that shows you’re a clingy girlfriend is when you don’t want to play the victim in your relationship. Guys love to play the role of the protector in the relationship. Request help and he’ll feel manly.

However, request excessively, and he’ll simply get irritated. Figure out how to request help in the right manner, and he’ll cherish you more.

11. Insecure when he meets a charming young lady
Another sure sign that you’re a clingy girlfriend is insecurity. Let me ask you, do you at any point feel insecure when he spends time with a charming young lady?

Are you scared that he’ll go gaga for her and leave you? If yes, then you’re a clingy girlfriend or You might be low on confidence since you’re not talking with any appealing guys yourself.

Go out with your friends and meet hot-looking guys and have a flirty discussion with them if that is what it takes to raise your confidence and have a positive outlook on yourself.

You’ll understand that simply talking with a sexy guy doesn’t mean you want to have intercourse with him.

Also, you’ll most likely begin to confide in your boyfriend more.

12. You don’t like it when he gives attention to his friends
So your man likes to give attention to his friends rather than you? For what reason do you think he does that?

a. He might be giving you more attention already.

b. He may believe you’re always accessible to him whenever he needs you.

The major reason you feel lonely without him is on the grounds that you don’t have anything to do other than spending time with your boyfriend.

Try not to be that clingy girlfriend. Have your own life and make him want to spend more time with you and give you more attention. Reverse the situation and he’ll trail you like a lost pup.

13. Want your Relationship to be improved
Learn to expect the unexpected. Most relationships aren’t great. If you’re troubled in a relationship, leave it. Try not to attempt to change somebody to suit your requirements since that won’t happen.

You may believe that raising issues in the relationship all the time will make him a better man who can love you in a great manner.

Be straightforward and clarify what you feel without losing your cool. Say it in a reasonable way with no frustrations. However, don’t constrain him to become your idea of ideal man.

14. You’re Skeptical
This is one of the sure signs of a clingy girlfriend. Since he’s out with his friends or working late doesn’t mean he’s having an affair outside the relationship. Do you truly think you can prevent a person from having an affair if he really wants to?

People have relationships because they need to, not because they’re away from their partner for a short time.

Furthermore, in the event that they truly would like to have an affair, they’ll find ways to do just that. Your boyfriend loves you for who you really are.

Meeting one new charming young lady will not make him loveless of you. If he truly loves you, he’ll realize the proper thing to do.

He truly doesn’t need a skeptical girlfriend sniffing his clothing each time he returns home. What’s more, think about what, the more skeptical you are, the more he’d subconsciously want to cheat.

All things considered, you’re now sure that he’ll cheat on you, so he might as well do it and prove your point.

15. You want to keep in touch constantly
Let’s be honest. We all are different. You may want him to keep you posted on his life consistently, yet does he want to do likewise?

Try not to push somebody to do what you want. Explain what you need in a relationship, however, don’t drive it down your boyfriend’s throat.

You can call him consistently and tell him what you’re up to if you want. Call to keep him updated if you want to step out of the office to have coffee with a friend.



Yet, don’t ask him what he’s doing. Hang up in a minute or two. If he gets the clue and likes these short calls to keep each other posted so often, he’ll begin doing likewise as well.

In the event that he’s not that sort of guy, tell him a couple of times that it would feel ideal to know what he’s up to from time to time. If he dislikes it, love him for who he is or find another person.

16. You want his attention constantly
Do you feel like you deserve his attention constantly, regardless of whether he’s talking with another person, chipping away at something, or simply relaxing without anyone else?

Obviously, you are his girlfriend. However, that does not mean he doesn’t have his own interest.

Recall that both of you are two people who are in love with each other. You don’t possess one another.

Do you at any point feel like you’re the just one making every one of the plans or attempting to hold the relationship together?

You may believe you’re the savior of that relationship, while he may believe you’re a clingy irritating girlfriend.

Keep yourself occupied with doing what you love and make him come to you. Be that ideal lady in his eyes and cause him to acknowledge how much of a catch you are!

17. Can’t acknowledge the fact that his life doesn’t revolve around you
Love makes the entire world go round. It very well may be baffling to see that you are not the focal point of the universe in your man’s eyes.

Rather than nagging about it, figure out how to make him need you and want you more. Do you get irritated if he’s watching a film and needs to get back to you in a short time?

That is presumably because you’re idle and have so much time at hand. Make him miss you by keeping yourself occupied.

If he sees that you’re not always accessible for him, he’ll see the value in your time and love you more.

18. You feel he doesn’t love you as much you love him
If you at any point feel that way, you’re already showing one of the greatest clingy girlfriend signs.

Except you’re in a relationship where both of you need to see yourselves consistently together, you need to make a stride back and let him carry on with his own life.

What makes you feel he doesn’t love you enough? Is it since he doesn’t spend each moment talking with you? Speak with him about it and hear his thought about it with an open mind.

If you feel like both of you have different priorities in love, reconsider the status of the relationship.

19. All his attention ought to be on you
You need him to give you his full attention. Indeed, even him discussing another young lady makes you angry and skeptical.

You feel like you ought to consistently be on his mind like he is on yours. At first, your boyfriend may find it charming. He may even believe it’s a sign of love.

Steady seeking for attention will make him frustrated and he will want an out from the relationship.

While jealousy is totally normal you should be able to control your behavior and show some restrictions. Do it before he thinks you are an unsteady girlfriend.

20. You become Suspicious
There are parts of his life which you probably won’t be involved in. Not realizing his whereabouts will make you suspicious.

All sorts of random thoughts will be in your mind. The fear of him cheating on you will make you suspicious. You will begin asking him constant questions and you won’t believe him regardless of whether he is telling the truth and will continually request a proof.

Constant doubt is a huge turn-off. It will just distance him much more and he would see all the clingy girlfriend signs in you and put an end to the relationship.

21. Insecurity sneaks in
Somewhere inside you, you get a feeling that your boyfriend isn’t that serious about your relationship as you are. This makes you worried and insecure.



Considering the fact that you may not be his topmost priority may make you fear that your relationship is endangered. You attempt to become his priority.

You may be significant in his life yet you can’t continually seek validation concerning this. Your boyfriend will have things in his day to day life that are as important to him as you are and this is totally normal.

Trust is the foundation of a sound relationship and if you don’t trust him, what are you battling for? If he is looking gorgeous in a particular clothe praise him, rather than thinking other ladies will be attracted to him.

22. You are envious that he has a life without you
Your boyfriend has a life of his own outside your relationship. He could be making arrangements without you and you don’t enjoy it.

You are envious of him enjoying without you and question whether his friends make him more joyful than you do.

You even attempt to disrupt his arrangements and forcefully include yourself in them. You are only being a clingy girlfriend and you could wind up being his nightmare.

He would not actually know how to manage his clingy girlfriend that would prompt fights and consistent quarrels and at last, he may dump you.

23. You are too accessible
Continually being accessible for him will make him underestimate you. He will know that you will always set aside a few minutes for him and consequently he will just make plans whenever it suits him and not be scared to cancel a meeting on the last.

Know your self-worth and make him realize it as well. Try not to place him above everybody and everything. If you have plans to meet your friend for coffee don’t cancel it because your boyfriend is accessible at this point.

Can I stop being a Clingy Girlfriend?
You certainly can! It just takes a little work to identify the signs of a clingy girlfriend and to know where to draw the line.

Most importantly, you must learn to accept and enjoy yourself. It all begins with self-love.

You can’t trust your boyfriend to provide you with the affection, attention, and validation you need to feel whole. It must be felt from inside!

Makes sense

Myer:
So which of these allegations do you believe then?

NONE! The thing is that he has stepped on many toes just by the depth of his pocket - he interfered with many people's hustle and many smaller charities. Also he had been sometimes over-eager. But he is one man that put his gigantic money into needful areas of the world instead of using it to run for president or buy an island like his wife just did.

Myer:
Bill is most likely planning on cashing out through Covid pandemic by Vaccination sales. And his wife has grown a conscience against the whole shenanigans.

There is mumu, then there is MUMU. Different if vaccines were not yet available. Has BG even been involved in any of the vaccines?? You conspiracy nuts said he'll go around forcing vaccines on people. Bill Gates that had been touting vaccine preparedness for the poorest for decades before coro.

InvertedHammer:
Hopefully the divorce will be messy. So that as a woman scorned, Melinda will tell us all we need to know about coronavirus vaccine.

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Ignorance. You conspiracy nuts said BG will go around forcing vaccine on people. Has he been even involved in any of the vaccines. Bill Gates that had been touting vaccine preparedness for the poorest for decades before coro

haddeylium:
achorladey, MaxInDHouse, Janosky
ospido, oaroloye

In conclusion, here are some characteristics of a cult.
I still think JW is better than Islam as practiced in certain places, so I give JW kudos for converting that Islamic guy.
(One last thing: anybody who tells you not to observe the world around you with your God-given senses and try to see if there are laws or patterns governing them, is not your friend. That's what science is. That's how we got the vaccines for coro!)

Ciao. I'm out.
Nice chatting with you guys. See you around NL.
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Are You, or Is Someone You Know, Involved in a High-Demand Group or Movement - "Cult"?
Many members and supporters of these groups/movements are not fully aware of the extent to which they have been abused and exploited. This checklist of characteristics helps to define such groups:

1) The group is focused on a living leader or leadership to whom members seem to display excessively zealous, unquestioning commitment.

2) The group is preoccupied with bringing in new members.

3) Questioning, doubt, and dissent are discouraged or even punished.

4) Mind-numbing techniques (such as debilitating work routines) are used to suppress doubts about the group and its leader(s).

5) The leadership dictates sometimes in great detail how members should think, act, and feel (for example: members must get permission from leaders to date, change jobs or get married).

7) The group is elitist, claiming a special, exalted status for itself, its leader(s), and members (for example: the group and/or the leader(s) has a special mission to save humanity).

The group has a polarized us-versus-them mentality, which causes conflict with the wider society.

9) The group's leader(s) is not accountable to any authorities (as are, for example, military commanders and ministers, priests, monks, and rabbis of mainstream denominations).

10) The group teaches or implies that its supposedly exalted ends justify means that members would have considered unethical before joining the group (for example: shunning people to suicide).

11) The leadership induces guilt feelings in members in order to control them.

12) Members' subservience to the group causes them to cut ties with family and friends, and to give up personal goals and activities that were of interest before joining the group.

13) Members are expected to devote inordinate amounts of time to the group.

14) Members are encouraged or required to live and/or socialize only with other group members.

haddeylium:
Ehhh..... wahala
Let me clear the misconception you have and for others sake
JWs do not disfellowship JWs for committing sin.
JWs do not disfellowship JWs for committing sin!!!

Who JWs disfellowship are unrepentant sinners. Rather, the members that choose to PRACTICE committing that GROSS sin over and over again without REGRET can expect to be disfellowshipped. This shows an unrepentant heart condition on the part of the sinner. (if you have difficulty in understanding this, check for the meaning of 'unrepentant).

Disfellowshipping is not a form of discipline that we have devised on our own, rather it comes from the Bible.

Jehovah’s Witnesses follow what the bible teaches

Matthew 18:15–17
Pay attention to 15
15 Moreover, if your brother commits a sin, go and reveal his fault between you and him alone. If he listens to you, you have gained your brother

As Jesus said, we should first of all try to correct them in love! Oftentimes that is enough for them to reflect on their behavior and correct it. (That's it).

But sadly at times, they persist in the wrongdoing and their own selfish behavior puts them at odds with the congregation and with God’s word!
What did Jesus then say?
Let's examine this
16 But if he does not listen, take along with you one or two more, so that on the testimony of two or three witnesses every mattermay be established. 17[i] If he does not listen to them, speak to the congregation. If he does not listen even to the congregation, let him be to you just as a man of the nations and as a tax collector[/i]

The apostle Paul reiterates what Jesus taught in 1 Corinthians.

1 Corinthians 5:11

But now I am writing you to stop keeping company with anyone called a brother who is sexually immoral or a greedy person or an idolater or a reviler or a drunkard or an extortioner, not even eating with such a man
So, sadly So JWs disfellowship them as a last resort so they could reflect on their wrongdoing and keep the congregation clean as well

As Jehovah’s Witness we follow what the bible teaches and instructs us to do in this regard.

ciao

You keep selectively quoting scriptures you yourself said could have been adulterated because you don't want to rely on the SPIRIT.
How about where same Paul said he'd stay with the sinful and the weak? And here's the rest of the very chapter u quoted. Why didn't you quote all?? And BTW even the one you quoted it says YOU shun your brother not the whole church which is her entire family and friends!
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21 Then Peter came to Jesus and asked, “Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother or sister who sins against me?(T) Up to seven times?”(U)

22 Jesus answered, “I tell you, not seven times, but seventy-seven times.[g](V)

23 “Therefore, the kingdom of heaven is like(W) a king who wanted to settle accounts(X) with his servants. 24 As he began the settlement, a man who owed him ten thousand bags of gold[h] was brought to him. 25 Since he was not able to pay,(Y) the master ordered that he and his wife and his children and all that he had be sold(Z) to repay the debt.

26 “At this the servant fell on his knees before him.(AA) ‘Be patient with me,’ he begged, ‘and I will pay back everything.’ 27 The servant’s master took pity on him, canceled the debt and let him go.

28 “But when that servant went out, he found one of his fellow servants who owed him a hundred silver coins.[i] He grabbed him and began to choke him. ‘Pay back what you owe me!’ he demanded.

29 “His fellow servant fell to his knees and begged him, ‘Be patient with me, and I will pay it back.’

30 “But he refused. Instead, he went off and had the man thrown into prison until he could pay the debt. 31 When the other servants saw what had happened, they were outraged and went and told their master everything that had happened.

32 “Then the master called the servant in. ‘You wicked servant,’ he said, ‘I canceled all that debt of yours because you begged me to. 33 Shouldn’t you have had mercy on your fellow servant just as I had on you?’ 34 In anger his master handed him over to the jailers to be tortured, until he should pay back all he owed.

35 “This is how my heavenly Father will treat each of you unless you forgive your brother or sister from your heart.”(AB)

MaxInDHouse:
Our Jesus differ from yours so mentioning the name when you're not even ready to comply with laid down principles shows you're not ready for precious germs! Matthew 7:6
Don't you notice how lesser i quote the holy writings in your case? Matthew 7:6
You that you've declared yourself a spiritist (witch) yet you want to continue talking about Jesus when you're not ready to do away with your witchcraft.
Please go and practice your own religion Ma, we are OK as JEHOVAH'S WITNESSES!

Your Jesus is indeed different. It is cobbled together from cherry picked bible verses with no SPIRIT of Lord Jesus involved. It is not the Jesus that said not to judge nor the one that said forgive 77 times nor turn the other cheek. Anyway I believe u r in a better place than Islam. And I give JW kudos for converting you.

haddeylium:
I had a good laugh with that part I bold
It shouldn't surprise you that people Admire Jesus and his group during his walks on Earth. They is fine works and always to be with him. But, what they detest so much is his TEACHING. He didn't sugercoat the truth for them . To stop people from believing in him. They have him different labels and interestingly you chose their favourite.
(Beelzebub)SATANIST(cultist)-Matthew 12:27

Likewise, Jesus forewarned his disciples too that ;
“If people have called the householder Beelzebub, how much more will they call those of his household so?” (Matthew 10:25)
"Yes! JWs are cultist tho"

Rather than Jesus waste his energy in explaining why he's not Cultists.
He told his disciples that: "Wisdom is vindicated by its knowledge"
Their Knowledge of God's word has helps in disarming his members and never to carry gun and kill people
They've eliminated Racism
The identifying mark of LOVE is flourishing among them.
Have a nice day

See the screenshots below. Those spell out clearly that JW are no better than the general population
Like I said I don't know JW. I never said I admire them. What I said about them I'd say about Mormons or Adventists, etc. But by what I learnt since this discussion I'd NEVER be one. Christ never shunned anybody and did dine and stay with sinners. In all non-cultlike churches people are encouraged to come to church no matter how sinful they think they have become. Paul himself said he'd stay with the weak to have a chance to win them. Cult-like churches all have the same modus operandi - google characteristics of a cult.

Janosky:
1 Corinthians 5:12,
Madam, "judge those inside the Church.
God will judge those outside"
2 Thessalonians 3:6
"We command you in the name of Jesus Christ to WITHDRAW, STAY AWAY from any brother who does not live according to the teaching you received from us"

Madam,in whose name was the command given @ 2 Thess3:6?
Ephesians 5:5-7 "the wrath of God is coming because of those who are disobedient"

Madam, no dey DECEIVE yourself making spurious claims.



What connection has your practice of spiritism (astrology/divination) got to do with Jesus Christ?

2 Timothy 3:16-16
" The word of God is inspired and beneficial for teaching,for correction, for reproving & discipline of Jehovah's people.

James 5:14-16 & Psalm 51:1-4,JWs are sinners too, we show remorse like David & copy the example of Jesus who forgave remorseful Peter.
To Unrepentant members,we apply 2 Thess3:6 & 1 Corinthians 5:9-13.
Shikena !

Ok, what was the "church" b4 JW was formed in 1931??

The point is, you are in no position to be judging anybody. And I've told you that any quotation can be disproved by another quotation. So you can only selectively quote scriptures (as you do) to those with no knowledge of scriptures. See below. Notice how it
calls you a HYPOCRITE, not my words.

Matthew 7

1“Do not judge, or you will be judged. 2For with the same judgment you pronounce, you will be judged; and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.

3Why do you look at the speck in your brother’s eye, but fail to notice the beam in your own eye? 4How can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ while there is still a beam in your own eye? 5 You hypocrite! First take the beam out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother’s eye.