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This "men love, women don't " talk dey always gimme headache.

She's using you to cure konji without necessarily cheating on her obodo oyinbo boyfriend

To her, she's not cheating as long as there's no penetrative sex

I don't support cheating so yes well done bro.

pocohantas:
He is still releasing more VNs. Now I think of it, he must have been the one sending things to that blogger. His healing would be long o.

Same thing I told someone, his response to the blogger when the news came out gave him out. He wants to drag the ex like his first wife but not with his full chest. Such a snake, very annoying elder.

He no go heal o, if after two years this is his game plan healing is very far from him.

pocohantas:
Money makes it easier to take major decisions. I see no reason to be dragging the (ex)husband upandan, and I am glad she didn't do that initially until she was forced to react. The kids from his previous marriage are more with their mum, the ones from 2nd wife, I am sure she would abscond with them. At 53, I wonder what is his next line of action.

He will apply to Gheghe University as senior lecturer then create Nl account to join alfa mails.

That's it

His hands don full like that.

Kingozymandias:
If you need advise form a stranger on the internet then you are not ready. Grow up

Wise one
Why is your blood so hot this early morning

Tell her.

If she didn’t want it she should have talked instead of what she did. There are other people who would have valued those clothes.

People know what they are doing.

Me myself dey emergency

OlaOfLagos:
1. The feminist
2. The single mother
3. The party girl

I guess this information helps

Na these one you talk say make we avoid nah.

Gimme 3 types of women to marry, e be like say I don ready

Starz825:
With the way things are going in Nigeria...

Nigerian Women wey dey reside for naija go later dey use style beg men for marriage or at least force pregnancies...

cos most Nigerian men no wan dey marry nigerian ladies again.... Survivor no fit marry survivor


prosper.ina, who tell you say women no care about marriage, husband and home...dem care deep down except if the lady is a full blown street orchin wey no grow up in a family setting

Funny enough, na age and time go tell


Obviously, you can not expect a 20-25 lady to take marriage and men serious...but when she hit 30-35...she go understand...

Dey play!...no woman is truly happy without a man or children....even most men care to have a family....na woman no come care...Dey play once again.

Baby mama go full everywhere by 2040

The major focus of a typical Nigerian right now is Money/Survival. Male or Female wants to stay afloat. The rich takes only 5% of Nigerian population so marrying for survival for women isn't a thing. Everyone is working, everyone wants to survive, women are choosing themselves and not settling or staying in unproductive unions. Reality is there as evidence but someone here is worried about women chasing men because he has a prick.
Make he log out go touch ground abeg.

People aren't rushing into marriage like before, the person with the highest value will be selected. Standards will change, people will compromise. If you think someone will chase you because you have prick, you are on your own o.

"A time will come women will chase or hunt men" see talk.

And e dey funny mi sha 😆

Belurved1:
I hope you're not waiting for that time cos It's not going to be business as usual, even any reasonable man won't wish that to happen. When women take charge of men's duties then expect worst.

Lol don't worry, women will feed men like op well while men like op will cook and lay themselves properly on bed for women to mount in the other room.

Abi since he said women will be chasing him

Truvelisback:
If you don't have anything sensible to comment, you can ignore the thread.

You posted this for reactions and comments. Why are you pained ?

Anything to make you feel important in a world that doesn't really care. I understand Nigeria hard, a little delusion of grandeur is allowed.

Sigh..

Rest well Alex

Motive 100

Location 0



Father of the year you try

Talkisneeded:
This marriage thing will end up running you people mad one day…

Too many analogy just to fulfil the duties of marriage…

This is so funny 😁

No we don't, we float over love.

Before nko?

Don't you as a struggling man have a time frame or what are you doing with a woman in the first place?

Buy smaller bed

Maybe 3by 6

It is finished.

CodeTemplar:
the difference between kpekere n chips is packaging.

They are both kpekere .

What's that BTW?

CodeTemplar:
Hmmm i fear who fear woman

They have come ooooo . Like men are saints

Serves her right.

Prenup? *Shrugs* totally indifferent about that.

pocohantas:
That is if they will listen.
Naija men no dey take advice.

pocohantas:
He should forgive her.
Women are polygamous in nature and it is you she loves. Given the rate of female infidelity on the internet, if you divorce one, you might end up with another or be sideguy to a married woman like her bf is.

Protect your home, kings. 🤝

I support this post with 5 million dollars.

He should fast and pray too, marriage is spiritual. Every man should learn to fight for his home. He should not forget to wear sexy boxers too.

Ashawoman82:
shutup, this ur gaslighting can no longer work.. What differentiate Nigerian men from other men in the world, keep deceiving yourself.. Lol.

Take several steps back, you came late to the party.

Finding a balance is what works.

When you were handling a married woman while she's with her husband did you ask us. Handle it the way you handled her.

Smh

franchasng:
My own trait of not liking to collect things from women started from childhood. Maybe in my previous life, I was a warrior or head of army cos I have some kind reservation towards women while growing up. I never liked associating with women until later years, I think towards middle of higher institution that I started liking women and after tasting the forbidden fruit in a woman, I went gaga and started liking everything in skirt (does sign of the cross )

So it has nothing to do with the topic we are discussing.


In fact, after my higher institution, many financially buoyant ladies, both those from rich families started liking me, during NYSC, in Church, online (even foreign women), everywhere, but I was too timid and scared to accept going into any relationship with any of them cos my financial situation back then was terrible and I used to feel ashamed of myself cos I didn't even have accommodation to start with so where were we going to even meet? And I doubt if I could sponsor any date outside lolz, Kai this life sha



My sister if u are living abroad and single, pls remove doubt, calm down, pray to your God, sincere prayer prayed when in die need usually get answer, give some good and focused guys in Naija a chance, he might come in and transform your life completely. It's better than staying single abroad forever cos no serious men abroad oh, most are married, the single ones doing well want to go back to their mother's village or their old street in Naija to find wife lol



There are good single guys even on this nairaland, just be careful u are not dealing with married guys like me disguising as single boys

You are getting all emotional over this thread . You don advice me pass my mama .

I know there are good men , I'm not short of good men. Lol I'm against taking full financial responsibility not because it’s evil but the fact that majority of Nigerian men aren't built for it. They'd resent you because every error will be tied to the fact that you are paying the bills. Before you know it, they will start saying you are emasculating them abi what's the word. I can support financially but I can't build him from scratch. It takes a lot of energy, strength and patient dealing with a Nigerian man that can't provide. You'd forever walk on egg shells around him and it's not healthy. That's the point.

Attraction at first sight Yes.

Attraction built into love? Yes

So yes there's love at first sight. It is the end product of Attraction sustained.

If you feel rigged ask your fellow men.

Men rigged relationship against men. The average Nigerian man believes no woman is single she has to be collected, won or hijacked. You can start with that