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nlfpmod:
Wow 😲😳! See comment

Even you yourself you shock .

Things we read on Nl sometimes....

Capkey:
Hope she’s alive.

Did this happen at the guy’s home? If yes, what was the guy’s girlfriend’s sister doing there without her sister?

Bladderdash!!!

Any thing to blame the victim!!

It's is relevance of the word "mistakenly " that I'm searching for. I will let you know when I find it

budaatum:
That's what he does when he is annoyed. I'm in fact surprised he has not blocked me yet as he has done in the past when his ego is bruised.

Really? That's hilarious 😂. Now I understand a lot better. That's some weirdo right there. I didn't even know him until yesterday

He blocked me

Oh my goodness!!!

So touchy

Well I hope with this 3 weeks break you'd get over yourself and allow my mentions rest.

budaatum:
Ask yourself if you need a legal right to fully reject any culture anywhere!

Sigh...
Same thing I'd try to tell him yesterday . If he doesn't want to prostrate he doesn't need to move barracks . Just say it and everyone will move on, those who will prostrate will prostrate. The practice is not changing anytime soon or ever!

lindqvistbergst:
Like Pros erpina yesterday if I knew who she was and where she was. I could I have her arrested under cybercrime laws. And cultural abuse (telling a foreign national to beg)

Its obvious i live in your head rent free now.
Easy with the numerous mentions foreign national

Opsss!

5 bloody mentions?

Why is he angry?

Onto this prostrate I no prostrate matter?

lindqvistbergst:
Gpt? Its Google. Seems you truly cannot read.

The only person with comprehension issues so far is you. I have made my stance on this matter very clear from page 1 but you keep coming back with different analogies shifting goal post. You even summoned AI set to validate whatever you say for back up still nothing. I never said who made the wedding culture family or woman, that has never been the point.

The point is A practice in place for centuries now will not change because you don't like it. If you don't like it avoid it. But we won't change how we do things here because you feel too big to prostrate for your inlaws.

That said, I will stop responding to you on this thread until you learn to accept people , their culture and the fact that the world does not revolve around you. If there's any other topic you will like to discuss in future feel free to give a mention. Until then Ciao!

lindqvistbergst:
Proserpina

Said right here long BEFORE you kicked off. "Its not based on the women themselves" its based on the family later.

So where is the "me shaming the women"?

Read your initial post.

In all I maintain it changes nothing. And why are you seeking validation with Chatgpt? That's weird

lindqvistbergst:
I wont prostrate. Id do something else and consider it self defence.

Lol

Whatever rocks your boat... Like I have typed over and over again. You are you, a person with fragile ego, it doesn't change anything in Yoruba land

Brighton1:
As a man, why are you still sending me Love heartbreaking Emoji and crying Emoji.

Are u normal at all? Will you get out from here.

Why you come dey vex?

A woman will always submit to a man she admire.

Lindqvistbergst

"Se o bebe fe abi o bebe fe" ?

You will prostrate oooo, we will even rob your bald head self

lindqvistbergst:
Hey little one. You are not good people. You are not humble or respectful.

😂 you actively attacking people because they will not beg you and your family

You and your Ai will gossip me tire today.

You started a thread trying to shame women and an entire tribe practice it didn't work so you resorted to seeking comfort/support from AI?

Is your ego that fragile?

budaatum:
He is also the one thinking all Yorubas require or participate in the prostrating, which shows how narrow his own mind actually is.

I didn't bring up that part so he won't think I'm desperate to feed his ego like his imaginary 15 western friends.

I'm going with the general practice and he must swallow it by fire by force. We don't really care about his opinion here

lindqvistbergst:
Hey little one......

Are you a Nigerian?

It's beginning to seem like I've been interacting with someone from the North pole or Se.un test Ai bot.

lindqvistbergst:
Hey little one..😀.......

lindqvistbergst:
Hey. Little one.

lindqvistbergst:
You obviously haven't read your laws then little one. Basic Nigerian contract law. A promise to marry is legally binding in Nigeria.

It is a civil offence to breach said promise without a valid reason. A Groom not wanting to the do the culture is not a valid reason BUT a family demanding and trying to force culture is a valid reason.

I had to respond to your numerous mentions at once. I haven't changed my position since I joined the thread and never will. No couple get to know of each other's well practiced culture after promise of marriage which I will interpret as Engagement if at all there's need for break up it would have been before the relationship got serious, no serious partner will break up for something as ordinary as 5 minutes prostrate so your AI generated responses holds no water here.

If at all there are people like you who can't accept such practices you are free to back off. But the prostrate culture remains among the Yorubas.

That's it and final!

lindqvistbergst:
Face it little one.

Your families have no power. They have no authority. They have no say.

When people understand your legal system those people have the power and authority over their own relationships.

The wedding ends because of culture = you can sue for breach of promise a civil offence.

A family destroy a wedding/relationship over your need to be begged = you can sue the family for wedding costs back.

You can even press criminal charges and guess what. The law is always on the grooms side on this issue not your families. And guess what? The law is not corrupt for us in this issue because we have embassies that will fight it for us.

Big one you are typing gibberish.

Two adults dating with intension to marry knows each other culture, norms of the people they come from. If one of the couple disagree with the culture of the other they break up. You don't sue people for their way of life as long as it is not detrimental to humanity.

That said, you really sound like a year one law student.

lindqvistbergst:
Why would I prostrate? The second anyone told me to id press charges. And watch "them" beg me to drop the charges.

Then you are not ready

Again you are just 1 in over 3 billion, very inconsequential .

lindqvistbergst:
Most dont actually. For 1 that does it. There 9 that dont and are happily married. And you "tricking" people into it that doesn't mean they want to do it. It means you manipulated them into it by saying "mandatory"

You started this to mock a culture of a set of people now it's like you are trying to convince me to oppose the practice .

Naaaahhhhhh that culture won't change. You and your friends can go choke on cactus plant We don't care here. Men will continue to "bebe fe wa" Una go prostrate well well

[quote author=lindqvistbergst post=141062255][/quote]I never said it's not important or that we would change anything. I said You and your friends are not important. We don't know you .

If you can't prostrate for your would be inlaws look for the ones you can place plates on their heads and eat from. It's very simple

lindqvistbergst:
Pros erpina actually read it instead of fabricating your fibs that were not said.

Me personally im in a happy and stable relationship and I will not do a single part of any of your "tribal stuff" thats my legal right.

These men are happy to do most of it for most tribes THEIR LEGAL RIGHT. what they will not tolerate is an arrogant family from 1 specific people telling them they have to beg publicly at a wedding while they get mocked by said family. Its as simple as that. But seems you cannot grasp something so simple. Its also been made explicitly clear the women are not their issues its the family later. So you fabricated an entire issue that just doesn't exist because you cannot comprehend "legal right and you are not entitled"

Type legal rights as many times as you want it won't change the fact that Men all over the world come to "beg" for yoruba brides (as you put it) again you and your 15 western friends are not important that a practice should be changed for. We don't know you here. We only know people that matters

lindqvistbergst:
Continue your fabrications.

You are the one trying to make us think 15 different people would have same mindset about a five minutes practice and would allow it deter them from marrying from a specific tribe. Do you know how absurd that is? One would think the practice is cannibalism .

The lies you feed yourselves on this Nl though

lindqvistbergst:
Who said they were gray? Im 40+ and retired in your country. All it said is they are western and working here.

And women are not the problem so you fabricated that as well, its 1 tribe that will not respect that.....PEOPLE DO NOT WANT TO BEG YOU! and continue to fabricate stuff instead of accept that 1 single and simple concept.

You didn't get the phrase lol . It's like saying look at you look at old age but that's not the point.

Okay Just as suspected your thread is a jab at Yoruba women and Yoruba culture of men prostrating at weddings. Well I have seen videos and even witnessed foreign men and their families travel down to Nigeria to participate in this culture for their brides. You and your 15 friends are very inconsequential in the grand scheme of things. The culture is beautiful and would remain.

People know this part of Yoruba wedding culture, we don't know you or your 15 western friends until now.

lindqvistbergst:
Funny you ignore the part "lots of dates with lots of wonderful women" and "marriage"

They are not looking for dating or just sex.and you are making up your 😂 own narrative simply for the of one culture they want no part of. And you are desperate to paint every one else as problem instead of learning to read.

Okay let's play pretend and I ask what's the purpose of this thread?

That Yoruba women can't take no or are desperate? How is this different from my initial post? You opened a thread, shared a pigment of your imagination but never thought of a motive or what you really intend to achieve. Is that what you are insinuating? Help me get you right Mr Op that knows 15 bachelors.

If your friends are really hot cakes they should have their profiles taken down now because women of other tribes would have gotten them. But no, they remain unattached and continue to say "no thanks" online. Look you look at your 15 single gray haired bachelors .

Next time you want to throw shades at women or a tribe for their culture be more creative and believable .

folake4u:
Oh yeah, he's been trying to get chummy/ quote me unnecessarily. It's mind boggling.

Biko chain this your dog o. 😭

Chai

Now I don dey feel guilty He was just trying to be friendly o

pocohantas:
Lol. Is he now trying to befriend my buddies? These trolls never cease to amaze me. Typical male move, when your crush no gree, try her friends. 😂😂😂

Lol I was surprised to see his mention free of usual jabs and blunders . I come dey wonder if I should be respond accordingly but mba, I refuse to fall for it.

reddingtonblack:
Your so called nicest lady choose the channel of me she sees, however you don't have to watch what she is watching like some conjoin twins

maybe you've forgotten proser i wasnt friendly , c'mon show me ur friend nd i will tell who you are ...
i was just to see you, to clear your confusion Tii a ba'n. ja bi ka ku kor ..

Again, I do not trust your friendliness nevertheless we can respect each other's space

Thank you, I survived.

reddingtonblack:
🤣 You could have just said your own back if ur mind clean

anyways make i collect 3rd bottle of Heineken in your name

I've seen what you do to one of the nicest ladies here, I do not trust your friendliness hence my response.

Refresh my memory, we've not been best of friends in our previous interactions either so why the sudden friendly greetings ?
Pardon me if I sound harsh but I don't like confusion.