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Movies hardly make me cry but cartoons? Yes a lot

folake4u:
No Pina, you are not weird at all.

Mine is even worse. I'm naturally a bubbly person, you can feel it when I'm chatting or talking to you. The moment you start feeling a shift of energy more than three times, just know something is bothering me and need to solve a puzzle.

Yes, I replay scenarios over and over, even in my sleep. Sometimes, I also try to involve a neutral 3rd party to analyze said scenario to know whether I'm being overly sensitive or at fault.

May God help us ooo
The advantage though is that we do not overreact and will most likely not pick offenses where there are none. We get lots of time to know truly we were offended so no room for denial with us just own it .

Oh... I had to unlearn that . I speak when I need to. Lol Reminds me of a guy I forced and apology out of offline. Normal conversation dude started sounding like typical Nl alfa mail. Normally I ignore and never converse with the person again but on this day, we were almost shouting on phone, I hung up, continued offline even the next day I sent a paragraph I didn't let it die until he apologized.

I have come to realize people are no longer sensitive or sensible anymore. They'd moved on like nothing happened while you get hurt and angry. I talk now o

folake4u:
I am like this too. I've just been looking at someone who offended me since, I never get the person time YET.

So I'm not weird after all. Like do you replay scenarios after they happen to analyze if you were at fault or the person was outrightly offensive without provocation? Because I do that

As a matter of fact sometimes I replay scenarios to be sure . Like subtle insults or actions I wasn't sure of when they happened at first, I can conclude on them days later

The funniest part it after going through this stress I may later let go but if not omooh heaven help that person if there's a reoccurrence of the scene oooo. Sometimes I talk about it other times I just do my own back

CSTRR:
You no want 6'3" tall dark and handsome man with nice house and car, and millions in his bank account for marriage?

Don't worry, the devil has plenty of children like that.

You will be surprised it's the struggling ones that are more wicked at heart.

I see everyone on frontpage are acting like these things don't happen. Lol

One said "it's men you don't build with that treat you this way" . My dear nah poor people get problem pass

A lot is happening and even worse.

Phew!!!

God Abeg

God nah beg I dey beg

I no get strength, God Abeg

Bonjovi13:
You have probably lost her going by her reaction.
Never ever admit that you can hit a woman for whatever reason even if she hits you first.

Your position should be that upon provocation you would diffuse the situation or walk away. That shows that you have self control which is a trait any woman would prefer because they know that they can get out of line one day and they would need you to be the bigger man to diffuse the situation or walk away.

The way you said you would retaliate against a woman who hit you, made you seem like someone who would not hesitate to assault a woman physically if she ever gets out of line by hitting you. She will never feel safe with you. Hence her withdrawal.

I suggest you apologise and change your
position. Assure her that you now understand how your words may have come across.

Tell her that you will make sure that you will never make her mad to the extent that she will hit you and that God forbid if that happens, you will with love and maturity diffuse the situation or walk away.

God bless you!!!

I'm very sure if he said he would end the relationship (which is even the best thing to do ) She would have been okay with that.

irumanle:
Nairalanders make una com see over educated illiterate.

She's not an educated illiterate, she's a very smart one and correct too.

She's rather seeing you in a different way. If she hits you, walk away and end the relationship . She said she can't and won't which means there's no possiblity of that ever happening with her, you on the other end have that possiblity in you. She's a smart lady, she's not justifying violence she's expecting a different response which will show the impossibility of that ever happening.

I like her.

I use days or months to process an offense then react after I'm certain. It's a crazy loop

Hasty generalization. Some GenZ are more accomplished, productive and well behaved than some millennials or fossils.

People should leave him oooooo

This is very tricky. I don't check but that doesn't mean I won't if I need to. If you are giving me reasons to I will definitely check.

folake4u:
You can't please Nigerian men.

I tell you.

folake4u:
Gullible people ehn. 😂😂😂😂

Imagine she was hanging out with portable they would have come for her head big time

Dagger111:
This Kora sef no small o.

She's not small because she's hanging out with father to a popular figure? Chai.
Nigerians

So women should not be financially stable before marriage? Okay

*sprinkle holy water on thread*

nathpope:
IF SHE'S THREATENING YOU WITH A DIVORCE because OF THIS...BE SURE SHE HAS BEEN PUTTING UP WITH YOU ALL THIS WHILE AND WAITING FOR THE OPPORTUNITY TO GET WAT SHE WANTED.

YOU MESSED UP BUT IF YOUR MESS IS NOT UP TO YOUR FRAGRANCE.. SHE NO SUPPOSE GO DAT FAR AS A DIVORCE

OR HAVE YOU NOT BEEN LIVING UP TO EXPECTATIONS AS A HUSBAND ALL THIS WHILE??

IF YES... THEN THERE IS MORE TO MEET THE EYE THAN YOU THINK..

Lol... I like as you stylishly turn the table around and made the victim the villain. Kunduns to you sir.

How is this news and why is it on fp nitori olorun

There are some things one shouldn't see on a public forum in this time and age. This thread is one of them.

Men are Hot Cakes ... Pele oooo lad Wey Andrew found how many people you don feed with your hot cake?

pocohantas:
Some day I will be able to solve this Maths.





Another coignitive dissonance.
When they want to make a woman endure, they claim thr next man would cheat.

Let one IG girl say all men are 🐕🐕🐕 and watch them cry. Yet it it the sterotype they promote all to paint every man like their irresponsible selves.

We will give you Nobel prize if you solve it o. I don't understand why the value something that doesn't benefit them so much


Like I view people who say or type such as mentally unstable lot. I can't fathom the logic behind it.

yemmit90:
Your cousin don't love her husband or probably being keeping plan B before the incidence. Women don't divorce their husbands because of cheating except she is tired of the marriage before.

Women in their subconscious minds knows that men are polygamous by nature, the ones that left only use it as an excuse to quit the marriage.

I'm very sure Op had this mindset until his wife mentioned divorce. E go choke all of you. Don't worry there will be enough space of Seu.ns platform to accommodate more than enough threads like Op's.

Someone is showing his wife death warrant you talk dey talk LOVE. Y'all don't get it at all.

Polygamous in nature ko, polytheistic in nature ni

pocohantas:
The greatest undoing is to be single.
Better a wandering-an-inch-away-from-HIV-husband, than be single. 😩😩😩😩

Ahhhh
These guys can make one think marriage is more precious than Life itself. People who don't benefit from marriage o.

richie240:
Fixed!

In their childish minds, they think re-marrying
is like replacing a damaged battery at computer village.

Las-las, she'll end up becoming a side chick and be cheating with another woman husband- doing to another woman the same thing that made her leave her own husband.

Or Las las she could end up with a very wise man who prioritize his health and family. Do all men cheat? Must she end up with a Nigerian man?

You all imagine the worst of yourselves but cry when another says the worst about you.

You took the drugs and hid them from your wife whom you had probably got intimate with right after the lady. Do you even care about your wife's safety at all? If your suspicions were right do you know you could have passed the virus to your wife and while it to develop in her . Crazy part you will still get intimate with her. Some of you try to be smart but you are not wise.

The greatest undoing that can happen to a woman is to be with a cheating man. An unintelligent/selfish one at that .

ediko5:
Because the screenshot Cleary defines you and your current predicament

I would have argued or agreed with your postulation but I didn't read the screenshot to do that.

You are fighting yourself

ediko5:
See my response to you

I don't read screenshots sorry

You sound pained.

I can't believe someone would spend time to articulate and write gossip about another online.

This one too go join dey ask submission . Chai

Na inside well this one go lead person daughter ooo

GO AND MARRY