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slap1: You need a translator more than anyone, if that is your definition of "lucid" English.

LOL! Sorry, never knew the dude was typing in arabic from your perception.

slap1: Could you please write in English?

Brother, we also have a translator to translate that lucid English for you, if you don't mind asking for it.

I KILL: Is it all d results dat r out? Cos mine is pending

Keep trying it,bro! Probably tomorrow.

We need 2013/2014 cut-off marks for respective departments,pls!

kaboninc: I believe from your post, you have a good command of oral English. However I'll advice you slow down and wait until you have an experience. Then you'll know that 'ideal' only works in theory but never in practicals!

I appreciate!

It'll make pretty good sense,if you can express your point by illustrating your EXPERIENCE,to realistically justify your belief. Dont you think?

kaboninc: Most times or infact all the time, you don't need to argue. Make your point and die the issue. What most guys fail to realise is that in arguing with a woman, she unconsciously wants you to end it for your own good!

Remember,this is about agreement. The durability of the argument would depend on her pesistence as regards to her own idea,which she would want you to conform to.

We've been talking about the idea of a lady being argued about all this while. How about that of the guy? A case where the guy yields a profound and valuable idea,and the lady,probably outta ignorance opposses it. I believe that it is required of the guy to convince(involves an argument) the ignorant lady on real issues on ground. Now,if she appears to be adamant(quite unpleasant),I think the guy should go ahead with his plans. That doesnt mean the lady has WON after the argument.

EyesWideOpen: God, this thread reeks of unbelief!

Everybody believes in one thing or the other. Only the dead are void of beliefs.

alaric saltzman: No-one is talking abt love here but ow to talk 2 gals...majority of dem wanna talk 2 us and even give us signals...that's y dis timidness and random thoughts come along...but wen u av money...self confidence just comes like if dis one doesn't agree, d next 1 will...it now depends on ow u play ur game once 2 talk 2 her 2 determine d next step

To contrast your line of thought;what about those who do not have enough money as you think?? No girls??

I think 'money' in your ideology is trivial in what is needed to give a guy courage to successfully talk to a girl he feels for, and win her heart.

Atheist:-D:
I bet most ladies know how nervy we men get when we want to approach a lady. I had a funny experience ages ago in London. I was walking and I saw this hot chick approaching, she was really nice. I was so lost in thought contemplating if I should approach her and what tactic to use that I missed a step, kicked a brick and fell flat on the floor ... right in front of her . Needless to say she helped me up, dusted me off a bit, giggled a lot and I was able to get her number through some sympathy .

The moral is, we dont need to die to summon up the courage to talk to them, we just need to do the damn deed.

..... Hilarious!

I must say you were damn lucky to have met such a noble and kind type. What if she were a grumpy and egoistic type? I wonder what would have been the scenerio.

kaboninc: Ok dear. What it means is that: arguing with a woman is time and resources wasting. In their nature, they want nothing and everything. So you may end up conceding to their demands or you man up! They always get what they want. So its either you delay it or you ignore it or you give it immediately.

Like in your analogy, if I decide to lock up or man up, she can nag for all I care my decision is made and there's no reason for any arguments. By the way what's your experience like? I don't mean theory but practical experiences?

Well,I think I've had it with cantankerous types. Firstly,I look into ideas realistically before carrying out discernment. I always try as much as possible to make em realise how awful a particular negative idea of theirs can be.

More also,I only conform to the ideas of a lady, if they're moral and sound. I can even take forever to convince(argue with) a lady on her awful ideas,if I LOVE her,rather than snubbing or ignoring her(doesnt sound cool to me). To ignore the issue would be left for her.

They will tell you that their god is perfect. . .if you tell them to tell you how, they will start crying and speaking english. . .[/quote]Are you an infidel??

Uyi Iredia: By, concrete evidence do you mean a manifestation of God or or spirit beings (angels, demons, ghosts) as documented in the Bible ?

Have you told your parents you are an atheist, if so, what was their reaction ?

What course are you studying ?

lol! I also had such questions in mind. From his first post,he said that his mum told him that God is mysterious.

alaric saltzman: Make money! Boldness usually comes wiv it!!!

Cool ideology! You also dont have to forget the fact that MONEY cant buy LOVE. Its not just about summoning courage to express your feelings;its also about realistically winning the girl's heart.


And I must put that we have rich guys who still lack the guts to express their emotions properly to a girl they LOVE.

Atheist:-D:
Concisely put. There is little to add. But the initial approach requires a lot of forethought... and there is always a very small time window to get in there (assuming the lady is worth it).

Affirmative! I just cant imagine what LOVE would look like,if humans can read minds. Lol!


However,since humans cant read minds,a lot are left to play to maintain the durability and animation of LOVE in our lives. Knowledge and experience seem to have a great part to play in those things.

kaboninc: You're just so unnecessarily funny! Did you read my post very well? Pls read again before commenting. Thank you! If your babe ask you for 85% of your total funds and you decide to tell her how impossible it will be to you with points to go for your decision, do you still need further arguments? She'll either agree with you or she won't and it will depend on how you drive the issue. What if she insists? Will you give in? Or you'll drive your points and LEAVE while you claim to be a man? She'll definitely win 'to her' but its you who will 'act'. Pls read again. As I said, its my world and my painful experiences! Thank you once more.

Ow bro,this is 'argument' we're talking about. You're now tryna paint the fallacious idea with an illogical point. For the fact that the guy has refuted the crazy lady's request(of course I know you're aware that crazy ladies exist),an argument has been triggered. Making the lady acknowledge the impossiblity of you dashing her 85% of your funds despite her adamant ego on that issue still speaks of argument,refusing to conform to any idea of a lady with explications is just an argument. C'mon bro,I want you to look pretty deep into the ideas behind that quote of yours: "NEVER ARGUE WITH A LADY,COS SHE'LL ALWAYS WIN".

kaboninc: Well its my world and experiences not yours. Have a swell day.

O yeah,your world of choice,I know. Not until some crazy lady probably asks her boyfriend to give(not borrow o) her 85% of the feeds in his bank account,I'll then know if your idea still remains valid: "NEVER ARGUE WITH A LADY,COS SHE'LL ALWAYS WIN". Unless na juju things you dey talk. lol!

Atheist:-D:
Not in a long time. I did when I was younger

You just have to work through such stuff. Be bold and man up.

LOL! Right. Being bold is one thing,but I think there're some other things that should be considered before approaching a lady for emotional expression. We have noble and sincere ladies who take relationships from a level to another (ie),they dont rush into things. You might rush into a girl who sees the relationship between you both as nuetral,hence raising a red flag. All this is about modesty.

kaboninc: This thread is still alive and kicking? *dont mind Nigerians for the way they ask questions*. I think I've missed a lot but do I regret it....maybe not. To all the dolls in the house, its Sunday and don't forget to wear that beautiful smile not just in your face but in your heart. To the dudes, pls and pls and pls.....do not argue with the dolls. Never argue with a woman....make your point(s) known to her but never argue because she'll ALWAYS WIN! Have a swell day guys! #mymessagefortoday#

ARANT NONSENSE!! "never argue with a woman,cos SHE'LL ALWAYS WIN". Dude,you're so so wrong to have dropped such a fallacious idea!!

sunnydayasaba: I sure will let u know how she reacts when i finally Pop d question, I jst pray i dnt get a hot slap for being too late...Lol

How about a hot slap for being too early?? Lol!!

Atheist:-D:
So how does one grow these... errr... cojones?

Thats what the thread is meant for. Share your feelings,if at all you do fumble in dealing with a girl you LOVE,and have fellas help you out.

Alright guys! To y'all who don't have the guts to express yourself to a girl you LOVE,come over here and share your feelings,and have others who are skillful build your cojones. IRON SHARPENETH IRON!


You wouldn't wanna lose your love outta feebleness and shyness. Time waits for no one. The more you delay,the more your love drifts away from you and probably fall into the hands of another.

mazaje: From the evil bible website it says. . . .

"Let us suppose that this perfect God did create the universe. Humans were the crown of his creation, since they were created in God's image and have the ability to make decisions. However, these humans spoiled the original perfection by choosing to disobey God.

What!? If something is perfect, nothing imperfect can come from it. Someone once said that bad fruit cannot come from a good tree, and yet this "perfect" God created a "perfect" universe which was rendered imperfect by the "perfect" humans. The ultimate source of imperfection is God. What is perfect cannot become imperfect, so humans must have been created imperfect. What is perfect cannot create anything imperfect, so God must be imperfect to have created these imperfect humans. A perfect God who creates imperfect humans is impossible."

I think God is imperfect!

Abu Mikey: 08157628275 BBM:316EA2B5

Young man. A lot more will benefit you excluding what you've filled your mind with. Thought you were kinda playing pranks about the issue,never knew you were in for a funny catch,hence dropping your personal details.

Ask yourself this question "what exactly is my intention of seeking people's opinions as regards my look on nairaland?". Your above post kinda depicts the intentions to show off and make female catchs. Lol!

fifa456n: None, taken, but it still stands, is there a good evidence for an existence of God.

Trust me bro,your mum was evidently right when she told you that God is mysterious. The theists and atheists are rather speculating fictitiously.

striktlymi: Lack of scientific evidence does not disprove the existence of something or anything...

Consider a situation where a young lady goes missing and some persons speculate that this lady might have been killed because she has been missing for over 20 years and all efforts to get the police to locate her prove abortive...

Do we now draw the conclusion that she is alive or dead because we have insufficient evidence to prove our case? Without a body there is no way we can tell if this lady is alive or dead...

I don't know if you understand where I am heading with the above but the bottom line here is that inconclusive evidence is not enough to disprove the existence of anything.



Christians are not Atheists to other gods...Christians believe in the existence of other deities apart from the God we choose to serve...we do not deny this fact. Atheists on the other hand deny the existence of any deity.

I am cool when an Atheist tells me that he refuse to believe my claim of a God but I find it a bitter pill to swallow when the Atheist in denying my claim makes a claim of his own in the process.

If I say there is God (a claim) and an Atheist says there is no God (a counter claim) then that Atheist must prove his claim o, since he wants me to prove mine.

Since you're cool with the belief of an atheist,and would like him/her to back his claim up with factual proofs. I think a possible atheist would also demand that you present eal proofs to validate your own claim.

obadiah777: MY STANCE ? I HAVE NO STANCE. HOW CAN THE CREATURE QUESTION THE CREATOR ? <<<<< THATS MY STANCE

Lol! The creature ain't questioning the creator. The creature is rather questioning itself with respect to the features of the creator.

obadiah777: BUT YOU ERR. THE BIBLE IS WRITTEN AS AN EXPRESSIVE AND INQUISITIVE NATURE OF GOD SO THAT THE READER CAN GET AN IDEA OF WHY CERTAIN DECISIONS ARE BEEN MADE. HOWEVER IN REALITY HE DOES NOT ASK HIMSELF THOSE QUESTIONS OR HAVE ANY DOUBTS. ALL HE DOES IS ACTIONS AND REACTIONS. YOU SIN YOU PAY FOR IT. ACTIONS AND CONSEQUENCES. HOWEVER IF WRITTEN IN THAT CONTEXT IT WILL BE VERY STRAIGHT TO THE POINT AND TOO DIRECT. ITS A WORK OF POETRY IF YOU WILL. SEE TO FULLY BE ABLE TO GRASP THE COMPREHENSIVE RICHNESS OF THE BIBLE IN ALL ITS FACET, YOU NEED TO APPROACH IT LIKE A CHILD AND WITH AN OPEN MIND. THAT IS YOUR OBSTACLE AS WELL AS MANY PEOPLE

"...like a child(open minded)". More like naive and blindfolded. Hmmm, everybody ponders on issues,be it trivial or worthwhile. Kids do,even dummies do;consequently,that doesn't invalidate the question. You can't serve someone you don't know properly. You have to know about the entire features and characteristics of someone before giving him a profound service. As a result,God's features ought to be known to its profundity.


Remember,you still haven't made known to us your stance as regards this issue.

I was anticipating an ingeniously sophisticated philosopher,who happens to be an atheist;only to come meeting our OP who hasnt become well grounded on the realities of life. He even went further to stand to answer questions on religion philosophy.

Op,your points are flimsy,no offence.

striktlymi: Morning guy,

Why do you think the passage above undermines the perfection of God?

striktlymi: Morning guy,

Why do you think the passage above undermines the perfection of God?

I must suppose you have insights to comprehend the ideas a given bible passage conveys. From the passage,God was palpably said to have grieved and repented to have created man,due to the fickle attitude of man all of a sudden.

God created man to look like him and be good(Genesis 1:30);unfortunately things never turned out to God's expectation. His creation(Man) suddenly bacame bad,which is a probable flaw.

I couldn't stop pondering on this widely spread belief,after going through a bible passage that tends to contrast God's perfection:

"And GOD saw that the wickedness of man was great in the earth, and that every imagination of the thoughts of his heart was only evil continually. And it repented the LORD that he had made man on the earth, and it grieved him at his heart. And the LORD said, I will destroy man whom I have created from the face of the earth; both man, and beast, and the creeping thing, and the fowls of the air; for it repenteth me that I have made them." (Genesis 6:5-7).

God was grieved after realising some sort of flaw in his creation. His plans didn't manifest as he intended,hence his deep disappointment.

This is pretty much something one should logically look into,so as to ascertain the validity of his/her conviction.