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igb400:
Good morning everyone, want to say thank for this great support group, u mamas helped me alot.

Join me in thanking God, on the 8th Jan I held my princess in my arms. Though tru cs am very happy. Team jan...wish u all safe delivery. all the pushing mamas the Lord is your strength. Pls enjoy ur sleep now oh, cos baby dey different time zone.

I wake up to see joy dis morning. Congrats oo

@kingsdaughter, as long as there is life, you will remain on top. All I am grateful for is dat u re fertile nd full of children. Ah ah, no shaking... Many more will surround ur table very soon. 9 Months from now no too far na...abi?

It is well with u and ur family. To ur Oga: I beg after madam don rest finish,, halele 24/7 Kpekusism oooo. Keep smiling, we re here and God is above. You are not alone ok,

mytestimony:
Kaffy4bill thanks alot
Prouddad thanks
Infact thanks all.
At least I am calmer now. The coldin this town is something else o.
Please doct said I need to be eating more. He asked if I hav

No shaking, na Baba God get all power. The hearts of kings are in His hands... never forget that. To Him alone be all glory.
Keep smiling.

@haemi The only thing that comes to my mind is this: If you are a Christian and love your baby, FIRST BEFORE ANYTHING....carry your Holy Bible, open it and place it on your belly. Then talk to God about what you want for your child, and afterwards talk to your baby. He will hear you. God's Word (Jesus Christ) will touch your child and I am positive your smile will be complete on your next visit to the doctors.

Have Faith, be strong and wave not. Look up to Heaven, for when men fail, God doesnt fail. May His Will be done upon you.

haemi:
pls I've been diagnosed with severe oligohydramnious and the doctor wants to terminate the pregnancy though the baby is still alive. please I need your help and suggestions.

First it is prayers and prayers. How soon is the termination? There is nothing God can't do, except if it His will that it be so. I am joining u in prayers. reply

This is the type of backwards mentality that has crippled the country, why should anyone be blamed at all? A child is a child for goodness sake ughhh!!

I think we shouldn't blame anyone. As per the gender of children, men decides that when it comes to the genealogical makeup of the child.

Make una leave our women jare. Come see how women dey hussle for market places so husbds nd kids go chop, she go stil come, enter kitchen for midnight. how many men go do am?

women deserve praise.

mytestimony:
I am in d hospital. De hv taken samples of urine and blood. I am waiting for the results
Bp is 100/70
Doctor checked baby is fine and doing gymnastics

@mytestimony CORRECT BABY!!! Amen to that. make e dey run 4/40 for inside belle... we de wait 4am. You too wil be fine. Glory be to God.

proudmom38:
Lol my sister d humble no be small o,una do well u hear.

Abi my sister.... e don tay wey i dey tell am say she need that ..Kpe-k" "sing.. lubricant, she no hear. Wen madam just de form harsh 4 Oga, de do funny-funny, ah dear Husbd supoz know watsapp na. This 2nd Semester na fire fire na. You too much. May ur eyes of understanding never grow dim.

kaffy4bill:
It happens even sum men have postpartum depression like women. Its all our relationship and hormones in play. God b wit us all

Eheyyyyy thanks. Now i understand. Afterall, na we dey put d LOs for there now. Ah - Ah, if only moms will allow dads to enjoy all the fruits nd nutritious beverages too naaaa... because na only Wifey de chop dem...(de go sa na baby wan chop am). Wayo people. hahaha

But do you know I sometimes wonder why Husbds have symptoms of pregnancy too... I have it: from sleeping, tiredness, even pains in my nipples too....na whaooooo. my proudmom don laff me tire na.

I dont know if other husbds here get similar experiences sha ooo. If u consider all dez tings, u know say na our work big pass ooo. It is well oo

kaffy4bill:
Ope ooo, nite was gud oo, madam, tanx so much too. Make she rest well and take lots of fluid, the waist pain go go and u too shld help wit lil massage. Proudmom, no do anytin for house 2day oo, ur reward is strict bed rest and u wil b duly attended to.. love u all

@kaffy4bill I don de handle the waist already. trust me na. in fact that special fuel / moral don come to go buy my baby tings. U too much jare. at least this Semester don begin well ...... all tanks to d mamas

mytestimony:
My last appointment was 14th of december and was given next ap for 14th of january. I did not do a urine test o. Infact the urine test had last to to check for UTI and I was treated afterwards. My BP was 110/60. That is how is has been o. I have called my doctor he said I should come by 8.30 so I am preparing. Please I just hope there is no problem o. God be with us. We shall all carry to term

@mytestimony Talk to God before u see the Doc. Know it is well. Nothing can happen to a destined child. full term na ur own. 1st, 2nd, and 3rd Semesters go complete in Jesus Name. Amen.

kaffy4bill:
Sori dearie, it's allowed to wake them once in a while jare. Did u?.. it's well

Our nite vigil still de come once our LO arrives. For now, mak una de let us sleep ooo. How was ur nite na??

@ kaffy4bill, @pjthatcher, @clinik, @beedam.... This Dad is proud today!!! Morning to all loving, encouraging, and beautiful mamas, nd energetic dadies in the house. I know say una nite sweet cookehhhhh. Well sha, I bet una go like wan hear as my nite be.... o boyyyyyy, in fact, she took me to the Paradise of paradisessssss.

All of una thank you ooooo. If no be una, alarm for quench man pikin ooo. In fact, e be like say dis 2nd Semester (aka trimester) to sweet well-well. But madam say waist dey do am pori-pori ooo.

We hope to make today enjoyable and educating for us all. Please be free to bring up ur concerns and lets help us all get along.

A Happy Day to you all.

mytestimony:
Please I need your help urgently oh. I am almost going crazy here o. At least before I can go and see the doctor. I woke up this morning and my lips are swollen
When I say swollen I mean swollen. Like someone who had a botched lip job. I can barely raise d upper lip
It is very heavy. What could be wrong. I look diff. I looked in the mirror and I could swear this is not me its another person

hmmmm well i dont know much about this, wen my experienced women comes on, u sure will get a reply. I trust them. But in all, no fears, cos pregnancy is kinda funny sometimes.

omankem:
@proudmom38 nd lovinam thanks for ur quick response nd Amen to ur prayers. Yea I saw AF last oct 27. Am tinking of waiting till 12wks b4 going 4 anoda scan at anoda scan center. I jst pray nd believe evrytin is fyne wit my baby.

No shaking, everything will go well in God's power. Trust Him alone and go for the goal. na Congratulation be ur portion. May God keep you.

babyoku1:
Very funny posts, I have been laughing since I started reading this kpekusing thing. My colleagues in the office will be wondering while I have been laughing.....5 kposas to everyone.
I am 16weeks, it has not been easy especially during the first trimester. I have never been to hell but it was like I was near it. I thank God that trimester is over and I am better.

Martosin212
please give your wife some time especially as she is still in the 1st trimester (12 wks) she is still not completely free from miscarriage. you can have her as much as you want from 2nd trimester but you also need to discuss it with her so that she can see reasons why she needs
to give in to your demands. IT IS NOT EASYOOOOOO, PREGNANCY NA ANOTHER WORLD.

@babyoku1:: martosin212 = Prouddad38 ... Well ehnnn I know say na another world, but na we dey the world 2gether. In fact, sometimes I get so lazy and sleep all day like a pregnant woman, while Wifey bounces around. Come see where she dey laff me na...hmmm say na 50/50 job.

@kaffy4bill say 2nd Semester (aka trimester) na from next week.... o boy no dulling. At least man go take am eazy na. hahahahahahah

@ EverybodyInTheHouse.... hmmmmm at last e be like say tomorrow na tomorrow na testimony day for Prouddad38 oooo. proudmom38 just dey smileeee. But i hope say man pikin no go run dis nite o, wen dem handle am. hmmm.

Before I forget, Mamas pls help complete the list of baby things for me, una know say na me mommy say e go do d shopping.

Thanks to all.

kaffy4bill:
Na only u waka cum now oo@proudmom. Wat has d scan next week got to do wit u starving my brother, be careful ooo else I wil com and hang dose ur two legs up for him...
Oya, enuf of shakara, na beg I dey beg, help him u hear, he wwil take u out and do the baby shopping,.. u hear.. one love sis

@kaffy4bill:: Infact for those words, i declare that whatever ur Oga dey find this year, he go get am in abundance. Alarm wan kill man pikin, well i dey hope dis nite sha. Dis kind weather na, man supoz relax wit Wifey na. no be small fun here.

Well, anyone wey e get any issue should raise it so we all help out together, as we joke along on real life facts.

Smilesssss

proudmom38:
why u dey give am hand nah? Dis 1 no be oro omo o,na oro iyolenu.

@kaffy4bill Infact, I call it Semester...hahaha. That Semester na my own. na wire upon fire e go be. Abi I no go give my baby the blessings of a Father?? she dey here una jare, but i dey hope say dis nite go work sha. She don dey smile small small....

Three Gboza!!! for all the mamas whey dey fee us daddy;s. Na the oil wey man tak dey waka be dat tin ooo.

kaffy4bill:
We r on d same page jare sis. Tell them ooo.. else I wil start coming to all ur houses and hand ur legs up for ogas. Operation no more denying them of their marital rites..

@kaffy4bill Na true u talk jare. e be like say i go need ur help for dis one ooo... body dey hot no be small. My baby need the natural body cream from daddy, but mommy says nooooo. Well, Im happy the room is laughing and easing the worries nd pains of some of us here.

As a man, my Wifey brought me here to jinja all the mamas unto victorious delivery. Being with u all mamas is home.

Keep the room happy as we help us all with our knowledge and encouragement.

Anyways, Prouddad38 still dey on his knees b4 mom38 oooo.

corrall:
Okay mamas and papas, enough with the kpekus story and lets try to focus on what brought us here.

someone has asked an important question above but no one has had the time to contribute.

Kaffy, please help out as we can all learn from any response.

thanks.

@imurboss: I think it may be out of stress, but if not, and its early pregnancy, you should try not to bend too much while working. Instead, try to sit often. The only thing is that if the pain persists, you should see the Doctor before your appointment due date. Just do yourself to take good care of yourself. Na watin I learn from my sweet wifey be dat oooo.

All the best.

Kimoni:
A big shout out to all the moms and dads here. I have been a silent follower for some months now but proudad and Proudmum brought me out of my quiet closet. You guys make me smile. Same with Clinik and Sammie. Pls I am also begging on behalf of the dads. After seeing Proudmom's pix, I understand perfectly what proudad has been going through - not with the sexy smile and gown who would wish for it every hr?? Biko, Proudmum and clinik, make una do something!

God bless you all real good.

@Kimoni : in fact, you come out well. Im happy u understand watin dey burst my dada. In fact, now i understand why our Maker says "two shall be ONE FLESH..." I no fit let my sweet wifey travel for 1 day. I no risk am. You women are wonderfully made.

I don tell am say na every year belle now ooo. I mean wen e never enter, she no fine as she dey now. I still dey beg am oooo mak she giv me ooo. Oga de hungry oooo

sammieone:
@proudDad and Beedam....u can't imagine what just happen...but if u want to guest you won't be far from the truth.
But I did some home work before its possible...lol
We are home today for some reason...

@sammieone My guy keep it goingggggg... notin do you. Take ur time jare. na u get am, do anyhow no wahalla.

Hernyolar:
Ahahaaa,dear wifey...this is seductive now...haba...I hereby sentence you to 3nights per week of sweet kpekusing..

Oga,abeg use all dos ur tactics too now..(I won't mention them)..am sure she'll be d one begging u 4d 'do' sef..

I rest my case

@Hernyolar : My people she una see watin i dey face ooo. Wifey dey burst my dada day nd nite o. Oga tank don full dey trow-way. hmmm e go better. one day soon e go reach man hand. I wan mak una still judge.

@Hernyolar : Today go better for u oooo. u do well.

Hernyolar:
Hello mama's..hw una dey o??aos d pushing ministry?
34weeks n stil pushing..make Feb come jare,am really looking to see that lil cu
tie in there ..You can only imagine how I daydream trying to pick out the baby's face..cant wait jare..


@martins n Samie..una sorry o...
But seriously,I stil dey kpekus like thrice a week oo...and I dnt feel any pains..my dh says am stil a 'cat' in bed even at 34weeks oo..

Ladies,I think we should be considerate..@least once a week...most women look more attractive in pregnancy,that's why husbands cant resist their wives..we shdnt starve our husbands.

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Trust me,it ain't easy for a married man to stay celibate for 9mths right beside his wife...abeg..{not even when she's more at
tractive and 'sexy'}..u shd remember dey av to go on a compu
lsory strike fr 6weeks minimum wen d baby comes..
Chai...all dis men,una supose pay me o,see me as I dey do advocate

As per using olive oil n spirit to clean the tits..I use the natural way o(winks)..I don't even need to squeeze before it starts leaking..

@hajarhbadmus..hw u doing? My phone is faulty..pls drop ur mobile no in my mail..

Sorry for the long post..

Hope you all are having a great day.

clinik:
Oga Martosin,good morning.... How was your nyt? u pple and Dis kpekus tin,yesterday after u and your partner don discuss finish na so he begin touch me I first lock up,as I see say e don dey pass my power na so I push am... You wanna wot he did next he went to carry one of my gown and wear it overnyt,DAT instead of him to be missing me and I will not agree to his term DAT he will rather wear my cloth and not miss me... I just lock up

@clinik : Oh no naaaaa, u no know say once our wifey get belle Oga tanks dey quick full na so we see am ooo.. Abeg make u giv am. na my fellow man o. no worry e go take u out buy u ice cream. I tell u as it is now, ask him anytin and e go do am one time for kpekusing dis nite.

I beg put smile for im face.

sammieone:
@beedam u too much. Na DW gown I wear overnight. Na that one make me look up, I felt she will consider after seeing open Demostration...
I got our baby things from Lagos (oshodi 2 be precise) by bringing it to abj whr we stay no easy.
As per baby things... BaBy Drawer, Bed, Pampers(Huggies or any affordable one), Clothes, Towel, Toys, shawl, olive oil, metholated spirit, Nightygale towel, baby bag, baby carrier, cloth drainer, detergent, Jik, bathing baff, Dettoil, Baby Basket, Baby wiper etc..the list is much but you can buy them gradually...
All the best. I know mamas will add others.

@sammieone : Thanks u are the man. That must have made madam happy tru d nite..hahah. I will keep dis list, as i expect more from the mamas.

proudmom38:
When i reach dat bridge i go cross am my sister Lol,but i go try consider dh after my scan next week make person no faint 4 my hand Lol.

@proudmom38 haba haba Next Week?? heyyy man pikin don suffer. Baby, mommy, Sweety, Darling, my tomato peri-peri, my chokolate pie, my ebony beauty, my sunshine, my heart-rob, make Jerusalem allow Oga na... I go take u out u hear...

beedam:
No way sir, she can't send you message until she cooperate for that area. i dey your side for this one. Wey cardboard sef cos Na to carry placard remain for you. You need something to high your morale for the baby shopping. Abi ?

I no know watin i go buy for baby things ooo... Somebody please help with a list as my wifey says i must do the shopping myself. No be small duty i enter oo. this na full time occupation for me na. Na e make i run come here ooo.

But madam must buy my Kpekusing Fuel...na the energy and moral be dat. hhahaha

beedam:
Our darling deputy president. Thanks jare. Amen to the prayer. Please meet with president to tell you how he coped from 6th week till almost 39weeks. Because that ur wiffy dey stubborn. The funniest thing is she doesn't know you are trying to help her to clear the place. Is it until when she starts to see cobweb for there? No vex jare.
I ve referred her to a ministry which I believe will assist her.

@beedam You trust na. No be where i dey that place go be without clearing na. but at least mak she allow me na. Man don beg tire. Oga be dey hope last nite... hmmmm no way ooo. my prayers continues today now. I dey hope.

proudmom38:
No be small sand o

Oga always ready to finish work ooo. no dulling. Na watin man meet for life na, man must finish am. No 4get say na both husby and Wifey decide am oooo.