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Erimusk:
can you suggest any hustle? I used to have a salon around ugbowo axis of Benin but because of lack of sincerity from employees I have to close it down

Face it, you are not ready. You should stop acting like a woman that only operate emotionally and see what is right in front of you.
Your feelings is not important here the facts are.
Love will die when you have children that are hungry, a wife that will spend most of her time working overtime to supplement the little or nothing you will bring forward.
What is love when you can't provide for your family and live up to your responsibilities as a man of the house?

Only marry when you are ready, women have a different biological clock, that's a fact. But if LOVE is what that is controlling you, then by all means marry her, borrow money (or if possible swindle people to get the money), and make your fantasies come true and live happily ever after.

These people are no longer hiding their corruption, they think we are stupid, how do you explain Dangote refinery that was built from scratch?

Knowing what I know now, I believe it's the corrupt elites that introduced this Zoning nonsense.
You would think highly enlightened people (which they claim to be) will only seek the BEST candidate qualified for the job.

uchkochi:
Most men after marriage realise that its their mistress they actually love. They discover that too late. The wife stops trying to win her man after marriage. The truth is men love to be seduced. After marriage and child birth women call their husband Papa John while side chicks call them baby.

Most men cherish women that will give them good f-ukc and peace, it's that simple.
Most side chicks play these part very well even if it's a script

codedgalaxy:
See am , I no just care if this thread get comment or not but I just wan para small for this space .
The wan wey dey vex me pass be say,
There was a thread I created not too long, about how somehow creation was kind of rigged to favour more of the female folks than of the male folks, and as usual my argument didn't sit well with some people.
Who took it as joke, this people were of the opinion that if someone had it easier in life, it was the male gender that had it easier.
Further, they emphasized that while the male folks can giggle about sowing their wild oats like a broken tractor with no brakes, the female folks were the ones to bear the brunt of things, should things go south.
I was somehow trying to find reason in their argument, till they made mention of "menstrual pains" and shits. damn!!
This was where I lost it totally. Like common, how do you bring up menstrual pains to this matter .
Like how dare you talk about a common pain you experience in a day or two, to man's payload of abundant pains.
An average man walks about with great amount of unfathomable pain and weight around his neck. For, he bares not only his own burden but that of his wife/girlfriend,simblings, and parents as well.
Without so much as a small slice of emphaty nor sympathy towards him.
Fvck it mehn' a you kidding ng me. a woman going through her fvcking menstrual whatever, has the sympathy and care of her man and that of the people around her. In fact she makes it known to everyone , and by that draws the affection, attention, and special treatments. Same thing with pregnant women..

Which begs the question,
Why do women think they have it hard?

Simple,
They do this because there is Power in Victimhood.

Faithings:
They ought to be paid much much oh. How will I dance ³/₄ naked for someone to make money to the glaring eyes of the whole world and not be paid well, I mean well.

They offer a take-it-or-leave-it contract, most people take the contract, some people don't believe in the implications, they believe it's a fun job.

Faithings:
Artists are well endowed with wealth, but is it also the case with video vixens? Has anyone known a well to do and popular video vixen. It seems their roles in the background of the main and performing artist also relegates them in reality. Or am I wrong?

They get paid for their performance, I doubt they get any bonuses even if the song does well commercially.

It goes both ways

Valoromega:
I've been married for a while now and I have a daughter.

My wife and I has always had issues, anytime issues arise her first reaction is to leave the marriage.

She has said this several time and u cautioned her about the statement because I don't like it ( she's making it seem she's doing me a favor by marrying me)

So last week we got into an issue because of my younger sister who I gave money to for her store rent, my wife found out about it and was very angry, she said that I gave my sister money without informing her and that she needed Money I refused to give her ( I gave her 150k Dat same day to change her Clothes).
She also accused me of cheating which was not true, she said she very young and fresh and she can go outside anytime.

She had once told me that she had cheated on her boyfriend with another guy once when she was in school because the boyfriend was misbehaving.

So I thought about everything and the fact that she continuously accuses me of being a bad husband, and abusive husband ( I've never hit her before) and that she was tired of the marriage.

So I'm thinking of calling her father and collecting the bride price I paid for her because I'm tired of the whole thing

A wise person once said
"Better to live in the Wilderness, than to live with a CONTENTIOUS WOMAN"

These are the types that will stink down there.

It's fools like this guy that makes me believe the women calling men dogs have a case.

DaddyCoool:
It WILL make front page entirely because of ME. I'm the only one spicing up the discussion by posting the counterpoint.
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But there is nothing people won't debate o. It is sooo obvious that nature is rigged against women. Infact it's almost as if women were intentionally designed to be slaves to men.
(I was just thinking, a man can rape or satisfy himself with a woman whether the woman wants to or not. A woman can't do so with a man - if the man is not aroused no fucking would be going on!)

Men make the world go round, without them you start going extinct.

Fineman2:
coming from a typical trump's supporter

What happened to you guys being the party of tolerance, diversity and INCLUSIVITY?

BlindAngel:
Good evening Nairalanders, few months ago I posted here regarding how my wife forced me into marriage that I wasn't in anyway ready for because she got pregnant. I posted about the regret I'm still battling until date, because the love isn't there from my own end and I'm also not in anyway attracted to her physically. I have told her severally that I want to option out of the marriage and not doing again but until date she has refused to let me go.

Back to the main point, my wife lost her dad this morning. Her deceased dad has two wife's and several concubines that gave birth to lots of children, my wife doesn't know some of her half brothers and sisters.

So I went to their family house this morning to console them. The eldest son of the family (her half brother) told me and another in law that we'd be the one to pay for mortuary expenses and casket, and when the burial is getting closer they'd give us a list of things to buy and we'd both bring one goats each.

To be brutally honest I wasn't mad because of this latest expense, I got furious immediately and right on the spot because of the pressure my wife pressured me into getting married to her, by now I'd have been totally free of these unnecessary expenses. More than 19 of her sisters, both biological and half sisters that has given birth, no single expense was listed for their man that they got pregnant for and has a child for. But I and the other in law that paid dowry are the one going through these unnecessary expenses.

So immediately he told me about everything, I charged at my wife right on the spot, right in front of her mom, her brothers, her sisters and some of her friends that came for condolence visit. I got so furious and started shouting at the top of my voice, I reminded her how she forced me into marriage that I'm not in anyway prepared and ready for, both physically, psychologically, emotionally, financially. (I have been reminding her regarding this almost on a daily basis and whenever we are quarreling.

I reminded her how she threatened me with suicide and our of fear of the unknown I wasted almost 4m in getting married to her. I told her that I'd have been free of these expenses if not for her pressure.

Immediately she burst into tears, and started crying endlessly.

Her mom and sisters started yelling at me and I yelled back at all of them. They told me I met her a Virgin and now she's no longer good for me (truly, the whole family thought that I was the one that took her virginity) My wife and I agreed to keep it a secret, but the constant remainder from her mom and sisters made me let the cat out of the bag, I told them that I didn't met her a Virgin that she has already started having sex when I met her, they didn't believe me but with my tone, I know they'd.

I also made mentioned that I'm not buying any goat or paying for mortuary or taking any list from them. That it's their dad and they should take care of every responsibilities, after all he has uncountable children, why putting some of the expense on me? I walked away, and switched off my phone until now that I'm just putting it on.

I know that I acted wrongly and allowed my anger to get the best part of me. But I was furious because no single bill went to her sister's baby father's, absolutely nothing was listed for them. I got furious because these expenses won't be on me right now if not for her pressuring me into marriage that I want ready for. I was furious because I and the other in law that they billed became the scape goat by doing the right thing by getting married and not leaving theirs daughter In ruins, where as those that got their daughter pregnant without getting married to them were totally free from these unnecessary bills. I'm in so much pains and regret right now.

Which State is your wife from? It sounds like a State I know very well to do this.

AishaDant:
I have.

Resolved or you are moving on?

Growing:
Sorry, none of that is mine. Use the image on the first post of this thread to locate it as you search. The channel has exactly that image.

Thanks.

You can't share the channel link?

AishaDant:
You expect these girls to stay in your life and Care about you as you are playing the ignoring game?

Op, you sound like a complete joker.

For them to leave you without thinking twice simply means you might have nothing to offer outside the sex.

It's 2024, sex is pretty cheap and relationships are pretty expensive!

Have you decided on your relationship regarding your thread?

The guy should cut his loses

Growing:
Code for Blum video below.

Airdrops and more posted on my Telegram channel. Go to Telegram and search for Cryptowina. It is a public channel so you should see it and join. It is the channel with the image attached to the first post of this thread.

I have been following this thread, nice job you are doing here.
I tried searching for your Telegram channel, when I search Cryptowina this are the results am getting, which is it?

For me once I see a woman that is too religious, that's huge Red flag.

Well as a man there is this inherent need to take care of a woman, cos it's built in you a man, call it primal instincts.
Luckily there are women that are worth taking care of.

Racoon:
https://independent.ng/nigerian-politicians-inec-should-learn-from-americas-election-agba/?utm_source=&utm_medium=%5Btwitter%5D

Sorry Mr Agba, you missed the whole lesson by a mile, the US election was never going to be free and fair if the Republicans do what they usually do - showing up to vote on election day. The past 3 US election were know to have had :-
votes surging up at 3am in the night,

votes being rejected because of malfunctioning machines,

voter being turned away before the closing time,

paper ballots being dumped for candidates or paper of candidates being destroyed,

some counties counting votes for as long as 2 weeks,

fire alarm in voting locations causing voting to stop,

pipe bursts in voting locations causing voting to stop,

Polling boots don't always both party election workers in,

voters already voting for a candidate even though they have not voted etc etc

Their shenanigans are too much to get through, infact I dare say the recent Nigerian election have far less shenanigans then the US elections, all you have to do is look at what ATIKU and OBI were praying for in court.

The reason why Trump won was because he had policies that are a Stark contrast from the current administration, he also received endorsements from Key figures one of the outstanding ones - Elon Musk.

He also formed a formidable alliance with powerful Democrats noticable ones are Tulsi And RFK.

The game plan this time around was TO VOTE EARLY BEFORE ELECTION DAY
the Republicans were know historically to vote on election day, giving the cheating Democrats an advantage when it comes to cheating because the percentage they will have to make up for will be already know from the Democrats side, this time Republicans took them by surprise voting early, the number of voters are then compared with their voters registry, because this time around all the votes will be in before election day - they can't cheat.

Zooposki:
It is not a few men. It is a lot of men (the majority). It is hard to find a husband praising his wife in real life and social media.

They are divorcing their husbands because they don’t have the same values and voting Trump puts women’s life in danger. Something you might not understand as a Nigerian. Anything goes here.

Also they want to take advantage of the “No Fault Divorce Laws” before Trump does away with it. You can keep wailing. Women are preparing to protect themselves during this Trump Era. They are been advised to carry their arms at all times.

51% of women in the US voted for Trump I guess they got sick and tired of being told men can compete in women's sports, and Trump will take away their abortions.
These women talking all this nonsense are the deranged feminist minority, They can for fuq themselves.
They never had happy lives to start with.

Gistmedia10:
Yeah! I'm considering buying Tesla stock since Elon Musk is a close ally to Donald Trump and his wealth recently surged after Trump was declared elected president. With Tesla shares up 14.62% in pre-market trading following Trump's win, I think it's a good time to invest!

Buy that stock.
He is going to be helping Trump cut down Govt regulations, and stocks go through the roof when Govt cut down regulations cos it unburden companies and businesses to be more productive.
Plus the US economy is going to surge under Trump.
Good luck in your investments.

omoharry:
That one is something else.He started all this madness and he is married to a woman and has children.

He is married to a man.

Gistmedia10:
It all started three years ago when I was convinced to invest 300,000 Naira in Bitcoin, following a simple "buy and hold" strategy. Back then, everyone said that Bitcoin was the future, so I decided to take the leap, dreaming of good returns. But what came next was a rollercoaster of emotions.

Initially, instead of rising, my BTC kept dropping. My investment dwindled from 300k to 200k, then down to 150k, until finally, it was a painful 45,000 Naira. I was crushed. It felt like the worst decision ever, and every part of me wanted to cut my losses and withdraw. But something inside said, "Leave it, as long as there’s life, there’s hope."

So I held on, more out of resignation than faith. Then, just last month, I began noticing a slight rise. Curiosity got the better of me, and yesterday, I opened my wallet. To my shock, not only had I recovered my initial 300k, but it had actually doubled!

It felt like a dream – three years of waiting had finally paid off. I couldn’t hold back the tears as I thought back to all the doubt and regret.

Please Note: I’m not promoting BTC on this honorable platform; I just felt the need to share my story.

For anyone out there going through the highs and lows of investment, remember: sometimes, patience pays in the most unexpected ways!

Pay attention to US Politics, Black Rock, Chna - what Traders call Fundamental Analysis.
The reason the Crypto space exploded 6 days ago was because of One Man - Donald John Trump.

Lol,
Fools.

Queencrayon:
Women & men cheat. Only a disciplined partner won’t cheat on you.
I know someone who has decided to stay off sex in her marriage. Sex is always boring. She has never been satisfied.Once her husband is satisfied; it is till next time. Coupled with the fact that her husband verbally, physically abuses her & cheats on her. Abuses her extended family too.
She has decided to stay married but without intimacy. She’s not cheating & has never cheated on her partner. Just psychologically checked out.
However, her husband does cheat occasionally & consistently gaslights & manipulates the whole cheating & abuses to make her feel like an insane person.
You think if she wasn’t disciplined she wouldn’t have cheated on that kind of spouse?

She is going through hell.
And what's worse she dare not say she is cheating because her husband doesn't satisfy her. This is where the feminist will make a case because of men like this.

Ajsmart:
Says the slave master arse-licker fighting hard to impress his masters. Your type will sell his entire town for a pair of used-timberland boots from any low-life european.

The freaking statement was “ She should have said something about the amazing things the British Empire in Nigeria for example”.

It’s islave-heads like yourself who sold out to your masters centuries ago because even in 2024, you couldn’t wait to jump to your masters defence. Emancipate yourself from mental slavery you dumb moda-bleeper!!’

You must have had your brains beaten out, or you must have exchange your brain for a bucket full of human shit, was there a Time in the African continent were slaves were exchanged for tobacco and whisky?
If there was, then you are a slowpoke because your shit for brains could not process an objective fact in my post.

Lavor234:
The Fon of Dahomey instigated wars do that they could continue slave trades
Dahomey King Gezo had a palace of skulls where children and the weak were killed and their skulls smoked while the young and able shipped to renegade slave traders.
The Aro confederacy was a notorious guild of African slave traders who sold slaves to merchants.

If u read a lot, u will find that Africans were worse than the colonisers.
African Kings/chiefs never wanted slavery to end, from the Mais in Kanem Borno who sold slaves to the Arabs to the Alafins who instigated wars against less powerful communities

Even when you lay out all these historic facts, they will attack you as if you are supporting slavery and kissing the white man's ass, these people are not interested in the truth, they want someone to blame,
And these people don't bother to hold their own Ancestors accountable for the atrocities they committed.

ElSudani:
You are the ignorant one. Human beings are not commodities to be traded in the first place. We are talking of over 400 years of unimaginable cruelty to Africans, not to mention robbing the continent of resources.
The Isrealis are today killing anyone they consider an enemy, how long were the Nazis in power?
Africans are only asking for what is fare, not seeking revenge.
I see you love your chains so much, you might even have convinced yourself you are wearing gold.

Your Own Ancestors gave up their own people in exchange for tobacco, mirrors and whiskey, how could you be so ignorant of your own history, Or you have amnesia? or lack the courage to call out your own people that participated WILLING in the exchange?

You talk about chains, do you think the white man would have succeeded in catching so many slaves in Africa, when they will likely die of malaria?
Do you know how upset the traditional rulers were when they learned the British have ended slavery?
Even till this day our traditional rulers are buried with human heads so that they will be his slave in the afterlife, but here you are blaming the very people that ended slavery at a great cost of their seamen and Naval officers.

Its always the white mans fault. You dont even know how far black people have been enslaving each other.
Am not mincing words when I say you are coming from a place ignorance.