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seunnairaland:
Please can you email me your number- seunbodeajayi@gmail.com, I’d love to run some ideas by you. Hopefully you are still into betting.

EnemyofGod3:
Please help me.

My wife has given me two weeks to send my mother back to the village,or she will leave or end our marriage, she accused my mother of been a witch,of which I was angry with her that day,I almost beat her up for accusing my mother

from the day she accused my mother of been a witch, she has developed hatred for my mother.

I'm the only child my mother Born,my old mother has nobody in the village to take Care of her,I'm afraid if I send my mother back to the village,my mother might die before her time.i love my mother so much and I also love my wife so much.

Nairalander, please what should I do ?

LoveUdie:
Many wives wish that they can change their husbands for the better, but you cannot change a man, you can only influence him to the point that he desires change for himself. How?

1. Make sure the home is peaceful, not a place he wants to run away from. This will make him spend more time at home with you, giving you more room to influence him

2. Find out what is his vision and show him that you care about his vision. This way, he will tell you his biggest dreams that he is afraid to tell people because people don't believe in him

3. Appreciate him for the little he does and he will naturally find himself doing more for you so that he can be rewarded with more of your appreciation

4. Complain less. This will make him less defensive and more mouldable by you. If he starts to see you as a fault finder, he will pull away making you less influential

5. Make him proud. Do great things as an individual, have something uniquely yours that is worth admiring. Let him go out there and hear admirable things about you, let him look at you as an individual, a business woman, a career woman, a mother who is glowing. Men tend to yield to the influence of the woman they admire, not the woman who is a drag, stressful, negative and who has given up on life

6. Teach him how to do those things you wish he would do for you. If you wish that he be more courteous to you, that he would ask you how your day has been, that he would be more open and transparent; don't demand for it, show him by practicing it and he will warm up to it through your gentleness

7. Call out his greatness because your words mean alot to him. Speak life to him both when he is down and when things are going well. Tell him how great a future he has, how an amazing business man he is, how big a blessing he is; he will find himself living up to those words even if he falls short. Teachers and employers use this strategy to bring out the best in people. Truth is, most likely your husband is hanging around people who only see him in the here and now, you be the unique voice that speaks into his future

8. Correct him with love. Yes, there are times he will fall short, but the tone and approach you use while correcting him matters. If you come off harsh and as if you are attacking him, he will pull away; but when he sees that you are coming from a place of love and you mean well, he will allow you to be the iron that sharpens the iron that he is

9. Do not overreact or become overly sensitive and judgemental. Your husband is paying attention to how you react to topics and he will choose what to talk about with you based on your reaction. If he notices that you get edgy when he talks about an innocent female friend, his mother, finances or his past; he will keep off such topics. But when you are a secure wife, easy to talk to, he will tell you the intrigues in his life, he will tell you about his friends, the weirdest things that happened to him, what his mother is thinking, the troubles he has gotten into, the ex who tried to make contact him, the lady he gave a ride to in the car when it was raining.... All because you are easy to talk to. The more you know, the more you will influence him

10. Pray for him. Yes, team up with God to mould him. You are the one who knows your husband's strengths, weaknesses, temptations, traumas and struggles. Commit him to God in prayer
11. Praise him in public because a man feels more emboldened to be great when his....https://www.relationshipaffair.site/2025/03/how-to-influence-your-husband.html

Namaster:
We'll NEVER know.

But ONE thing is certain:
He'd have performed BETTER than Harris did.

The Democrats put too much trust in American people. They believed that they were better people than they actually are.

Harris had to FIGHT against 2 MAJOR rot in the American society:
1. Racism.
2. Sexism.

Outside of those 2, there is NO metric in which Donald could outperform Harris.

They called her dumb until she completely DECIMATED Trump in the debate.
She destroyed him so much, Trump RAN from a second debate.


But Americans, including the Dems who abstained from voting, would rather have a RAPIST PEDOPHILE with 34 FELONY convictions than vote for a black woman.

Trump is ALREADY shitting on his voters by changing his stance on immigration.

His voters say they DON'T want Indians on H1B visas taking their tech jobs so Trump should BAN it.

Elon Musk says H1B visa is good and Trump should EXPAND it.

They attacked Musk. But Trump weighed in to say Elon Musk is RIGHT.



Consequences are coming.

MadamExcellency:
That's how they gave Buhari another four years and he sold crude oil upfront.

Argentine President is only one year in office and inflation is now gone.

WorldmanDEE:
If you dey Mopol junction, Kolab, Alafia, Gbagubi, Cele or Old Outta road abeg come patronize me for my bar with better sweet standard snooker marbu for #300 only.

Samantha125:
Sometimes there's wisdom in silence, that's what my dad taught me.

You just need to know when to apply that wisdom.

Samantha125:
Okay.

Flamemignon1:
And your attempt to go on a conspiracy theory spree isn't?

MarianaTrench:
There is nothing wrong with zoning, it is practiced even in advanced countries

buckeyemedia:
Lazy man excuse, are u not qualified, go & contest na?

Flamemignon1:
The same 2pac that was soft and a wannabe gangsta is calling someone gay?

The same 2pac that too ballet and poetry class is calling someone gay?

The same 2pac that wore a woman's corset on an album cover is calling someone gay?

The same 2pac that had a zesty photoshoot in a bathtub that makes him look like a gay man is calling someone gay?

Abeg, baba should go take several seats in the afterlife

Sucre6:
Dr and Eminem ain't gay bro, just hearing it from you today

Sucre6:
Eminem has a clean record so far.
Ice cube
Bird man
T.I
Dr. Dre
D.J Khalid

So far, these guys are clean

DaddyCoool:
Fifty that refused $3m from Trump to use his song "many men" in campaign

Samantha125:
50 cent's upbringing was also filled with crime.

He even did a movie about it titled "get rich or die trying".

So there's no certainty that he's indeed clean.

dkidd:
I believe all of them even 50. Just that he moves differently. The powers that be will make sure U are dirty because that's the only way to put U in line. Why do U think Ye is being trashed about as crazy because he's refused to play ball. He has his own dirty too but not as intense as these guys. When U get to a certain stage they put dirt on U clean it up themselves and keep it under wraps for future manipulation. It's a fvcked up way of living

Samantha125:
Is there any American rapper that is innocent though?

Because it seems like almost all of them have criminal records.

Jerkbaba:
When I first got that question I asked my self even more questions.

When did this happen?
What caused it?
Why will a man act more feminine?
Does toxic masculinity effect this?
And much more questions. I started doing research on the topic, and after a couple of days of work I concluded why and what caused it.

Here are the main 4 reasons why men are becoming more feminine.

Women won the gender war

Women won the gender war, with the increasing idea of equality, and women becoming as valuable as men.

it’s no surprise when men start to acting more feminine to make up for the lack of use that men used to do.

In other words, men are more useless than ever before, woman are getting paid the same salary as men with lower work hours, and less suffering, women don’t need men anymore, of course this will cause men to become more feminine.

Men are useless

As I said men are more useless than ever, causing them to hate themselves, and become more feminine.

The idea that every man is toxic

The term toxic masculinity becoming the same as masculinity, men started hating their gender causing an insane amount of men becoming more feminine.

This could also cause gender transformation, or a man becoming a women.

How can we stop this?

Men are hating themselves because women don’t need them anymore , or because men is now interchangeable with the phrase toxic masculinity.

This all happened since we want men to stop killing, hurting, or even raping other people, so the idea was to make men more feminine by showing that women don’t need men.

Which isn’t true, any woman knows the need for a strong independent man.

To protect, provide, and support them.

Men need to start becoming men, not in the sense that their toxic, but also not in the sense that their weak.

OChimex:
Then your erection hasn't met hugely endowed girl. Lol.
If them like make them write HIV for her body, your erection will not gree for anybody..

JuanDeDios:
Why do they make you lose erection? You find them ugly?