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Samantha124:
You men seems to forget that women come in different sizes, the same way you men come in different sizes... It's not her fault that you're too small for her, she was born that way.

Even if a woman sleeps with different men, a vagina is elastic... It'll still go back to its normal size.

If you're a man and you're small down there, find a woman that's also small, same thing applies with big men, they should find themselves big women too.

the problem is, its not written on their foreheads.

englishmart:
"If you ask a woman out & she rejects you, go for her friend or sister"

Yes, this is real game & if you know women, you know that for all that talk of sisterhood, women actually hate each other. Women are in perpetual competition with each other. And it is more amongst friends & siblings

Remember how Java had the 2 beautiful Makaya sister fighting each other over him. How did he do that, simple, he used the deep hatred the little sister (Yolanda) had for her big sister (Hilary) to bed them bot

The younger sister felt jealousy of being in the shadow of her big sister, who gets all the attention, validation & men. So being presented with the opportunity to "steal" a man from her big sister for once, she didn't even hesitate. On the other hand, the big sister couldn't stand the thought of being bested by her little sister, thus the love triangle

Understand this, when a woman rejects you, she isn't attracted to you, you mean nothing to her. But now when you start sniffing around her friend or sister, she has no choice but to acknowledge your existence which in turn triggers her curiosity

Add curiosity plus the jealousy she already has towards her friend or sister & boom, she's now attracted to you. Yes, the thought of "losing" to her friend or sister makes her want to have you. Now the friend or sister starts to feel the tension & out of the jealousy she too already has, even if she didn't like you, starts liking you to spite the other

Use that knowledge to your advantage whenever dealing with a woman, the thought of being replaced by her friend or sister makes a woman behave so well. Learn OR perish!!!

So because a woman rejects you, you result in doing unethical nonesense, and forcing yourself to like someone you dont like to hurt someone you like. In a nut shell this is what losers do.
The woman is so ahead of your irrelevant ass that you dont mind hugging a transformer just to get her attention.

what a year for Man City, just after Knocking Real Madrid of the No. 1 football Brand in the world, They just went and won the Champions League.

CMON CITEH!

Betting Strategy, I needed to send a certain moniker a DM

Candidlady:
I pity you

Crushing on that gender will only crush your soul


Be careful

But A Woman doesnt?

Nicenancy:
I am having a deep crush on a certain man
I can say to him I love u
And I don't want to cheapen myself before him
How do I make him know
Guys please help

Love?
I have seen humans throw that around like its candy.

Well if by God's grace this man in question is not a wimp, my only advice is to step up your communication with him, you can learn alot about people when they communicate, then from there a strong friendship is formed.
Then its easy peasy from there.

Flamemignon1:
I agree with you but I think it's human nature to seek validation from others, it's in our nature to want to please others

True,
But introverts DONT go out of their way for validation.
Even if it happens then there is something special about this person (to the introvert in question, because most times introverts are mostly attracted to like minded people that may not appear special to others) that will be worth the trouble.

ashewoboy:
That is the question.

What do you colleagues say that hurts you?

All because you are all by yourself. You are not as outspoken as others are.

How have you improved?


How are you improving?


Tell us.

It's doesn't matter when you are not seeking validation from other people.
The only opinion(s) that matters to me is mine and those I respect.

Makes you wonder who is the loser here
The one offering money for sex?
or
The one accepting the money knowing they will be fuucked?

You cant turn on/off a switch in a woman just like that. The marriage will most likely be a disaster if the woman's new Boss wont be her husband.

Lexzeey:
I do have the qualities, most girls in Thier 20s feel there's alot of time for them and they cheat and date multiple guys at once, this is something I am very much aware of and dread, inasmuch as I want to get married before 30, it doesn't mean I am doing it for peer pressure or copying someone, it's not a do or die affair too, you can go if you want to, but at this stage in my life any relationship I enter would be something serious and long term because this is what I need in my life rn, hope you grab, it's not a sense of duty, pressure or obligation that is pushing me, it's the will to have something meaningful with someone and we will grow together and understand each other before making any commitment.

then know this, its normal to not easily find your kind of woman, cos the world is filled with terrible human beings.
Just know it may take time.
Also...
She is out there.

Good luck.

Gabreil2121:
Her birthday is next week?

Maybe you still dont understand what your relationship with this girl is all about, let me help you with what is the definition of "Girlfriend"

girl·​friend ˈgər(-ə)l-ˌfrend
1: a female friend
2: a regular female companion in a romantic relationship

I hope its now clear as day the answer to your question

Jayrockk:
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Who ever created this post does not know what women are capable of to get the top 10% of men. The wrong ones ALWAYS waltz in, it takes a wise man to push them out.

Lexzeey:
So make do with anything you see? You do realize it's not a relationship I want? It's something permanent, for life, wouldn't want to be stuck with misery forever na, marry headache then stay with her forever, I'd rather remain single.

Thats the question you should be asking yourself, I for one will rather die single than marry a headache, regardless of what ever peer pressure. Its losers thats do things just because everyone is doing it.
But what if you dont find the kind of woman that will give you peace and make you a better person? will you settle for less?

Know this,
it goes both ways,
just as you want a woman that has certain qualities, DO YOU HAVE THE QUALITIES THAT WILL KEEP SUCH A WOMAN?
This part is what alot of people overlook.

Lexzeey:
I am someone who doesn't care about status, money comes and goes and the importance people put on material possession is too much, yes I work hard to earn a better life for myself and my family, this is the reason why the only thing I dedicate most of my time to is hustling, that is why I have no friends or social life, and I'm not someone who is into so much socializing, so that circle thing isn't me, I just want purpose, someone that'd be my friend, confidant, wife in all, and her personality should compliment mine, but I can't seem to find anyone, that is the problem with me, I don't think this is too much to ask, someone intelligent, interesting, thoughtful, good looking, you mustn't be Beyonce just have good features, I'm not picky and I don't judge people by status or how popular you are, just be on same level with me and be loyal, cuz I don't cheat, cheating is a chore to me.

You may think what are you are looking for is not too much, but when you realize that this world is a fuucked up place, and every body is trying hard to escape hardship and poverty, you will soon realize what you are looking for is actually rare.
And in finding what is rare requires due diligence and patience.

Lexzeey:
I am a hardworking guy, I hustle 24/7, I have no social life, few physical friends, some social media friends, I'm intelligent and I'm attracted to intelligent girls too, it's something I find attractive, and I love traveling alot, especially with a romantic partner, I want someone I can hold a meaningful conversation with that won't resort to dumb and monosyllabic responses, I don't think it's too much to ask for a girl that fits this description, my plan was to settle down in my 20s, but I'm almost 30 and unlucky with love, I've tried so many desperate things like messaging so many girls on fb, most of them don't reply, tried dating apps same news, tried setting for less, same stuff, now all I want is something serious, someone to eventually settle down with and I feel the best time to start dating her is now before I clock 30, please I am open to suggestions, what tactics do I need to employ to get a serious girlfriend quickly, all my life I've only dated twice and it's so depressing seeing people with Thier partners and I'm some lonely guy who only cares about work and video games.

The majority of the population are poor, so they raise their kids the best way they could in a no frills manner, meaning no Cartoon Network, no intellectual YouTube channels, no exposure to intelligent content. MOST times the ones that do are from the well to do families. And girls from well to do families have their own circle, they hardly date outside that circle - are you in that circle!?
Remember MOST girls don't date down.

You could as well take what you can get in your own class. But if you are willing to play the long game, put yourself in the top 10% you will have plenty of options to choose from when you are in this position BECAUSE THESE ARE THE MEN MOST WOMEN ARE SEARCHING/WAITING/HOPING FOR.

Just go out more, hang out in cool places.
Don't take yourself too seriously, this will take the pressure off of you starting a conversation.
Always maintain eye contact when talking to a lady.

Be the best version of yourself, you will find it difficult settling for good for nothing women.

dopedan:
I have some bad habits im trying to stop like porn and masturbation, because wen im with a girl I get erect but when its time to put it in it goes flaccid , it’s quite shameful
So i need advice from people who experience this on wat to do to speed up my recovery process and get my morning wood back thanks

Easy,
Do lots of body weights exercises, am saying body weights because you will have no excuse not to start, all you need is a chair and the floor, unlike going to the gym to use gym equipments.
Press ups, Pike push ups, Squats (all to failure) should fire up your fast twitch muscles, in turn while the muscle repair will increases blood flow to the damaged part of the body.

This process is even amplified when you add Hill runs (2 times a week for starters), because your cardio levels can spike up your heart rate, which in turn means more blood is pumped during your recovery phase, which may lead to morning wood in most cases.

And try to get yourself occupied to avoid porn as much as possible. In your case your arousal level is tied to porn.
You have to replace your fantasies with the picture of the one that's is close to your heart..
Reprogram your mind.

placeofallure:
Well you could be right but as it is, you may have to choose the lesser evil.

Which is?

Jodha:
Women can pretend...I pity any man that thinks he can judge a lady from her actions..

Her actions is what will give her away.

A Man controls his sexual urge,
Dogs dont.

No,
IF SHE DOESNT WANT TO.

No one was born a cook, we all learn. With over 1000s of recipes and cooking instructions on YOUTUBE, not knowing how to cook is the choice of the person.

Preciousgirl:
Analysts, come and explain. Did the coconut hit his head or not? Explain your answer

No.
The shadows dont align

Netcry0:
So recently me and my gf broke up.. there’s been a girl have been talking , she more like a therapist to me, she have a bf .. so after me and my gf broke up which this gal is aware of.. i just told her i feel lonely and the rest . Then she said no problem that she’s my gf for now and i should feel free to chat her up if i need someone to talk.. could this mean she actually likes me or just being friendly?

Even when the fact remains she has a boyfriend, your emotions want to do your thinking for you. I thought men were suppose to be logical beings.

Tradesystem001:
Available

How to contact you

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MissTemi1:
Mine. In fact, it was too messy. It was humiliating. Remembering it gives panic attacks. I don’t even know why I deserve dis. Why did God make me go tru dat. I questioned God

Maybe you can start by holding yourself accountable, and trust me it's not fun when you realize you are an accomplice to messing up your own life. When you hate the feeling that comes with that, you will hold yourself to a higher standard when making decisions next time, because you are involved in what goes into your life.
We both know God did not choose who you wanted to marry - you did.
Beautiful women are spoilt with choices when it comes to marriage.
You can choose an Angel and be the Demon, or you can choose a Demon and be the Angel. In the end you have to choose what happens to your life.

You have to see things the way they are, NOT the way you want them.

Bought Bitcoin when one token was not up to a dollar.
Learn about Dex.

That's why I say love is just like a license to do silly things.

blowjohn:
1. City with no children by Arcade fire
2. The secret that he missed by Manic street Preachers
3. Memory Lane by Nas
4. beautiful day by U2
5. man on the Moon by R.E.M
6. Walk on by U2
7. Thun by Nas
8. Shook ones by Mobb deep
9. Thank you by Alanis morrisette
10. Let down by Radiohead
11. It's my life by Bon Jovi
12. When you were young by the killers
13. It's not me by 3 doors down
14. You don't have to go by The War on Drugs
15. Promises by the Cranberries
16. Go your own way by the Cranberries
17. Higher by Creed
18. Jesus of suburbia by Green day
19. Champion by Coldplay
20. Talk by Coldplay
21. Born to run by Bruce Springsteen
22. Alute by Boney M
23. Ojuelegba by whiz kid
24. Stay chiseled by Nas
25. Graceless by the National
26. We used to wait by Arcade fire
27. Suspects by Nas
28. Myth by Beach house
29. Ex girlfriend by Mariah Carey


And so many more.....

Bruce Springsteen - Trapped.
Linkin Park - Numb.

These were not just listening songs to me, it was life itself.

It just shows you are no longer attractive to him.

Jakumo:
You have made a valid observation in that to attain the "six-pack" abdomen of a competitive male body-builder, exercise alone will not suffice without a degree of deliberate starvation that will drop body fat to the fabled 10%. That starvation can be harmful to health, therefore 15% would be the optimal level for males, while females can still look great with as much as 20% body fat.

Both extremes of being clinically obese on one hand, or anorexic and skinny on the other hand, must be avoided in the interest of preserving optimal long-term health and extended longevity. In terms of my personal perception of female sexual attractiveness, a woman with 20% body fat would be my ideal shape, while anything above 25%, or below 20% would not arouse me in the slightest even if she stripped down completely.

What are you even talking about here,
Have you seen the amount of food professional body builders consume?
I want to ask you is consuming over 3000 calories a day starvation?
As a matter of fact your body use up a certain kind of food than others, the ones the body doesn't use are kept as fat.

Pls DYOR

pansophist:
You have to be really jobless and focusless to spend an intense amount of time to get six packs. All you get is short term sex, with low class women who are moved by such. The world is not for handsome loosers.

I know how hard it is to get and maintain six packs. It's hard. You'll deny yourself food you love, spend time in the gym and measure calories like a dietician. If you're not a model, I don't see why you should suffer yourself for that.

So while you have six packs, ugly wealthy men will marry girls you wish you had. Just look at Ned. Yes women like fine boys, but a low class fine boy is like a beautiful harlot to men. You ejaculate and evacuate.

What s load of rubbish you typed here.

The six pack is just a by product of a specific lifestyle.
Stronger hip flexors that helps in explosive movements require a strong core, and there is no way you will train to attain a strong core without hitting the abdominal muscles.